openmine:
Op i would suggest that you also carry out a test to confirm if your wife is the biological mother of your kids!
I have heard a few scenarios where the hubby and wifey are NOT biological parents of their children!

Emary:
2 months is too early for a DNA test. The amniotic fluid can only be tested from at least 16wks pregnancy. Also, the test should not exceed N200k. They don chop that bros out of him desperation.

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

Divinehealer:


The 10 comandments from Gid had nothing to discus in Adultery for women. It said Mrn should not covert brothers wives. There was no lae or rule telling women anything. The other laws about stonning,etc was added. Jesus said God made 1 eve for Adam. That if God did not want it so, he would have made many Eves for 1 Adam. In Jesus days a man can not marry more women unless he put the present one aside. Which Abraham allowed them because of their stubborn head...he permited them to just write the woman a divorce note so she can go and marry someone else and they the men marry their new wife. Jesus now said its not the way God wanted it. That anyone who does that has made the woman to sin and even the man that marries her is sinning too? (see how he blamed the husband for making the woman sin?) That on no account should a man put away his first wife for another unless he caught her cheating. Those men now said wow.... , if we cant flex women the way we want, if we must die with our first wives unless they commit adultery, befire we can bring in new women, then its better we remain single. Go back and read that bible very well.

Mathew 19 [b]When Jesus had finished saying these things,(B) he left Galilee and went into the region of Judea to the other side of the Jordan. 2 Large crowds followed him, and he healed them(C) there.

3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife(D) for any and every reason?”

4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’[a](E) 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’?(F) 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”(G)

8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”(H)

10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”

11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given.(I) 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”

armadeo:
I dont k ow if this story is true but those people saying that once she is your wife it doesnt matter who impregnated her dont have any sense at all.

Imagine the nonsense you guys are vomiting. Just imagine.

ibkayee:

Wtf, just cheat with your chest and stop lying to justify your BS, sheesh

Proverbs 6:32 But a man who commits adultery has no sense, whoever does so destroys himself.

@OP
I am unable to feel pity for Nigerian men as a collective who get tricked into fathering other people's babies, sorry not sorry

gregyboy:



Areva christan, Muslim, traditionalist any of these religion you belong to support men to have concubines, mistress, girlfriends

And are even rated as riches to men,


If you want to make heaven in those religion above then accept their religious principles


Men dont cheat women do,

onuman:


A million Naira charged for a DNA test? That’s a rip off.

It costs about N50,000 to conduct a DNA test in European countries.

Well, Nigerians are known for exploitation of themselves.

Hotel room per night in Lagos and Abuja is nearly thrice the cost in Europe.

Local airlines in Nigeria charge thrice the fair for equivalent distance in Europe.

I bow for exploitation in Nigeria.

Juliearth:
You know what they say about cheats being the ones to always suspect their partners.

I hope the tests come out in her favour so you can cover your face in shame. Jeez!
I agree with daddytime on this issue. The disrespect is uncanny.

SweetCunt97:
Easier said than done! You'll kick her out and adopt her kids? Lmfao.
Too bad you suspect your wife of fvcking another dick apart from yours and also trying to let us know she's a Dumbo who will collect outside without protection. Unless you fear u sterile shaaa.

Navalsadiq:
Advice to all men out there.dont marry a woman who loves sex too much.hide to these and you will thank me later

PETUK:
.
The Bible hardly recognise women

ibkayee:

Wtf, just cheat with your chest and stop lying to justify your BS, sheesh

Proverbs 6:32 But a man who commits adultery has no sense, whoever does so destroys himself.

@OP
I am unable to feel pity for Nigerian men as a collective who get tricked into fathering other people's babies, sorry not sorry

baralatie:



#1 000 000

abasi

OgwuEgo:
Say what

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time..." .

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

PETUK:
.
The Bible hardly recognise women

Juliearth:

That she cheated on him twice doesn't make her a cheat. Nobody is above mistakes. Don't people make mistakes? Don't people change? Are you a saint? I cannot be in support of cheating spouses, but cut her some slack...

GistFullGround:




Did you say N1,000,000?

Why don't you just do it from the US?

Take your Saliva swab, and ship to the United States through DHL. It's about $500 and your result can be gotten online.

You can be VERY sure you will have the best.

Emperorx:
I really don't know why people go for this DNA test when u have married ur wife legitimatly also paid her dowry every child she give birth is urs it doesn't matter who got her pregnant

gregyboy:



Areva christan, Muslim, traditionalist any of these religion you belong to support men to have concubines, mistress, girlfriends

And are even rated as riches to men,


If you want to make heaven in those religion above then accept their religious principles


Men dont cheat women do,

Divinehealer:


The 10 comandments from God had nothing to discus in Adultery for women. It said Men should not covert brothers wives. There was no lae or rule telling women anything. The other laws about stonning,etc was added. Jesus said God made 1 eve for Adam. That if God did not want it so, he would have made many Eves for 1 Adam. In Jesus days a man can not marry more women unless he put the present one aside. Which Abraham allowed them because of their stubborn head...he permited them to just write the woman a divorce note so she can go and marry someone else and they the men marry their new wife. Jesus now said its not the way God wanted it. That anyone who does that has made the woman to sin and even the man that marries her is sinning too? (see how he blamed the husband for making the woman sin?) That on no account should a man put away his first wife for another unless he caught her cheating. Those men now said wow.... , if we cant flex women the way we want, if we must die with our first wives unless they commit adultery, befire we can bring in new women, then its better we remain single. Go back and read that bible very well.

[b]Mathew 19 When Jesus had finished saying these things,(B) he left Galilee and went into the region of Judea to the other side of the Jordan. 2 Large crowds followed him, and he healed them(C) there.

3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife(D) for any and every reason?”

4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’
5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh
6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”(G)

8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”(H)

10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”

11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given.(I) 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.[/b]

Odingo1:

After the DNA test and it happen that the man is not the father of maybe two out of the four children.

What will he do since the children is calling him dad, how will he be able to separate the children. It is a difficult situation, if I am in his shoe I will monitor my wife secretly if she continue fucvking around and catch her in the act and divorce her, then take custody of the children.

Emary:
2 months is too early for a DNA test. The amniotic fluid can only be tested from at least 16wks pregnancy. Also, the test should not exceed N200k. They don chop that bros out of him desperation.