I am so scared right now.. I made a decision to stop mastabating ( I have been addicted to it for 9years now),after 20 days of not mastabating I relapsed... Which made me sad.. so 3days ago I decided to have sex for real, because I have never done it before, I wanted to know how it feels, may be it will be better then mastabating, so I called this girl to come over, we were about to have sex I could no get an erection, I tried tried and tried nothing... She later left that night... Presently am so scared, I don't know what to do I can't tell anybody what is happening to me..I feel useless right now.. am finished!!!

Because of this discovery I can't sleep well!! Even to eat na wahala... God please help me...

How is your life ruined?

Erectile dysfunctional can be psychological. The pronlem is, the girl was not a attractive as your video mates.

Relax your mind, have a drink, call her again, talk to her, explain... Key is relax.

The girl is not attractive

Erectile dysfunctional Is not AIDS or killer desease .

You hard when you masturbating but not hard when you with a girl shows is Phychological..

Stay away from masturbation and focus on girls .
If you can stay away from masturbation for a least a month or 40 days it’s ur John Thomas that will wake u up strong and hard like a stone then u are already resetting ur system back .
If you can archive this then u can invite any girl with 100% confidence since ur John Thomas can even rise while sleeping .
Best of luck

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Omo see casting oo

man u were afraid that time

hehehe good for you

20 days is just too early to have a reset from your Porn induced Erectile dysfunction. I've been in similar shoes before and It took me over 35 days to finally get myself back. Though the number of days may vary from person to person, I'll bet that if you can go for a 90 days abstinence from porn and masturbation, you'll certainly overcome it. It's not easy to go that long though but think about the benefits it would bring to your life.
So, Please, just do it. Masturbation is a killer

Nothing to worry about. it's your physc playing with you.

What was your emotional state when you were with the girl?. Having not have real sex is already a big issue for someone who masturbates. It's about self-esteem, fear of touching the girl, how to start, what if she turns be down etc, all these can drive your testosterone dead

nothing do u my man,just mk money and bleep the gal of ur imagination

That was a story about a friend's experience

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Egungun don enter express

That's a great news bro. Na foolish girls full this world pass like this. If to say you fuçk her now, she fit accuse you of rape in future.

That thing do me with 1 ashawo wey i wan fûck then ..... the ashawo rub my prick tire the thing still no stand omo.... i come call my guy make him come fûck make my money no waste.... as the guy dey fûck am....my prick come begin rise na wa ooo

You have no problem. It's the pressure of being your first time and trying to make a point, plus you are not attracted to the girl, and you wanted your John Thomas to work under that great stress


Next time you call the girl over, buy some red wine or light beer to drink together, talk to her for a while to put you in relax mood, then start with light torching, and romance


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kalu61:
Nothing to worry about. it's your physc playing with you.

What was your emotional state when you were with the girl?. Having not have real sex is already a big issue for someone who masturbates. It's about self-esteem, fear of touching the girl, how to start, what if she turns be down etc, all these can drive your testosterone dead

You are right, low self esteem, fear of touching the girl fear of rejection is what he is battling with since that is the first time of him having real sex. He should work on his emotions and confidence.

My advice;

Do not go back to masturbating

Start rigorous exercise

Start taking anything bitter and stop sweet foods

Eat fruits 3 times daily

Instead of inviting a girl, go for olosho that way the psychology pressure on you will reduce

Free your mind, pay her well so she can arouse you

If possible try fu*king everyday

Give yourself some time, don't bother about it much


Do this after like 2 months come if no improvement go see a doctor

Bro you'll be fine, nothing is wrong with u,just ur mind playing u tricks

Egungun don enter express

ArcFresky:
How is your life ruined?

Erectile dysfunctional can be psychological. The pronlem is, the girl was not a attractive as your video mates.

Relax your mind, have a drink, call her again, talk to her, explain... Key is relax.

Best advice...
Most times it's a mental thing than a physical thing..
So do as my oga above said..

ArcFresky:
How is your life ruined?

Erectile dysfunctional can be psychological. The pronlem is, the girl was not a attractive as your video mates.

Relax your mind, have a drink, call her again, talk to her, explain... Key is relax.

Annointed "Oyil" dey your head

TheStakeHolder:

https://www.nairaland.com/6355314/experience-sugar-mummy
The same person created this thread.

imagine am o

onasokhare:
I am so scared right now.. I made a decision to stop mastabating ( I have been addicted to it for 9years now),after 20 days of not mastabating I relapsed... Which made me sad.. so 3days ago I decided to have sex for real, because I have never done it before, I wanted to know how it feels, may be it will be better then mastabating, so I called this girl to come over, we were about to have sex I could no get an erection, I tried tried and tried nothing... She later left that night... Presently am so scared, I don't know what to do I can't tell anybody what is happening to me..I feel useless right now.. am finished!!!

Because of this discovery I can't sleep well!! Even to eat na wahala... God please help me...

What nonsense. How does having erectile dysfunction ruin anybody's life. For one thing you're free from women forever.

One man's meat is another's poison.

WeNoGoDie:


What nonsense. How does having erectile dysfunction ruin anybody's life. For one thing you're free from women forever.

One man's meat is another's poison.

I tire o. Wey e suppose dey happy.

Do you have a life without sex

Baba, Empire go solve ur problem.

YorubaPrince:
Baba, Empire go solve ur problem.

baba what's empire o, I get this p too o.

wanted to know

This statement alone will build so much tension and anxiety in you, that will kill any sexual desire.

Just try to relax next time