Hello everyone please read till the end. Mind not any typos and focus on the message


My name is Ben, I'm 22, tall and black in complexion .

I recently relocated to urban side of my state on January this year. On getting there, I was living alone no body to talk to. In one evening I decided to take a stroll to a female friend (Favor not her name ) of a guy who introduced me to that place.


On getting there, the door was closed so I knocked and the girl came out, not long enough her friend. (Precious not her name) pop out too and we began to talk, after everything they decided that I should take them out arround that street because they just came new.

On our way going, I began to notice a chemistry between me and precious but still yet I desist from making the first move.

That day passed then the following morning she was going to fetch water from pump, she branched to my house to say hi to me. On arrival, she was extremely comfortable with me because of how I treated them yesterday. Inside my house we started having feelings, the urge became too high to the point that I needed sex, but she told me that she had a covenant with God that ___any man that would have sex with her must be her husband. And this bounced my urge back to the extent she began to cry screeming that she love me and would like to have sex with me but would I marry her?

Though I did not said yes but I responded " I can't have sex with you or promise you marriage because I still have a long way to go"

But after everything we had sex, so on our third sex my protective broke unknowingly before ejaculation. When I noticed, I told her what Happened and she told me the drug to buy for her which I bought. She took the drug that night then the following morning she saw blood on her undies and different type of pregnancy signs which includes vomiting, dizziness.

We proceeded to test. The first place showed (negative) the second place showed (positive) while the third place showed same ( negative). Note, this is different hospital.


Now I've called my man of God to cover me in prayer while I'm doing fasting and prayer morning to evennnnig for God's forgiveness from fornication and clearification, the man of God told me to give him 2days to pray before going the final test.

Though we went back to that second doctor to give complaint and she said that anxiety can hide such in ones blood or if persist we should what for 1 month, or go into prayer and ask God for forgiveness and also to widraw the pregnancy back if happens to be positive since the whole play is out of wedlock.


And here comes my problem why I'm afraid of this pregnancy

1. I'm a student
2. 22 of age not more than 20k in account
3. Still struggling
4. Can't stand the shame from friend and families
4. On a one year target for a project
5. She is 25 of age while I'm 22
6. Can't have my children from different mother


Here are my thoughts
1. Could anxiety change pregnancy test?

2. How long does pregnancy takes to show after sex because she saw that blood flow a day after we had sex?


3. She do complain about stomach? ache before we had sex, but she said that the sickness has lasted long?



please what do you think, I seriously need advice. insult is allowed but make it matured and educative.
Thanks [quote][/quote]

Congratulations in Advance Daddy baby.
I pray for her safe delivery, if you like kill yourself na u sabi !

When people make enquires before engaging s*x most of NL's will think its a dumb question, but I'll just say you take the test again or better still if you both are planning in termination, it's better you take the shame now ànd grow your child responsibly if not, that baby will forever torment you, next time you wont jump into grinding anyhow

Lol... See ehn.. I've not finished reading o but that your pastors covering and your fasting and prayers got me lol like crazy. Wonderful!

Hahahahaaaa... This guy wants to iniure me with laughter with his clear-rification.. you really want to be cleared off the parternity of that pregnancy. Lolzz..

Op, you're funny mehn.. you want to withdraw pregnancy? Heheheheeeee.. nothing one will not see on this NAIRALAND.

Now, it takes one to two weeks before pregnancy can show. So don't know how many days it took your girl to start manifesting preg signs. If it was immediately after sex, then it's possible she was already pregnant for someone else.

All the same, get prepared to double your hustle as a soon to be father. You are not too young to cater for a family since you're not too young to do the do. In fact I've seen a 17 yes old boy and girl get married after she fell pregnant for him and they became responsible adults overnight. So, congrats. And thanks for making me have a hearty laugh.

Arrrrrrrh

What a story line ! Am like unbelievable.
From the context you guys sound religious and yet this happen.. Lust is a bastard, fornications is terrible both to the body, soul and spirit.

You guys did alot of wrong, no doubt . I can't come and be saying things to you because I understand trauma you and her are going.

Did you tell your pastor what you did? Because if you didn't, you better confess. Don't go an stress the pastor because you ask him to pray for headache instead of stomach ache. Sincerity and prayers works together.. The way out is for both of you to confess and ease your self those anxiety and your conscience. If not you won't ever skip this especially when you hear words like abortion, or a preaching on that, your thoughts will always flash back.

To answer your questions, am not a medical student neither a health student, but from ideas I have heard from people about pregnancy and research as well, I think the following.

