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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Farki: 8:12pm On Feb 14, 2021
Vizconson:
Virgin people are more likely to have a successful marriage than non-virgins. Little wonder there are so many divorce and unhappy marriages in this day and age.

All I get from this graph is that women are miserable no matter what they do

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by harmony75: 8:13pm On Feb 14, 2021
thanks for sharing the truth is there's always a regret after that 5min so called enjoyment it's not worth the regrets � the Lord will give you grace keep yourself, repent from fornication and other sins. Jesus loves you that's why He died for you so be Wise ���

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by t2luv1: 8:17pm On Feb 14, 2021
adonnii:
Though it wouldn't suffice for me, because I would rather have glorified
God with my virginity as I believe God deserves everything, so to have
deprived Him of that, is something I would ever regret.

Are you serious !!!! Please tell me how you would have planned to Glorified God with your Virginity I am curious.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Stephenmoka4(m): 8:18pm On Feb 14, 2021
Many don't care anymore

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by McLizbae: 8:18pm On Feb 14, 2021
Religious and cultural believes aside, it made common and academic sense, its also logically straight to say: virginity till marriage reduce infidelity to the bearest minimum.

Simply put, if you couldn't or didn't sleep around when you were single, free and unbridled, it becomes almost impossible for you when you are married, restricted and guided. Again, the fruit you refused to eat when free for all (you are single), will most unlikely be your choice when it's forbidden (you are married).

Just like the saying goes: "smokers are liable to die young" but people still choose to smoke, and many die young due to smoking, the choice is simply yours.

So if you think you care, and you are prepared to do things humanly possible to reduce chances of infidelity in your marriage in the future, one of the big prices to pay now is to stay virgin or avoid sleeping around by every possible means. Then, you have to try your very best to end up with a partner who also have same virginity idea as yours. Ire o!

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Splitmind: 8:18pm On Feb 14, 2021
IgboWarlord:
Looking for virgins of sexually active age in Nigeria is like looking for Gonorhea in a convent in The Vatican..

Many religious engage in sexual activities undercover, either with each other or some of their flock

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by t2luv1: 8:19pm On Feb 14, 2021
Edobabe20:

Says who?

I table $300 if you can prove you are one.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by t2luv1: 8:25pm On Feb 14, 2021
OmovuduTheBeast:
America, Europe and Asia are advancing in science and technology but here we are, still dwelling on useless issues such as virginity!
Backward country, backward continent!

Sorry to inform you about this. Prostitution account for 1% of state on Nevada revenue. In real number you talking over $4 Billion, and this is just receipt on the regulated side. Imagine the unregulated number.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Splitmind: 8:44pm On Feb 14, 2021
McLizbae:
Religious and cultural believes aside, it made common and academic sense, it's also logically straight to say: virginity till marriage reduce infidelity to the bearest minimum.

Simply put, if you couldn't or didn't sleep around when you were single, free and unbridled, it's becomes almost impossible for you when you are married, restricted and guided. Again, the fruit you refused to eat when free for all (you are single), will most unlikely be your choice when it's forbidden (you are married).

Just like the saying goes: "smokers are liable to die young" but people still choose to smoke, and many die young due to smoking, the choice is simply yours.

So if you think you care, and you are prepared to do things humanly possible to reduce chances of infidelity in your marriage in the future, one of the big prices to pay now is to stay virgin or avoid sleeping around by every possible mean. Then, you have to try your very best to end up with a partner who also have same virginity idea as yours. Ire o!

This is a selection bias, people who had no interest or ability to have sex with whoever they wanted when younger would be more likely to enter marriage as virgins.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Shabaleo19: 8:53pm On Feb 14, 2021
jmoore:


1. I am a bachelor and still a virgin.

2. The topic is posted under religion. The Bible instructs that sex is for only married couples.
Oga you just said you were doing every other thing, don't decieve yourself, you are nowhere near Virgin.
Once you don't jump around from one lady to another, you are good to go
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by bigjackass: 9:02pm On Feb 14, 2021
nonsense. when God start paralysing rapists before they violate their victims then we will know he's serious
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by JesMoh: 9:06pm On Feb 14, 2021
phyya:

