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I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 11:05am On Jan 31, 2021 |
Last year during lockdown, I told my elder sister, I need a good(virgin) girl for a wife, I'm 36. She recommended a girl for me, who she has been observing for 5yrs and has informed her about me. But she bluntly refused she would marry me. Then she was in a relationship with a guy. So she never gave a thought about me because i'm from the south while she is from the west. She wanted someone from the west. So, she was in that relationship for 4yrs but unfortunately that guy got married to another girl last year before lockdown, she was not told, coz the guy relocated from that area to another state. She reported the guy was broke and she truly loved the guy then. Now, my sister appears to know alot about her, so she vouched she has never known a man. So I was excited that a girl close to 30 is still a virgin?. My curiosity drew me closer and we got talking. Though we stay in different states, we talk on phone. So, I asked why didn't her ex marry her, she said, he was asking for what he can't get, that was sex. So, as the discussion proceeded, I asked how were they able to cope in such romantic relationship for 4yrs without sex but there was kissings.? She replied: They only kiss and nothing more. I said just kissing fir 4yrs? She replied, "yes, though he ask for more, he sucked my breast just once., then I voluntary oneday told him to disvirgin me but he said No, it was not coming from my heart". So I asked what other thing did you do to keep me, because I noticed you loved him more than he loves you. She replied "there was a time, he would be naked, telling her to touch his dick, she couldn't say the rest. I asked : no bj, no anal? she replied she hated those things", disgusting she said. " I asked if she has ever seen a man nude, she said yes, her ex and porn. Because when we met, I attempted having sex, I was nude n erect she covered her eyes, I struggled yet she refused but later allowed cuddling and kisses , if I had tried harder, it would have been n a rape, because she refused to pull off. So she said emphasized that she wants to keep her virginity for the man who will pay her bride price. She was very confident about her virginity. She was ready for medical tests. So I stopped doubting. But that day I wanted to make out with her, I noticed beads around her waist. Being a lady from a strong christain background, I felt she was not supposed to wear such, she told me she was using chains before the beads that she bought it herself. I told her immediately that it's only runs girls that wear such, that i am doubting ing her virginity claims. Anyways, she emphasized tests. We can go to be sure she has not lost it. I was like how is she this confident. So she told me that sex will only happen her wedding night, that I should come to see her parents. Pls NL don't you think, she is manipulating me. Can it be true she is a virgin. She told me she gets Hot sometimes. I asked how does she express it, she claims, she gets busy. She is an extrovert. Pls should I go ahead with the introduction the relationship is just 7months should I test her patience for 1more year.? Pls advice what should i do? |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 11:10am On Jan 31, 2021 |
I need advice. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 11:10am On Jan 31, 2021 |
I dont need sex either. |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 11:13am On Jan 31, 2021 |
Because, it's doubtful with her kind of exposure 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by kalu61(m): 11:15am On Jan 31, 2021 |
Omo, l no fit laugh 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Dufil(m): 11:17am On Jan 31, 2021 |
kalu61:Your advice is needed, |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by heniford2: 11:17am On Jan 31, 2021 |
people self abeg carry ur matter for head oh |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by kalu61(m): 11:22am On Jan 31, 2021 |
Dufil:You wants a virgin why trying to make out with her? I believe you aren't a virgin and she is too sexually exposed going by what you wrote and, allowed you to make out with her. Go for the test na but to a hospital of your choice not hers. Why test her for 1 more year when you said you want to settle down? this your story de one kind 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Blvckdiamond008(f): 11:23am On Jan 31, 2021 |
Dufil: |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Cerebellum: 11:24am On Jan 31, 2021 |
Scam Made up write-up Arindin OP 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Funkyswagzz(m): 11:32am On Jan 31, 2021 |
Dude doubting her virginity shouldn't be ur priority cos she already told u she's a virgin. Remember love and trust is the most import part of any relationship. Getting married to a virgin is good buh that shouldn't be the most important thing for u. Just make sure u love her same way she loves cos that is important. Marriage is a lifetime commitment so think through it before u furge ahead 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by zexy2030(m): 11:33am On Jan 31, 2021 |
[quote author=Blvckdiamond008 post=98603073][/quote] Thank you sir |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by zexy2030(m): 11:33am On Jan 31, 2021 |
Cerebellum:Thanks |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by zexy2030(m): 11:35am On Jan 31, 2021 |
Funkyswagzz: Thanks |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Blvckdiamond008(f): 11:35am On Jan 31, 2021 |
zexy2030: Lol am a girl oh small girl for that matter� don’t even know why am giving u this advice but I feel it d right thing to do |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Mikester: 11:46am On Jan 31, 2021 |
Don't make the quick decision of marrying her yet. Study her more. That's what I have to say |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Nobody: 12:07pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Please does her name start with J? |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by EaglesEyes1(m): 12:28pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
One thing you must know about women is that they will say things about themselves to make them look perfect and innocent because they won't want you use their LovePeddler past experience against them later in the future and increases their chances of winning a responsible guy's hrt. Almost many women won't tell their partner the correct number of guys they have dated. My Guy just wise up, be patient and come up with smart ways to reveal the skeleton in her cupboard. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by silento(m): 12:50pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Bro go for a woman that loves you not virgin , virgin or not an olosho by blood will always be olosho Just girl that carry virgin matter for head Na scam I have meet her type before Just insist on the test now and see another story how her ex raped her , the ex saw some huge red flag that made him to run This girl is low key ashawo doubt me in few years after marriage u go cry let her find another baby that loves u , she choose u now coz the first option is not available her ex Bro use ur brain before them go use am for you 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Cholls(m): 1:01pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
My brother somebody say dey did this for 4good years...Nawao!
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Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by jawalis(m): 1:03pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
I fit swear for you for allowing me read all these jargons. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Boxer007(m): 1:04pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Dufil: first questions sir : is your elder sister lightskin sir? |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Isokoson1: 1:19pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Bros op, d way Dis thing be ehn, the girl dey lie, how she go say she dey touch the guy manhood,the guy sucked her breast and dem no Bleep, op that girl dey manipulate you, no go fall inside gutter all because say you dey find virgin girl to marry...that girl dey lie big time... Fear virginal people |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by agbangam: 1:43pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Well I have a girl friend, she is in her 30s and still a virgin. About the bead thing, personally I don't have anything with a girl putting on waist bead. Dear op, marriage is all about compatibility, a lady that will love u when you have and stay with you when there are challenges. Pls go for character and peace of mind, forget about virginity. Marrying a virgin cannot guaranty anyone a peaceful/progressive home. Forget those childish virginity talk. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 3:51pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Is virgin or non virgin your problem? Why not look for other important things in her |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by mfoniso67157: 3:51pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Don't make the quick decision of marrying her yet. Study her more. That's what I have to say |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Memyselfu2009(m): 4:00pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Must you Marry a virgin if you want then go ahead or are you a virgin. |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by osemoses1234(m): 4:33pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
You dey fine virgin wife... you nah virgin man? Bastard 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by johnkey: 6:46pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
why are some idiots pained when someone says he wants to marry a virgin? sholoriburuku niyin ni? you can be stupid and chose to marry a borehole that will lie about her sexual partners to you but please leave those that want to marry virgin alone. op i support you though i won't advice you to marry any naija sextoy but if you insist, take her for virginity test and if she pass start making plans immediately 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Shortyyy(f): 8:01pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Lol men are just weird creatures. |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Shortyyy: What's wrong with you, why are you so obsessed with men? You need help, and get it fast |
Re: I Am Confused, I Need Advice by Reex12(m): 8:11pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
should we tell him? |
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