Introverts are the most misunderstood. But they are so realistic and humble. You only have to win their trust

Hi guys!

I'm super bored!

Iamagoodgirll:
I would classify myself as an introvert and too selective I choose my words carefully and I don't involve in conversation that won't benefit me or nothing to do with me, I can stay indoor for a whole month I don't interact with people I only greet them and pass which most of them mistake as pride but it's not. "one Sunday I was coming back from church some guys were behind me and discussing one asked who is this fine girl the other one answered with I know her she lives around here and she's a good girl but doesn't talk to people".

When some people would say introvert have low self esteem I do laugh at them, low self esteem has nothing to do with being an introvert, I will rate my self esteem 95% but I'm not social which sometimes i do wish I'm because it is hard sometimes on me I don't have friends or partner, I choose my friends carefully the only close friends I made was in university because we had same academic goal and now have graduated I find it difficult to make new friends.

I may appear proud but once people come close to me they will be like you're such a nice girl one thing I don't like about having a lot of friends is visiting going here and there and unnecessary conversations but if it's someone I love that's what I love, when it comes to communication I prefer having it with my love ones because if I'm not use to you I won't know what to talk about with you and I won't feel comfortable.

introvert has saved me from unnecessary drama because I won't disrespect nor interfere in your personal life and I have gained a lot of respect from it, I talk less only when necessary.
I love been me

I used to stay indoor a lot too.But then,I needed to earn.Nobody taught me before I got to start working outside.

You people who stay indoor 24/7,how on earth do y'all earn

Albertone:


I used to stay indoor a lot too.But then,I needed to earn.Nobody taught me before I got to start working outside.

You people who stay indoor 24/7,how on earth do y'all earn

We go to work , mind our business and at the same time, pray so that the day ends faster so we go home and mind our beds ...
kai, i want to change but the more I try , the more i just want to be left alone

Albertone:


I used to stay indoor a lot too.But then,I needed to earn.Nobody taught me before I got to start working outside.

You people who stay indoor 24/7,how on earth do y'all earn

Lol... I earn money without setting foot outside the house.
As a creative, I earn my coins freelancing for others...

maeola:


Lol... I earn money without setting foot outside the house.
As a creative, I earn my coins freelancing for others...

I thought as much.

Creative writer you mean?

starbuck:





We go to work , mind our business and at the same time, pray so that the day ends faster so we go home and mind our beds ...
kai, i want to change but the more I try , the more i just want to be left alone

This is so me!

My colleagues at work are usually like "what do you want to go and do at home"

I honestly wish to change.But it is damn difficult!

Albertone:


I thought as much.

Creative writer you mean?

Yessir! And many more...

maeola:


Yessir! And many more...

Why the sudden "sir"?I am not a potential client na

I once gave writing a thought,I later realized it was more of a talent than a skill.
I gave my writing to a skillful writer(my sister) for proofreading,the number of errors pointed out was equivalent to cancelling the whole article

Now,I'm more of a tech guy

Albertone:


Why the sudden "sir"?I am not a potential client na

I once gave writing a thought,I later realized it was more of a talent than a skill.
I gave my writing to a skillful writer(my sister) for proofreading,the number of errors pointed out was equivalent to cancelling the whole article

Now,I'm more of a tech guy

Ahahhaahahh ....anybody can write! Don't tell me you don't have much to say as a "tech" guy!

Anyways, it's a good thing you pursued other interests other than writing.

maeola:


Ahahhaahahh ....anybody can write! Don't tell me you don't have much to say as a "tech" guy!

Anyways, it's a good thing you pursued other interests other than writing.

You know writing is a way of expression.I can only express my self well verbally.As an introvert,a lot are in my head and mind.But when it comes to writing it down,one needs to have the ability to be creative with words,in which I lack

It's a good thing I pursued other interests other than writing,so I won't make the industry saturated? lol

IMAliyu:

I find myself in the problematic territory of not even caring to try these days. I was shy when younger, not so much now.

Just a few weeks ago a friend of mine was going out on a date(?) with this girl, but the girl insisted on bringing a friend and in turn he asked me to come with him to balance things out. I agreed.

