Dapcity247:

Logic If all women retain their family surnames and husband names they would be confusion a woman will bear

Halima Gbenga-olu
Her daughter will bear Gbenga-olu-thomas
as her surname

Ekakamba:


I understand, just get a secondary school dropout as a girlfriend and maybe a wife if you decide to marry because you never can tell if you'll continue being richer/wealthier than your wife till death.

Tell me what you'll do in this scenario: You work with X coy earning maybe 1000 naira monthly, got married to a lady (got 1st degree) who is a NPower scheme teacher earning 10 naira monthly. Her brother who works in a Commission push buttons and she was given appointment in Commission Y with a monthly net of 10,000 naira.

QuadrilAyinde:

In your desperate bid to Try prove a point where there is None, just see how u have shot ursef in the Leg here, Chillax bro, No need of putting ursef under Avoidable tension... Wetin concern daughter Name with her Mum's compound Name, Shey no be her Papa Single family Name she go take up nii while still under their Care?? Smh

ichidodo:
Seriously, that guy needs help... Professional help....Blowing the better part of his productive life in Simphood has done his head in especially after haven undergone three devastating heartbreaks...I just dey pity the guy.

Dapcity247:



I'm going into full business
I'm not learning a trade,skill or profession
I'm not making use of my degree

I'm creating a business system with partners that will affect transport logistics and import cars from overseas ,I have the plans but need to finish my education to implement

I'm working with loans , entering huge debt to raise Capitals and yield cashflow
I will never depend on women as a Patriach

QuadrilAyinde:

In your desperate bid to Try prove a point where there is None, just see how u have shot ursef in the Leg here, Chillax bro, No need of putting ursef under Avoidable tension... Wetin concern daughter Name with her Mum's compound Name, Shey no be her Papa Single family Name she go take up nii while still under their Care?? Smh

Ekakamba:


Don't get me wrong I ain't saying men should depend on women. Even women should not depend on men entirely.

What if with all your efforts, your wife still surpasses you in wealth?

Are you gonna divorce her? This is my take home question.

Night bro. God bless our hustle.

Ekakamba:


I understand, just get a secondary school dropout as a girlfriend then maybe a wife if you decide to marry because you never can tell if you'll continue being richer/wealthier than your wife till death.

Tell me what you'll do in this scenario: You work with X coy earning maybe 1000 naira monthly, got married to a lady (got 1st degree) who is a NPower scheme teacher earning 10 naira monthly. Her brother who works in XYZ Commission pushed buttons and your wife received an appointment letter in TRP Commission with a monthly net of 10,000 naira.

What will you do the say she broke this news to you?

Night bro.

QuadrilAyinde:

Chop Knuckle... I go dey wait for his Response

Ekakamba:


I understand, just get a secondary school dropout as a girlfriend then maybe a wife if you decide to marry because you never can tell if you'll continue being richer/wealthier than your wife till death.

Tell me what you'll do in this scenario: You work with X coy earning maybe 1000 naira monthly, got married to a lady (got 1st degree) who is a NPower scheme teacher earning 10 naira monthly. Her brother who works in XYZ Commission pushed buttons and your wife received an appointment letter in TRP Commission with a monthly net of 10,000 naira.

What will you do the say she broke this news to you?

Night bro.

Ekakamba:


I understand, just get a secondary school dropout as a girlfriend then maybe a wife if you decide to marry because you never can tell if you'll continue being richer/wealthier than your wife till death.

Tell me what you'll do in this scenario: You work with X coy earning maybe 1000 naira monthly, got married to a lady (got 1st degree) who is a NPower scheme teacher earning 10 naira monthly. Her brother who works in XYZ Commission pushed buttons and your wife received an appointment letter in TRP Commission with a monthly net of 10,000 naira.

What will you do the say she broke this news to you?

Night bro.

DEMZEE:


Only men who are career oriented and not entrepreneurial oriented that will always have this dilemma.

Why marry wen u are not financially responsible, stable, independent and successful. Why marry wen u are not yet 37yrs,by then ur smv will b declining

QuadrilAyinde:

Aswear U funny bro... In what way have U now answered the direct and simple question he has asked... So in ur words now, SMV is ur topmost consideration factor for getting Married ... U RedPillers just keep verifying my Initial conclusion that U people can't stand a Successful Woman, No need of hiding under any Philosophy

QuadrilAyinde:

Aswear U funny bro... In what way have U now answered the direct and simple question he has asked... So in ur words now, SMV is ur topmost consideration factor for getting Married ... U RedPillers just keep verifying my Initial conclusion that U people can't stand a Successful Woman, No need of hiding under any Philosophy

Martinez39s:
You can do as you like. The reason why it was suggested you open a new thread is because dissecting your opinions and discussing them, to understand your points exactly, will take copious amounts of space. Besides, due to the diversity of topics discussed here regularly, it would be best not to have any distractions when discussing your ideas so they can be given the undivided focus and followup they deserve.[/s]

I believe the space doesn't matter. Threads don't end. There's always space for people to post their own truths.


[quote author=Martinez39s post=99173145] i disagree here. Hypergamy is hardwired into the DNA of female creatures. Hypergamy exists independent of any choice men make: whether all men go monk mode, pua, mgtow, etc, women will remain hypergamous. Even if men become masters in controlling their sexual urges, women will still be hypergamous. As long as females exist, hypergamy cannot be eradicated. Hypergamy is the unrelenting, overcomeable, ceaseless, tenacious and inherent biological drive in ALL females to the get best superior mate available to them. Hypergamy doesn't take a rest or go on vacation, it operates 24/7.

