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Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Oladeji245(m): 10:42am On Feb 19, 2021 |
Chii59:full |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Godoverevery: 10:45am On Feb 19, 2021 |
ImaIma1:So we that have younger one still looking up to us should kill them or disown them because we are married. At this point I can see you just irrational......how does me having my younger one visiting me means they are putting mouth in my business. Abeg use your brain a lil now. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by ImaIma1(f): 10:49am On Feb 19, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: Nice! That's the way to go. You create the balance and everyone maintains their lanes. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by ImaIma1(f): 10:56am On Feb 19, 2021 |
Godoverevery: You want to kill your younger ones? Why would you have such thoughts? It seems you have comprehension problems or you are just set in your thinking. Does having younger ones mean they must cause problems in their elder ones marriages? No sir! I am a younger one that lived with an older one and I didn't have entitlement mentality or cause any issues in my older one's marriage. Abeg read to understand and discuss like an intelligent human. You are just talking with so much bitterness and narrow minded mindset, that has blinded and clouded your judgement. READ TO UNDERSTAND AND THINK IT THROUGH AND REASON..DON'T BE A ONE WAY TRAFFIC. 1 Like |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by budaatum: 11:51am On Feb 19, 2021 |
Godoverevery: If you want to have good relationship with the family perhaps you would not do anything to piss off your brother's wife so she does not throw you out in the first place. It is an option, don't you think? 1 Like |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Godoverevery: 1:04pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
budaatum: You don't need to do anything to piss such women off.... seeing him in that house have already made her Angry. You can never please someone who doesn't like you no matter how good you behave she will still have issh. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by budaatum: 1:13pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Godoverevery: You have assumed she is "such women" instead of considering you yourself might be such man who just pisses people off. I have just one bit of advice for you. Two, in case a picture won't do. www.nairaland.com/attachments/13164845_notable02586_jpegd2d14e400fafd83a1fb1c6dacb17e936 www.nairaland.com/attachments/11843020_20200701190851272_jpeg_jpegd37fa2921e81fd9029803de69a5151c0 |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Godoverevery: 1:51pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
ImaIma1: Just use your brain that all.......my siblings can't give me wife problem but if they do I will deal with them....common sense. But can my wife send my siblings out of my house or tell me they can't come......them no born her papa. No one will give you problem if you are Patience.... |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by budaatum: 1:55pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Godoverevery:I hope you would at the very least consider her reasons instead of just assuming she is "such women". |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Godoverevery: 1:59pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
budaatum: my advice for you is this.....if she can tolerate her own siblings then is common sense she know you have tolerate your husband siblings too. In yoruba land you can't disrespect your in-law as a woman infact you dare not call the one you older than by name. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Godoverevery: 2:02pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
budaatum:No Matter the reason she has to wait till I come back......like wtf. You send my own blood out of my house without informing me that means she can even to do it my mother. If my wife try such with me , she going to her parent house I swear to heaven. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by cayorday89(m): 4:04pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE:My brother make God help us, you had a wife who is not ready to drag with you and a submitting one at that, in some cases the woman will not agree and the siblings will be Hell bent on causing trouble, in that guys case, so many things must have happened that he never shared and the wife must have acted to even dare the husband.. Things like this should be discussed before marriage like I did in my last relationship, told her my terms and she agreed but felt I will mumuishly back out on some of my terms cos of love, but I never did and we had to go our separate ways, imagine someone blaming me for not caring for the mum's upkeep when me is trying to save massively for things that will better my own life as a struggling guy, while her elder siblings about 9 in number abandoned their own mum... And I also made it known, I don't like family members staying beyond a stipulated period of time as I love my space and peace of mind.. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by budaatum: 4:54pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Godoverevery:You should ask yourself why you married me if I was "such women", because I am certain you would not want the beautiful amazing daughters I would have for you to turn out to be "such women" which is bound to be the case if I was "such women" myself. Were you blind, perhaps? Do know that this is 2021 and not 1821. We do not tolerate anymore but respect and demand respect in return. If your siblings can not respect your wife with your support she can pack her stuff and dump your ass. I mean, it's not as if I can't go and work and pay my own rent and the schoolfees of your daughters if you the husband who promised to love me above everyone else refuses to protect me from your rude siblings and instead assume I am "such women". Please choose. You either respect me and order your siblings to respect me or ........ Because if you have any sense you would realise that by disrespecting me they are disrespecting you too. 1 Like |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by zealousayo(m): 5:49pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
ImaIma1: No matter the issue, the wife went too far by sending him out. If my wife tries such with my family, she's also a goner. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Sixfeetbelle: 7:50pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
