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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Soulrebel2(m): 4:30am On Feb 17, 2021
Junnior:

I am not disputing anything you've said here.

In your previous post, you said, in other words, that you shouldn't allow your woman to be fully financially independent because of hypergamy. You said it would ruin you.
This is what I don't agree to. And whether you admit it or not, you're being insecure. You're looking at another person's success when you should be focusing on yours. You're more likely to be an oppressor, not even an authoritarian.
The redpill teaches one to focus on oneself, not on others. You shouldn't be trying to hinder your woman from achieving financial independence. Instead, you should work on yourself to become the alpha male every woman would want.
By the way, it's not always about money. She can be richer and still stay in line because of your alpha status -- true alpha status, not wannabe alpha. If you achieve this, it would be highly unlikely that she leaves you for a richer simp. Only a better alpha can have her, and this would be highly unlikely because alphas hardly accept leftovers.

This was exactly the point I was trying to make earlier.

Women are like wolves, they can sense and smell your weakness and use it against you.

Many people on this thread are not redpillers..they are just insecure.

A true redpiller gives zero Bleep about what a woman thinks and focuses that energy more on himself.

When you love yourself believe it or not, women will follow.

Women are too afraid of an alpha male to cheat on him.

'True alpha male', not wannabe angry

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Junnior: 4:33am On Feb 17, 2021
Soulrebel2:


This was exactly the point I was trying to make earlier.

Women are like wolves, they can sense and smell your weakness and use it against you.

Many people on this thread are not redpillers..they are just insecure.

A true redpiller gives zero Bleep about what a woman thinks and focuses that energy more on himself.

When you love yourself believe it or not, women will follow.

Women are too afraid of an alpha male to cheat on him.

'True alpha male', not wannabe angry
I've modified that post because I just saw something in his reply I actually do not agree with

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:08am On Feb 17, 2021
Soulrebel2:


This was exactly the point I was trying to make earlier.

Women are like wolves, they can sense and smell your weakness and use it against you.

Many people on this thread are not redpillers..they are just insecure.

A true redpiller gives zero Bleep about what a woman thinks and focuses that energy more on himself.

When you love yourself believe it or not, women will follow.

Women are too afraid of an alpha male to cheat on him.

'True alpha male', not wannabe angry


You are unrealistic and don't work with facts, once a woman is economically your equal or superior,she's doesn't regard you as her alpha and these is backed by western and progressive Societies that allowed women to be on equal footing to men by giving them economic and socio-politcal powers like men via Egalitarian policies, compare the broken homes and rate of divorce there to Africa where men are essentially the breadwinners and women secondary or non-earners

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:22am On Feb 17, 2021
Junnior:

I disagree with the emboldened.


I agree with all you've said, except the emboldened. "The more successful your wife is, the more diminished you are as a man." This is a fallacy of hasty conclusion. Are you lazy? If your woman gets richer, you should hustle to get richer as well. And while you're at it, you should maintain frame. Even if she becomes richer, so long as you don't go broke and you keep working to improve yourself in all areas, you won't be diminished or degraded.

In your previous post, you said, in other words, that you shouldn't allow your woman to be fully financially independent because of hypergamy. You said it would ruin you. I don't agree to this and the emboldened here at all. And whether you admit it or not, you're being insecure. You're looking at another person's success when you should be focusing on yours. You're more likely to be an oppressor, not even an authoritarian.
The redpill teaches one to focus on oneself, not on others. You shouldn't be trying to hinder your woman from achieving financial independence. Instead, you should work on yourself to become the alpha male every woman would want.
By the way, it's not always about money. She can be richer and still stay in line because of your alpha status -- true alpha status, not wannabe alpha. If you achieve this, it would be highly unlikely that she leaves you for a richer simp. Only a better alpha can have her, and this would be highly unlikely because alphas hardly accept leftovers.

If you have to bring someone else down or hinder them from progressing so that you can maintain power, you're weak. What you should do is continually better yourself so that as others get better, you get better as well. This way, if you were in charge, you'll remain in charge.


I still insist on my points as a redpiller and make no apologies about it because I have data, statistics,facts and evidence to back me up, you're are working with idealizations and feelings which are theoretical and not at all practical

Compare pre- sexual revolution to post-sexual revolution in the 1960's women were not allowed into the labor market, in western societies, divorce was so minimal and women focused on homebuilding and raising children, when women entered the work force under the premise that they want to assist their husbands to provide for the family,that they don't want to be lazy just staying at home something their mother's before them did and didn't complain about, their argument at that time sounded reasonable, plausible and logical but the society(Men) didn't take into account the fickle and machiavellian innate nature of women and accepted their preposition at facial value , even if they themselves were tagged oppressive patriarchs

