SOZINN:

This is uncalled for
This is too much
Common
You don't need all these to pass your message

I sincerely apologize
My emotions got my better side
I will avoid him from henceforth

Dapcity247:
QuadrilAyinde, ignorantly thinks women think and behave the same way men think and behave,he doesn't consider Biological, psychological, sociological, evolutionary differences between both gender and sees gender equalism when men become feminized, lolzzz he doesn't understand AWALT

Sir, calm down, you get me?
Like, calm down.

Mide3367:
Today's is my birthday o. Make u na celebrate me.

Happy birthday bro
I wish you long life and prosperity
May God bless your new age

Both sides needs reprimanding. We hid under subtlety and diss out demeaning statements to each other..
This is supposed to be group of logical men.

Martinez39s:
I get what you are trying to say. I have no problem with your perspective. However, Mrcoldsweat is not saying men MUST rush every job that are, or were once, considered feminine, neither is he saying these jobs must be imposed on men. Men can rush high paying jobs, I advise them to, but what if a man is broke and incapacitated and a vacancy at a hair saloon or day care is the only source of little income at the moment? Should he go hungry and starve because he would be seen as a lesser man doing a feminine job, or should he drop the ego and that mindset and work to survive while he finds something better?

The mindset and ego that would have preferred him to starve serves him no purpose, and that's what mrcoldsweat thinks should be discarded from the supposed archaic idea of masculinity. Mrcoldsweat is trying to reconstruct our idea of masculinity to one that is better suited to thrive in today's world. I don't think he is saying you should become a weak, feminized man without some spine.

NB: this is simply a clarification of mrcoldsweat's point. It's not written to reflect my thoughts. Seems mrcoldsweat needs to articulate himself better for the sake of others to avoid confusion.

You are explaining MrColdSweat initial post, that mentioned Gender Equality better than he did. Like I said earlier, everything he mentioned about some aspects of the "Trad Cucks" expectations of masculinity putting men at great risk is understandable. I and some other guys here have made references to the risks that society's expectations of masculinity places on men, especially in the terms of sacrifices.

The concluding part of Gender Equality is mere unrealistic optimism that has some roots in the blue pilled matrix because in reality, women filling STEM jobs still shows that the most physically and mentally-demanding part of these STEM careers are handled by the few men still left there. This doesn't make MrColdSweat ignorant or blue-pilled. He is discussing issues that is quite prevalent in the blackpill. Men, much more than women drift towards responsibility and accountability as a burden of performance is placed on them, with or without sacrificing their wealth, time, resources and freedom. As a matter of fact, peer-reviewed research studying Scandinavian countries (Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Iceland, Faroe Island) where government policies of Gender Equality was highly encouraged and practiced proved some earlier predictions wrong. To the shock of these researchers, they found that the genders moved toward gender-specific roles. Women moving towards health care and humanities with men moving towards STEM fields with a very highly significant margin.

Dapcity is a traditional "cuckservative" from what I've seen so far. If he is in a country like Nigeria where women still have some elements of traditionally conservative upbringing, I consider him lucky that he could still create a family where he can dominate as a patriarch, even though there may be a difficulty extending it to the larger society in this era of globalization. In the highly gynocentric parts of the developed world, he is setting himself up to be messed up by the system if he is a man of great resources. Patriarchy, alphaness, the red pill won't save you from being divorced-raped and mentally-battered by the legal system. Even within the "lenient" Nigerian system, there is a limit to which you can exert your patriarchal right over a woman (who most likely would be exposed to the "freedom" that modern women now enjoy) unless you are prepared for drama and constant meaningless conflict, a turf, where women would naturally "outclass" men.

Personally, I'm all for men controlling their own lives, spaces and destinies, regardless of what the rest of the society, which includes women and other men decide to do with theirs. In relationship with others, keep respectable and healthy boundaries that places your own priorities, that doesn't interfere with the rights of others, first.

QuadrilAyinde:

I laugh in Swahili... U wey no even fit Answer a Simple and a direct question Intelligently without Swerving and foing totally offpoint , so U even get mouth to still dey Talk... This Life don spoil true true...

Na wa ooo
U sef rest
Before dem go use keyboard kee you

MrColdsweat:


Who's talking about modifying it to the taste of feminism?