1. Anxiety can never change change pregnancy test. Just grab that ASAP. If sickness can't change a pregnancy test then anxiety can't change anything. If the baby is there, just know the baby is there.

2. I don't know about that, let's wait for the Doctors.

3. Let's wait for the Doctors.


Sex is overrated in our society, let me stop here. But bro you no try at all !! Congratulations in advance.

pregnancy cannot happen a day after unprotected sex. pregnancy take two or three week to start showing sign. Boy don't terminate something DAT is not urs. BT learn ur mistake

Ok let me tell you this: in a nutshell:
:It takes about 24 hours for a sperm cell to fertilize an egg. When the sperm penetrates the egg, the surface of the egg changes so that no other sperm can enter. At the moment of fertilization, the baby's genetic makeup is complete, including whether it's a boy or girl.

Pregnancy doesn't start the day you have sex — it can take up to six days after sex for the sperm and egg to join and form a fertilized egg. Then, it can take three to four days for the fertilized egg to completely implant itself in the lining of the uterus..

Nd according to you, she started having all those tantrums after a day right? Wrong! Not and can never be pregnancy!

Now this;
You should wait to take a pregnancy test until the week after your missed period for the most accurate result. If you don't want to wait until you've missed your period, you should wait at least one to two weeks after you had sex. If you are pregnant, your body needs time to develop detectable levels of HCG.

Some women may notice symptoms as early as 5 DPO, although they won't know for certain that they are pregnant until much later. Early signs and symptoms include implantation bleeding or cramps, which can occur 5–6 days after the sperm fertilizes the egg. Other early symptoms include breast tenderness and mood changes.

Now it's highly could be an infection! Oh yeah..
Better advice, try and go for some checkups.

note;

Evaporation lines happen when the urine that was on the test area starts to dry. The chemical composition of the urine sample changes due to evaporation. As a result, the test may start to display a positive line. After the allotted time has passed, you should discard the pregnancy test to avoid confusion.

Some tests may be able to detect pregnancy hormones in urine as early as 10 days following unprotected sex, but the results are not very reliable, and women may get a false positive or false negative test result.

Nature will surely do her thing.
For now just remove suicidal thoughts, you've gotten two opposite pregnancy test results so, there is still probability that it's negative, if she was in her so called safe period.

She is a Christian, I think she will likely keep the child if she finds out she's pregnant.

This your situation sef. Person for Nairaland don talk say, no be everything be opportunity.

Congratulations on your incoming child. Since you've decided to gamble with your future for 5 minutes of pleasure, you should be prepared for the consequences.

Whether or not the child belongs to you, just know that she will definitely pin it down on you because you're obviously the weakest of all the guys she has had anything to do with.

You should know that by now you have to double up your Hussle cos that 20k in your account is peanuts compared to what she'll begin to demand from you in the coming weeks and months.

You can drop school and learn trade or brick layer job, anything at all to cater for your jobless pregnant wife and your adopted bastard child.

By the time life has finished dealing with you, your penis will be so scared to respond to the nakednédness of a woman.

Congratulations once again.

congratulations bro

*I told her what Happened and she told me the drug to buy for her which I bought. She took the drug that night then the following morning she saw blood on her undies and different type of pregnancy signs which includes vomiting, dizziness.*
What's the name of the drug you bought? When did you tell your CD broke?

Honestlywwww:

Hello everyone please read till the end. Mind not any typos and focus on the message


My name is Ben, I'm 22, tall and black in complexion .

I recently relocated to urban side of my state on January this year. On getting there, I was living alone no body to talk to. In one evening I decided to take a stroll to a female friend (Favor not her name ) of a guy who introduced me to that place.


On getting there, the door was closed so I knocked and the girl came out, not long enough her friend. (Precious not her name) pop out too and we began to talk, after everything they decided that I should take them out arround that street because they just came new.

On our way going, I began to notice a chemistry between me and precious but still yet I desist from making the first move.

That day passed then the following morning she was going to fetch water from pump, she branched to my house to say hi to me. On arrival, she was extremely comfortable with me because of how I treated them yesterday. Inside my house we started having feelings, the urge became too high to the point that I needed sex, but she told me that she had a covenant with God that ___any man that would have sex with her must be her husband. And this bounced my urge back to the extent she began to cry screeming that she love me and would like to have sex with me but would I marry her?

Though I did not said yes but I responded " I can't have sex with you or promise you marriage because I still have a long way to go"

But after everything we had sex, so on our third sex my protective broke unknowingly before ejaculation. When I noticed, I told her what Happened and she told me the drug to buy for her which I bought. She took the drug that night then the following morning she saw blood on her undies and different type of pregnancy signs which includes vomiting, dizziness.