As women joined the workforce and started embracing masculine careers,they started becoming earning equals to men,what then happened , they had a culture shift, women with these new found independence wanted their hypegamy untamed hence the hook up culture and sexual revolution, divorce and single motherhood which were a thing of shame became a new cultural norm and redefined as liberation for women, marriage has been on a steady decline in western and progressive societies

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:31am On Feb 17, 2021
Junnior:

I've modified that post because I just saw something in his reply I actually do not agree with

Your failure to grasp the fundamental truth and reality of women's innate nature still makes you a captive after your redpill awareness, outside my sexual revolution evidence in progressive societies where divorce has risen and is popular as women earn more than or equally as men,and their hypegamy makes them belittle such men because their society is structured to favor women especially in the workplace , let's learn from redpill societies like Arab nations in the middle East and cultural/ religious nations in Africa where divorce is unpopular and single motherhood discouraged

I'm a pragmatic I won't insist that you be far stronger and superior to your wife even before you start a relationship with any female because western societies with your allowing my wife to excel more than me mindset are experiencing broken homes and egoistical narcissistical women who don't care about the sacrifices and loves of their husbands

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:50am On Feb 17, 2021
Soulrebel2:


This was exactly the point I was trying to make earlier.

Women are like wolves, they can sense and smell your weakness and use it against you.

Many people on this thread are not redpillers..they are just insecure.

A true redpiller gives zero Bleep about what a woman thinks and focuses that energy more on himself.

When you love yourself believe it or not, women will follow.

Women are too afraid of an alpha male to cheat on him.


'True alpha male', not wannabe angry

You are a weak redpiller who has not fully unplugged from his bluepilled conditioning after receiving the truth of the redpill, you are exposed to the innate nature of women yet you choose to idealize them that they would behave with relational-equity (equal footing) with you especially if she's earning more than you(or equal with you), and you claim to understand Hypergamy, my advice to you is never enter commitment relationship with any woman until your monk modes pays out, but spin plates so you can develop an alpha frame and understand women in the interim while pursuing your goals

Don't be a Simp , don't be a weakling,be wise ,your rationalization was tried in USA, Canada, Denmark, Iceland,and other western societies because men thought they allowing women to be of equal footing with them shows they buried their ego's and insecurities , and they posessed Alpha's Frame


The result was that they were emasculated, the women they pedestalized didn't reciprocate their humble gestures hence the need for the redpill and manosphere, men have been backstabbed by the women they empowered and trusted and are now hiding online and regretting and lamenting their naive actions that they thought were logical like the way you are currently thinking now

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 6:02am On Feb 17, 2021
Junnior,Soulrebel2 research progressive and Scandanavian countries that have these women must work and be co-joint income contributors in the home mindset, you can call me a sexist,an insecure fellow, a wannabe alpha, but facts and evidence don't lie,a woman of equal or superior financial ability, or status, than you will never see you in the full capacity of the Alpha you wish to be seen like, our fore fathers had farms and plantations and their wives were workers on those plantations , don't be fooled by mordernism if not expect the result of western societies,I'm for strict return to traditional gender roles but very flexible to allow women have secondary sources of income like trading which would not supercede the Patriachs own but support it

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheUndercover: 6:24am On Feb 17, 2021
Junnior:

I agree with all you've said, except the emboldened. "The more successful your wife is, the more diminished you are as a man." This is a fallacy of hasty conclusion. Are you lazy? If your woman gets richer, you should hustle to get richer as well. And while you're at it, you should maintain frame. Even if she becomes richer, so long as you don't go broke and you keep working to improve yourself in all areas, you won't be diminished or degraded.

In your previous post, you said, in other words, that you shouldn't allow your woman to be fully financially independent because of hypergamy. You said it would ruin you. I don't agree to this and the emboldened here at all. And whether you admit it or not, you're being insecure. You're looking at another person's success when you should be focusing on yours. You're more likely to be an oppressor, not even an authoritarian.
The redpill teaches one to focus on oneself, not on others. You shouldn't be trying to hinder your woman from achieving financial independence. Instead, you should work on yourself to become the alpha male every woman would want.
By the way, it's not always about money. She can be richer and still stay in line because of your alpha status -- true alpha status, not wannabe alpha. If you achieve this, it would be highly unlikely that she leaves you for a richer simp. Only a better alpha can have her, and this would be highly unlikely because alphas hardly accept leftovers.

If you have to bring someone else down or hinder them from progressing so that you can maintain power, you're weak. What you should do is continually better yourself so that as others get better, you get better as well. This way, if you were in charge, you'll remain in charge.
I concur with this post. I guess that's what he meant too but not enough explanation. Anyways, agree to disagree.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheUndercover: 6:35am On Feb 17, 2021
I understand Dapcity views also, to maintain frame while your woman earns more than you will be quite difficult but possible because her hypergamous antennas will be on alert.

I think what Dapcity meant was that, it's not that the lady in question will be totally dependent on the man, but will still be dependent on other areas for the man to be in control and be able to maintain frame.