I stated a few reasons, modifying it so that men can have more job options, modifying it so that men can live longer, modifying it so that we can go through life without depression and pressure, integrating self-control as a masculine value, so that men can be immune to the exploitation and manipulation.

Where and how does any of my proposals benefit women or feminists?


Why can't some of you men reason without fear of women or involving women?

We don't need modification

Men will always fight amongst themselves for various things.

The male gender cannot be utopian in nature.

There will always be weak and strong men.

U are not realistic and u think human beings are mechanical. Human beings are way complex than u Think

So I dont support modifying masculinity

If as a man u can't compete for dominance and status then u deserve DEATH!!!

...And this tread has been doing just fine as a redpill tread, how about we leave it at that.

Dapcity247:
QuadrilAyinde is a bloody Simp
He wants a pseudo-masculine hybrid beast of a woman , a caricature of a woman to take care and assist him
A weak man , that doesn't deserve anyone of significant value respect
What a shame to humanity

You see why I asked you to calm down ?
F*cking calm down bro!
Your emotions are getting the better of you.
I felt these energy from your previous comments, since these arguments started
.
You were busy fighting on all fronts, expending your energy on fruitless arguments.
Now, that guy appesr more mature than you because he understands the mind games better than you.

You got to learn when to play the fox and when to play the Lion bro,especially in a social settings, else you going to keep f*vking yourself up over and over again.

Dapcity247:


I sincerely apologize
My emotions got my better side
I will avoid him from henceforth

Yes that is what you should do
Even when he asked that women carrier question. I knew he wasn't sincerely looking for help. He just wanted to get the comment of a red piller so that he'll ridicule the person.
That's why I didn't reply.
All these things are mind games
You saw the way he attacked and insulted me in the afternoon and you saw the way I replied him.
Just chill bro
Like I said this is just a thread on Nairaland and everyone has equal rights in this thread.
Nairaland itself wasn't created for the purpose of the red pill

DEMZEE:

Why wud ur wife b contributing financially in ur home and u expect her not to make certain crucial decisions in and for the home
Women hate men that force them to masculine all because the men can't man up and be responsible and fulfil his manly duties.

Lol... Funny guy.. Make I enlighten U Small, probably U go understand me better now .....What u should know is that B4 getting Married to your wife, u must have shown and proved to her that U are indeed Financially Intelligent if U are the type that want her to Participate in the Money-wise running of the House. Remember the Popular saying that: There is nothing a Lady/Girl can't do, her resistance or rejection of an Idea/Offer from you simply means U are not the type of person she can do it for.... Hope U now Understand me a Little...

And my Postulation is this:

Once ur Wife is contributing to the financial running of the house, that will Automatically afford an Intelligent man the chance to be Saving for his Old age Coz Its certain his wife will be Moving from the house of one child to another playing the GrandMa role, thus Leavimg The Man ALL TO HIMSLEF TO SORT HIMSELF OUT MOST TIMES...Now Imagine a Situation whereby U av Toiled all Ur Sweat during your agile and able-bodied days to Take care of Ur wife and Children and Now at Old age, U practically av nothing to fall back to (NO SAVINGS, NO BACKUP) while ur wife is busy enjoying her Life under the Direct care of her Children as Mother-in-law (Regular visits and temporary Long stays), Don't you think it would have been too Late to start regretting then of You forgetting to Plan Ahead and Live happily when it would av made more sense...

QuadrilAyinde:

Lol... Funny guy.. Make I enlighten U Small, probably U go understand me better now .....What u should know is that B4 getting Married to your wife, u must have shown and proved to her that U are indeed Financially Intelligent if U are the type that want her to Participate in the Money-wise running of the House. Remember the Popular saying that: There is nothing a Lady/Girl can't do, her resistance or rejection of an Idea/Offer from you simply means U are not the type of person she can do it for.... Hope U now Understand me a Little...

