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Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Randy100: 7:49pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
Dapcity007:Alright sir. 1 Like |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Liposure: 8:04pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:and until girls start having sex with no cash attached, men will continue seeing them as objects of sexual gratification. 11 Likes |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Liposure: 8:10pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
JasperVII:the pressure will be too much |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by JasperVII(m): 9:28pm On Jan 27, 2021 |
Liposure:The pressure to get married? That's quite true because every father would want his family name to live on. That's where our parents make mistakes; they try to tell us how to live our lives. At a certain age they'll be expecting you to come home with a lady and introduce her to them as the one you want to marry, even when you're not ready yet or you don't want to. Some end up being pushed into marriages they never wanted. But I believe that a man that decides that marriage is not for him and is sure that it's what he really wants will not bow to pressure 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Sixfeetbelle: 1:55am On Jan 28, 2021 |
Liposure: I'm glad that that will never happen. That's what you all want but it will never happen cause either way, men's opinion of women will never change. So why not make money off them at least. 4 Likes |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by CHoccolaTE: 4:20am On Jan 28, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: The same men will start insulting women and calling them cheap if women had sex without collecting anything in return. 2 Likes |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by CHoccolaTE: 4:21am On Jan 28, 2021 |
Liposure: But some girls do that already, they are called cheap and worthless your fellow mails |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Sixfeetbelle: 10:54am On Jan 28, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: Exactly. Give sex free, you get called names, give sex with pay, you get called names also. So best case scenario, give sex with pay and receive your name calling joyfully. Cc: Liposure 4 Likes |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 10:58am On Jan 28, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: There are very few and scarce If they don't demand money , they want your commitment and attention |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 11:00am On Jan 28, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: We hold women to a different standard than men not because we are partial or hypocritical, but because we are fundamentally different , biologically, psychologically and physically No equality on synergy No competition on complementation 2 Likes |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 11:04am On Jan 28, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: You women are to be held to societal standards not because we are oppressing you , but because we want to curb your innate Hypergamy,so that you will not be producing bastards for irresponsible Men,and we will have a crisis of single motherhood which will lead to fatherless children prone to crime,drug abuse, illiteracy (drop outs),suicide,etc Don't be annoyed by our current acculturation and socialization mechanism, with the aid of religion We are keeping everyone in check both men and women 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by OlawaleBammie: 11:14am On Jan 28, 2021 |
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Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Sixfeetbelle: 11:38am On Jan 28, 2021 |
Dapcity007: I don't believe that you all are keeping everyone in check. With the way men are being praised for sexual exploits and women being shunned and ridiculed, it doesn't take a genius to figure out oppression when it sees one. And who says we want to curb our hypergamy? We don't see you guys curbing your polygamy. @ the bold, polygamous offsprings are more likely to be societal woes. |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 11:52am On Jan 28, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: If we curb Hypergamy we indirectly curb polygamy tendencies especially in unserious men who want baby Mama's or poor men who want plenty children. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, that's how relationship works,with Hypergamy in check women will select the best of options to mate with and settle down with assuring men of their biological imperative to be responsible in the Society, breadwinners and good fathers Christian monogamy has reduced polygamy these mordern age but some still have side chick which I have no problem with except you did not acknowledge your polygynous nature to your wife and your wife did not accept it , then why did you marry her If you cheat with a side chick and you refuse your wife knowledge about it because you want to maintain a monogamous facade due to your religion or mordernity, then you are a stupid man,a bloody cowards, a fool who can't face his innate nature If you choose to be monogamous and to be faithful to your spouse as a man , good for you, a monogamous nuclear unit is the best system for raising children, then extended family ( nuclear with relatives),then polygamy( if you are wise and we'll resourced) Worst single parenting especially single mothers 2 Likes |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: You can't compare polygynous tendencies of men now to the time of our fathers,and grand fathers We are not yet there but are greatly improving with every new generation incoming |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: The agbero's and thugs of today are mainly as a result of negligent or absentee fathers, and it can be as a result of polygamy, monogamy or single parenting Polygamy is not the cause but fatherlessness (or negligent father),but definitely single motherhood |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by TheVictim01(m): 12:23pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Man, your brain is running on 96+ high octane racing fuel. Resist the urge to shalaye!!!! An ignoramus with a hint of unaccountability is like a natural disaster with no means to be avoided. Never argue with a fool!! Dapcity007: 1 Like |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
TheVictim01: Thanks bro I will keep on working on myself And will resist the urge to argue with fixed minded people especially women 1 Like |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by TheVictim01(m): 12:39pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
You earned a follower. Dapcity007: |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by CHoccolaTE: 12:49pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Dapcity007: What on earth does this have to do with my statement? |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by CHoccolaTE: 12:53pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Dapcity007: Yes, because a lot of the time men just want to be selfish and use the girls for their own satisfaction so the girls in return try to get something back for offering up sex so they dont end up getting used. Many men dont know how to satisfy their partners in bed, all they know is pump and dump and run, wham bam thank you ma'am king of sex which the girls dont get orgasm. The girls know this that is why they see sex as doing males a favour which they have to collect something in return. |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by CHoccolaTE: 12:54pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
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Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 1:00pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Dapcity007:Yawns. Only on nairaland. |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
@topic, Who cares if they marry or no? Most of the single late 30- 40 Yr olds I know, I can never think of marrying them. Long yawn. |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by pansophist(m): 1:05pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
The Ned Nwoko formula guys ![]() Make money, enjoy your life while you're young and at the peak of your sexual market value, then settle down far later when it's on the decline, from 50's upwards. Women do it by default, getting married when they are hitting the wall (above 30 upwards), while not men? Just make money guys, and the Ned Nwoko formula is the way to go ![]() 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Nobody: 1:07pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: You spoke truth to an extent but the girls can be selfish sometimes which you refuse to acknowledge, they can have multiple boyfriends who waste time and resources on them ,and many Simps in friendzones who are still hoping they will have sex one day, we blame men that we are not faithful , that we are cheats,as we mature , we grow stronger in our polygynous nature because when we were young we were busy masturbating and being in the friendszone,but now we are more smarter, experienced and age is on our side, women's age and fertility decline make them rethink thier hypergamous nature 3 Likes |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by jieta: 3:23pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
CalmElder:Not criticizing you, but i think i experience what you pass through, most especially when you are approaching 30 to 31 is not easy the pressure from family and friends. 2 Likes |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by Raalsalghul: 3:37pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Marriage is expensive. 4 Likes |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by fattprince(m): 5:11pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
pansophist:Bro this all I want to do. Flex my life and even go as far as punishing any girl that try to blackmail or guilt trip me. Then when I'm 50+ I will marry a 21 or 21 max girl. But bro in my humility why marry early or am I being wrong to assume you are still in you early to mid 30's. I'm innocently curious. But if you think its personal I'm fine if you don't tell me. |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by fattprince(m): 5:14pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Chii59:Come back when you are 35 and still single to tel us this. Whether you wouldn't jump at a 70+ man marriage proposal. 3 Likes |
Re: When The Singlehood Of A Man Becomes A Disease by fattprince(m): 5:21pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Dapcity007: Movies as done more evil than good to this polygamy matter. In real life from little that I've seen if the man controls his home like a real man there is relatively more peace than a monogamous home especially when the man has a hidden side chick. The problem is people don't want to agree with the fact that chosen one (which I believe doesn't exist) or not you will get tired of each other when you live together for long. Even your parent will get tired of you living with them when you get to a certain stage. |
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