By relating Dapcity and Soul's views, Soul said the way to still maintain frame while your woman is getting more independent is by being bettering yourself and while at it, you keep maintaining frame and dominance. Both of you are right but with different perspective. No wrong answers.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:42am On Feb 17, 2021
DAY 48, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: staying together longer or in marriage will not change her bad behavior. In fact, it will tend to bring all the underlying stings and demons. To avoid this, avoid her!

Be warned!

Authority: Avoid nonsense attitude.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 6:43am On Feb 17, 2021
TheUndercover:
I understand Dapcity views also, to maintain frame while your woman earns more than you will be quite difficult but possible because her hypergamous antennas will be on alert.

I think what Dapcity meant was that, it's not that the lady in question will be totally dependent on the man, but will still be dependent on other areas for the man to be in control and frame.

By relating Dapcity and Soul's views, Soul said the way to still maintain frame while your woman is getting more independent is by being bettering yourself and while at it, you keep maintaining frame and dominance. Both of you are right but with different perspective. No wrong answers


Hypergamy is not just the Alpha Bleep(AF) but also the Beta Bucks (BB), you must as a redpiller have both in equal and balanced ratio, except you are a pick up artist whose just spinning plates,that's how Hypergamy works and is optimized

Junnior ,Soulrebel2 just focus on AF alone which is a big mistake for Redpillers

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Soulrebel2(m): 6:46am On Feb 17, 2021
Dapcity247:


You are a weak redpiller who has not fully unplugged from his bluepilled conditioning after receiving the truth of the redpill, you are exposed to the innate nature of women yet you choose to idealize them that they would behave with relational-equity (equal footing) with you especially if she's earning more than you(or equal with you), and you claim to understand Hypergamy, my advice to you is never enter commitment relationship with any woman until your monk modes pays out, but spin plates so you can develop an alpha frame and understand women in the interim while pursuing your goals

Don't be a Simp , don't be a weakling,be wise ,your rationalization was tried in USA, Canada, Denmark, Iceland,and other western societies because men thought they allowing women to be of equal footing with them shows they buried their ego's and insecurities , and they posessed Alpha's Frame


The result was that they were emasculated, the women they pedestalized didn't reciprocate their humble gestures hence the need for the redpill and manosphere, men have been backstabbed by the women they empowered and trusted and are now hiding online and regretting and lamenting their naive actions that they thought were logical like the way you are currently thinking now

My dear comrade...I might be many things but I'm not weak and I'm definitely not blue-pilled.

What you fail to acknowledge is that what works for Mr A might not work for Mr B.

I came across a post once that advised never to implement everything you see on the red-pill thread to your life.

It might work or it might not work.

Personally I know myself in and out. And I know what works for me. I make sure I read every post on this thread and after I summarize them to my own understanding and implement it in my life and it works for me.

I told you before that marriage or relationship for me is a no no.

I'm more focused on my personal development and taking care of my family.

And secondly I can't date any woman because I can't stay with just one woman.

I grew up around women and I'm always present when they're discussing so I learned a lot from them too on the nature of women.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheUndercover: 6:49am On Feb 17, 2021
Dapcity247, You can make your views heard without abusing anyone, please. You know sometimes how we grow up and the environment we lived sometimes affect how everyone reasons. We can't reason the same way. It's not possible. Let's all agree to disagree.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheUndercover: 6:54am On Feb 17, 2021
Dapcity247:



Hypergamy is not just the Alpha Bleep(AF) but also the Beta Bucks (BB), you must as a redpiller have both in equal and balanced ratio, except you are a pick up artist whose just spinning plates,that's how Hypergamy works and is optimized

Junnior ,Soulrebel2 just focus on AF alone which is a big mistake for Redpillers

I understand your point, for a Man to be able to fully maintain dominance especially for those planning to build a home or family, the Man has to be higher than the woman in terms of wealth and status. In homes where the woman is the breadwinner, the man is usually emasculated.

Soul's view also on that is possible but quite difficult.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 6:58am On Feb 17, 2021
Soulrebel2:


My dear comrade...I might be many things but I'm not weak and I'm definitely not blue-pilled.

What you fail to acknowledge is that what works for Mr A might not work for Mr B.

I came across a post once that advised never to implement everything you see on the red-pill thread to your life.

It might work or it might not work.

Personally I know myself in and out. And I know what works for me. I make sure I read every post on this thread and after I summarize them to my own understanding and implement it in my life and it works for me.

I told you before that marriage or relationship for me is a no no.

I'm more focused on my personal development and taking care of my family.

And secondly I can't date any woman because I can't stay with just one woman.

I grew up around women and I'm always present when they're discussing so I learned a lot from them too on the nature of women.