And my Postulation is this:

Once ur Wife is contributing to the financial running of the house, that will Automatically afford an Intelligent man the chance to be Saving for his Old age Coz Its certain his wife will be Moving from the house of one child to another playing the GrandMa role, thus Leavimg The Man ALL TO HIMSLEF TO SORT HIMSELF OUT MOST TIMES...Now Imagine a Situation whereby U av Toiled all Ur Sweat during your agile and able-bodied days to Take care of Ur wife and Children and Now at Old age, U practically av nothing to fall back to (NO SAVINGS, NO BACKUP) while ur wife is busy enjoying her Life under the Direct care of her Children as Mother-in-law (Regular visits and temporary Long stays), Don't you think it would have been too Late to start regretting then of You forgetting to Plan Ahead and Live happily when it would av made more sense...

So how can u say such man is financially intelligent and how can u say such man holds the frame in his marriage

Is dangote wife aiding him financially??

Is Otedola wife aiding him financially??

Is Elon musk wife aiding him financially??

I say it again if as a man u can't compete for dominance and status then u deserve DEATH!!!

DEMZEE:


So how can u say such man is financially intelligent and how can u say such man holds the frame in his marriage

Is dangote wife aiding him financially??

Is Otedola wife aiding him financially??

Is Elon musk wife aiding him financially??

I say it again if as a man u can't compete for dominance and status then u deserve DEATH!!!

God bless you bro

DEMZEE:


We don't need modification

Men will always fight amongst themselves for various things.

The male gender cannot be utopian in nature.

There will always be weak and strong men.

U are not realistic and u think human beings are mechanical. Human beings are way complex than u Think

So I dont support modifying masculinity

If as a man u can't compete for dominance and status then u deserve DEATH!!!

You guys are not getting the game here..

Let him talk, and lets listen.

Don't shut him up, let him tell us about how to go about modifying masculinity he talks about. Only then you can see what he's actually trying to sell to us.
These is time to play the fox, keep your cool, relax and watch what they got to offer.
Don't interrupt him.
As I said earlier on, these is the time to play the fox.

Even my 3 years old son can handle criticism without throwing tantrums like that dapcity247 guy who go about insulting people who doesn't agree with him.
I STAND WITH MRCOLDSWEAT

For one party to learn from the other that party must realize that they are wrong.
All these heated argument you guys are pouring here is just wasting space. Nobody is learning anything.
Mtcheeeeeeew

DEMZEE:


So how can u say such man is financially intelligent and how can u say such man holds the frame in his marriage

Is dangote wife aiding him financially??

Is Otedola wife aiding him financially??

Is Elon musk wife aiding him financially??

I say it again if as a man u can't compete for dominance and status then u deserve DEATH!!!

That's people you mentioned don't even have wives again, maybe except Otedola

My question is why is it that most billionaires and wealthy men are either single or divorced??

GLYCOLYSISS:


You guys are not getting the game here..
That guy is playing a top notch mind game,and shutting him up is not how to go about it.

Let him talk, and lets listen.

Don't shut him up, let him tell us about how to go about modifying masculinity he talks about. Only then you can see what he's actually trying to sell to us.
These is time to play the fox, keep your cool, relax and watch what they got to offer.
Don't interrupt him.
As I said earlier on, these is the time to play the fox.

Baba I'm not allowing him to talk infact I'm his nemesis

He's spitting out trash

He is very dumb and unrealistic

Susily:


That's people you mentioned don't even have wives again, maybe except Otedola

My question is why is it that most billionaires and wealthy men are either single or divorced??

Because being a billionaire doesn't make u perfect and almighty.

U can b a billionaire and still b bluepilled conditioned.

DEMZEE:


So how can u say such man is financially intelligent and how can u say such man holds the frame in his marriage

Is dangote wife aiding him financially??

Is Otedola wife aiding him financially??

Is Elon musk wife aiding him financially??

I say it again if as a man u can't compete for dominance and status then u deserve DEATH!!!

@bolded.
You keep proving that masculinity distorts your thinking processes.

What is your definition of freewill?

how are you different from Al-Qaeda and other terrorist/fundamentalist groups, who claim that anybody who refuses to join Islam, deserves death?

DEMZEE:


So how can u say such man is financially intelligent and how can u say such man holds the frame in his marriage

Is dangote wife aiding him financially??

Is Otedola wife aiding him financially??

Is Elon musk wife aiding him financially??

I say it again if as a man u can't compete for dominance and status then u deserve DEATH!!!

