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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DoubleEngine007: 2:53pm On Jan 31, 2021
Why are extroverted judging the introverted.. Live your damn lives and let others live theirs.. Extroverts talks too much,that's one thing I hate about them.
If you quote me,I cut you..

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mitchelle16(f): 2:11pm On Feb 01, 2021
Wow lovely, am an introvert just realised that recently though, I don't interact with my neighbours I only greet them when we meet face to face and if am in the mood to, I can stay in my room for 2weeks and no one will know,I don't involve in a conversation that won't benefit me, I don't even talk to neighbours they say I act like am better than them Abi my parts no dey market,
If u want to keep malice with me u go tire because I won't even notice, then I tends to keep things to myself to much I hardly even talk to family members except when necessary,
I don't have low self esteem at all I only somehow around people when am not comfortable with what am wearing, I hate long calls it annoys me but I don't mind if is someone I love I can talk all day anyways I prefer charting
I don't have much friends I don't even know how to make friends people hardly talk to me in my department not that I mind but if u are my friend I don't usually let go I like to hold on to u , sometimes I wish am social because it helps u in getting connection meeting different types of people that's the only thing I like about being extrovert,but honestly I like my kind of person I have PhD in minding my business
The guy am dating is an extrovert sometimes it annoys me especially the too much greetings and unnecessary talks ,
But I like being me I love who I am , people do say that am a snub and am rude but who cares ,I observe alot and am a deep thinker and imaginary, I love the fact that am not shy and I don't have low self esteem ,u dare not tell me shit to my face,I love reading alot but sometimes I wish I can be more social and have more friends but still I still love me because much talks pisses me off

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by tot(f): 5:38pm On Feb 01, 2021
mitchelle16:
Wow lovely, am an introvert just realised that recently though, I don't interact with my neighbours I only greet them when we meet face to face and if am in the mood to, I can stay in my room for 2weeks and no one will know,I don't involve in a conversation that won't benefit me, I don't even talk to neighbours they say I act like am better than them Abi my parts no dey market,
If u want to keep malice with me u go tire because I won't even notice, then I tends to keep things to myself to much I hardly even talk to family members except when necessary,
I don't have low self esteem at all I only somehow around people when am not comfortable with what am wearing, I hate long calls it annoys me but I don't mind if is someone I love I can talk all day anyways I prefer charting
I don't have much friends I don't even know how to make friends people hardly talk to me in my department not that I mind but if u are my friend I don't usually let go I like to hold on to u , sometimes I wish am social because it helps u in getting connection meeting different types of people that's the only thing I like about being extrovert,but honestly I like my kind of person I have PhD in minding my business
The guy am dating is an extrovert sometimes it annoys me especially the too much greetings and unnecessary talks ,
But I like being me I love who I am , people do say that am a snub and am rude but who cares ,I observe alot and am a deep thinker and imaginary, I love the fact that am not shy and I don't have low self esteem ,u dare not tell me shit to my face,I love reading alot but sometimes I wish I can be more social and have more friends but still I still love me because much talks pisses me off

You are very self-aware and that's such a good thing. We all have aspects we want to improve in but at the core of it you must first love who you are and be confident in it before you can grow in other areas, which you do, kudos.
A lot of introverts will have, at one point or the other, experienced people assuming they are snubs... usually a wrong assumption.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by tot(f): 5:39pm On Feb 01, 2021
DoubleEngine007:
Why are extroverted judging the introverted.. Live your damn lives and let others live theirs.. Extroverts talks too much,that's one thing I hate about them.
If you quote me,I cut you..

Hahaha cheesy Abeg, keep that cutlass handy when the troublemakers and self-appointed shrinks appear here.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DoubleEngine007: 5:45pm On Feb 01, 2021
tot:


Hahaha cheesy Abeg, keep that cutlass handy when the troublemakers and self-appointed shrinks appear here.
No wahala . Update me when they're around... wink

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by IMAliyu(m): 6:10pm On Feb 01, 2021
DoubleEngine007:
No wahala . Update me when they're around... wink
grin. Take am easy.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DoubleEngine007: 6:13pm On Feb 01, 2021
IMAliyu:

grin. Take am easy.
grin

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by tot(f): 6:15pm On Feb 01, 2021
DoubleEngine007:
No wahala . Update me when they're around... wink

grin grin yes sir!