I understand redpill is a human philosophy and just like every philosophy or ideology should be scrutinized and not taken at facial value if not one becomes dogmatic

The redpill serves every one in different ways as we all have different reasons for taking the pills, I'm an aspiring Patriach who wants to be the authority of my family and leave a legacy for generation unborn

Comrade , I wish you success in your personal development endeavors and that you have a blissful relationship with your family, because to me family is everything

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:00am On Feb 17, 2021
TheUndercover:
Dapcity247, You can make your views heard without abusing anyone, please. You know sometimes how we grow up and the environment we lived sometimes affect how everyone reasons. We can't reason the same way. It's not possible. Let's all agree to disagree.

Ok

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 7:01am On Feb 17, 2021
Zabiboy:
I dont know about anybody here o....
But MrColdSweat, i'v learned alot from you man..
Just like that adultress thread, i dont really care whether this MrColdSwe@t is a guy or girl, the most important thing is the message...
I reduced my comments drastically on this thread because most people cant post redpills without women in it....makes me wonder if we're here for MAINLY ourselves or to discuss women...
Personally for me, i do tell those around me, and Mrcoldswe@t talked about it too..."BRIDE PRICE IS POINT BLANK USELESS FOR ME"...be it virgin or no virgin...some other things Which he talked about too which i agree with...
But anyways, it'll really be nice if we can pick out things we need from a comment and move on
My Humble Opinion
Looking forward to seeing more of your comment @MrColdSweat

Brideprice should not b abolished

If it's abolished, how will traditional marriage hold?

So everyone will b using court system and church system

From there alimony and rubbish family laws will b passed.

Una wey wan bride-price to b abolished, I just dey laugh una

If they abolish brideprice, next is too abolish polygamy.

Brideprice is our culture, our tradition, our identity.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:06am On Feb 17, 2021
TheUndercover:

I understand your point, for a Man to be able to fully maintain dominance especially for those planning to build a home or family, the Man has to be higher than the woman in terms of wealth and status. In homes where the woman is the breadwinner, the man is usually emasculated.

Soul's view also on that is possible but quite difficult.


He would have responsiblity but no authority, in most cases as in western societies where equalist parenting is the norm , many broken marriages and divorces, infact people are not marrying again

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:56am On Feb 17, 2021
Junnior:

No offense. I believe you were quite gullible to have believed she really doesn't like sexual stuff.

The bitter truth is that she wasn't digging you or whoever else was making the advances, that's why she put up that "irritated" facade.

All women like sexual stuff, including nuns.


yeah not every female will be attracted to me, besides I hardly chase women.


Ive known this girl for a very very long time but you sit behind your keypad and argue like you know her more than me.
na wa o

her lack of desire for sexual relationship was the main reason her first boyfriend left her.
I fear she may never get married.

you may be right she wasn't into me but I doubt she's into anybody sef

If you like chew philosophy and swallow all the redpill,
not all women are the same.
the same goes for men too.
my desire for a sexual relationship is low too but this girl's own is worst than my own.
I know a guy that gives zero bleeps about women.


you're just looking at things from an ideal condition.
learn to look at life from real-time conditions, there are to many variables for only formula to fit everything.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by QuadrilAyinde(m): 8:31am On Feb 17, 2021
Actually it has been an Interesting ride following the thread for a While. But I'd really like to Implore Us that we should please try learn how to Respect other people's opinion, likewise being courteous while trying to correct any perceived wrong a fellow comrade might av put forward.

Now to the Case of MrColdSweat, honestly I am in absolute agreement with ALL he has said. I think it's easier for you to see Enough sense in what the guy is Saying per chance You already share same view with him and Probably if you are Married. Let me try put forward a brief Illustrations to breakdown what MrColdSweat has been trying to Say:

ILLUSTRATION:

His postulation that Men should try calm down and take things easy all in the Name of proving to the society that they are truly MEN is just to Save Men of Untimely and Early death. Let's look at it from this Angle, why is it that in most Family settings, it's the husband that Normally dies 1st?, this is due to no other reason apart from the fact that Most men work their Ass off all in the Name of providing for their Family, but in the long run, they forgot to LIVE AND ENJOY LIFE, thus Making most men Miserable in their Old age coz There is most times nothing left for him to fall back to in form of Savings and Investments, whereas the Wife on the Other hand Keeps Moving from One Child's house to the other. So to avoid this Old Age Wahala, what MrColdSweat is just trying to say is that While Men are still active and agile, they should take Hustle and life generally easy on themselves by Reducing their Financial commitment with respect to that of their wives let's say from 80:20 to 60:40 as that will Automatically ease them of some burdens and make men feel less pressured... Even b4 reading MrColdSweat submissions, THIS is sumtin I've always had at the back of my mind coz of my Personal experience with Ladies as per The Surety that a Man will NEVER be a able to Satisfy a Woman, No Matter what... So as a Man, if u know sey U wan Live Long, even as a Married Man sef, Just Try ur best with ur Conscience and Leave the Rest, but don't 4get to Plan for ur Old Age...


