I decided to create this thread to seek advice and opinions on the said issue. Please pardon my typos and poor construction and it's a bit lengthy. Straight up…

I actually met Diva (not real name) in one of the NYSC Camp I am not a Corp member I went as an official. I wasn’t married likewise she but we both have serious relationships which we opened up to each other during the course of our discussion. We didn’t ask each other out but emotions grew and we had to tell each other the truth “WE ARE IN LOVE”.

The love grew so strong that we hardly stay a second without talking to each other except we are asleep. We’re always chatting and calling each other, everything had to be on low key as it is not ideal for an official to have stuff with a Corp member. She told her guy about me while still in camp that am a friend but we were already lovers.

She was to relocate to the state where her bf and family resides so our arrangement was that on the day of passing out from camp she will be with me and travel the next day because all the while it has been difficult coming close to each other in camp. If it were to be between corp members we know stuffs happen but ours is a different case coupled with the fact that I am a very shy person.

Diva spent that day and the night with me and the next day she said she don’t feel like leaving and she decided to stay that very day again and had to force herself to travel the third day all because we have become very fond of each other that letting the other go is hard. She eventually travelled and after two or three weeks she relocated back to the state I am based and her PPA was close to my place. One thing led to the other and she had to stay with me throughout the service year.

My woman was staying in a very far state from mine and within the year I travelled twice to see her and Diva travelled for like five to six times as well. The Bf also came around to visit her in my place though he didn’t sleep in my place he lodged in a close by hotel. He was already feeling insecure but she kept telling him there is nothing going on between us. Diva already loved me so much that she’s already thinking of leaving her relationship. I also broke up with my woman due to reason best known to me.

Within this service year we lived like husband and wife and it was an experience we can only wish never come to an end. Two weeks to passing out when the date was announced Diva started crying and keep wishing everything doesn’t end but then there’s time to start and end, I wasn’t happy either but as a man I had to bear. She had to stay a week after POP but then she will still leave on it happened amidst tears.

She was actually living with this her bf before she came to camp and will be returning to him also. Now the problem is that, she claims she finds comfort and happiness with me and it’s me she wants to settle with but then she keeps saying all these while still living with the other guy. I love her but each time I remember she’s staying with the guy I feel bad. I have told her to make up her mind on who she wants and let one of us go but she keep insisting she is waiting for God’s will. She is actually a nice lady she has supported in so many occasions which I have reciprocated and done even more. I have decided to cut off from her because it sounds stupid for me to be waiting for her to leave the other guy which has been her promises. Please NL help me look into this matter and advice if stuffs like this really happens its confusing to me as I have not been able to look elsewhere because it seems I feel attached to her already while she is living comfortably with another. Even today she still said I occupy a special part in her heart please help me am I making a wrong decision

A month after parting she still sought way and came down to my place and stayed with me for a month, mhen I don't even know.

Go and look for your own woman Bro.

Very stupid matter

Oga grow sense & go look for another single lady wey no dey confused. Na so una go dey complicate una lives with una own hands. Nonsense

One question. Did you Bleep her?

op, learn to summarize because people don't have luxury of time to read a long epistle for that fact especially at its relate to ladies.
for your information, I only read the title when I saw that the content was more

AntiWailer:
Go and look for your own woman Bro.

Ok Sir

Things dey happen for this contri



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bro I've been in this same exact situation b4 and she said exactly the same thing this lady is telling you, believe me it ended in premium tears.she will never leave that guy. A lady who wasn't loyal to her guy,how do you expect her to be loyal to you? bro wake up,there's a difference between reality and fantasy. let her go and focus on finding your own. As my village people always say, "YOUR OWN NA YOUR OWN".

Which type of thunder do you want us to prepare and keep for you? You are cheating with someone else girlfriend and you are here looking for advise? A girl that can cheat on another man with you will equally cheat on you with another man.
You are not wise.

She is using you to catch cruise. She is staying with you to reduce her cost of serving. She is using you. She will definitely go back to that guy.

op we should help you do what exactly?

InfernoNig:
One question. Did you Bleep her?

Bad boy

Grabezz:


Bad boy

. That's how I roll

AntiWailer:
Go and look for your own woman Bro.

Don't mind him.


After he as thoroughly used the lady for a whole one year, he was simply finding a way to keep chopping ni!


Nah Infatuation Pro Max cause this mess

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InfernoNig:


. That's how I roll

Angelacruz:
premium tears awaiting...

Who is the cryer and the cryee

decatalyst:


Don't mind him.


After he as thoroughly used the lady for a whole one year, he was simply finding a way to keep chopping ni!


Nah Infatuation Pro Max cause this mess

No vex Sir, a month after POP she insisted she wants to visit I couldn't decline and she stayed a month before going back, it's not always me wanting as I never intended it gets this far from the beginning.

If you want to scatter woman's brain and give her chronic hypertension, give her two boyfriends, a simpish rich one with P8 in bedmatics and an alpha penniless one with advanced degree in bedmatics. The poor woman will become schizophrenic before very long.

An average woman, whether Nigerian or not finds it difficult to make a decision in this kinda situation, if you hound her about making decisions, you are going to turn her off and she's going to have a rethink, just keep doing what makes her like you

Tajbol4splend:
An average woman, whether Nigerian or not finds it difficult to make a decision in this kinda situation, if you hound her about making decisions, you are going to turn her off and she's going to have a rethink, just keep doing what makes her like you

Hmmmmm

this guy is a big fool. never be confused with a woman who is cheating. it's a wrong code.

a cheat is a cheat. she is only using you to weigh her options.

she is telling you the same thing she told the other guy. and
after everything trust me even if you marry this girl. she will end up continue to fu..ck the other guy. and probably bring bastard child to you.

so before it happens always be the bad guy.

fineboynl:
this guy is a big fool. never be confused with a women who is cheating. it's a wrong code.

a cheat is a cheat. she is only using you to weigh are options.

after trust me even if you marry this girl. she will end up continue to fu..ck the other guy. and probably bring bastard child to you.

so before it happens always be the bad guy.

You don't necessarily need to insult, you have a good point. Thanks anyway

Now!



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.Simply bcoz Oga OP is an Arindin Oponu

Leave anods guy babe nah if u eventually have her now, what makes you think she's gonna be loyal to you? See any girl wen dey ontop of ur dick dey receive e boyfriend call dey lie Bros forget that girl.

Some people are actually very lucky to have little things like these as problems

My brother OP you no get bills to pay? Mine's killing me

Menh.
Reading this piece of shit you wrote here annoys me ..
Like. WTF
YOU ARE FUCKING ANOTHER MAN'S GIRL FRIEND AND STILL HAVE THR GUTS TO COMR HERE AND... DAMN..

I NOW FINALLY BELIEVE THOSE THAT USED TO SAY NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE USELESS.. [b][/b]

Both

Grabezz:

Who is the cryer and the cryee

tunize:
Leave anods guy babe nah if u eventually have her now, what makes you think she's gonna be loyal to you? See any girl wen dey ontop of ur dick dey receive e boyfriend call dey lie Bros forget that girl.

Hmm

NnamdiN:
Some people are actually very lucky to have little things like these as problems

My brother OP you no get bills to pay? Mine's killing me

It's well