The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

First of all, what are your ages? This love me more or less you're talking about, her actions (care, affection, trust, commitment) should have spoken louder than her voice.

My people will say

"A man who wants to live long must marry a woman that loves him more. Make the mistake of loving you wife more than she loves you, you will die 20years before your time".


My people have spoken.

Peace.

It's just purely fear of the unknown.She is being cautious but she was a way too blunt, pardon her She will grow in love if she sees you are for real,Las las, na her go love you pass

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

Someone is telling you she doesn’t love you and you still want to go ahead and marry her?
Bros, women plenty oh.
U must not marry this one.

May it not end in DNA paternity wahalla/ tears for you.
Run while you can biko.

Op make her love you more.simple

Which advice are you looking for? That statement alone is a big turnoff.

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

She's just down to earth. No 50-50 love in a relationship, one partner must love more and it doesn't mean that the relationship won't be successful cos there are other factors to consider like patience, trust, respect etc

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

She's very matured and she simply told you the plain truth... why do you hate hearing the truth. She never said she doesn't love you. She never said she doesn't want to marry you, why are you then troubling yourself and troubling us biko?

TRUTH OF THE matter is that you cant control how deep in love you fall with someone. some people just have that charisma and good sex that make women fall deep in love and so what is happening here is that she was more in love with her ex because there was something about him that was shacking her and she couldnt control the love she had for him which surpassed the one he had for her but the fact that she can control the fact that she does not want to love yu more than you love her means there is nothing about you that is shacking her. am afraid to say you dont rock her world. but this can be a good thing because women who are deeply in love are crazy and so your woman not been in love with you means she will act rational at all times although you will notice she gets angry a lot. because someone who you dont love will get on your nerves easily lol

Hmmm

Rape her she would love you the most.

So men still get married this days..is obvious your soon to be wife will easily cheat on you with her ex. Saying you love her more, simply means she doesn't respect you, and since women can't love will dispose of you if you go broke. But as a simp you are, this is not a problem, you don't mind and will gladly cuckold..

okay

That's childish talk

I honestly won't say that to the guy I want to marry cause I won't want him to think the way you are doing now. But then, she didn't say she doesn't love you, she just said you love her more, which may even be untrue. Some people love deeply but a bad experience will make them hold back, I think she is intentionally holding back cause of her past experience. Don't over think it

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Facts remains no matter good a relationship is, no two partners can love themselves equally. One will always love the other more, but the greatest mistake any man on earth and beyond can ever do is to marry a woman whom he loves her more than she does him.

If you are not a simp and you call her more than she calls you, there's a problem.
If you crave for her than she does for you, there's a problem.

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

If you really want qualitative input, list those things she does that makes you doubt her love for you. Love is a reflex action, forget words, judge her actions. over time

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

Na Big Red Flag Oooooooo prepare your sef now for what is to come

If your love use to be 100 reduce it to 25%

Two faced people, give her some days off. Let's see whether she will reach out

InfernoNig:
My people will say

"A man who wants to live long must marry a woman that loves him more. Make the mistake of loving you wife more than she loves you, you will die 20years before your time".


My people have spoken.

Peace.

Your people are talking nonsense.
End!

Lol

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

She needs therapy........ No go carry puppy, wey go turn lioness........

OK