Kelblaq:
You're making me feel guilty and i don't like it

Please stop messing with my mental

Hokay

yommen:



Can you have intimate relationship with God without fellowship? NOOO!!! They both work together. You don't know what you typed actually!

Where was Jesus fellowshiping for 30 years of his life?
The Bible says he was not known by the Pharisees, Saducees and the rest.
Even John the baptist who was his cousin didn't know him.
Also John the baptist was directed to live in the wilderness, not fellowshipping.

While fellowship has it's pros and cons. It is not scripturally wrong not to fellowship. Even the verse that says do not forsake the gathering of saints was only stating how it can help provoke love. Not that it is compulsory.

Why the lamentations though?
You're both not compatible.
She wants a church goer and you don't fit into her spec.
Move on and go after someone else who doesnt mind a non church goer.
Be true to yourself and allow her be true to herself. Don't take it personal

[I don't she wants to associate with Satan :-

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

Cutiekatty:


U be Muslim? Or native doctor?

None of the above Sir.

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

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So? Dem born two of una together?
"For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out." - 1 Timothy 6:7

Suppose you were to get all the girlfriends you could ever want in this world, after that, then what?
"For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul?" - Mark 8:36

Please, seek your own salvation from the Lord JESUS CHRIST (as should we all)... salvation from wrath for sin!
"Nor is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.” - Acts 4:12

Peace!

She did the right thing by breaking up with you. You are not on the same page.

be like say u b bini boy.......church bro

Romanoff:
Instead of the girl to focus on whether you have an intimate relationship with God, she's bothered with you not going to church.

Church is a place where you'll find drunks, wife beaters, rapists, thieves, ritualists, fornicators and adulterers and Children of God in the same building claiming to be worshipping God, a God that many of them do not know.

May God epp us.

It's just a 4week friendship.
She made the decision on time when she realised he's not what she wants.
Some people enjoy going to church and would like their significant other to go with them.
Drunks, rapists, fornicators, ritualists etc are found in every religion and even in areligious people, so that's not a tenable excuse.
She alone knows why she wants a church goer and that's absolutely fine.
Other good qualities we strive for like integrity, honesty, loyalty, kindness, charity etc can also be found in church goers, mosque goers, traditionalists etc so one does not exclude the other

Good decision taken on time. Weldon to the lady.

I think the girl don't need satanic distraction, no one force you to go to church but next time look for a girl that belongs in your category they are everywhere.

Kelblaq:
None of the above Sir.

Then move on bro, let her go she is not for you. Yours will find u.

Akamariner:

See pastor, was that christ's script, or paul's.

So the bible and its writings are not the word of God abi...? Kwantinue to deceive yourself.

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

From already made man to already made Christian. Don't blame women. They were made from already made man.

Kudos to the lady for the bold step she took. Mr poster, are you a Christian? If yes, then why is going to church a big deal for you? I know some people will say Christianity has more to do with our heart than physical church, but is there a scriptural backing for that? Even Jesus attends service on Sabbath and same with his disciples after he left, not even only on Sabbath, but on every praying hours. If no, how then do you expect a true Christian to be in a relationship with a non-christian? I will never date a lady that doesn't go to church talk less of marrying her, and same thing applies to my unborn children, because it's iron that sharpen iron. You might just kill the spiritual growth of that young lady if she continues with you. An atheist once said " live as if there's God, if he truly exist, you will gain eternity. If not, you will have nothing to lose". Selah!

bros abeg go church joor church no dey kill person even do na once in a while

Don't mind dose dingbat type of girls

With their fish brains

Imagine a girl breaking up wit you because you are not a church goer

Stupid gal that know notin about religion

@womenareapes

olamoses75:
Kudos to the lady for the bold step she took. Mr poster, are you a Christian? If yes, then why is going to church a big deal for you? I know some people will say Christianity has more to do with our heart than physical church, but is there a scriptural backing for that? Even Jesus attends service on Sabbath and same with his disciples after he left, not even only on Sabbath, but on every praying hours. If no, how then do you expect a true Christian to be in a relationship with a non-christian? I will never date a lady that doesn't go to church talk less of marrying her, and same thing applies to my unborn children, because it's iron that sharpen iron. You might just kill the spiritual growth of that young lady if she continues with you. An atheist once said " live as if there's God, if he truly exist, you will gain eternity. If not, you will have nothing to lose". Selah!

Bros easy you are this church mentality that is why Africans are backwards

Go abroad you will discover that they are better than us in heart and doings ..they that have they Christainity

While you Africans that were forced religion upon

Is there carry my church for head

I pity una

Don't get the insults for the girl. She has her requirements. Bobo just failed one of them and she has moved on. Such is the life of dating. You find who meets most of your requirements and date. Shikena. I don't know why people are throwing hissy fits and insulting the chic. Is it a crime to have requirements?

I dated a Buddhist once. When she found out that I wouldn't stop eating meat, she left.

We meuveeee... That's her preference and it's not in line with yours.. meuveeee

Bro, she's not for you, that is the simple truth. Going to church is nt as bad as people painted it. After all, Jesus christ came for sinners... Nobody is perfect oo... beware of those saying 'na dem bad pass' it is just an excuse from hell. The salvation of your soul is very important to God. The choice is yours.. Jesus loves you.

Olosho dey force person go church
Wetin person no go see

Nigerian women are use...

