Jessepaid:

Put money together and carry out projects..

Don't carry the whole burden you are not a camel..

Keep at least 10% of what you earn for your retirement..

Your children will mostly shower their mum with financial aid and you will constantly be at her mercy to share it with you or not...


Don't become spent, broke and become old too without having retirement back up...


Just as women's nature cloud their ability to reason logically, A man's ego is duty bound to make him myopic should he allow it..

Remember to always put yourself first

djon78:




Actually there is real love and there are very good women out there.
Just like there are good and bad men.
Good women have not been corrupted by the world that we are in.

Most of them are mixing up a lot of stuffs here. It's more about a man being wise.


Also I find it laughable spending time researchering on women, invariably shows a weakness on the mans part.

From my own personal experience I learnt from experience the ways of women. Writing all these won't help these guys.
Experience they say is the best teacher

QuadrilAyinde:

Seriously U and I dey the same boat, Trust Me, though I never said a man should be dependent on his wife's Money, but Rather a System whereby they both contribute Financially (definitely the Man as the head of the Family will shoulder the higher share Nah).

Now this is exactly where I bn dey get Issues with TRP Comrades: Do U ursef think Sum1 who is Solely After Controlling and Taming his Wife to be under his Absolute Authority will Allow his wife to foot such billing? The Answer is No simply coz such men would have felt less of a Man at that Instance since the Wife had decided to Shoulder the Task they are supposed to see off....

It's just a Case of Pure Useless ego and Nothing else. It's just quite funny None of these TRP guys is Married (probably except Emmaodet), they would av seen that Most of these Stuffs they are preaching ain't Practicable at all UNLESS THE KIND OF WIFE THEY MARRY NAH LAZYMINDED FELLOW AND A FOOTMAT

MrColdsweat:
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Another post littered Ad hominem, strawman and populum.

You cherrypick other people's quotes and take them for mine with the hope of discrediting me in public

Where have I asked men to worship, support or invest in women? Where I have encouraged men to be vagina worshippers?

On proferring solutions for the problems of the male gender, You must have skipped the part where I asked men to take their eyes off women, and fixed their eyes on themselves. You must have also skipped where I asked men to practice self-control and imbibe it as a value, and instill it in coming generations.

Is there any advice you have given on this thread that is more beneficial than the self-control I talk about?

I stated it clearly, spill your truths, I spill mine, why the attempt at defamation?

You couldn't finish enjoying the break i gave to y'all from talking about women, you had to be play dirty by being illogical, just to get me out of the way.

How do you write this fallacious post, attacking me, then you say with a straight face that you are a being of logic? Are you not ashamed? Can't you see that you are contradicting yourself?


Oboi, you jam the wrongest person. I am a logician. I am skilled at creating proofs. I am trained to even stand and defend the most absurd claims. If I behave like you by attacking your posts, this thread will die.[

Since I have been on this thread, I have been modest. Even with the bullying and the attacks, I have been on the defensive. Barely insulted anyone.

I will no longer accept being attacked. If I go on the offensive, I will distort and disprove any claim you make about the female gender on this thread.

Be guided.

Dapcity247:



It can't happen , and even if it happens,no matter her job I'm an entrepreneur whose going to work with loans bigger than her salary of ten years

Ekakamba:


It can't happen... Yet even if it does? You are a funny man.

You said all these with certainty and confidence because you know the kind/type of girls you approach/date. I assure you that a person like you who approached a walking lady with the intention to date will be in shock (and abort mission) the moment she told you she works in an 'A' class firm like Shell, NIMASA etc.

Peace! Whatever gives us joy, we should stick to it. Cheerssssssssssssssssssss!

PETUK:
Even my 3 years old son can handle criticism without throwing tantrums like that dapcity247 guy who go about insulting people who doesn't agree with him.
I STAND WITH MRCOLDSWEAT

Dapcity247:



Dating strong independent ladies as a weak financial struggling man is a recipe for disaster, you will be dealt with by her natural hypergamy even if you genuinely love her and have no insecurities at all

post=99175046:


You are explaining MrColdSweat initial post, that mentioned Gender Equality better than he did. Like I said earlier, everything he mentioned about some aspects of the "Trad Cucks" expectations of masculinity putting men at great risk is understandable. I and some other guys here have made references to the risks that society's expectations of masculinity places on men, especially in the terms of sacrifices.

The concluding part of Gender Equality is mere unrealistic optimism that has some roots in the blue pilled matrix because in reality, women filling STEM jobs still shows that the most physically and mentally-demanding part of these STEM careers are handled by the few men still left there. This doesn't make MrColdSweat ignorant or blue-pilled. He is discussing issues that is quite prevalent in the blackpill. Men, much more than women drift towards responsibility and accountability as a burden of performance is placed on them, with or without sacrificing their wealth, time, resources and freedom. As a matter of fact, peer-reviewed research studying Scandinavian countries (Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Iceland, Faroe Island) where government policies of Gender Equality was highly encouraged and practiced proved some earlier predictions wrong. To the shock of these researchers, they found that the genders moved toward gender-specific roles. Women moving towards health care and humanities with men moving towards STEM fields with a very highly significant margin.

Dapcity is a traditional "cuckservative" from what I've seen so far. If he is in a country like Nigeria where women still have some elements of traditionally conservative upbringing, I consider him lucky that he could still create a family where he can dominate as a patriarch, even though there may be a difficulty extending it to the larger society in this era of globalization. In the highly gynocentric parts of the developed world, he is setting himself up to be messed up by the system if he is a man of great resources. Patriarchy, alphaness, the red pill won't save you from being divorced-raped and mentally-battered by the legal system. Even within the "lenient" Nigerian system, there is a limit to which you can exert your patriarchal right over a woman (who most likely would be exposed to the "freedom" that modern women now enjoy) unless you are prepared for drama and constant meaningless conflict, a turf, where women would naturally "outclass" men.

Personally, I'm all for men controlling their own lives, spaces and destinies, regardless of what the rest of the society, which includes women and other men decide to do with theirs. In relationship with others, keep respectable and healthy boundaries that places your own priorities, that doesn't interfere with the rights of others, first.

Ekakamba:


Not for me! You called yourself a REDPILLER and you can't even dare to date such ladies?

You rather go for a more financially weaker lady than you? If you're a degree holder, I guess you can't date an Msc. holder.

I agree with all that you said. Bye.

Dapcity247:



Dating strong independent ladies as a weak financial struggling man is a recipe for disaster, you will be dealt with by her natural hypergamy even if you genuinely love her and have no insecurities at all

Ekakamba:


Not for me! You called yourself a REDPILLER and you can't even dare to date such ladies?

You rather go for a more financially weaker lady than you? If you're a degree holder, I guess you can't date an Msc. holder.

I agree with all that you said. Bye.