How much is the bundle?
40 pere
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by 001spice: 9:09pm On Feb 14, 2021
This will sound to many unmarried gals like it even a sin not to ave sex atleast once a month
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by AntiNigerian: 9:10pm On Feb 14, 2021
slimshady1000:
I live in Norway, and virtually everyone above 18 here are not virgin but we live a fulfilled and happy lives...
takk din store Gud!
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by 001spice: 9:11pm On Feb 14, 2021
This will sound to many unmarried like it even a sin not to atleast have sex once a month
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Nobody: 9:26pm On Feb 14, 2021
OmovuduTheBeast:
America, Europe and Asia are advancing in science and technology but here we are, still dwelling on useless issues such as virginity!
Backward country, backward continent!

That why it wasn't posted in the science and technology section nah. Have you lost your virginty? grin
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Wolfeye: 9:27pm On Feb 14, 2021
Donald Trump is more succesful than anybody in your generation will ever be.
He is a premarital fvcker.
Kim kardashian’s lineage is already more succesful than that of the richest man in your country’s history and she is a premarital fvcker
You the virgins of Nigeria are begging billgates for stipends to help your poverty stricken villages with common mosquito net but he is a premarital fvcker.
Nelson Mandela is greater than any and everything that has ever come out of Nigeria, he is a premarital fvcker.
Phoolish cvnts who have achieved nothing with their life forming linesman for sex.
Get a job or a life. The world has moved far beyond this rubbish.
In your so called dirty succesful marriage you don’t even have 10 hrs light in retarded household. Instead of thinking of productive things to do with your time to advance society you are here writing rubbish.
Your fathers and mothers that claimed they married as virgins look at the arrant rubbish they handed over to you as a society.


Retar.ds
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Wolfeye: 9:27pm On Feb 14, 2021
Dinho20:
BE CAREFUL WHO IS SLEEPING WITH YOU:

THE PERSON THAT IS HAVING SEX WITH YOU; DO YOU KNOW THAT PERSON VERY WELL? EVEN IF YOU KNOW THE PERSON PHYSICALLY; DO YOU KNOW THAT PERSON SPIRITUALLY?
BIBLE, ACCORDING TO HOSEA 4:6 SAYS, "MY PEOPLE ARE DESTROYED FOR LACK OF KNOWLEDGE."
IF YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS A SATANIC MARK, YOU ARE FINISHED/DOOMED, YOU HAVE NOT ONLY BEEN DEFILED BOTH PHYSICALLY AND SPIRITUALLY, YOU HAVE ALSO BEEN CONTAMINATED WITH DEVILISH AND DEMONIC BADASS

A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE...!!!

Moomoo
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Wolfeye: 9:28pm On Feb 14, 2021
t2luv1:


Sorry to inform you about this. Prostitution account for 1% of state on Nevada revenue. In real number you talking over $4 Billion, and this is just receipt on the regulated side. Imagine the unregulated number.

What rubbish is this? Of what use is this information?
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Nobody: 9:30pm On Feb 14, 2021
VIRGINITY TALK DEY ALWAYS GIVE LADIES HEADACHE. I DEY ALWAYS WONDER WHY? cheesy
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Wolfeye: 9:31pm On Feb 14, 2021
McLizbae:
Religious and cultural believes aside, it made common and academic sense, it's also logically straight to say: virginity till marriage reduce infidelity to the bearest minimum.

Simply put, if you couldn't or didn't sleep around when you were single, free and unbridled, it's becomes almost impossible for you when you are married, restricted and guided. Again, the fruit you refused to eat when free for all (you are single), will most unlikely be your choice when it's forbidden (you are married).

Just like the saying goes: "smokers are liable to die young" but people still choose to smoke, and many die young due to smoking, the choice is simply yours.

So if you think you care, and you are prepared to do things humanly possible to reduce chances of infidelity in your marriage in the future, one of the big prices to pay now is to stay virgin or avoid sleeping around by every possible mean. Then, you have to try your very best to end up with a partner who also have same virginity idea as yours. Ire o!

Moomoo. When rapists come they will separate virgins and rape non virgins abi?
There is nothing in this dirty world that being a virgin saves you from.
You people are just retards. Who gave you internet. Spits.