We went and picked them up and went to an ice cream and small chops place.

At the beginning I put in effort and tried to entertain the girl's friend, talking to her, asking questions, but Midway I lost all motivation and just stopped. Not because the friend necessarily did anything wrong, but something inside me just wasn't feeling the situation. And I was just sitting there dead silent put on my earphones and couldn't even be bothered to say a word for the rest of the evening.

Maybe I just wasn't getting enough feedback from the girl, IDK, but sometimes I think I'm dead inside when it comes to romance.

i can relate lol, but this annoying thing called “small talk” is actually a major way that people connect with each other.

elguaje:

i can relate lol, but this annoying thing called “small talk” is actually a major way that people connect with each other.

The person you quoted made me remember the movie 'Goodfellas'.

One of the gang members beg his friend to follow him to a date because the girl he wants to go on a date with said she can't go except her friend come with her.

At the end, turns out both escorts the guy and the lady's friend got married after the date.

oyetpel:


The person you quoted made me remember the movie 'Goodfellas'.

One of the gang members beg his friend to follow him to a date because the girl he wants to go on a date with said she can't go except her friend come with her.

At the end, turns out both escorts the guy and the lady's friend got married after the date.

wooow

So I decided to enquire about my next house neighbour (she lives opposite me) because its been long I saw her , only for her husband to tell me that his wife died since Nov last year ... I really felt bad because the man might have thought I had the knowledge of it and decided to keep mute ... we also got into long conversation where he also told me that my neighbour ( a building apart from mine) died in December , I couldn't even muster another word again. . He was like asking me if I travelled for long for me not to realize all of that ..


It's well with me

starbuck:
So I decided to enquire about my next house neighbour (she lives opposite me) because its been long I saw her , only for her husband to tell me that his wife died since Nov last year ... I really felt bad because the man might have thought I had the knowledge of it and decided to keep mute ... we also got into long conversation where he also told me that my neighbour ( a building apart from mine) died in December , I couldn't even muster another word again. . He was like asking me if I travelled for long for me not to realize all of that ..


It's well with me

Wow

starbuck:
So I decided to enquire about my next house neighbour (she lives opposite me) because its been long I saw her , only for her husband to tell me that his wife died since Nov last year ... I really felt bad because the man might have thought I had the knowledge of it and decided to keep mute ... we also got into long conversation where he also told me that my neighbour ( a building apart from mine) died in December , I couldn't even muster another word again. . He was like asking me if I travelled for long for me not to realize all of that ..


It's well with me

@bold are u shocked at your own actions??
U people are funny!
U don't go out & associate with people, yet you want to be informed of the happenings around? I laff...

The ambience

Rubbiish:

@bold are u shocked at your own actions??
U people are funny!
U don't go out & associate with people, yet you want to be informed of the happenings around? I laff...

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I had to read starbuck post thrice and still can't find where she wrote "she want to be informed of the happenings around"

Next!

Uniquisite:
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I had to read starbuck post thrice and still can't find where she wrote "she want to be informed of the happenings around"

Next!

I emboldened a particular part of her post when I quoted her post, read it before quoting me please!

topher052:
The mind of an introvert is a giant but he is small, he can see gold in things people ignore, she is not afraid because he knows she is limitless.
A true introvert is nerd, because nothing excites him other than her target. They are fierce when chasing a mark, they could be nice or worse. The nice ones are the angles and worse ones are the devil.
Don't push an introvert, you may be too surprised at what you will see.