budaatum: I've learnt, from my brief stay on this forum, to not argue anything gender related with this particular Op. He's stubbonly partial and set in his way and beliefs. Kudos to you and Ima. Can never be me 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by budaatum: 8:03pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Oh, I am not arguing with the op. Just using him as a soundboard so others may see how silly he is being. And I must say, you make me think it has worked. 1 Like |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:05pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
budaatum: Are you sure they're seeing how silly he's being? Please, forget story. Nothing has worked. Na im type full for here 1 Like |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by budaatum: 8:17pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: He carried himself over from here. Lol. Trust me, there are more sensible people observing than commenting. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by ImaIma1(f): 9:00am On Feb 20, 2021 |
zealousayo: I already pointed out that she was irrational and should have waited to report whatever problem to her husband. If your wife is the type that will act that way, that is who you married. You married her with that flaw. You will most likely try to manage the situation |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by zealousayo(m): 9:37am On Feb 20, 2021 |
ImaIma1: Well, you're right. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Nobody: 9:54am On Feb 20, 2021 |
ImaIma1: There is a difference between staying and visiting, when you visit your brother its norm you act like a visitor and seek permission even before you sit down BUT the moment you start living with them, all that visitor charade stops ... you can't be possibly waking up everyday to ask for permission to enter the kitchen or go to the toilet in a house you live, with time familiarity kills formalty As far as i am concern, there matrimonial bedroom marks the only reasonable boundary. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by ImaIma1(f): 11:24am On Feb 20, 2021 |
larryjonze: When I stayed with them for a holiday, I wasn't asking permission to do everything, but only where necessary. You have to respect the woman of the house. And if I was going to have a guest, she would have been aware of my plans. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Nobody: 12:22pm On Feb 20, 2021 |
ImaIma1: Respect they say is reciprocal, in yoruba tribe women are training to respect the inlaws irrespective age, the focus is on the wife because the husband people feels the woman is an outsider, so the wife is expected to earn respect by respecting her inlaw first. what a woman need is love & likeness not respect, all it takez for your inlaw to respect you is likeness so women should know what to fight for. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Godoverevery: 12:33pm On Feb 20, 2021 |
budaatum: well am not surprised with this submission..... that why single mother full everywhere.....it must be about me mentality. You don't command respect dummy....you earn it......if my sibling offend you and you feel the best decision is to throw his things out without informing me then am a foolish man who is wife has no regards for. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by ImaIma1(f): 12:34pm On Feb 20, 2021 |
larryjonze: Respect is for males? That is the "wrongest" thing I have heard. Women are not to be respected? Where did you even get that from? I know about then Yoruba culture. My brother's wife is Yoruba and we don't feel she's an outsider. She's part of the family. Respect is for males |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Godoverevery: 12:36pm On Feb 20, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: You can't engage me now. A woman throwing out is husband bro things over any dispute is wickedness. Only wicked, useless women do that. ... period |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by budaatum: 1:17pm On Feb 20, 2021 |
Godoverevery: If you were a good husband, you would have dealt with the ops complaint of "whenever she sight me", which implies it has been going on a while and you should have noticed either because your sibling told you or your wife told you, but useless home manager that you are refused to deal with it and are now complaining because I refuse to put up with your ineptitude no longer. And to further show how irresponsible a man you are, you are blaming me for the breakdown of the home you are meant to be in charge of? It's not your fault. I should have valued myself more and not married a man who has so little respect for me that he refers to me as "such women"! Be there making out my single motherhood is a bad thing when the truth is you made my existence worse. Now I've gotten rid of useless you and your sibling baggage, I'm much calmer and able to bring up your daughters so they will marry a man who will respect them a lot more than you respect me. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:29pm On Feb 20, 2021 |
budaatum:....Are you guys not tired?. Both husband and wife deserves respect inorder to make the family a happy home. I keep saying it that the only way that woman will exhibit such actions without giving a damn about her husband was because the man has already failed to take charge. 1 Like |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Nobody: 1:49pm On Feb 20, 2021 |
ImaIma1: Madam, i am not surprise you took it the wrong way, but don't get me wrong everyone (male/female) deserves respect, but we feed in different forms. lets just say one feed in liquid form while the other feed in solid form. Ephesians 5:33, KJV “However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” Men are receptive to respect just as women are receptive to love, if a man truly loves a woman he will respecf her and if a woman truly respect a man she tends to love him. giving one another what we understand is called communication, communication they say is key in every marriage. sho get. |
Re: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by ImaIma1(f): 2:21pm On Feb 20, 2021 |
larryjonze: Oga, I took it as you said it that respect is for males. Weren't those your words? You wrote something and now turn around to say I am taking it the wrong way. You are quoting a verse about husband and wife. What about generally? 1Peter 2:17 "Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor" Everyone is receptive to respect and love. Will a child kneel down and greet her mother and stand and greet the mother because only men are receptive to respect? Respect is for everyone o |
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