There is nothing wrong with marrying them both if you want and can afford to, just don't put them in the same building. Also, you might have seen how relying on the co wives to financially support each other and themselves can result in oppression and disaster. That is a lesson to you. Pay all expenses for both homes, and don't show favouritism. All will be well las las.

Exhibit full control from day 1.

Draslo:
If your girlfriend accepts it, what makes you believe your OGA will accept to go back into a polygamous marriage.


Use your head!

She will, trust me there is no smoke without fire nor any fire without smoke, an elderly approached me some weeks ago with the issue,I told him bout my girlfriend and that I and her are no go area,not at all, so there's only one person that might say no and that person is my girlfriend, she knows bout the rumors and conspiracy, and I once told her with mean that I'm gonna marry two wives, she was bitter for days and later asked my reasons, I told that with time she will know, she was like, no problem if your reasons are genuine, but I should be careful bout the second person, that she must be understanding and calm...

aroundtheearth:
Marry one: your girlfriend.

You're only interested in the other woman because of money.

Which money? The one that I already decides how and when it's been spent? No, I'm only trying to protect the hearts that have been there for me... The money is no a major factor here cus truth is that I can go with halve or even more of the said wealth if I want a split right away, she won't deny me that, but if eventually things goes wrong on her part or mine... I'll be responsible for it all, I wish she should just be able to stay out of marriage and maybe adopt and be a single mum but she won't go for it

RisenPhoenix1:
There is nothing wrong with marrying them both if you want and can afford to, just don't put them in the same building. Also, you might have seen how relying on the co wives to financially support each other and themselves can result in oppression and disaster. That is a lesson to you. Pay all expenses for both homes, and don't show favouritism. All will be well las las.

Exhibit full control from day 1.

will l look into this angle bruh

God is about to bless you with two understanding wives and you are here asking questions, claim your blessings befor the devil distract you. One last thing, make sure your girl friend is the first wife

While some men are screaming 'women are scarce', the OP has two to choose from.

This life ehn!

bukatyne:
While some men are screaming 'women are scarce', the OP has two to choose from.

This life ehn!

Scarcity? You are not of this world

njele:
God is about to bless you with two understanding wives and you are here asking questions, claim your blessings befor the devil distract you. One last thing, make sure your girl friend is the first wife

Then this blessings comes with a greater responsibility dear

Oga marry her joor. Na the hustle. All of una na desame. Other guys have eyes for the money, you have nose for the money. You want me to advise you on how to marry your sugar mummy. SMH

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YhurNiggah:


We are partners in biz already, separating from her will affect both of us financial and as the biz might fail, our togetherness is one of the major factor of it's growth, so quitting to start afresh might be hard and exhausting, and if a man comes in between, he might be a gold digger or probably set his eyes on the money and brings distraction, I'm really confused, cus I can't imagine letting someone destroyed my/our sweat of many years, or stand a chance of leaving girlfriend, this women both are the reasons why I'm alive... As in, they saved me when I was dying slowly and had nobody, no family member helped let alone relatives or friends... They arere the angels of light in my life

I don't believe this story though, sound too fictional to be true! But if this is true, just know u are a very selfish & greedy person, I wonder what your girlfriend is still doing with someone like u! U want to lay claim to that poor woman's wealth, u are already taking advantage of her situation. U are very selfish! Because of your selfishness, u want to keep that woman to yourself, so u can keep her wealth.

YhurNiggah:
Lemme explain this, I am purely against accusations or maltreatment of any kind towards a man or a woman cus of infertility, because I believe we have no control over it as humans, and probably no one's fault...

Marry both of them afterall david dem married more than 20 and God didnt judge them. Who b oyibo to tell us how many wives not to marry?

YhurNiggah:



Which money? The one that I already decides how and when it's been spent? No, I'm only trying to protect the hearts that have been there for me... The money is no a major factor here cus truth is that I can go with halve or even more of the said wealth if I want a split right away, she won't deny me that, but if eventually things goes wrong on her part or mine... I'll be responsible for it all, I wish she should just be able to stay out of marriage and maybe adopt and be a single mum but she won't go for it

That she was unable to conceive for her ex doesn't meant she wont conceive for you. Look at Toyin Abraham or funke akindele na

Don't Get Married To Any Of Them Because Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

You can marry both if your fiance would really not mind.

If you are a Moslem, some women are used to the idea.

Hope you are not trying to inherit her wealth for your children. Make sure of this. Let her wealth be enjoyed by her own nuclear family.

OP have u chopped the older woman?

bukatyne:
While some men are screaming 'women are scarce', the OP has two to choose from.

This life ehn!

And i thought it was the other way round

Marry is not the problem. Do you what it takes to handle two wives?

bukatyne:
While some men are screaming 'women are scarce', the OP has two to choose from.

This life ehn!

very funny....

Rubbiish:

I don't believe this story though, sound too fictional to be true! But if this is true, just know u are a very selfish & greedy person, I wonder what your girlfriend is still doing with someone like u! U want to lay claim to that poor woman's wealth, u are already taking advantage of her situation. U are very selfish! Because of your selfishness, u want to keep that woman to yourself, so u can keep her wealth.

If I'm selfish, if I'm greedy, if I'm self centered, I for don steal all her money directly or indirectly, my girlfriend is with me cus I'm sincere and have been her best friend ever since we started dating, you are judging me based on your thought of me being selfish which I'm not, just this morning I requested for 200k from this woman that I wanna buy chest freezer for my shop, and I'm buying it tomorrow cus the money is already with me bro, I could have withdrawn the money and claim I used it to run our joint biz, whatever I ask she does... Before I requested for that money, we discussed about her marriage plan, she too is scared of other men, stating that she love me cus I've been there for her

Liposure:
Marry is not the problem. Do you what it takes to handle two wives?