It's girls like her that fall into the hands of pastors. She may be getting dickify by her pastor. You never can tell.

handsomeyitayo:
Hey bro look here, wos wobi..make she broke up with you, she that is going to church ,is she born again? Going to church doesn't guarantee heaven, she just want to hook you to impress you that she is born again and she is God fearing, wise up bro,
So you will not be suspecting her of anything she does, you will have in mind that my girl is God fearing...
Let me tell you, a girl that really loves won't do that to you...
When I was serving in Calabar, I have a girl I date then I'm redeem church ogoja, though am in a choir, I play saxophone, this so called girl is beautiful and pretty a nurse, I do see her teaching Sunday school, leading music, doing church chores,
Omo as a sharp guy, she collect my number, we start to talk and blsaaaa.
I don't know how we start fucking our selves, I Bleep her pkekus well,
If you see her in church she is so religious.
I called my mum that I have found a girl..
Thanks God I didn't take her home,
Meself I have overwhelmed with her love , without knowing she is dating someone near the church about to do introduction.
She denied it, I have to confront her, we fight over it..later she confess, I cursed her that day that if them born her well make she climb altar ,and if she climb altar she will see not see the glory of God..
She said nothing will happen to her, the next day I didn't see her in church, almost two months she didn't come to church..
I ask her colleague, she told me she is crying and can't sleep..the pastor of the church suspect something between us, the pastor summon her and she discussed what happened between us..
Even my choir director a banker , is a yoruba man like me also dating her, that one was shocked seeing me dating her,
The pastor was like why didn't I approach the church comitee for marriage if I need a sister..
They were angry that am dating her...
I later turn that curse to prayer for her because she kneel and beg me crying..
But the girl bleeps my friend corper , even fellowship association group leader ,I saw her director of fellowship love on her phone...
Don't trust anygirl please ..
You never marry her now, don't jump into love, be neutral..
Just be observing ..
Enjoy your life bro ..pray hard for God to give you your soul mate,
Don't be carried away by ladies impressing you...sogbo..
Don't mind my English...

so because you had a bad experience with a lady in church makes all bad ba?.. It's what you looked for in the church that you get, learn this an know peace, seek God and surely you will find him. Shallom..

Someone is about to loose a loving woman! May it never end in midnight Tears and by "Had I known. "Receive grace and go to church unless you're a traditionalist or batman!

BananaPeel:

It was not a church but a Christian she said. Can two work together, unless they agree.
She's right to have dumped you.

Where u there when she said it?

Actually

Shelumiel:
Bros do yourself a favor and go to church. There is no harm in doing it

[quote author=yommen post=98837351][/quote]

All you have typed up there is balderdash. If she forces him to go church successfully, she can force him to do more like joining a department and so on. Kudos to the lady cos she knows what she wants.


Someone was talking about going to heaven and u are talking about joining department in church & u say d person talking about heaven typed balderdash. I didn't no that joining a department in church is now greater than going to heaven

Kelblaq:
You won't understand Sir.

Guy she wants the best for you. Although not all church goers are Christians but going to church helps one to be a better person.

What do you mean you won't understand.

Explain to her why you couldn't go. If your reason is genuine and she is a reasonable Christian then, she should understand.

If she still insists she wants to go, then let her be. You are not meant to be together 'Cause you won't make a good couple.

One thing you should know also is that, it is bad for a Christian to abstain from church.
So try and change.

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

come to mummy I don't even belive in God talk more of

[Na wa o

quote author=handsomeyitayo post=98825023]Hey bro look here, wos wobi..make she broke up with you, she that is going to church ,is she born again? Going to church doesn't guarantee heaven, she just want to hook you to impress you that she is born again and she is God fearing, wise up bro,
So you will not be suspecting her of anything she does, you will have in mind that my girl is God fearing...
Let me tell you, a girl that really loves won't do that to you...
When I was serving in Calabar, I have a girl I date then I'm redeem church ogoja, though am in a choir, I play saxophone, this so called girl is beautiful and pretty a nurse, I do see her teaching Sunday school, leading music, doing church chores,
Omo as a sharp guy, she collect my number, we start to talk and blsaaaa.
I don't know how we start fucking our selves, I Bleep her pkekus well,
If you see her in church she is so religious.
I called my mum that I have found a girl..
Thanks God I didn't take her home,
Meself I have overwhelmed with her love , without knowing she is dating someone near the church about to do introduction.
She denied it, I have to confront her, we fight over it..later she confess, I cursed her that day that if them born her well make she climb altar ,and if she climb altar she will see not see the glory of God..
She said nothing will happen to her, the next day I didn't see her in church, almost two months she didn't come to church..
I ask her colleague, she told me she is crying and can't sleep..the pastor of the church suspect something between us, the pastor summon her and she discussed what happened between us..
Even my choir director a banker , is a yoruba man like me also dating her, that one was shocked seeing me dating her,
The pastor was like why didn't I approach the church comitee for marriage if I need a sister..
They were angry that am dating her...
I later turn that curse to prayer for her because she kneel and beg me crying..
But the girl bleeps my friend corper , even fellowship association group leader ,I saw her director of fellowship love on her phone...
Don't trust anygirl please ..
You never marry her now, don't jump into love, be neutral..
Just be observing ..
Enjoy your life bro ..pray hard for God to give you your soul mate,
Don't be carried away by ladies impressing you...sogbo..
Don't mind my English...[/quote]

Druss:
Don't get the insults for the girl. She has her requirements.

[/b]I dated a Buddhist once. When she found out that I wouldn't stop eating meat, she left.