If you sleep around THEN WHAT!?? what does it change under the sun? How does it change humanity. You will neither be the first nor the last so wtf is this crap. Don’t you have better things to do with your miserable life?

Everyday who is fvcking and who is not fvcking.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Nobody: 9:32pm On Feb 14, 2021
Edobabe20:

Says who?

grin edobabe20 is still a virgin? undecided Are you truely from Edo?
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Wolfeye: 9:34pm On Feb 14, 2021
jmoore:
Virginity till marriage.

If they say "Will virginity guarantee a successful marriage"? Ask them if BOREHOLE will guarantee a successful marriage.

Retar.dead comment.
If you like be a virgin once children start dropping that rubbish will STILL turn to a borehole.
Your mothers have boreholes that’s why your fathers can up and leave the house whenever they choose.
So what’s the point?
After screaming virgin one day you will still be a borehole.

All this rubbish talk na result of primitivity.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Vizconson(m): 10:17pm On Feb 14, 2021
McLizbae:


Thanks op, I love factual and academic analyses.
U're welcome

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by dollynnn(f): 10:19pm On Feb 14, 2021
[quote author=thebosstrevor1 post=99065331]Real devoted love is between 2 virgins, i believe that is what the creator made sex all about.

Many romance suicide will have been avoided if male and female would have kept themselves till marriage.

When a man is a virgin he gives his devoted time to his lover likewise a woman, the dedication is pure and undiluted.

The reason why there are too much mistrust in relationship is because of sex before marriage. Sex is a powerful tool that if a man or a woman who is a virgin goes after a partner who is not, they love with all their heart, until the trust is broken and then they go to a state of depression which might sometimes lead to suicide.

When you look at the world and see the big picture, you will see that sex before marriage have destroyed the world and created a system where people hardly love because they are trying to protect themselves from being hurt or being deceived.

Imagine a world where everyone marries as virgins, I believe many relationship issues like cheating and mistrust will be non existence. Real undiluted and dedicated love will reign, parents will produce healthy children, there will no baggages from past relationship, no hearbreaks, many people will have a more stable lives, no mental health issues, no baby mama and baby father issues, society will be more trustful of each other,many people will be psychologically fit and this will help to create a more balanced and healthy society.[/quo
words of wisdom

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by SAMIexx: 10:31pm On Feb 14, 2021
Huh so touching sad
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by iCauseTrouble: 10:36pm On Feb 14, 2021
Borehole dey form virgin.... Oangolo grin
Edobabe20:

Shh I don't need your 100k ,the honour I'm gonna receive from my husband and the love of Christ is enough for me my dear
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by jesusjnr2020(m): 10:37pm On Feb 14, 2021
ezenwaforj:

U are absolutely right because I have experienced such but I never fell for it
Wow! That's great. I thank God for your life.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by FKMagazine(m): 11:03pm On Feb 14, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're Yet A Sinner

It's because it's the only thing you could lose to the devil that you can never recover even if you repent and become saved. Therefore try not to lose it so that you don't regret it when you eventually come to repentance and become saved like I did.

It was a lesson i came to learn the hard way, because even while I was yet a sinner, I had a feeling that God was trying to prevent me from making that irreversible mistake after observing certain obvious indicators and patterns concerning my life. I was a kind of ladies man whom the ladies themselves even called a "lover boy". And I had some womanizers as friends including my best friend who at the time who was known as a "bad boy" so to speak, that some even wondered what i was doing with such a person, a times warning me to cut off from him.

Yet for some strange reason, whenever I tried to have sex, something somehow would just spoil it. The first girlfriend I had while I was still a teenager was fully willing to yield herself to me, and we were that close to having sex. But somehow after attempting it once without succeeding, since she was still a virgin just as I was, I just lost interest all of a sudden as i stopped being attracted to her, and that usually happens after someone, especially males, have had sexual intercourse with the opposite sex, not beforehand.

I couldn't really understand what went right then (not wrong), but not long after that the relationship was over, as i just didn't feel like continuing with her even though It wasn't because i had already "used" her as some would say since I hadn't slept with her yet.