Martinez39s:
I doubt you really know what hypergamy means. Had it been you said female entitlement, waywardness, and delusional overestimation of themselves are at an all time high and simps (men) are enabling and inadvertently fortifying these, you would be right. Other than that, you missed the target by a mile.

Martinez39s:
Stoicism is not bad, stoicism doesn't entail becoming an emotionless robot and ignoring any internal conflict that could incapacitate you. What is bad is the disregard for men's issues and the great and undivided focus on women's problem thanks to the gynocentric and feminist outlook that has been engulfed society. This disregard is not due to stoicism but the gender-based disregard for men by a world that entirely judges men on their utility and disposabilty. As a result men are expected to regard their issues as unimportant, not complain about anything, endure any bullśhit and unfair treatment and double standards thrown at, and perform no matter what. Women are pedestalised and treated with much value than men.

Men can still develop a thick skin, develop resilience, discourage emotional incontinence and still talk about real and serious issues that face them. They need to because life doesn't favour weak and fragile men. I agree with you that we should talk about men's issues.

Martinez39s:
If your message is to be digested and understood, you must be specific and make your point with great precision. You can't just say "men should break free from gender norms", that's vague and confusing. What gender norms exactly? Is it all or certain gender norms? Instead list the certain gender norms you want men to discard and why you think men should discard them. From there, you eliminate confusion and give your arguments a clear structure.

QuadrilAyinde:

I no even understand this TRP guys anymore... I already said it earlier today that A True RedPiller is an Insecure Man and a Control Freak Who Never wants his wife to be Financially successful and Capable since All he Cares about is the Domination/Absolute Control of the wife, smh... And this is the Angle that I've decided to come in to Let TRP guys to understand that this is a Vague thinking... Seems U have forgotten that she also has her Family Members she's financially obligated to be Assisting from Time to Time as well, thus the More reason U allow her to be Financially Independent so that She'd Automatically block any expenses coming from her family side from reaching You... And this is just inline with what MrColdSweat meant by Redefining Masculinity Coz too much financial burden on a Man has higher chance of shortening the Life of a Man

It's a very simple Analysis...

Xsergize:
I'm in complete support of Dapcity247 but, except you'll have to go extra mile to foil some women, they'll always be rich, and probably richer than you. And if you happen to marry those kind of women, the best you can do is continue to develop yourself. You might even be richer than them when you marry them.

QuadrilAyinde:

I no even understand this TRP guys anymore... I already said it earlier today that A True RedPiller is an Insecure Man and a Control Freak Who Never wants his wife to be Financially successful and Capable since All he Cares about is the Domination/Absolute Control of the wife, smh... And this is the Angle that I've decided to come in to Let TRP guys to understand that this is a Vague thinking... Seems U have forgotten that she also has her Family Members she's financially obligated to be Assisting from Time to Time as well, thus the More reason U allow her to be Financially Independent so that She'd Automatically block any expenses coming from her family side from reaching You... And this is just inline with what MrColdSweat meant by Redefining Masculinity Coz too much financial burden on a Man has higher chance of shortening the Life of a Man

It's a very simple Analysis...

Dapcity247:
QuadrilAyinde , you are a feminist, it's so obvious, a weak man using sophistic arguments which have no strong rationale,and concrete validity, thank God you admitted from the beginning you're not a redpiller , now I know you're are a pussy worshipper

QuadrilAyinde:

Chai, Only me, A feminist, A weak Man, A Pussy Worshipper... I really wish I could reply This ehnnn but I will surely let it Pass..... Hope U know sey U still never Answer the question Ekakamba asked U directly about Ur wife's Relative helping her secure a high paying Job..etc etc....

Dapcity247:
QuadrilAyinde is a bloody Simp
He wants a pseudo-masculine hybrid beast of a woman , a caricature of a woman to take care and assist him
A weak man , that doesn't deserve anyone of significant value respect
What a shame to humanity

QuadrilAyinde:

I laugh in Swahili... U wey no even fit Answer a Simple and a direct question Intelligently without Swerving and foing totally offpoint , so U even get mouth to still dey Talk... This Life don spoil true true...

DEMZEE:


Total trashhhhhhhhh

Masculinity is not perfect but modifying it just the way feminism wants it to be is pure stupidity and idiotic.

Masculinity and FEMINITY must always exists for world balance

Withdrawing one for the other leads to chaos and misery. And it's not a smart solution at all. It's just childish and foolish

MrColdsweat:


Who's talking about modifying it to the taste of feminism?

I stated a few reasons, modifying it so that men can have more job options, modifying it so that men can live longer, modifying it so that we can go through life without depression and pressure, integrating self-control as a masculine value, so that men can be immune to the exploitation and manipulation.

Where and how does any of my proposals benefit women or feminists?


Why can't some of you men reason without fear of women or involving women?

Dapcity247:
QuadrilAyinde is a bloody Simp
He wants a pseudo-masculine hybrid beast of a woman , a caricature of a woman to take care and assist him
A weak man , that doesn't deserve anyone of significant value respect
What a shame to humanity