And to be very honest at this Juncture, it's quite obvious that Many of the Active Comrades here on this thread can't withstand being with a Succesful and a Career woman simply because they will feel threatened, that's just pure insecurity and nothing else. Let's not forget the fact these Women too have their own Parents and their Siblings they are Also expected to be taking Care of (In the Case that the Lady is the 1st child of her parents). Trying to restrict a Woman to Trading (as rightly said by sum1 earlier on the thread) is just pure Insecurity and nothing else, let's call A Spade A Spade.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:51am On Feb 17, 2021
Soulrebel2:
First. I can never, I mean never be heart broken because of a woman. I Bleep women with zero emotions. I don't even date.

Almost 80% of babe I Bleep are peoples girlfriend.
I'm a fucking selfish asshole and I make sure they know it.

Trust me when you know your game, you'll understand why I said that.

Women are naturally attracted to men other women find attractive.
The mistake most men do is to focus on one women. That's bad.

I Bleep them and Bleep their friends too. Bro I got zero emotions mehn. So heart break no even dey my dictionary

Cause I'm definitely not even getting married.
I am not saying you don't fùck without emotions. Your initial post confused me. The term cheating only applies to those in any form of agreed, mutually, committed relationships. So when you said that women can't cheat on a redpiller and that they only cheat on simps, I understandably presumed you meant supposed redpillers in committed relationships.

After reading your latest post to me about how you don't keep commitments in any form to a woman, I would have said you probably meant there is nothing for a woman to cheat to begin with since you are not a guy of commitment; however, you gave a reason for your statements which I I emboldened: women adore redpillers. Is it that there is nothing to cheat since there is no commitment? Or is it that you think a woman can be made to adore a man she is in a committed relationship with so much that she won't cheat? I hope I am not witnessing a disingenuous backpedaling; if it is, then there is no shame conceding one was wrong like when I conceded I misread and judged mrcoldsweat hastily. We learn every day.

Anyway, for the sake of our edification, what exactly did you mean by the following statement: "A woman can never cheat on a redpiller..a woman adores a redpiller. Women cheat on SIMPs." ? We learn every day, let us learn from you.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by QuadrilAyinde(m): 8:59am On Feb 17, 2021
I want to believe that what TRP is all about has to do with Men being aware of the Treacherous and Manipulative Nature of Women, thus why they shouldn't Loseguard and expect much from women per chance they fuckup... But from some of the submissions I've been reading Lately on this thread by some Noble Comrades, I keep getting confused kindof coz It's like Some are actually going extreme with this TRP philosophy, thus turning them to Women Haters subconsciously.... IMHO, this is Not Needed, Just Be Ursef (Coz women Can Automatically detect if a guy is faking his REAL Identity, unless the girl is Just the dull and dumb type) AND Keep Learning and keep putting into practice how to ALWAYS be a Step ahead of women in the Game.. With this, I believe A Man should live a Peaceful Live...

Let's not forget that Feminism in its Initial and Original Submission Was All about Educating the Girl Child and Not restricting the Girl child to ONLY domestic and house chores duties, and Logically speaking, this is very much Okay. But Unfortunately, MISOGYNISTS Hijacked the whole Movement and Turned the Original feminism Struggle into A Man-hating and Gender Equality driven struggle...

So fellow Comrades, let's not deviate too much from the Tenents of what TRP is Mainly about so that we dont find ourselves turning into a Woman hater...

ONE LOVE

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 9:06am On Feb 17, 2021
CaveAdullam:


Whether runs girl mentality or proclivities towards wh0ring or full scale wh0re/wh0rish, the key note is that women don't settle for one man! Hypergamy is the reason why. For this reason, there's a tenet in TRP which says: you don't own her, it's just your turn. Marriage/Long term relationship not excluded.

A woman will go for any man that's way higher than the man she's currently with. It's not her fault. Because she's weak, not generally fortified as Men, she will always aim higher. So, she might not be wh0ring at the main time to your view, but looking and searching patiently like a hungry lion waiting for a fat successful prey to latch onto.

A woman's hypergamous nature can be physically related, that's if the proposed man in question is tall, muscular and good looking, financially related; earn more money and has more material resources; economically related; highly respected in the society and occupies the top in the pyramid.

Marriage, traditional value system, religion are what has been used by men to control this instinctual chaos in women. And to a large extent until the erosion of these systems, women had been maintained and accustomed to their boundaries. However, since the decline of these systems, women are now set on motion and via social media outlets we can now see what women are capable of if not controlled. Things has changed towards the negative pole for men most especially, children and society at large. Even women are not left out of the corollary effect of such chaos.

1. A woman who has been a pastor and married for about 7 years divorced her husband after attending an LGBTQ seminar that didn't lasted for 24hours. She sacrificed her marriage out of sheer stupidity and emotional excitement. She's now a stripper and on the only fans account.

