Dapcity007:


Ok
Be more analytical in your thinking

Sixfeetbelle:


Are you sure she's 18? Older men tend to lean towards pedophilia.

And the pvssy? Will it be 'free'? You can't be old and broke at the same time. That's like double catastrophe.


Until guys start getting sex without any attachments to it, I'd never believe you guys have the upper hand.

JasperVII:
The singlehood of a man can never become a disease. Marriage isn't a do or die affair. As a guy, if you decide you want to get married then by all means go ahead. If on the other hand you don't want to... Way better, flex life and be free from the burden of marriage and family. There's really nothing special about marriage these days; it has gone to the dogs.

Liposure:
the pressure will be too much

Liposure:
and until girls start having sex with no cash attached, men will continue seeing them as objects of sexual gratification.

Sixfeetbelle:


I'm glad that that will never happen. That's what you all want but it will never happen cause either way, men's opinion of women will never change. So why not make money off them at least.

Liposure:
and until girls start having sex with no cash attached, men will continue seeing them as objects of sexual gratification.

CHoccolaTE:


The same men will start insulting women and calling them cheap if women had sex without collecting anything in return.

CHoccolaTE:


But some girls do that already, they are called cheap and worthless your fellow mails

CHoccolaTE:


But some girls do that already, they are called cheap and worthless your fellow mails

Sixfeetbelle:


Exactly. Give sex free, you get called names, give sex with pay, you get called names also. So best case scenario, give sex with pay and receive your name calling joyfully.

Cc: Liposure

Sixfeetbelle:


Exactly. Give sex free, you get called names, give sex with pay, you get called names also. So best case scenario, give sex with pay and receive your name calling joyfully.

Cc: Liposure

Dapcity007:



You women are to be held to societal standards not because we are oppressing you , but because we want to curb your innate Hypergamy,so that you will not be producing bastards for irresponsible Men,and we will have a crisis of single motherhood which will lead to fatherless children prone to crime,drug abuse, illiteracy (drop outs),suicide,etc

Don't be annoyed by our current acculturation and socialization mechanism, with the aid of religion

We are keeping everyone in check both men and women

Sixfeetbelle:


I don't believe that you all are keeping everyone in check. With the way men are being praised for sexual exploits and women being shunned and ridiculed, it doesn't take a genius to figure out oppression when it sees one. And who says we want to curb our hypergamy? We don't see you guys curbing your polygamy.

@ the bold, polygamous offsprings are more likely to be societal woes.

Sixfeetbelle:


I don't believe that you all are keeping everyone in check. With the way men are being praised for sexual exploits and women being shunned and ridiculed, it doesn't take a genius to figure out oppression when it sees one. And who says we want to curb our hypergamy? We don't see you guys curbing your polygamy.

@ the bold, polygamous offsprings are more likely to be societal woes.

Sixfeetbelle:


I don't believe that you all are keeping everyone in check. With the way men are being praised for sexual exploits and women being shunned and ridiculed, it doesn't take a genius to figure out oppression when it sees one. And who says we want to curb our hypergamy? We don't see you guys curbing your polygamy.

@ the bold, polygamous offsprings are more likely to be societal woes.

Dapcity007:


The agbero's and thugs of today are mainly as a result of negligent or absentee fathers, and it can be as a result of polygamy, monogamy or single parenting

Polygamy is not the cause but fatherlessness (or negligent father),but definitely single motherhood

TheVictim01:
Man, your brain is running on 96+ high octane racing fuel. Resist the urge to shalaye!!!!
An ignoramus with a hint of unaccountability is like a natural disaster with no means to be avoided. Never argue with a fool!!

Dapcity007:


Thanks bro
I will keep on working on myself
And will resist the urge to argue with fixed minded people especially women

Dapcity007:


We hold women to a different standard than men not because we are partial or hypocritical, but because we are fundamentally different , biologically, psychologically and physically

No equality on synergy
No competition on complementation

CHoccolaTE:


What on earth does this have to do with my statement?

Dapcity007:


There are very few and scarce
If they don't demand money , they want your commitment and attention

Sixfeetbelle:


Exactly. Give sex free, you get called names, give sex with pay, you get called names also. So best case scenario, give sex with pay and receive your name calling joyfully.

Cc: Liposure

Dapcity007:



You women are to be held to societal standards not because we are oppressing you , but because we want to curb your innate Hypergamy,so that you will not be producing bastards for irresponsible Men,and we will have a crisis of single motherhood which will lead to fatherless children prone to crime,drug abuse, illiteracy (drop outs),suicide,etc

Don't be annoyed by our current acculturation and socialization mechanism, with the aid of religion

We are keeping everyone in check both men and women

CHoccolaTE:


Yes, because a lot of the time men just want to be selfish and use the girls for their own satisfaction so the girls in return try to get something back for offering up sex so they dont end up getting used.

Many men dont know how to satisfy their partners in bed, all they know is pump and dump and run, wham bam thank you ma'am king of sex which the girls dont get orgasm. The girls know this that is why they see sex as doing males a favour which they have to collect something in return.

CalmElder:









I'm 42 years old and very single.
On my 30th birthday, I woke up depressed that I'm still single.
Because I was desperate to marry before 30, which I thought is old, I became desperate and women showed me shege, used my head like mad. I learnt my lesson and calmed down, gave myself time, then started another relationship at 34, ashawo better pass that one (she was 38).
I ended the relationship at 36.
I'm now focused on growing my business.
I intend to marry at 44.
If I like, I will not marry sef.

pansophist:
The Ned Nwoko formula guys

Make money, enjoy your life while you're young and at the peak of your sexual market value, then settle down far later when it's on the decline, from 50's upwards.

Women do it by default, getting married when they are hitting the wall (above 30 upwards), while not men? Just make money guys, and the Ned Nwoko formula is the way to go

Chii59:
@topic,
Who cares if they marry or no? Most of the single late 30- 40 Yr olds I know, I can never think of marrying them.
Long yawn.

Dapcity007:


If we curb Hypergamy we indirectly curb polygamy tendencies especially in unserious men who want baby Mama's or poor men who want plenty children.

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, that's how relationship works,with Hypergamy in check women will select the best of options to mate with and settle down with assuring men of their biological imperative to be responsible in the Society, breadwinners and good fathers

Christian monogamy has reduced polygamy these mordern age but some still have side chick which I have no problem with except you did not acknowledge your polygynous nature to your wife and your wife did not accept it , then why did you marry her

If you cheat with a side chick and you refuse your wife knowledge about it because you want to maintain a monogamous facade due to your religion or mordernity, then you are a stupid man,a bloody cowards, a fool who can't face his innate nature

If you choose to be monogamous and to be faithful to your spouse as a man , good for you, a monogamous nuclear unit is the best system for raising children, then extended family ( nuclear with relatives),then polygamy( if you are wise and we'll resourced)
Worst single parenting especially single mothers