Made619:
bro I've been in this same exact situation b4 and she said exactly the same thing this lady is telling you, believe me it ended in premium tears.she will never leave that guy. A lady who wasn't loyal to her guy,how do you expect her to be loyal to you? bro wake up,there's a difference between reality and fantasy. let her go and focus on finding your own. As my village people always say, "YOUR OWN NA YOUR OWN".

Thanks Sir

Angelacruz:
Both

Noted

Nigerian women are useless true true. They are always neither here nor there toying with the hearts of simps. How can sane boyfriend be comfortable with her girlfriend living with another man. Both men are foolish simps.

Preposterous!

Tomorrow you'll start running from one lab to the other for DNA test.

You have a woman, it's that one that is whoring around and living with any man she sees that you want to die on top. That is why I don't pity you men anylonger because you always bring problems upon yourselves with your eyes wide open.

Marry her.

So let me get something straight, you broke up with the woman you had back then for this one that doesn't know her left from her right and is busy giving you false hope like Buhari's promises. I swear to give you better backhand slap dey hungry me right now.

Grabezz:

My guy, you've done some blunders.

There are four stages to a relationship

1. Admiration
2. Friendship
3. Dating/courting
4. Marriage

You admired the lady first and became emotional about it, you were willing to compromise your fidelity to the previous relationship just to be with her. Your decisions at that time were highly emotionally based, and that's a faulty foundation to build a lasting relationship, even though both of you were honest to each other, yet deception to your respective mates thrived during your escapades.

There's something called the in love syndrome, where you are emotionally attached to someone with the feeling of love towards that person without an assertions to their faults, short comings and red flags. Hence your precarious situation.

Naturally if you both had a thing for each other and wanted to be with each other really, you would end things first, then begin to build on a new template. One could infer that infatuation was the basis for this relationship.

To the matter at hand - you would have to decide what you want, a wife or something else. If a wife then you give the lady specific time atmost three months to get back to you on your standing with her, desist from communicating with her deeply (e get why) and keep your conversations brief and straight to the point, so that you don't get emotionally tangled to her, if she cannot make up her mind then. Block her number and delete it, and move on with your life, it will be difficult but it can be done.

Sincerely take 6 months off relationship and just heal my brother, read up good relationship books and about life just to gain balance and dexterity on how to handle yourself through life.

Most importantly love God and serve him, Satan do send wasters of destiny, your love life with God will help you big time in the things you cannot see.

Nonexistent:
Nigerian women are useless true true. They are always neither here nor there toying with the hearts of simps. How can sane boyfriend be comfortable with her girlfriend living with another man. Both men are foolish simps.

CalliDora1:
Preposterous!

Tomorrow you'll start running from one lab to the other for DNA test.

You have a woman, it's that one that is whoring around and living with any man she sees that you want to die on top. That is why I don't pity you men anylonger because you always bring problems upon yourselves with your eyes wide open.

Marry her.

Kirkman:
So let me get something straight, you broke up with the woman you had back then for this one that doesn't know her left from her right and is busy giving you false hope like Buhari's promises. I swear to give you better backhand slap dey hungry me right now.

no vex please no give me backhand I beg you

Yusufisraelj:


My guy, you've done some blunders.

There are four stages to a relationship

1. Admiration
2. Friendship
3. Dating/courting
4. Marriage

You admired the lady first and became emotional about it, you were willing to compromise your fidelity to the previous relationship just to be with her. Your decisions at that time were highly emotionally based, and that's a faulty foundation to build a lasting relationship, even though both of you were honest to each other, yet deception to your respective mates thrived during your escapades.

There's something called the in love syndrome, where you are emotionally attached to someone with the feeling of love towards that person without an assertions to their faults, short comings and red flags. Hence your precarious situation.

Naturally if you both had a thing for each other and wanted to be with each other really, you would end things first, then begin to build on a new template. One could infer that infatuation was the basis for this relationship.

To the matter at hand - you would have to decide what you want, a wife or something else. If a wife then you give the lady specific time atmost three months to get back to you on your standing with her, desist from communicating with her deeply (e get why) and keep your conversations brief and straight to the point, so that you don't get emotionally tangled to her, if she cannot make up her mind then. Block her number and delete it, and move on with your life, it will be difficult but it can be done.

Sincerely take 6 months off relationship and just heal my brother, read up good relationship books and about life just to gain balance and dexterity on how to handle yourself through life.

Most importantly love God and serve him, Satan do send wasters of destiny, your love life with God will help you big time in the things you cannot see.

Thanks Sir, you've said it all I appreciate your time and comment, more wisdom Sir.

Grabezz:



no vex please no give me backhand I beg you

Yusufisraelj has said it all, there is nothing else more to be said. If I were you I would listen to his piece of advice. By the way is there a way to go back to your Ex and ask her for forgiveness?

Kirkman:

Yusufisraelj has said it all, there is nothing else more to be said. If I were you I would listen to his piece of advice. By the way is there a way to go back to your Ex and ask her for forgiveness?

I didn't actually leave my ex cos of these lady oo, I actually started taking this one serious when I broke up with my Ex for reasons worth leaving she didn't cheat no misbehavior but it was for good. It's well. Thanks Bro

Grabezz:




Thanks Sir, you've said it all I appreciate your time and comment, more wisdom Sir.

Amen thank you. God bless

Lol bro you are a back up boyfriend. If she's serious about wanting to be with you, she would have broken up with her main guy already. How old is she tho?

LadyTiannah2:
Lol bro you are a back up boyfriend. If she's serious about wanting to be with you, she would have broken up with her main guy already. How old is she tho?

she's 27 oo

It's well

Some people can be funny, someone just copied this whole post and attached some stupid video to it. What it means I don't even know.

Hmmmmm things are happening