Food for thought my brother, yhur niggah is very scared of that oh

mejai:
OP have u chopped the older woman?

Not part of the plan, so, no

KarisNech:
Oga marry her joor. Na the hustle. All of una na desame. Other guys have eyes for the money, you have nose for the money. You want me to advise you on how to marry your sugar mummy. SMH

Sugar mummy kwa? Bitter daddy

Teleprompter:
You can marry both if your fiance would really not mind.

If you are a Moslem, some women are used to the idea.

Hope you are not trying to inherit her wealth for your children. Make sure of this. Let her wealth be enjoyed by her own nuclear family.

Of recent,she asked me about giving her brother some money to support His biz, she(we) gave him 500k if I said no to her, she will not give him anything, some of her immediate family gets things from her through me... All the lands she bought, other properties, most of them have my signature

Hmm, don't you dare marry two women @ 28 pls.

I rest my case

egojeny1:
Hmm, don't you dare marry two women @ 28 pls.

I rest my case

It has nothing to do with my age, if I'm not doing it it's cus I don't want it, if I do it is what I cherish... But I just don't see it as the right thing.

I think I should disappear, ghost them both for a while... I can run some part of the biz along the line, so it won't affect it that much... I'll be going to my old time friends from far distance states...

YhurNiggah:
This moniker is for this purpose alone.

I am 28 years while my girlfriend is 24, we've been through a lot together, she's okay in her field of work though not that comfortable but she do not request much,she's supportive and caring,she's all I want in a wife.


Few years ago I started running business for this lady of 36 years (now),She was married when we started, opened lot of business for her husband,built house for him but he and his family was ungrateful because she couldn't conceive, the husband and his family were treating her like trash to the extent that he connived with his family and got another lady pregnant.


Her attention was called to it by friends,the husband and the pregnant lady apologised and she forgave them and accepted her as co-wife, everything was done and she was married into the family.


After she put to bed the first wife catered for everything right from hospital bill down to baby's diapers,but this people including the second wife do not appreciate her, after some months the husband went and got another girl pregnant and they became three wives,all being taken care of by the first wife.


She receives insults on daily basis from everyone in the family and it got to an extent that accusations begin go round that she wants to poison the guy,the misunderstanding became worst that they no longer cooks and eats together,she later left the main building with nothing except her clothes and other items and started living in dilapidated boys quarter, sleeping on the math,all this she accepted believing that one day,they will all make peace, she's very peaceful and too religious.


She was deceived by the husband to pack out and rent out a flat,that he will be visiting till he settles the differences in the family, then she will come back,she agreed and did as he said taking nothing with her.


After some months he was not coming as planned and it turned out that she was played,she filed for divorce and left everything for him.


I knew about all this but I never interfered or get involved with the dilemma,now after some months people are coming forward to marry her,and most have their eyes on her money.


Since we met,I've been handling her business like it's mine, we do have our ups and downs in the business but we always bounce back stronger, her family knows and loves(like) me.


Everyone knows that I controls her wealth and started calling me her husband,and now the Truth is that she has developed a deep emotional feelings for me and will do anything I ask her to do,she loves and care for me,she's supportive even towards my girlfriend and now there's a conspiracy going around for me to marry her, if possible marry her along with my girlfriend...




Please if you're in this kinda dilemma,how and what will you do?


NOTE:MY GIRLFRIEND IS NOT HARD TYPE,WITH EXPLANATION SHE WILL ACCEPT THE ARRANGEMENTS,MY FAMILY WON'T HAVE A SAY CUS THEY CONTRIBUTE ALMOST NOTHING TO MY GROWTH THAN BOTH OF THEM HAS DONE FOR ME THIS YEARS...


AND I'M AFRAID SHE MIGHT FALL INTO WRONG HANDS IF I DECLINE THE IDEA OR TO LOOSE MY GIRLFRIEND OR POSSIBLY LOOSING BOTH OF THEM AND END UP WITH A BLOOD SUCKER! I'm confused and I need help.

Please I need exposure on this, probably FP pls.

#YhurBruhDownDaStreet

..This has to be a movie..

YhurNiggah:
Lemme explain this, I am purely against accusations or maltreatment of any kind towards a man or a woman cus of infertility, because I believe we have no control over it as humans, and probably no one's fault...

That means you would marry every woman that is been maltreated on earth,shioor. I know its the money you are interested in so do what you want and stop disturbing us.

prettysassygirl:

That means you would marry every woman that is been maltreated on earth,shioor. I know its the money you are interested in so do what you want and stop disturbing us.

Before you say rubbish, read between the lines, how am I interested in her money in the sense that I'm gonna marry her cus of the money?, I didn't initiate the marriage saga, her friends and her family are all behind the idea, my girlfriend comes first which makes her second consideration, and all that depends if my girlfriend say yes or not... So my dear what ever I had today is through this two wonderful ladies, and I've never undermined or betrayed anyone one of them cus material or monetary wise... I'm in this dilemma cus I'm kind hearted, I'm not saying I'm perfect, but I'm always honest in everything I do... I'm confused and in this angle cus I wan do the right and honourable thing

Xxx123xxx:
..This has to be a movie..

All I said are nothing but most beautiful truth, why make up such a story? With an unknown username that I'm gonna deactivate once all this is over? What gain do I get in fabricating lie that won't bring a dime into my pus? I don't even normally create or comment on social media, I only come online to get information I need and I'm off but here I am using my precious time to follow up on this and you call it a movie, my dear it is real like in real life, this is what is happening in my LIFE, NO LIES.