We proceeded to test. The first place showed (negative) the second place showed (positive) while the third place showed same ( negative). Note, this is different hospital.


Now I've called my man of God to cover me in prayer while I'm doing fasting and prayer morning to evennnnig for God's forgiveness from fornication and clearification, the man of God told me to give him 2days to pray before going the final test.

Though we went back to that second doctor to give complaint and she said that anxiety can hide such in ones blood or if persist we should what for 1 month, or go into prayer and ask God for forgiveness and also to widraw the pregnancy back if happens to be positive since the whole play is out of wedlock.


And here comes my problem why I'm afraid of this pregnancy

1. I'm a student
2. 22 of age not more than 20k in account
3. Still struggling
4. Can't stand the shame from friend and families
4. On a one year target for a project
5. She is 25 of age while I'm 22
6. Can't have my children from different mother


Here are my thoughts
1. Could anxiety change pregnancy test?

2. How long does pregnancy takes to show after sex because she saw that blood flow a day after we had sex?


3. She do complain about stomach? ache before we had sex, but she said that the sickness has lasted long?



please what do you think, I seriously need advice. insult is allowed but make it matured and educative.
Thanks

Just to let you know that she might be pregnant but I doubt. Even if she was, you are certainly not responsible for it. You are not the owner, so fear not.

Where Did U Get Dis Story 4rm? It Sounds Interesting. Even Though It's A Fictional Story.

dumb story

solalal36:
*I told her what Happened and she told me the drug to
buy for her which I bought. She took the drug that night then
the following morning she saw blood on her undies and
different type of pregnancy signs which includes vomiting,
dizziness.*

What's the name of the drug you bought? When did you tell your CD broke?

After sex

Legalcriminal:
Congratulations in Advance Daddy baby.
I pray for her safe delivery, if you like kill yourself na u sabi !

If that's all you have, thanks

MickzyDonald:
When people make enquires before engaging s*x most of NL's will think its a dumb question, but I'll just say you take the test again or better still if you both are planning in termination, it's better you take the shame now ànd grow your child responsibly if not, that baby will forever torment you, next time you wont jump into grinding anyhow

I don't subscribe to termination of the pregnancy.
Thanks

CalliDora1:
Lol... See ehn.. I've not finished reading o but that your pastors covering and your fasting and prayers got me lol like crazy. Wonderful!

Hahahahaaaa... This guy wants to iniure me with laughter with his clear-rification.. you really want to be cleared off the parternity of that pregnancy. Lolzz..

Op, you're funny mehn.. you want to withdraw pregnancy? Heheheheeeee.. nothing one will not see on this NAIRALAND.

Now, it takes one to two weeks before pregnancy can show. So don't know how many days it took your girl to start manifesting preg signs. If it was immediately after sex, then it's possible she was already pregnant for someone else.

All the same, get prepared to double your hustle as a soon to be father. You are not too young to cater for a family since you're not too young to do the do. In fact I've seen a 17 yes old boy and girl get married after she fell pregnant for him and they became responsible adults overnight. So, congrats. And thanks for making me have a hearty laugh.

It showed a day after sex. I mean the bleeding.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

What a story line ! Am like unbelievable.
From the context you guys sound religious and yet this happen.. Lust is a bastard, fornications is terrible both to the body, soul and spirit.

You guys did alot of wrong, no doubt . I can't come and be saying things to you because I understand trauma you and her are going.


Because if you didn't, you better confess. Don't go an stress the pastor because you ask him to pray for headache instead of stomach ache. Sincerity and prayers works together.. The way out is for both of you to confess and ease your self those anxiety and your conscience. If not you won't ever skip this especially when you hear words like abortion, or a preaching on that, your thoughts will always flash back.

To answer your questions, am not a medical student neither a health student, but from ideas I have heard from people about pregnancy and research as well, I think the following.

1. Anxiety can never change change pregnancy test. Just grab that ASAP. If sickness can't change a pregnancy test then anxiety can't change anything. If the baby is there, just know the baby is there.

2. I don't know about that, let's wait for the Doctors.

3. Let's wait for the Doctors.


Sex is overrated in our society, let me stop here. But bro you no try at all !! Congratulations in advance.

Yes we told him what happened

Thanks bro I appreciate

jerry1234567890:
pregnancy cannot happen a day after unprotected sex. pregnancy take two or three week to start showing sign. Boy don't terminate something DAT is not urs. BT learn ur mistake

That's what I been thinking, this is too big for me to articulate

[quote author=SaintXto post=98835740]Ok let me tell you this: in a nutshell:
:It takes about 24 hours for a sperm cell to fertilize an egg. When the sperm penetrates the egg, the surface of the egg changes so that no other sperm can enter. At the moment of fertilization, the baby's genetic makeup is complete, including whether it's a boy or girl.

