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Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by MiddleDimension: 12:40pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
judedwriter: the very fact you asked this question and thought he might have done it out of all the vices you mentioned, is what's rude about your question. when people get married to just one wife, does all these vices you mentioned come to your mind as a possible reason why the man or woman is getting married to just one spouse even though it COULD ALSO BE THE CASE THAT THEY ARE GETTING MARRIED OUT OF LUST, GREED AND WHATEVER? why did you not look at that and say he probably getting married to them out of love, affection, and duty to one'self and the society, even though that is certainly the case! and you think marrying two women cannot make things even easier? you think having more kids cannot make things easier? one of my professors said of those chinese people who are the only children of their parent; that they tend to be very selfish and not be able to share. by saying this, she suggested a larger home which sometimes comes with polygamy has the possibility of producing more generous and open children. |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by UTEWUOJO: 12:40pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
His end is near |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Tajbol4splend(m): 12:42pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
MiddleDimension: You expect me to read this? |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by MiddleDimension: 12:45pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Odion2016: you do not even know me, not to talk of what i would or would not be saying. for your information, i am from a polygamous home! |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Feezay001: 12:45pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Na like this me self the plan am ooh I know some people will insult me na� |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by judedwriter(m): 12:46pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
MiddleDimension: Hmmm... If things could be easier by marrying two women, I wouldn't dispute it, provided there is genuine love among us and of course-plenty money for upkeep and provision. But then, my belief in Jesus Christ mandates me to stick to one woman. 1 Like |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by MiddleDimension: 12:47pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Tajbol4splend: of course, i do not expect people who've got a skewed mind like yours to read this. how comes you hsve a skewed mind in the first place? |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Queenben(f): 12:47pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Silence is the right antidote for you MiddleDimension: |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by MiddleDimension: 12:49pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
judedwriter: your believe in Jesus does not mandate you marry one wife! you have a very poor understanding of this your jesus and what he endorses or does npt endorse. please go to daddy freeze, he freeing sheeples! |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Murrynmama: 12:50pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
illicit: See mad man, they are still better than your ppl that will marry and still be sleeping with other girls |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by MiddleDimension: 12:50pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Queenben: yes, and by that, you give me the monopoly of the air waves to better inform minds and also do some clean up of the missinformation, prejudice, and bigotry you people have messed here up with! |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Vindmeapp: 12:51pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Depends on the reason behind. If it's money, this doesn't surprise me. If it's pure love, then yes I have to say; love is fathomless anyway I wish them best of luck! Advocatejustice: |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Tajbol4splend(m): 12:54pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
MiddleDimension: Ok |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by donnie(m): 1:01pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
MiddleDimension: Christianity is a pagan religion. I have nothing to do with it. About polygamy, YAH is not against it. There is no commandment against it. But some might want to practice it due to lust or plain foolishness and that is wrong. It is not difficult for me to accept this truth because I know who the people of the book are as well as their culture. And they are not white people. Many of our bloodline ancestors in the Bible including the patriarchs were polygamists. Women marrying two or more men is not in our Khabiru/Hebrew culture. It can be practiced by pagan nations, not by us.
