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| Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Loner97(m): 7:31am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Greetings all, pls ignore my typos. I have a bro (3yrs younger) who have been inseperable to me ever since we became adults, we do virtually everything together not until he met this girl he calls gf. She wasn't really a problem, till recently when I started perceiving foul play in her dealings. First she never accepts anything to be her fault even when she's at fault, always playing the victim card and my bro always goes back to apologize. Secondly, my bro got a hold of this girl's phone and her chats were out of this world for sm1 who has a bf. Planning on how to go lodge in a hotel with sm1 she said was just her caring friend and nothing more when my bro asked due to the way they act even in the presence of my bro, although through their chats she was asking the guy what to do if her bf knew but that was only bcus she was scared my bro might find out soon. My anger now is that when my bro confronted her she became angry. 27 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Loner97(m): 7:32am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Saying my bro had no right to go through her chats, my bro wasn't taking any of that this time so he pressured her to say the truth but this same girl had same effrontery to lie again that she planned out the said chat to check the level of trust he had for her but my bro kept pressuring until she succumed and said the truth crying that she was very sorry.. I was really angry that i called my bro and let him knw my stance on this girl, Like while would sm1 lie after being caught?I told him to do away with this kinda toxic person before it gets late and he agreed.. Three days back i was around some folks and this girl was around too.. In the course of discussion she made a very derogatory comment bout smbdy and this person got angry and jokingly i said "leave that girl she get bad life" just to reduce the already flared temper n errbody laffed but this girl insulted me telling me i was very very stupid, like wtf 21 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by dawnomike(m): 7:34am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Loner97:Just leave them alone and hope he learns... A friend or brother in love will barely listen at this point. Just talk to him as a brother for posterity sake and leave the rest. 180 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by LawLab247: 7:35am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Ok 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Pierocash(m): 7:37am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Mind your business! Your brother isn't a kid,he should know what is good for him. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by CrazyBen(m): 7:56am On Feb 03, 2021 |
If your bro isn't a kid, then he's a Simp 108 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Mikester: 8:00am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Leave your bro. Let him suffer from her hands. Some people need to experience firsthand before their brain resets. Bennysam: Sometimes to draw people closer, you have to give them a little distance 148 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by donbachi(m): 8:04am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Busy body. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Obakashdee(m): 8:44am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Let him learn, experience na best teacher 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Bennysam: 8:55am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Pierocash:I hate people like you, so he will watch his younger brother be destroyed by woman all in the name of him minding his business 218 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Loner97(m): 10:00am On Feb 03, 2021 |
dawnomike:I understand u bro, i have been in his shoes and it doesnt usually end well, am not between anything they have but my problem now is that she is trying to turn my bro against me and she has being disrespecting me so very much(Mind u am 6y/o than she is) maybe because she knows am uncovering her every evil dealings to my bro and its something i wouldnt take 20 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Loner97(m): 10:08am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Mikester:I cnt leave my bro to suffer in her hands, i have had this experience and its not a nice situation to be in.. Moreover my bro is not the problem here, the girl is.. She insults me when she gets the slightest opportunity, trying to turn my bro against me and i have even seen her chat with my bro where she said she respects me just becus of my younger bro if not she would have given me the insults of my life and my bro was just begging her not to insult me so as not to enlongate the issue(Just imagine). Thats utter disrespect to me, am just trying to figure how to f**k her up real bad without hurting my bro 29 Likes |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Loner97(m): 10:13am On Feb 03, 2021 |
CrazyBen:My bro is no kid, i see signs of being a simp in him but as a big bro am trying to turn him into an alphamale 74 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Loner97(m): 10:14am On Feb 03, 2021 |
donbachi:Nobody force u to comment, make u no come day show ur stupidity here 16 Likes |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Loner97(m): 10:18am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Obakashdee:He knew what i passed through when i was simping around my ex and how it turned out.. Thats what am trying to avoid in his case, i just don't want him to pass through what i experienced.. Almost all this v*gina people no get conscience for this our kontri 8 Likes |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by jydo34547: 10:34am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Leave your bro. Let him suffer from her hands. Some people need to experience firsthand before their brain resets. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Mikester: 11:37am On Feb 03, 2021 |
Loner97: Like I said, sometimes to draw people closer, you have to give them some distance. All the while you tried to convince your brother, did he listen to you? For fvck's sake, leave him to his folly and stop disrespecting yourself. You aren't that jobless. When he screws himself up, his will come to his senses. 55 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Charx122: 12:37pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Pierocash: I understand trying to be a Brother's keeper ...I will advise you let him do the math himself .. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by punisha: 12:51pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Pick your battles wisely young man. 4 Likes |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Professorcplus(m): 12:51pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Nawa o. The worse that can happen to a brother is for his brother's gf to insult him. Me won't take that... Just give your brother space for sometime. And if you're jobless you can as well track her movement. Just have enough evidence to make her beg at your mercy. For disrespecting you, she need to payback for it. How old is even the girl? 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by GreaterFuture3: 12:52pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Ehen? |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Tuface65(m): 12:52pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Na wa oooh ontop wetin |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by DenreleDave(m): 12:52pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
 Leave ur brother relationship alone..... |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by specialmati(m): 12:52pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
 i understand you bro you trying to avoid what happened to Samson to repeat again.use your hand and barb him.so Delilah no go see hair for his head to barb4 Likes |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by vibbb: 12:52pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Bros. Your brother is not done with her yet. Let him learn some important lessons to guide him through in his next relationship. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Nobody: 12:53pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
This life. Wahala no dey finish 9 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by duro4chang(m): 12:53pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
What is your business about that? You want to tell me your brother is not doing the same thing? 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by TeemahBeddings: 12:54pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Is love now. I don't understand why should someone worry over a lady/guy when there are so many fishes in the ocean |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by observer88: 12:54pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Some persons go into relationships with their hearts and heads intact, some others go in with their heart alive, but heads switched off. But there is yet the other group who go in without their hearts, but their heads switched on. Unfortunately, your bro falls in the second category and even more unfortunately, his gf falls in the last category. This means he will continue being the mumu until something probably devastating occurs. And the girl will NEVER change even if his heart smashes in a thousand pieces. That second category is probably the best way to love, but it CAN ONLY WORK if both parties are so affected. Unfortunately, your brother's isn't and you CAN DO NOTHING about it. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help!! My Brother Thinks I Want To Ruin His Relationship by Ausval: 12:55pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Bros comot hand and eye for your brother relationship ...focus on your own ..your bro will figure out whether the relationship is good for him or not 5 Likes |
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