That wouldn't deter me though, as i continued to try my luck, but that was how one thing or another would keep wrecking my plans, so when my friends would be speaking about their sexual experiences and how sweet sex was, I had none of such experiences to share which often leads some of them reproaching me.

Moreover i had a girlfriend at the time which my friends knew of, but I was still a virgin because she wasn't willing to let me have that thing I so craved for at the time. She would allow everything else but not that. I tried everything I could because it was becoming embarrassing for me. How could i be the only one of all my friends who had a girlfriend that wouldn't want her guy to have sex with her "for crying out loud"!?

So it soon became a matter of her letting me have sex with her or we called it quits, because i thought there was no point in having a girlfriend and yet one wouldn't be able to have sex. That led to us splitting on several occasions especially for this reason.

At some point though it began to dawn on that God was behind such difficulties I was facing at the time to have sex, because it just didn't seem normal at all. But for some reason I didn't take that seriously as I still kept pushing regardless.

So yes, eventually i got to have what I so craved when the same girl finally succumbed, but It was over in just a few minutes, how many, i can't remember now but that was it. My virginity had become history.

To be honest, it was quite disappointing to say the least, even though I feigned satisfaction, it didn't really seem to be worth all the fuss. I was expecting for heaven to come down but it didn't, lol. It seem I was actually the one that was brought right down back to Earth.

That was how it finally happened though, but it wasn't long afterwards that I repented and got saved. It was that close. And the way I started on that journey, it was as if I had been waiting for that moment my whole life, because I started like a house on fire.

It wasn't long afterwards, that I began to walk at the level of the Spirit where it was all about God. A lot of things were happening at the time that made it very obvious that God was going to use me to a rare degree, and one area in that respect was that of addressing the issue of sexual immorality.

I soon realized though that my virginity was meant to be a part of that plan, as God intended to use it to His own glory. To serve as an example and to inspire many to do likewise. But unfortunately I no longer had that even though I was now saved, because I had already used it to the glory of the devil, and I came to realize that I could never get that back from him despite being saved.

It was then it became clearer to me why God had done all He could to prevent me from losing my virginity even while I was still a sinner, but since I wasn't willing despite that it became glaring that He was behind the difficulty I encountered at the time, He had no choice but to leave me to my carnal desires.

And it wasn't long before I got saved, It was that close. The fact that I couldn't use it to the glory of God as it was meant to be despite that i was saved filled me with so much regret, even though i'm still going to be used mightily by God. And that is a regret I'm going to live with for the rest of my life.

It's a regret that is going to be useful to keep me on my toes, since I couldn't give that to God, it's going to serve as a motivation to ensure that God loses nothing else in my life. It makes me feel indebted to God and to do everything I could to make it up to Him, so that even if I couldn't use it to glorify God, I would do everything I could, God helping me, to ensure I do my part to help as many as possible that would have given their virginity to the devil to use it to glorify God.

Though it wouldn't suffice for me, because I would rather have glorified God with my virginity as I believe God deserves everything, so to have deprived Him of that, is something I would ever regret.

I really wish that someone had shared this message with me while I was still a sinner, I know it would have been a very different story today, and i wouldn't have such regret when I became saved, because I was that close.

That's why I'm sharing this today for those who need to know this even though they're yet living in sin, so that when they become saved, they don't have the same regrets I have for not being able to glorify God with my virginity even though I'm now saved.

God bless.



Interesting piece

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by shegun4sur: 11:41pm On Feb 14, 2021
Vizconson:
Virgin people are more likely to have a successful marriage than non-virgins. Little wonder there are so many divorce and unhappy marriages in this day and age.


Big lie.
Virginity or not has nothing to do with divorce
Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by Vizconson(m): 12:14am On Feb 15, 2021
shegun4sur:



Big lie.
Virginity or not has nothing to do with divorce
Alright

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Lose Your Virginity To Premarital Sex Even If You're A Sinner by t2luv1: 4:00am On Feb 15, 2021
Wolfeye:


What rubbish is this? Of what use is this information?

Why the F*ck were you reading the post. It wasn't directly addressed to you. We are on a social platform if you find my post offensive partner just move on to the next post in the thread. Tell yaa some people tends to wake up on the wrong side of the bed every freaking day.

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