2. Another woman married for more than 15 years, was caught banging her male fitness trainer.

3. After 40 years of marriage, a woman decided to end her marriage because she was no longer feeling the vibe.

(I can search out the names of these women if you insist but you will give me time because I just read many of these articles and grab the message).

So, when it's time for her to leave---or manifest her wh0ring in flesh---she will and only if you're not informed beforehand you will be perplexed.



For women, hypergamy is not grey in colour. It is either white or black.



She doesn't have a genuine desire for you. Even a circumcised woman will get w€t if her strings are pulled by someone she has genuine desire for.

Except she is/was a virgin, she's just masking her wh0ring tendency. Maybe she's in your neighborhood, see you as a friend(friendzone), don't have genuine desire for you or simply don't trust you.

A woman that has genuine desire for you will create space to f^ck you somewhere, somehow and someday.




True!

Marriage are women's survival plan and retirement scheme. Their only saving grace is men's testosterones, sacrificial nature and child bearing tendency. And these are what they use to exploit men. However, men are becoming wiser as TRP is going mainstream and are developing various strategies to get what they want and also mitigate their loses to the most minimal.

Nevertheless, a single man is greater than a married man.



Wh0ring is for survival; without it, especially in this modern world, you wouldn't have seen the hubris and histrionics performed by women on various social media outlets. Simps are their "wh0st". And without hosts, parasites can't survive.

All women has the "wh0rish" trait embedded in their DNA. These trait becomes conspicuous when it's the right time to show face and manifest.

The fact that she's not on a wh0ring spree is because:

1. Her current spouse is still the best around.

2. Traditional values guiding her.

3. Still searching but has not found the alpha.

4. Old and unattractive.

5. Fear/Consequences when get caught.

It is women's entitlement mentality that makes them wh0re all around. They feel they need the best things of life and will must definitely go for the highest bidder any day or time. Entitlement mentality is the knowledge, wh0ring is the application of that knowledge.

Thanks.


whoring is not synonymous to survival

survival is not synonymous to whoring.


one can only whorr to survive when there is unavailability

while one can only survive to whorr when there is abundance.



you have said the truth in it's highest form but your truth is only applicable to red-pill theory mind you there are a thousand and one theories out there about Life and women.


hypergamy exists and its applicable to majority of women but not all women.

there are women that enjoy being the dominant one in the relationship. they are turned off by men that are more dominant than them, they fear they wouldn't be in control.
I've been with one and I know like 3 of them (I'm a lazy guy when it comes to relationships) they enjoy doing all the work inside the relationship.

even though there is some element of truth, I personally I don't believe in all this alpha/beta male theories it just another bussiness model that smart people use to make money through selling of dumb books, seminars and YouTube content. currently the new trend is to get donations from people.
this same similar strategy is similar to how hip-hop and Hollywood sold us illuminati story despite some truth to it.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 9:24am On Feb 17, 2021
ogmask:


This is nice bro... We need to study them to understand them.

everybody unconsciously has a list of things they want to understand and achieve in their lives before they die.


if woman( female nature) is among your list, bro just go out and meet them and try having relationships with them you will learn more & better relating with women sexually than reading a fuckin book.

all these books just tell you what you want to hear and in some cases you lose money from buying them.

it doesn't matter if you're introvert or extrovert there's always women around you.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by foreman: 9:42am On Feb 17, 2021
The way I see TRP and other things in life is just to be aware of general principles. Most of the time, you will need to adapt to your peculiar situation. How you use a theory depends on a lot other things like environment (your country of residence for example), your financial position, your physical appearance (imagine you are dwarf), married or not, sexual prowess etc.

So let's not get overworked on peoples' personal situation, general principles remain.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jelraj(m): 9:47am On Feb 17, 2021
Trying to restrict a Woman to Trading (as rightly said by sum1 earlier on the thread) is just pure Insecurity and nothing else, let's call A Spade A Spade.

This is pure insecurity..
And I can understand why most men feel this way. As we know most women can't handle power they will use every opportunity to belittle you but as a man why feel insecure?

The main purpose of TRP is self-improvement, if you keep improving yourself there won't be any place for insecurities, a woman will never settle less why should you?

If we believe restricting women will give you power over them, its still a slavery mindset cuz all bills will be on you making it no different from what the TRP is against. Stop slaving for this women. If I have a car, you think I'll wanna date a woman without one.

Think about it my people, men should stop seeing themselves as financial slaves.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by QuadrilAyinde(m): 9:56am On Feb 17, 2021
jelraj:

Think about it my people, men should stop seeing themselves as financial slaves.
End of Discussion...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:06am On Feb 17, 2021
QuadrilAyinde:
Actually it has been an Interesting ride following the thread for a While. But I'd really like to Implore Us that we should please try learn how to Respect other people's opinion, likewise being courteous while trying to correct any perceived wrong a fellow comrade might av put forward.

