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Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Nobody: 9:33pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook? I observe my girl friend is very stingy and selfish. I really don't need anything from her, I foot our bills from A - Z, I give her between 1500 to 5k as tfare, meanwhile the actual tfare from my place to hers is just 200 to and fro. Ok the problem is some weeks ago she was at my place for some days, the 2nd day in the morning I realized my toothpaste has finished, having it in mind that I'm gonna buy another one on my way back later in the day, unfortunately I forgot to buy it despite buying stuff at the supermarket. But God so good as I was blaming myself for forgetting to buy it, she told me she has toothpaste in her bag so we used her toothpaste that morning. I kept forgetting to buy this toothpaste for the next 3 days, I had to cut the tube with knife so I can have something to brush my teeth but my girlfriend was quietly using her toothpaste alone and she will return it into her bag, she saw me tearing the tube but didnt occur to her to surrender her toothpaste until i bought mine the 5th day. I really didn't count it initially but I have noticed other things and it's taking my mind back to the incidence. My girlfriend has never used her money to buy me a sachet of pure water or cheapest orange or whatever. Another funny thing is when we are eating, sometimes she accused me of eating from her meat or taking from her drinks when i didn't even touch it. Imagine always trying to lay claim to 3 pieces out of 4. Do I need to pay attention to some of the little details or overlook all because of love or am I overreacting? NB : she's presently unemployed but never lack support from her parents and myself. 267 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Bola146(f): 9:33pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No matter how small the amount is, if your spouse is not stingy, please contribute financially and materially to your relationship!!!! She is stingy! Haba now, she would have not returned the paste to her bag. You can tell her if she will change, maybe she doesn't know it's a bad thing, tell her please ![]() 481 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Yippeedaniel(m): 9:36pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Delete this nonsense 340 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by DSC7: 9:38pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
She dey help you save for rainy days...... Remember the future is female........ Fakeprophet wat ya saw? 122 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by MickzyDonald: 9:39pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
the op above me said something sensible, but she's stingy ooo, it doesn't mean she should be giving always but at least, i know she didn't give u Val's gift also ![]() 357 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Draslo(m): 9:41pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
I give her between 1500 to 5k as tfare, meanwhile the actual tfare from my place to hers is just 200 to and fro. Are you paying her for sex or what? I mean, that's exactly what a runs girl will do if she's staying with you for a couple of days. 474 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by inforesource: 9:41pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
An average Nigerian lady thinks it is your responsibility to use your money to buy things for house for everyone but theirs is theirs. Also, it is is not a good sign for the relationship. 418 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by allen113: 9:44pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
nawa o 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Jackyz: 9:47pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Mosdii will be remembered forever...if u knw u knw 176 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Pmedia7787: 9:48pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
If your girl is never a solution to a situation in your live..then forget her If the person you are planning to marry isn't helpful in anyway and you found yourself always trying to make both of you better in all wise...you are suffering... If you find yourself complaining about real genuine stuff such as mistake from the person consistently... Just forget it and move on 338 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by 2special(m): 9:48pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
inforesource: 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by DaddyRochie1642: 9:50pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
This is what happens when you try to buy a woman's Love. The mistake you Men make is you don't set Boundaries, You don't even have the Confidence to Express yourself in such a manner that when she Misbehaves, deep down inside her she'll know that you'll never tolerate/accept such behavior. If You think she'll Change when she gets a job,( I pity you ), If you also think she'll change when you guys get married ( Then I Pity you More ). 603 Likes 43 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Odoogu(m): 9:51pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
it's obvious bro, she is selfishly enjoying your benevolence. you don't need such around you, she deserves an Akagum like herself. just in few days, she got you overly worried already, how e go be if she stayed longer or you get married ![]() love no be fool.... in short Na love get sense pass. Olohun. 105 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by muystoy(m): 9:53pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
97 percent of Nigerian girls are like that 124 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by prince2pac(m): 9:54pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
falseprophet1 mosdii 42 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by ghettochild(m): 9:54pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
