Sixfeetbelle:


Which is why I want it to come out negative so the woman can know her crime when her husband's attitude changes towards her.

positive

Juliearth:




That she cheated on him twice doesn't make her a cheat. Nobody is above mistakes. Don't people make mistakes? Don't people change? Are you a saint? I cannot be in support of cheating spouses, but cut her some slack...

WTF , his wife is a fucking cheat in the past and she could still be . She cheated on him and that makes her a cheat.
Cheating once could be a mistake but cheating twice is not , are you telling me she trips and falls on dicks mistakenly.
In summary , if the op is saying the truth . Then his wife is cheat and that is what she is , there's no need to be economical with the truth .

Sixfeetbelle:


Which is why I want it to come out negative so the woman can know her crime when her husband's attitude changes towards her.

Op said she cheated on him twice before marriage

yanabasee1:
What is important isn't your marriage at this moment, but knowing what you have and what you don't have ..


You can still father any bastard child that will come out from the results...But your wife will be so humbled around you if you decide to keep the marriage as she wouldn't want to have you bring back her cheating stories before her....


I wish you the very best in the outcome of all of this....


You're a man to me and not a simp.....


I give you my respect....The boldness and the courage!

Trash

OlawaleBammie:
Reason why we men should do away with this whiye culture inculcated into religiosity.

As a man if u have the means, marry wives as much as possible, bible do not forbid it, dont let the white cajole u.

Even Jacob in the bible married two sisters so what are we sayin here??

Asirigbakute!!!

He married 2 sisters because he was manipulated to do so by the father in law.

He didn't plan to, he loved the second daughter but the father in law deceived him by giving him the first.

God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Eves

notok:

Op said she cheated on him twice before marriage

Before marriage, not after. But from his write up, I suspect he hasn't forgiven her for that. Oga carried grudge and enter marriage now poor children will have to bear the brunt of that grudge

IhateInjustice:


He married 2 sisters because he was manipulated to do so by the father in law.

He didn't plan to, he loved the second daughter but the father in law deceived him by giving him the first.

God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Eves

Explain Abraham and his wives or David who took concumbines.....Make una continue dey decieve una sef

Make i go do DNA. I no trust yemisi. Lol

banio:


Why spend #1 million for pregnancy DNA test. Why not wait until she delivers and spend #70K for the DNA. Aside that, one would have banged the pvvssy for free for 8 months until delivery.

Sense won't kill me

abi o but adding the delivery charges will make it more expensive so if she were to deliver in a private hospital lets say 200k plus other expenses plus the panic and worry so I believe the test now is economical for him lol

It’s like you’re high

Why not go and cut off your penîs

Aquilazng:
Since they stop cutting female clits this issue has become unbearably common in Nigeria
The worst is yet to come to be honest. Ladies don't have control any longer. Me self knows my first baby is not mine cos the lineage body sign isn't there. Also she didn't look like me but very smart wish i know she may take that after me cos me sef top up. But in all other clarity, the innocent beautiful damsel isn't mine but I am jealously taking care of her and never accused my wife of anything. After all, we had other two babies that are my copy with the lineage body signs.
My point is, we should learn to live with our new norm in this generation. I am sure the worst is yet to come.

Sixfeetbelle:


Before marriage, not after. But from his write up, I suspect he hasn't forgiven her for that. Oga carried grudge and enter marriage now poor children will have to bear the brunt of that grudge

haven't you heard of transferred babies.

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

how do I know when you update us because am interested in this issue, there's one mongering in our family now, if it happens and turn negative, it'll be disastrous because the child in question is already in jss1

please mention me in your new update

milann:
haven't you heard of transferred babies.

From where? I didn't read his other threads

During relationship and courtship ......If your girlfriend or Fiance loves sex a lot,Still chats his/her ex and do online chatting a lot (Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram and others).

Please it will be very risky to end up as husband and wife.

Sixfeetbelle:


Before marriage, not after. But from his write up, I suspect he hasn't forgiven her for that. Oga carried grudge and enter marriage now poor children will have to bear the brunt of that grudge

Yea
I blame op for whatever he's passing through right now . How could you marry someone that cheated not just once but twice , what was he thinking .

Sixfeetbelle:


Before marriage, not after. But from his write up, I suspect he hasn't forgiven her for that. Oga carried grudge and enter marriage now poor children will have to bear the brunt of that grudge

Op's wife should be happy that he's not a vindicative person

Sixfeetbelle:


From where? I didn't read his other threads

what if she got pregnant for her ex and decided push it to another man

We are waiting ,
@op trust me, it will surely end in tears

Thread from a man who has desperately wanted a second wife for so long.

Eaglesence:


You will be a happy man if you know how to forgive and make your mind up to be happy no matter what and incase it turns out unfavorably. The end of age is too close to start allowing pain, hatred, bitterness trample on your relationship with God. If you divorce her, remember that you cant remarry. Scripturally speaking. My 10kobo thought though.

You can divorce based on grounds of adultery , if op's kids aren't his then she's definitely cheating

nduchucks:
@OP, just remember that the poor and innocent children who have known you as their Dad all their lives could be damaged for ever by this selfish act of yours.

You are even talking about more than one child here.

Be careful how you treat those innocent children because they are God's children.

Any fool can donate a sperm for impregnation but only real men can be fathers. Be careful.

So OP is now selfish for asking for a dna test ?
Are you trying to blackmail him into raising kids that aren't his ?

Hmmmm

Mace0lane:
After messing your life away like olosho u expect every to accept any bastard your bring around like you husband in the name of letting dog lie.

I'm not the cause of your frustration so, you might as well face the other side. If you don't know how to talk objectively without insulting people then the joke is on you.

Little thing you lots will call women all sorts of names forgetting that men also father children outside marriage.
Please shift one side.

notok:

So OP is now selfish for asking for a dna test ?
Are you trying to blackmail him into raising kids that aren't his ?

Calm down and reread my post. Thereafter dispute specific aspects if you have the ability to do so.

Spreads mat, cross legs, sips palm wine.

Instead of paying that much why not just do one of those ancestry DNA things? Do it for yourself and your kids. It will show if you are related or not and costs about $70 or so.

@ OP You get time for nonsense .

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

You want me to cough out 1M for test abi

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

Bookmarked.

IhateInjustice:


He married 2 sisters because he was manipulated to do so by the father in law.

He didn't plan to, he loved the second daughter but the father in law deceived him by giving him the first.

He should have collected kamu, if it was a contemporary teachings pur pastors would say since the FIL manipulatively gave him the first daughter thereby he should hold onto her as that is what God wanted for him
See scamming


So are you telling me that Abram, Job, David, Solomon( Baba agbalagba...tuale o Baba ) didn't know that God created only Eve for Adam abi?? Why u no tell dem say na fish dey dey inside geisha

Naughtysex:
Why are you lonely?
I'm here to talk you out of depression, being depressed is not good

I'm money depressed.

Can you help?

nawa o, I hope the DNA test comes out favorable for you