Now to the Case of MrColdSweat, honestly I am in absolute agreement with ALL he has said. I think it's easier for you to see Enough sense in what the guy is Saying per chance You already share same view with him and Probably if you are Married. Let me try put forward a brief Illustrations to breakdown what MrColdSweat has been trying to Say:

ILLUSTRATION:

His postulation that Men should try calm down and take things easy all in the Name of proving to the society that they are truly MEN is just to Save Men of Untimely and Early death. Let's look at it from this Angle, why is it that in most Family settings, it's the husband that Normally dies 1st?, this is due to no other reason apart from the fact that Most men work their Ass off all in the Name of providing for their Family, but in the long run, they forgot to LIVE AND ENJOY LIFE, thus Making most men Miserable in their Old age coz There is most times nothing left for him to fall back to in form of Savings and Investments, whereas the Wife on the Other hand Keeps Moving from One Child's house to the other. So to avoid this Old Age Wahala, what MrColdSweat is just trying to say is that While Men are still active and agile, they should take Hustle and life generally easy on themselves by Reducing their Financial commitment with respect to that of their wives let's say from 80:20 to 60:40 as that will Automatically ease them of some burdens and make men feel less pressured... Even b4 reading MrColdSweat submissions, THIS is sumtin I've always had at the back of my mind coz of my Personal experience with Ladies as per The Surety that a Man will NEVER be a able to Satisfy a Woman, No Matter what... So as a Man, if u know sey U wan Live Long, even as a Married Man sef, Just Try ur best with ur Conscience and Leave the Rest, but don't 4get to Plan for ur Old Age...


And to be very honest at this Juncture, it's quite obvious that Many of the Active Comrades here on this thread can't withstand being with a Succesful and a Career woman simply because they will feel threatened, that's just pure insecurity and nothing else. [/b]Let's not forget the fact these Women too have their own Parents and their Siblings they are Also expected to be taking Care of (In the Case that the Lady is the 1st child of her parents). [b]Trying to restrict a Woman to Trading (as rightly said by sum1 earlier on the thread) is just pure Insecurity and nothing else, let's call A Spade A Spade.


I'm surprised we have some idealistic Redpillers who don't learn at all from history and what currently happening post- Sexual revolution from the 1960's

They have been so plugged into the Feminine matrix that they think making women their almost earning equals will reduce their burden of masculinity

The only solution is Alpha's frame, strong introspection from Monk mode(personal development) and building wealth and legacy for yourself and family

Except you plan on being poor I don't see any reason why you should fear being the sole breadwinner of your household, if you are so naive to think your wife's economic support will make her respect you then you are deluded , learn from western societies where these is the norms and see how men have been reduced to second class citizens

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:07am On Feb 17, 2021
This Thread has Educated me to a certain Level on Female Nature and I thank all the contributors and detractors likewise. My 2Cents in the matter .

1) As a man it is your duty and your responsibility to be Financially independent in this world, it’s yours and yours alone you should not have the mindset that you need a woman’s money or something like that. If she offers her support take it but in no way ask her for it. When a woman gives to you of her own free will she’s into you to a certain extent submitting her finances to a man is a big deal for women . As a man you should not have the need for her money period.


2) As a man if you are not doing number 1 above or actively trying to do so you shouldn’t really be thinking of pussy, yes you need to release from time to time but think about it must you? I have seen there’s so much benefit to holding in than giving out when it comes to my life force.

3) As a red pill aware man bashing other men based on their level of understanding of the red pill is like shooting yourself in the foot , there’s nothing as dumb as that. Learn to correct without insults for the most part what you know now someone else might not know and understand to the extent that you do as we all know we assimilate things differently and at different speeds.

4) Like everyone else here has said before Women don’t love you they love the way you make them feel and the things you can do for them there’s no way around it be comfortable with it holding frame is worthless if you don’t know what you really want from any woman you are dealing with just let her know the terms and conditions for dealing with you if she’s not up for it you let her go it’s a win win and yes all women are like that if she’s not fucking you she is definitely fucking someone else get over it. And understand as well she’s not loyal to you she’s loyal to herself through and through if you don’t get comfortable with this you will be hurt eventually in essence know women and know what you want from them .

5) if you’re going to eventually settle down you must know and understand that all you are doing from that point on is for your offspring and the woman only gets to benefit because she is the mother of your children in essence you must handle your family in this manner, allow her handle the feminine side of things (cooking, cleaning, nurturing, household organisation, the girls) and you must handle the masculine side of things (Feeding, accommodation, clothing and welfare , security and lifestyle , the boys)of the family do not think it will be easy it will not be. To take it a step further you must as a father talk to your Children male and female in a cordial manner when they are of age don’t lie to them tell them the plain truth of life as it is don’t sugarcoat shit for them male and female doing this will help your children have a realistic view of life and what it holds for them, do this often as a father it is paramount to the success of your lineage. If you cannot take the task please don’t marry or have kids.
I would say as a man know what it is you want from life and every situation you find yourself in knowing exactly what you want will help you filter out the bullshit in any situation , if you want sex from women ask for it if she says no move on, if you’re dealing with people in business lay down your terms if they don’t like it move on.