I am a proud introverted mind.

please u can only speak for our own personality . Every introvert is not like you . Understand this and know peace.

germaphobe:
well i wouldn't say i'm introverted but rather an ambivert. people call me ogbanje cus of how i behave, i might be all over something or someone today and tomorrow i act like they don't exist. i stay indoors more than my curtains(cus the wind sometimes blows them outside), reading, eating and practicing my online skills matters to me more than anything. have more than 200 contacts but only call and receive calls from not upto 10people. i hate when people de gumbody me, i hate people visiting me especially without letting me know. yea my life sucks but i fvcking love it. and lastly i broke up with my ex cus i don't post her nor allow her to post me and i don't relate with her friends much like she would like me to. well like i said my life is a bitsh and you know nothing about it. goodnight y'all

the truth is u are a rude and unbearing human being , even the way u type . Change and be a better person and stop using introvertion as an excuse

Iamagoodgirll:
I would classify myself as an introvert and too selective I choose my words carefully and I don't involve in conversation that won't benefit me or nothing to do with me, I can stay indoor for a whole month I don't interact with people I only greet them and pass which most of them mistake as pride but it's not. "one Sunday I was coming back from church some guys were behind me and discussing one asked who is this fine girl the other one answered with I know her she lives around here and she's a good girl but doesn't talk to people".

When some people would say introvert have low self esteem I do laugh at them, low self esteem has nothing to do with being an introvert, I will rate my self esteem 95% but I'm not social which sometimes i do wish I'm because it is hard sometimes on me I don't have friends or partner, I choose my friends carefully the only close friends I made was in university because we had same academic goal and now have graduated I find it difficult to make new friends.

I may appear proud but once people come close to me they will be like you're such a nice girl one thing I don't like about having a lot of friends is visiting going here and there and unnecessary conversations but if it's someone I love that's what I love, when it comes to communication I prefer having it with my love ones because if I'm not use to you I won't know what to talk about with you and I won't feel comfortable.

introvert has saved me from unnecessary drama because I won't disrespect nor interfere in your personal life and I have gained a lot of respect from it, I talk less only when necessary.
I love been me

cheers

fuperligua:
Introverts are the most misunderstood. But they are so realistic and humble. You only have to win their trust

true

Ikjosh04:
Hi guys!

I'm super bored!

lol so me .

Albertone:


I used to stay indoor a lot too.But then,I needed to earn.Nobody taught me before I got to start working outside.

You people who stay indoor 24/7,how on earth do y'all earn

lol the younger ones r mostly this way , when u start attending to responsibilities and business. That ignoring calls and staying at home 24/7 won’t even be a thing.

maeola:


Lol... I earn money without setting foot outside the house.
As a creative, I earn my coins freelancing for others...

u and I know u don’t still earn enough. If u are not out there hustling. Except u are a fraudster like many

starbuck:
So I decided to enquire about my next house neighbour (she lives opposite me) because its been long I saw her , only for her husband to tell me that his wife died since Nov last year ... I really felt bad because the man might have thought I had the knowledge of it and decided to keep mute ... we also got into long conversation where he also told me that my neighbour ( a building apart from mine) died in December , I couldn't even muster another word again. . He was like asking me if I travelled for long for me not to realize all of that ..


It's well with me

lol I can relate. I’m usually so unaware with what’s happening around me because I keep to my space but with time I had to change a bit. Sometimes I ask how are you to my neighbors. We really need to keep healthy relationships especially with people around us. Anything can happen and u could need their help .

[quote author=Liliantalks post=99279973] u and I know u don’t still earn enough. If u are not out there hustling. [b]Except u are a fraudster like many [/[/b]quote]

Relax sweetie, no one earns enough. And what hustle is out there that pays so well that you are very comfortable?

For the bolded above, it's typical for you to think so, likewise millions of other Nigerians like yourself.
You're probably right I could be a fraudster, what's it to you?

Liliantalks:
u and I know u don’t still earn enough. If u are not out there hustling. Except u are a fraudster like many

No one earns enough. Not even you.

Hustling for how much? Nah, sis.

Everyone who works from home is a fraudster,I accept.

maeola:


No one earns enough. Not even you.

Hustling for how much? Nah, sis.

Everyone who works from home is a fraudster,I accept.

that’s the truth, 90 of people who work from home are fraudsters, the remaining don’t earn much. There is no productive business that doesn’t need man power

Liliantalks:
that’s the truth, 90 of people who work from home are fraudsters, the remaining don’t earn much. There is no productive business that doesn’t need man power

Nonsense

Tell that to those that earn more than $4000 on Fiverr and Upwork.