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Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Nobody: 1:02pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
longetivity: Please explain. Because they are neither Prostitutes nor Baby Mamas but honourable ladies getting married to whom I deem to be a responsible man that would be able to manage his household with wisdom, love and money. He has not even married them, see the way he has successfully put genuine smiles on their faces. While someone that married just one wife had already battered the poor lady's face, shifting her jaw, and tendering provocation as an excuse. In fact, I once heard a woman say that she would gladly give her daughter in marriage to a man that already has a wife [he's caring for] than allow her (daughter) to marry a divorcee. Because to her, the former has proven that he is capable of managing a wife effectively while the latter is a proven failure within that context. What could bring shame is if their husband start having sex with both of them at the same time (same room). With such, it is only a matter of time before the wives turn lesbians, right under his roof. Each wife of our forefathers take turn to be in their husband's room for lovemaking and only relate with themselves as sisters. And if you are frowning at Polygamy; well, I believe they are Muslims and that is perfectly allowed in that religion. Moreover, Africa has always been a Continent where Polygamy is culturally enshrined. And God also permits Polygamy (Polygyny only), as long as there is fairness in the family. Before you wonder at that statement, do know that there are several Polygamists of this kind in the bible, and that include Jacob (Israel) and King David. The Great Prophet Samuel that anointed David as king of Israel, was also from a polygamous family. In fact, his dad (Elkanah), do lead his mum (Hannah) and his step-mum (Peninnah) and her children to the House of the Lord at Shiloh (basically Church) on a regular basis for prayers, sacrifices (offerings) and worship. [1 Samuel 1:2-20] Though, from inception, God in His infinite wisdom created 1 Eve (Wife) for Adam. Obviously, Adam being inexperienced in living with a woman might not be able to mange more than a wife. To prove that, it wasn't multiple wives that got him into the trouble of being evicted from Eden. It was just one wife - the same 1 Eve. God also said a man should be joined to his wife (Gen. 2:23 - 24) but He told King David while judging him that if the wives he (David) had were not enough for him, that he was free to marry another (more) but NEVER should have gone sleeping with another man's wife. [2 Samuel 12:8]. So, I think whoever believes he has the wisdom and finances to manage multiple wives (and children) in all fairness is also accepted by God. He must ensure he is not a "boy" either mentally or financially, and he must be filled with wisdom on how to properly structure and manage his family in such a way that would greatly minimize jealousy, infighting and other unhealthy practice that could naturally trail such a marriage. This is because women are easier enemies of themselves more than with a man. Money must always be readily available for adequate provision of necessities and also silencing issues ever before they escalate. But if as a christian the man ever desires to be a pastor (bishop), Apostle Paul admonished against such in I Timothy 3: 2. I believe Paul doesn't want the church of God to experience a spillover of issues that might emanate from a polygamist's family, especially moments when he is unable to manage his wives effectively. I also believe that Paul want church members to take a cue from the pastor (being a man of one wife), so that there would be more orderliness in the house of God. In all, please wish them well and move on. 1 Like |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Odion2016(m): 1:05pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
MiddleDimension: You are not getting my point still... I dont have any issues with polygamy,,my issue is with the fact that in 2021,,a man would marry 2 women at a time..Think about it now... Is he buying slaves?? That shows dos ladies lack self esteem.. |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by captainjerry: 1:19pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Oh boy this guy na real odogwu |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by MiddleDimension: 1:19pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Odion2016: how does it show the ladies lack self esteem? and what happened with 2021? so when a man is marrying a woman, he is also buying slaves? i think what is very sensible is leaving grown up people to do what they feel is best for them. |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by MiddleDimension: 1:23pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
donnie:snesible of you! and i agree with you too about the intentions we have going into anything. i believe you will also agree that people also go into monogamy for the wrong reasons too. and of course, @HigherED will not answer this question. i have his likes who are always afraid of me. this is not the first time i am mentioning him and he claims to be ignoring me. 1 Like |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by King44(m): 1:41pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
longetivity:Abeg what us shameless about this, three adults o |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by tnerro1(m): 1:41pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Some is there shouting the future is FEMALE, while the females are there selling themselves so cheaply |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Aboki99(m): 2:17pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
I tell u my brother! These people are so biased, debased, debauched, uncouth, uncultured, barbaric and yet hypocritically look down on others who are, by far, better than them in ALL respects. MiddleDimension: |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Cousin9999: 2:32pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
They seem happy. Two wives is better than one wife and one baby mama, or one divorce and one baby mama. |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Anyamanutd: 3:13pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
MaBaMa2021 |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Decent09(m): 3:49pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
illicit: Don't you know that fornication is illegal even in the bible |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by authority2006(m): 4:20pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
EnvelopeUs: Lol. Like Christians whose religion doesn't allow more than one wife are not marrying two or more in this same country? |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Charx122: 4:24pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
EnvelopeUs: Dey there no men again o,! |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Bellotelli: 4:39pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Joysticks:I no understand you sef o |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by illicit(m): 5:52pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
MiddleDimension: Those are armed robbers, u find dem everywhere, but extremism is limited to a part of the country especially where it started from.... Peace |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Kubernetes: 6:15pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Tajbol4splend: Stay on the topic of discussion Besides, marriage in the Islamic north is not for better for worse like in other religions even in the face of infidelity . |
Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by dinggle: 6:18pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Evidently Sharia allows for 3some only if you register under disguise of marriage, which can be discarded with divorce after the 3some. |
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