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Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by BluntCrazeMan: 5:47am On Feb 04, 2021 |
In this Era of NIN, BVN and so on,, and with the amount of stress involved in doing even the simplest of things in Nigeria these days, changing of names on official documents had actually become very difficult... In Summary: What I am trying to say is that the Nigerian system itself is making the process of Name-Changing very very difficult highly stressful, even for people who are very willing to change their own names due to some crucial important reasons. 55 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by BluntCrazeMan: 5:48am On Feb 04, 2021 |
The Argument In This Write-up Is Very Valid. So Please, Stop Blaming The Ladies. They Are Willing, But The Process Is Stressful. .. Blame The Crippled System.!! 193 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by BluntCrazeMan: 5:55am On Feb 04, 2021 |
omonighoblessing:Na Waa Ooo. Why would the NIN demand that the name on the BVN should be changed first? NIN doesn't require BVN.. Rather, it is BVN that requires NIN. .. Why is it that our Nigerian system and our Government always making things very difficult for the citizens? Who did we offend in this country? NoToPile:Na Waaa Ooo..!! Nezzjnr:I can relate very well. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by BluntCrazeMan: 5:55am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Seun |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Cutehector(m): 6:01am On Feb 04, 2021 |
This shouldnt make one to relax in changing their names. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by BluntCrazeMan: 6:29am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Cutehector:A Typical Average Nigerian Person doesn't like Stress.. Now, imagine A Typical Average Nigerian Lady!! 149 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by zeeatallied: 6:38am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Nigeria has been going backwards since 1960...argue with your keyboard Meanwhile who the hell needs a name change when you are not processing your getaway visa? SMH 62 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Cutehector(m): 6:38am On Feb 04, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan:if i can go through the stress of paying Her bride price, TF should she be lazy to change her name I will not tolerate a lousy wife. 136 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by YoonSung83: 7:05am On Feb 04, 2021 |
I thought I was the only one who noticed it 3 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by bukatyne(f): 7:22am On Feb 04, 2021 |
OP, You are right and it would get worse. We need a central database for name change. If you get married now, you change your name at the bank you did the BVN and advise other banks, change your name at NIN, Tax office, passport, work/school, voter's card etc. We copied the West in means of identification, we did not copy their centralized database 161 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by LMS1(m): 7:55am On Feb 04, 2021 |
at least they can change nicknames on Facebook easily 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Klass99(f): 8:49am On Feb 04, 2021 |
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Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Mindlog: 8:56am On Feb 04, 2021 |
The system was designed to be stressful. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by bukatyne(f): 9:02am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Mindlog: Hahahahahaha! That's how civil service milks the populace. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by dangotesmummy: 10:11am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Hmm |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by ForeThinker: 10:12am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Bcux ...... 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Brownpeanut(f): 10:12am On Feb 04, 2021 |
If, eventually, I get married to Dangote, I will change my name under 2 days 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Babatindan: 10:12am On Feb 04, 2021 |
The stress involved would discourage u. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Brownpeanut(f): 10:12am On Feb 04, 2021 |
It's a very hectic process. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Nobody: 10:13am On Feb 04, 2021 |
It is because most of the men they are married to are average or poor men. I haven't seen a woman married to an influential family complaining about the stress of change of name. 69 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by InvertedHammer: 10:13am On Feb 04, 2021 |
/ Nigeria is a useless country. Q.E.D / |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Mrlouis: 10:13am On Feb 04, 2021 |
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Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Kwamecron(m): 10:13am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Not legally married Baby mama’s 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by BizBayo: 10:13am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Hnmm |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Kingpele(m): 10:15am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Hahaha it of no use ,but it strange somehow knowing that your wife is still using her maiden name in all her official engagement ...after going through the trouble of paying her brideprice.but for me it ok cos of the stress involved 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by YoonSung84: 10:15am On Feb 04, 2021 |
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Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by GodtfatheBLUE: 10:15am On Feb 04, 2021 |
It's wrong though 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by YorubaPrince: 10:16am On Feb 04, 2021 |
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