Be real to yourself , get your money and body right if the women come enjoy them if they don’t enjoy your Life. Strip your mind of that mentality that you need women for virtually anything and see how easy you live That’s my take on everything so far.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:15am On Feb 17, 2021
QuadrilAyinde:
I want to believe that what TRP is all about has to do with Men being aware of the Treacherous and Manipulative Nature of Women, thus why they shouldn't Loseguard and expect much from women per chance they fuckup... But from some of the submissions I've been reading Lately on this thread by some Noble Comrades, I keep getting confused kindof coz It's like Some are actually going extreme with this TRP philosophy, thus turning them to Women Haters subconsciously.... IMHO, this is Not Needed, Just Be Ursef (Coz women Can Automatically detect if a guy is faking his REAL Identity, unless the girl is Just the dull and dumb type) AND Keep Learning and keep putting into practice how to ALWAYS be a Step ahead of women in the Game.. With this, I believe A Man should live a Peaceful Live...

Let's not forget that Feminism in its Initial and Original Submission Was All about Educating the Girl Child and Not restricting the Girl child to ONLY domestic and house chores duties, and Logically speaking, this is very much Okay. But Unfortunately, MISOGYNISTS Hijacked the whole Movement and Turned the Original feminism Struggle into A Man-hating and Gender Equality driven struggle...

So fellow Comrades, let's not deviate too much from the Tenents of what TRP is Mainly about so that we dont find ourselves turning into a Woman hater...

ONE LOVE


Gullibility like these makes Redpillers gender equalist unknowningly and subconsciously, the only extreme of the redpill philosophy is the black pill which is a nihilistic view point of society and women and from the premises of our arguments none are associated with it

Tell me , are you afraid of being a man?
Do you want to be poor?
Do you expect women to be your equal?
Do you expect women to support you as equals?

Once you answer all these questions, I will determine whether you are back to your bluepilled ways or totally purplepilled

You think by making women your earning approximate equals they will treat you with respect and as a real man because they are lowering your masculine burden,and that you're free from insecurity and infantile ego,after learning all about women's innate nature you still choose to think like these
Smhhhh
You must be very naive and extremely plugged into bluepilled Feminine social matrix
May be you're a weak simp disguised as a redpillers, who knows?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 10:37am On Feb 17, 2021
CaveAdullam:


Every form of communication has a centre of gravity: that which the words that forms the information originates. It is the main message and not the harangue spoken.

In communication:

1. Listen to the words spoken.

2. Listen to the words unspoken(the real message).

3. The meaning of the message the speaker is trying to pass.

4. The implication of the message.

5. What the speaker stands to gain.

6. And in rare cases, the track record(words and actions) of the speaker if you can place your hand on any.

Every communication has different elements; puns, innuendos, euphemistic languages, nuances, quotations etc.

Poisons has beautiful containers. Poisonous frogs are the most colourful and chameleons always change colours. Most weeds always assume the physiological structures of their host plants.

Nobody is the president or owner of the manosphere, we're all here to learn, unlearn and relearn. But by the time you come here and start forming grandfather and your inconsistencies has not been amended or corrected, you will be f^cked up!

I swallow the pill daily as if I haven't previously because I'm human capable of failing at any particular time regardless of my philosophy or belief. But because I believe in TRP, I hold myself accountable for any action and try my best possible not be an hypocrite even when I'm lonely.

Thanks.
Exactly redpill is a drug we need to take daily cus as humans nobody is perfect.
Y i like d redpill is even if u go back to simpin u just can't relax its just like ur DNA has being changed lolz

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 10:45am On Feb 17, 2021
yahjac:



yeah not every female will be attracted to me, besides I hardly chase women.


Ive known this girl for a very very long time but you sit behind your keypad and argue like you know her more than me.
na wa o

her lack of desire for sexual relationship was the main reason her first boyfriend left her.
I fear she may never get married.

you may be right she wasn't into me but I doubt she's into anybody sef

If you like chew philosophy and swallow all the redpill,
not all women are the same.
the same goes for men too.
my desire for a sexual relationship is low too but this girl's own is worst than my own.
I know a guy that gives zero bleeps about women.


you're just looking at things from an ideal condition.
learn to look at life from real-time conditions, there are to many variables for only formula to fit everything.
we should really learn to control our emotions while reading/replying comments, the bro you quoted told you the bitter truth but you are subtly attacking him.
the lady in question isn't sexually attracted to you, simple... forget whatever she told you, she is ready to be a LovePeddler for the right guy.

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