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by moufan: 6:21pm On Feb 01, 2021
I'm an introvert and i love me for who I am,I don't care what other people think of me,they may call me snub, arrogant or rude,I just don't care.i was shy when I was younger but now I'm pretty confident. I don't like chasing girls,I talk to you once and you seem not interested, that's the end, and i think I've been pretty successful in that regard.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ugoc3(m): 5:15pm On Feb 02, 2021
Being an introvert...
Many times people mistake my silence and inwardness to be a ritualist....
My ex girl always tot I was a ritualist and cunning
Besides that...I love myself

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by The5DME(m): 5:18pm On Feb 02, 2021
[[s]quote author=Ugoc3 post=98675392]Being an introvert...
Many times people mistake my silence and inwardness to be a ritualist....
My ex girl always tot I was a ritualist and cunning
Besides that...I love myself[/quote][/s]

You need help
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by kalu61(m): 1:19am On Feb 03, 2021
moufan:
I'm an introvert and i love me for who I am,I don't care what other people think of me,they may call me snub, arrogant or rude,I just don't care.i was shy when I was younger but now I'm pretty confident. I don't like chasing girls,I talk to you once and you seem not interested, that's the end, and i think I've been pretty successful in that regard.
Arrogant and proud!! Two common words.

I remember when l did my I.T. I always stayed in the lab reading or meditating. My madam had two daughters showing green light plus a nurse and a cleaner. Omo, the only thing we share is greetings. When they strike a conversation, l will just say one or two, smile and mind by business.

I was surprised when my madam said l was proud. That was the first time someone said such thing to my hearing. I re-examined my life for like two days to know where the proud is coming from. I do fetch water down stairs, help clean the lab most times. After l overcame that thought, l don't care much about it.

I went for service, everybody said l was a Yahoo guy because l stayed indoors freelancing. Lol

The only problem l have is not caring much about my family. As in, l can go days and weeks not calling my mum or siblings. Sometime l get pissed off with too many calls.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by kalu61(m): 1:49am On Feb 03, 2021
mitchelle16:
Wow lovely, am an introvert just realised that recently though, I don't interact with my neighbours I only greet them when we meet face to face and if am in the mood to, I can stay in my room for 2weeks and no one will know,I don't involve in a conversation that won't benefit me, I don't even talk to neighbours they say I act like am better than them Abi my parts no dey market,
If u want to keep malice with me u go tire because I won't even notice, then I tends to keep things to myself to much I hardly even talk to family members except when necessary,
I don't have low self esteem at all I only somehow around people when am not comfortable with what am wearing, I hate long calls it annoys me but I don't mind if is someone I love I can talk all day anyways I prefer charting
I don't have much friends I don't even know how to make friends people hardly talk to me in my department not that I mind but if u are my friend I don't usually let go I like to hold on to u , sometimes I wish am social because it helps u in getting connection meeting different types of people that's the only thing I like about being extrovert,but honestly I like my kind of person I have PhD in minding my business
The guy am dating is an extrovert sometimes it annoys me especially the too much greetings and unnecessary talks ,
But I like being me I love who I am , people do say that am a snub and am rude but who cares ,I observe alot and am a deep thinker and imaginary, I love the fact that am not shy and I don't have low self esteem ,u dare not tell me shit to my face,I love reading alot but sometimes I wish I can be more social and have more friends but still I still love me because much talks pisses me off
Honestly, na me you describe.
Life is interesting because of mix ups.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by moufan: 8:35am On Feb 03, 2021
kalu61:
Arrogant and proud!! Two commons words.

I remember when l did my I.T. I always stayed in the lab reading or meditating. My madam had two daughters showing green light plus a nurse and a cleaner. Omo, the only thing we share is greetings. When they strike a conversation, l will just say one or two, smile and mind by business.

I was surprised when my madam said l was proud. That was the first time someone said such thing to my hearing. I re-examined my life for like two days to know where is the proud coming from. I do fetch water down stairs, help clean the lab most times. After l overcame that thought, l don't care much about it.

I went for service, everybody said l was a Yahoo guy because l stay indoors freelancing. Lol

The only problem l have is not caring much about my family. As in, l can go days and weeks not calling my mum or siblings. Sometime l get pissed off with too many calls.