So u mean U prefer holding the frame in your marriage to U not living a Lonely and Miserable live when U reach Old age. ... Chai, this is Serious... No Vex brother, when U marry, ensure U carry the 100% Financial Responsibility (this is not even possible sef), I pray God help You Last Long, Amen

Seriously I rest my case with U bro... Goodnight and sweet Dreams

MrColdsweat:


@bolded.

how are you different from Al-Qaeda and other terrorist/fundamentalist groups, who claim that anybody who refuses to join Islam, deserves death?

I SAY IT AGAIN AND AGAIN

IF AS A MAN U CANT COMPETE FOR DOMINANCE AND STATUS THEN U DESERVE A GRUESOME DEATH!!!!!

MASCULINITY ISN'T PERFECT

MASCULINITY IS INNATE

MASCULINITY IS SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST

MrColdsweat:


@bolded.
You keep proving that masculinity distorts your thinking processes.

What is your definition of freewill?

how are you different from Al-Qaeda and other terrorist/fundamentalist groups, who claim that anybody who refuses to join Islam, deserves death?

Everyone has free will

But wen it comes to power, only the weak dies and the strong strives.

I'm very proud of masculinity and I will do Watever it takes to go against its useless femcentric modifications

QuadrilAyinde:

So u mean U prefer holding the frame in your marriage to U not living a Lonely and Miserable live when U reach Old age. ... Chai, this is Serious... No Vex brother, when U marry, ensure U carry the 100% Financial Responsibility (this is not even possible sef), I pray God help You Last Long, Amen

Seriously I rest my case with U bro... Goodnight and sweet Dreams

I wonder how Solomon did it

I wonder how bishop David oyedepo is doing it

I wonder how Pastor Adeboye is doing it

Depending on the female gender for financial support as a man is the most stupid thing u can ever do.

Shes entering my world and not building my world with me.

DEMZEE:


Baba I'm not allowing him to talk infact I'm his nemesis

He's spitting out trash

He is very dumb and unrealistic

Smile,
These attitude is exactly the reason more persons are going to think he's right!
You got to keep your cool man.

I reason with GLYCOLYSIS, you guys try the silent option.. Let him explain more on modifying masculinity, and watch him falter.

DEMZEE:


I SAY IT AGAIN AND AGAIN

IF AS A MAN U CANT COMPETE FOR DOMINANCE AND STATUS THEN U DESERVE A GRUESOME DEATH!!!!!

MASCULINITY ISN'T PERFECT

MASCULINITY IS INNATE

MASCULINITY IS SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST

Dominance Dominance Dominace!!!! .... Oga Abeg try rest Small ehnnn, U are beginning to make big Jest of Ursef ... The question is simple, In what way do U now think u are different from fundamentalists/Terrorists??

GLYCOLYSISS:


Smile,
These attitude is exactly the reason more persons are going to think he's right!
You got to keep your cool man.

He knows he's not making sense

I already finished him off

Trash!

SOZINN:

Happy birthday bro
I wish you long life and prosperity
May God bless your new age

thanks Bro

QuadrilAyinde:

Dominance Dominance Dominace!!!! .... Oga Abeg try rest Small ehnnn, U are beginning a big Jest of Ursef ... The question is simple, In what way do U now think u are different from fundamentalists/Terrorists??

How m I a terrorist

I just said if as a man u can't compete for dominance and status with ur fellow men then u deserve death.

Wen I mean death is for sure nature will wipe u off and u will b amongst the poor and miserable in the society

DEMZEE:


I wonder how Solomon did it

I wonder how bishop David oyedepo is doing it

I wonder how Pastor Adeboye is doing it

Depending on the female gender for financial support as a man is the most stupid thing u can ever do.

Shes entering my world and not building my world with me.

Aswear Nah me fuckup Walahi, but show Never spoil... As for me ooo, Marriage is a Union of Partnership where the Man and Woman Unites to achieve common success...

Now let me ask U, What's ur definition of Marriage?? What do u intend to achieve by getting married??

DEMZEE:


He knows he's not making sense

I already finished him off

Trash!

Play stupid games, win stupid trophies!

Got to go man, do have a great day.