Pregnancy doesn't start the day you have sex — it can take up to six days after sex for the sperm and egg to join and form a fertilized egg. Then, it can take three to four days for the fertilized egg to completely implant itself in the lining of the uterus..

Nd according to you, she started having all those tantrums after a day right? Wrong! Not and can never be pregnancy!


[b][/b]





Now this;
You should wait to take a pregnancy test until the week after your missed period for the most accurate result. If you don't want to wait until you've missed your period, you should wait at least one to two weeks after you had sex. If you are pregnant, your body needs time to develop detectable levels of HCG.

Some women may notice symptoms as early as 5 DPO, although they won't know for certain that they are pregnant until much later. Early signs and symptoms include implantation bleeding or cramps, which can occur 5–6 days after the sperm fertilizes the egg. Other early symptoms include breast tenderness and mood changes.

Now it's highly could be an infection! Oh yeah..
Better advice, try and go for some checkups.

note;

Evaporation lines happen when the urine that was on the test area starts to dry. The chemical composition of the urine sample changes due to evaporation. As a result, the test may start to display a positive line. After the allotted time has passed, you should discard the pregnancy test to avoid confusion.

Some tests may be able to detect pregnancy hormones in urine as early as 10 days following unprotected sex, but the results are not very reliable, and women may get a false positive or false negative
test result.

[b][/b]We did test with test Trip but it showed negative, we then went to doctor and she said that it takes more than two weeks before it can be detected on test Trip.

yes exactly

You’re very stupid, you don’t know you’re still young when you’re following woman? Carry your cross and if you want to die go ahead

Sammmie022:
You’re very stupid, you don’t know you’re still young when you’re following woman? Carry your cross and if you want to die go ahead

Thanks
It's a temptation.

And some people do get tempted on their 18

Nazgul:
Congratulations on your incoming child. Since you've decided to gamble with your future for 5 minutes of pleasure, you should be prepared for the consequences.

Whether or not the child belongs to you, just know that she will definitely pin it down on you because you're obviously the weakest of all the guys she has had anything to do with.

You should know that by now you have to double up your Hussle cos that 20k in your account is peanuts compared to what she'll begin to demand from you in the coming weeks and months.

You can drop school and learn trade or brick layer job, anything at all to cater for your jobless pregnant wife and your adopted bastard child.

By the time life has finished dealing with you, your penis will be so scared to respond to the nakednédness of a woman.

Congratulations once again.

Thanks bro I've learnt a lesson.
But temptation is too powerful for a human being to control talk more of stop.

Stephenmoka4:
Nature will surely do her thing.
For now just remove suicidal thoughts, you've gotten two opposite pregnancy test results so, there is still probability that it's negative, if she was in her so called safe period.

She is a Christian, I think she will likely keep the child if she finds out she's pregnant.

This your situation sef. Person for Nairaland don talk say, no be everything be opportunity.

Thanks for your input

Honestlywwww:


Thanks
It's a temptation.

And some people do get tempted on their 18

You commit it with clear eyes , stop complaining and it’s a blessing Man up

Lol. So you actually sort your pastor's help to cover you with fasting and prayers? Will fasting and prayers abort the pregnancy (if she is actually pregnant) ? SMH

Honestlywwww:


It showed a day after sex. I mean the bleeding.

If it showed a day after sex then she was pregnant before meeting you and the drugs she made you buy for her attempted terminating the pregnancy hence the bleeding. You're are likely not to be the father.

Take her for proper pregnancy test at the hospital, let them tell you how old the pregnancy is. then calculate the date you met with her to see if it tallies.
This is how parternity fraud happens. She's trying to force a rejected pregnancy on you.

CalliDora1:


If it showed a day after sex then she was pregnant before meeting you and the drugs she made you buy for her attempted terminating the pregnancy hence the bleeding. You're are likely not to be the father.

Take her for proper pregnancy test at the hospital, let them tell you how old the pregnancy is. then calculate the date you met with her to see if it tallies.
This is how parternity fraud happens. She's trying to force a rejected pregnancy on you.

We went to another test in the hospital that detected positive today but they refuse to retake it we pleaded to them but they insisted that we should wait till 1 month.

And I began to wonder while pregnancy can't be detected after 13 days.

Then we entered to another hospital and it shows negative
I.e. Three negative results and 1 positive




Thank you so much
I appreciate your input