I'm pretty close with my immediate family,I don't know if I'm the only one here but I'm too egoistic for my liking, I've been trying to reduce my ego but I haven't been able to. do most introvert have an inflated ego cos I do

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mezico96(m): 11:10am On Feb 03, 2021
DoubleEngine007:
Why are extroverted judging the introverted.. Live your damn lives and let others live theirs.. Extroverts talks too much,that's one thing I hate about them.
If you quote me,I cut you..

OPPSSS!!
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mezico96(m): 11:16am On Feb 03, 2021
DoubleEngine007:
No wahala . Update me when they're around... wink

Pls am not one of them,....my phone keep quoting you
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mezico96(m): 11:18am On Feb 03, 2021
The5DME:
[[s]quote author=Ugoc3 post=98675392]Being an introvert...
Many times people mistake my silence and inwardness to be a ritualist....
My ex girl always tot I was a ritualist and cunning
Besides that...I love myself[/s]

You need help

gringringringrin
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by topher052: 2:39pm On Feb 03, 2021
The mind of an introvert is a giant but he is small, he can see gold in things people ignore, she is not afraid because he knows she is limitless.
A true introvert is nerd, because nothing excites him other than her target. They are fierce when chasing a mark, they could be nice or worse. The nice ones are the angles and worse ones are the devil.
Don't push an introvert, you may be too surprised at what you will see.

I am a proud introverted mind.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by tot(f): 3:17pm On Feb 03, 2021
mezico96:


Pls am not one of them,....my phone keep quoting you

Why you dey fear na? grin
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mezico96(m): 11:45am On Feb 04, 2021
tot:


Why you dey fear na? grin

You the see that local sword wey em holdsadsad?

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by tot(f): 11:47am On Feb 04, 2021
mezico96:


You that see that local sword wey em holdsadsad?

haha cheesy
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by germaphobe(m): 11:00pm On Feb 04, 2021
well i wouldn't say i'm introverted but rather an ambivert. people call me ogbanje cus of how i behave, i might be all over something or someone today and tomorrow i act like they don't exist. i stay indoors more than my curtains(cus the wind sometimes blows them outside), reading, eating and practicing my online skills matters to me more than anything. have more than 200 contacts but only call and receive calls from not upto 10people. i hate when people de gumbody me, i hate people visiting me especially without letting me know. yea my life sucks but i fvcking love it. and lastly i broke up with my ex cus i don't post her nor allow her to post me and i don't relate with her friends much like she would like me to. well like i said my life is a bitsh and you know nothing about it. goodnight y'all

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by The5DME(m): 11:07pm On Feb 04, 2021
germaphobe:
well i wouldn't say i'm introverted but rather an ambivert. people call me ogbanje cus of how i behave, i might be all over something or someone today and tomorrow i act like they don't exist. i stay indoors more than my curtains(cus the wind sometimes blows them outside), reading, eating and practicing my online skills matters to me more than anything. have more than 200 contacts but only call and receive calls from not upto 10people. i hate when people de gumbody me, i hate people visiting me especially without letting me know. yea my life sucks but i fvcking love it. and lastly i broke up with my ex cus i don't post her nor allow her to post me and i don't relate with her friends much like she would like me to. well like i said my life is a bitsh and you know nothing about it. goodnight y'all
just a little more like me.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Epositive(m): 7:12am On Feb 05, 2021
If there's one thing I passionately dislike, that would be stress. Do not stress me.

The reason I hardly indulge in relationship or energy-draining social activities. I can ghost even my girlfriend, closest friends and family members if they dare disturb my peace beyond limit.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DoubleEngine007: 11:56am On Feb 05, 2021
mezico96:


Pls am not one of them,....my phone keep quoting you
grin

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 9:52am On Feb 06, 2021
germaphobe:
well i wouldn't say i'm introverted but rather an ambivert. people call me ogbanje cus of how i behave, i might be all over something or someone today and tomorrow i act like they don't exist. i stay indoors more than my curtains(cus the wind sometimes blows them outside), reading, eating and practicing my online skills matters to me more than anything. have more than 200 contacts but only call and receive calls from not upto 10people. i hate when people de gumbody me, i hate people visiting me especially without letting me know. yea my life sucks but i fvcking love it. and lastly i broke up with my ex cus i don't post her nor allow her to post me and i don't relate with her friends much like she would like me to. well like i said my life is a bitsh and you know nothing about it. goodnight y'all
@bold You are a man & people call u ogbanje? Hmm
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Clothingonline9(m): 12:49pm On Feb 06, 2021
Am here to read about people
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Iamagoodgirll: 2:31pm On Feb 06, 2021
I would classify myself as an introvert and too selective I choose my words carefully and I don't involve in conversation that won't benefit me or nothing to do with me, I can stay indoor for a whole month I don't interact with people I only greet them and pass which most of them mistake as pride but it's not. "one Sunday I was coming back from church some guys were behind me and discussing one asked who is this fine girl the other one answered with I know her she lives around here and she's a good girl but doesn't talk to people".

When some people would say introvert have low self esteem I do laugh at them, low self esteem has nothing to do with being an introvert, I will rate my self esteem 95% but I'm not social which sometimes i do wish I'm because it is hard sometimes on me I don't have friends or partner, I choose my friends carefully the only close friends I made was in university because we had same academic goal and now have graduated I find it difficult to make new friends.

I may appear proud but once people come close to me they will be like you're such a nice girl one thing I don't like about having a lot of friends is visiting going here and there and unnecessary conversations but if it's someone I love that's what I love, when it comes to communication I prefer having it with my love ones because if I'm not use to you I won't know what to talk about with you and I won't feel comfortable.

introvert has saved me from unnecessary drama because I won't disrespect nor interfere in your personal life and I have gained a lot of respect from it, I talk less only when necessary.
I love been me

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by kalu61(m): 1:13pm On Feb 07, 2021
There are many benefits being an introvert as l go through this trend examining myself.

1.People get to trust and confide in you because they are very sure their secrets will be kept secret.
2. You save yourself of drama. Introverts hardly fall into troubles as they are mindful of their business.
3. Introverts detect trouble from miles, as they are mind readers.
4. Introvert are most selfless in the sense that they will not do what they don't like others do them.
5. Introverts are quick to forgive as they enjoy their thoughts, meditation and peace of mind.
6. Introverts hardly fight because he uses his mind as his weapon.
7.Most introverts are sapiosexual.



Don't allow anybody makes you feel bad for who you are.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by tot(f): 7:58pm On Feb 07, 2021
kalu61:
There are many benefits being an introvert as l go through this trend examining myself.

1.People get to trust and confide in you because they are very such their secrets will be kept secret.
2. You save yourself of drama. Introvert hardly fall into troubles as the are mindful of their business.
3. Introverts detects trouble from miles, as they are mind readers.
4. Introvert are most selfless in the sense that they will not do what they don't like others do them.
5. Introvert are quick to forgive as they enjoy their thoughts, meditation and peace of mind.
6. Introvert hardly fight because he uses his mind as his weapon.
7.Most introverts are sapiosexual.



Don't allow anybody make you feel bad for who you are.

Word.

Introverts tend to be misunderstood a lot. Even on this thread, we've seen people judging others. At the end of the day, really doesn't matter because even though people are entitled to their opinions, those opinions do not define us nor change a thing.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mezico96(m): 11:33am On Feb 08, 2021
kalu61:
There are many benefits being an introvert as l go through this trend examining myself.

1.People get to trust and confide in you because they are very sure their secrets will be kept secret.
2. You save yourself of drama. Introverts hardly fall into troubles as they are mindful of their business.
3. Introverts detect trouble from miles, as they are mind readers.
4. Introvert are most selfless in the sense that they will not do what they don't like others do them.
5. Introverts are quick to forgive as they enjoy their thoughts, meditation and peace of mind.
6. Introverts hardly fight because he uses his mind as his weapon.
7.Most introverts are sapiosexual.



Don't allow anybody makes you feel bad for who you are.

Wisdom fall on you... this is were the Igbo's say "GBAM" grin
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by gidjah(m): 1:14am On Feb 09, 2021
Its great to be here once again , seeing my family members at a proxy.HAPPY NEW YEAR MY AMIABLE INTROS, I Pray you all Live to FULFIL DESTINY IN A GRAND STYLE ,none of You here shall. Miss the mark of the High Prize of Eternity . I can see pretty New faces/Names here, Faces with great ideas and philosophies, minds with pure motives and big Dreams.I Greet You All my Comrades.I really missed been here .

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