thebosstrevor1:
so everything is about money.

for the men

If a girl gives a guy money, she is a good girl
if a girl does not give a guy money, she is a bad girl

for the women

if a guy gives a girl money, he is a nice guy
if a guy does not give a girl money, he is bad and selfish guy.

Typical Nigerian way of thinking, Good and bad behaviors are judge with money.

i do not know how you guys view relationships, but is relationship a place to get rich or siphon each other money.

blinking001:
Low standards...so because she assisted in paying your transport that automatically translates to her being a good woman? You think women do things for free? Stop deceiving yourself OP

Shelumiel:
OP this one is a friend and it is quite obvious you guys are not dating. Most Nigerian girls do not know how to conduct themselves and I stand to be corrected.

thebosstrevor1:
so everything is about money.

for the men

If a girl gives a guy money, she is a good girl
if a girl does not give a guy money, she is a bad girl

for the women

if a guy gives a girl money, he is a nice guy
if a guy does not give a girl money, he is bad and selfish guy.

Typical Nigerian way of thinking, Good and bad behaviors are judge with money.

i do not know how you guys view relationships, but is relationship a place to get rich or siphon each other money.

Mikester:


It doesn't matter. Their attitudes depends on how the guys relate with them. Attitude is based on how people treat us but our personality is who we are. There are good girls and bad girls. You attract the one similar to you.

Shelumiel:
OP, this girl seems good because both of you are familiar. For the love of God she even called you "brother "...! But that does not mean you should say she is good because she showed you love. Her real character is yet to come

Mikester:
She is a Nigerian by nationality but her personality is gold. Not every Nigerian girl is useless and unreasonably selfish.

Guys if you know how to relate with girls well, they will take care of you o. They're good lovers. I've different girls around me who hardly ask a dime but show me some love. I'm not too rich neither am I poor or broke but I got the looks, intelligence and empathy. (no narcissism).

Some of them even call me daddy and funny that I'm still a virgin

Mikester:



Everyone is capable of being good or bad to anyone but like I said, it all comes down to one thing - attitude.

A woman might be rude and selfish to one man and be excessively kind and gentle to another. It all depends on how they treat her. It depends on how they make her feel.

I'm not too nice to women neither am I too harsh. I don't chase people man or woman. I'm just myself and that brings the right people around me. So even if she's pretending, she won't have it easy as I'm very shrewd

She's a lady I know very well. Look at how we conversed. She hardly calls me bro. She calls me by my name all the time.

Chii59:

This especially. People always say "true character" anticipating that you pull of a mask and show off a Demon. How about the times you've been kind, caring, lending a shoulder, offering even to help total strangers, is that not "true character"? Very shallow reasoning.
We're all multilayered, even the simplest of us.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

I'm no rabbi but I know you are broke and frustrated .

Naijahops:
Nigerian girls are heartless. Believe me.

lkillbrokehoes:
Not the broke zzor and her likes, if she's still single go for her, she will make a good wife unlike the jobless waste I mentioned earlier.

TruthHurts1:
Zzor don chop am for NL But seriously she can't be that bad. Is she one of those Chimamanda feminists?

lkillbrokehoes:
She's not only bad but a terrible and jobless liar!

Ayo2004:
Mosdii will be very annoyed with this thread

TruthHurts1:
Zzor don chop am for NL But seriously she can't be that bad. Is she one of those Chimamanda feminists?