[quote]Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook? I observe my girl friend is very stingy and selfish. I really don't need anything from her, I foot our bills from A - Z, I give her between 1500 to 5k as tfare, meanwhile the actual tfare from my place to hers is just 200 to and fro. Ok the problem is some weeks ago she was at my place for some days, the 2nd day in the morning I realized my toothpaste has finished, having it in mind that I'm gonna buy another one on my way back later in the day, unfortunately I forgot to buy it despite buying stuff at the supermarket. But God so good as I was blaming myself for forgetting to buy it, she told me she has toothpaste in her bag so we used her toothpaste that morning. I kept forgetting to buy this toothpaste for the next 3 days, I had to cut the tube with knife so I can have something to brush my teeth but my girlfriend was quietly using her toothpaste alone and she will return it into her bag, she saw me tearing the tube but didnt occur to her to surrender her toothpaste until i bought mine the 5th day. I really didn't count it initially but I have noticed other things and it's taking my mind back to the incidence. My girlfriend has never used her money to buy me a sachet of pure water or cheapest orange or whatever. Another funny thing is when we are eating, sometimes she accused me of eating from her meat or taking from her drinks when i didn't even touch it. Imagine always trying to lay claim to 3 pieces out of 4. Do I need to pay attention to some of the little details or overlook all because of love or am I overreacting? NB : she's presently unemployed but never lack support from her parents and myself.[/quote If I fit slap u ehn. U will fall under anointing Shey u can't see that sign that what belongs to her is hers n what is yours is hers as well.. Plus she get ojukokoro... Yet u are asking us.. OK go ahead o n marry her. One day u go hear.. My dear food don finish on. Go n look for money so I can buy food in d house o 9 Likes |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by DaddyRochie1642: 9:56pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
But Oga why are you Weeping and gnashing your teeth because of Toothpaste ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Nazgul: 10:04pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
You're seeing the glaring red flags and you're still asking this question, na wa for you o. Many average and hungry girls have this silly orientation that it's a man's responsibility to cater for them, and that notion has made them so stupid and lazy that to them contributing or assisting their guy who has always been there for them is like taking care of a boy and such is seen as a taboo in their dictionary and should not be heard of. My advise is for you to let her go for your own good so as to avoid stories that touch the heart in future. She doesn't love you. Love is sacrificial, anyone you're with that clames to love you and can't inconvenience him/herself just to make you feel comfortable is just in that relationship for personal/selfish gains. 128 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by simple250: 10:17pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
That babe go wait for u if salt finish for house when she dey cook o ![]() 149 Likes 13 Shares
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Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by simple250: 10:19pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
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Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Pierocash(m): 10:25pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Two types of women I will never marry (1) the unfaithful type (2) the selfish ,and self centered type. If you marry her,you will die young. Any woman that can't help you shoulder a burden is a bad woman. Dump her,she is just using you. Those type of women can't be faithful,any man can F.uck them as long as the price is Right. She is a gold digger. 207 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by blinking001(m): 10:25pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
You are dating yourself....that's the truth..end things with that girl..She's manipulating you 97 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Liposure: 10:28pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
This girl should be elected president of stingy girls association of nigeria. 98 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by heendrix(m): 10:29pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook? I don't pity guys like you continue being a cheerful giver don't worry ur reward is in Heaven. imagine such insolence ![]() 38 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by general111(m): 10:37pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Sometimes when i read things like this, i thank God for my fiancee, she is a blessing to my life jawe. I cant wait to marry her sef.. Op, walk away from that relationship, she believes that a man's money is our money, but a womans money is her money. She is not a wife material. 49 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by EzegeNdiigbo: 10:59pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Fake story
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Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by DaddyRochie1642: 11:00pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
[quote author=simple250 post=99204755][/quote] That your meme picture made me Laugh |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by phintohlar(f): 1:15am On Feb 19, 2021 |
She's stingy, period 6 Likes |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by saintvc(m): 1:34am On Feb 19, 2021 |
She is from a poor background 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Ferdinandu(m): 1:44am On Feb 19, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook?My friend start looking for a back up Girlfriend sharperly. Once you get used to the back up girlfriend quietly turn her to the side chick else she will be the one to do that to you when a better paying boyfriend shows face. That is a red flag situation 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by Angelacruz: 5:39am On Feb 19, 2021 |
She is naturally stingy 17 Likes |
Re: Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting by femi4: 6:00am On Feb 19, 2021 |
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook?These are red flags, you are not overreacting 51 Likes 6 Shares |
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