NwaNimo1:
Time is money.....Money is time!

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Proposal done......Back to the hustle!

Obarofrederick:
To all the guys here... there is a lesson from this write-up. Only the wise will understand. To be a Simp is a fat sin

abimic:
Me that I've been rehearsing my proposal genre in my head.... Every man to his tent.

RisenPhoenix1:


It is fitting. Most women beg for their man to marry them, only they do it codedly.

NwaAmaikpe:




As a typical nwafor proper that I am...I decided not to let my ancestors down by begging a woman to marry me.

It worked because my own wife proposed to me.
The hanty found out she was pregnant and began begging me to marry her to help save face.
If you see the way she begged me, you'd know that a desperate lady is shameless.

But as a nwafor who swore that no daughter of Jezebel will use pregnancy to trap me into marriage, I refused.
When she saw I was not forthcoming, I don't know what she did with that pregnancy but it somehow vanished and that was when I went and paid her brideprice.

Till this day, I still have the bragging rights. So when I misbehave and she wants to talk, I simply remind her that she was the one who begged me to marry her.

Xenry:
That's how we roll. No public drama, no romantic crying, no kneeing down. Just do your thing, if she rejects it then collect your ring and go.
Imagine kneeing down to beg a girl who have been fvcked, unfvcked, refvcked and overfvcked by lots of niggars to accept the ring that I bought with my hard-earned money, damn! It svcks.

Ishilove:

Interesting. So what parameters did you use in your 'research' to come up with this sweeping generalisation?

RisenPhoenix1:
He even used a ring sef. Some men overpamper their women.

And he's here again. Pained and crying.

Even seen those who go overseas and to propose, ON A BENDED KNEE, on a yacht, to A woman they swore to love and cherish 'till death?

How does it kill you inside? I'm sure you must be rolling in the sand and wailing like a dirge singer over KimYe's divorce making news and the properties and so much money to be shared between them.

Patriarchal alfas been convulsing since 1932 over modern women and marriages.

Ishilove:

Interesting. So what parameters did you use in your 'research' to come up with this sweeping generalisation?

RisenPhoenix1:


Observation. You may not believe it, but many of my friends and their wives see me as a good listener and marriage counsellor, so I get to hear a lot of relationship ills. Also, I've regrettably dated quite a few ladies, so I have had some personal experience of my own.

Women give hints, 'forget' their bras and pants until they have a whole cupboard full in their bf's house, cook wash and clean their bfs homes just as if they were good wives (as a free sample of what he can expect to benefit after marriage), tell him stories about how her pastor gave a prophecy concerning him, formulate 'coincidental' meetings between their parents and bf, even pretend to be pregnant just to test their bf's temperature. All these ploys and many others are cleverly formulated to give their bfs the hint that there are ovaries ripe for the plucking. Some actually do ask directly.

Beze992:


Just make sure she will say yes o, to avoid stories that touch the heart.

begoniaa:


And he's here again. Pained and crying.

Even seen those who go overseas and to propose, ON A BENDED KNEE, on a yacht, to A woman they swore to love and cherish 'till death?

How does it kill you inside? I'm sure you must be rolling in the sand and wailing like a dirge singer over KimYe's divorce making news and the properties and so much money to be shared between them.

Patriarchal alfas been convulsing since 1932 over modern women and marriages.

thelish:
Nairaland men dey rake Sha... Lol
So na ghost dey do all the kneeling and blowing of trumpet we see everyday..
Make una kwantinue
Every man is an alpha male on nairaland... Hurrrayyy

Asinnn.

I no blame them, sha. Na anonymity wey NL give them be the reason. They can only be the strong man they are not in real life online.

RisenPhoenix1:


Observation. You may not believe it, but many of my friends and their wives see me as a good listener and marriage counsellor, so I get to hear a lot of relationship ills. Also, I've regrettably dated quite a few ladies, so I have had some personal experience of my own.

Women give hints, 'forget' their bras and pants until they have a whole cupboard full in their bf's house, cook wash and clean their bfs homes just as if they were good wives (as a free sample of what he can expect to benefit after marriage), tell him stories about how her pastor gave a prophecy concerning him, formulate 'coincidental' meetings between their parents and bf, even pretend to be pregnant just to test their bf's temperature. All these ploys and many others are cleverly formulated to give their bfs the hint that there are ovaries ripe for the plucking. Some actually do ask directly.

RisenPhoenix1:


Yes I've seen those 'men' begging women to enslave them, but you overrate the influence such incidents have on us. We are mere observers not participants. When we point out such issues, it's only to sensitize our brothers on how wrong such behaviour is and how counterproductive the outcome generally is.

Kim and Kanye's divorce proceedings is actually a good thing. We can use it as a case study to teach others in a practical way.

Ishilove:

A lady gives her partner hints when he is trying to be unfortunate by tying her down for donkey years without defining their relationship. You are well aware that a woman's fertility has an expiry period, unlike men who can still fire down even in their 60s and 70s. When one idiot man refuses to make up his mind, she will start clamouring because she doesn't want the fool to waste her precious time.

Leaving her pant and bra behind is classic mating behaviour, a way of marking what she considers to be her territory, same way it is done among other species of living things. That is not 'begging' as you have so condescendingly put it.

NwaAmaikpe:




As a typical nwafor proper that I am...I decided not to let my ancestors down by begging a woman to marry me.

It worked because my own wife proposed to me.
The hanty found out she was pregnant and began begging me to marry her to help save face.
If you see the way she begged me, you'd know that a desperate lady is shameless.

But as a nwafor who swore that no daughter of Jezebel will use pregnancy to trap me into marriage, I refused.
When she saw I was not forthcoming, I don't know what she did with that pregnancy but it somehow vanished and that was when I went and paid her brideprice.

Till this day, I still have the bragging rights. So when I misbehave and she wants to talk, I simply remind her that she was the one who begged me to marry her.

RisenPhoenix1:




Nothing. Words only. We need to do away with all these meaningless foreign traditions.

Technically, it's far better if the woman first introduces the m-word into a relationship.



Now that's a thought. By giving her a set of cooking pots, he could express his willingness to have her come and cook for him as a wife. Maybe coupled with a couple of sexy wrappers to express za oza room things. Smart of you to think of such an expressive gift, useful too; not like a shining pseudo-glass bauble with no intrinsic use.

begoniaa:


Wait. Hellooo? Is it that you don't know who this is?? Ohhh, why you wanna ruin my chance at dancing on top your mention in ecstasy now?

Anyway, I'm not reading your explanations. Simps and monogamous men are in the majority and will continue to be. The way women like us love them. How many men have you been sensitizing dah you think they are ignorant?? Oh, trust me, such acts do have the greatest influence on y'all. You *care* enough to want to free them from *simppage* jail.

And weda eez a good hor bad tin, it happened. Daz mah pointh.

codedgalaxy:
lol
Mad o !

RisenPhoenix1:


Since you agree with me in all particulars except for the precise term to use, we're good. I'm not arguing over semantics. You can call begging anything you like; marking territory, hinting etc. We're still saying the same thing.

RisenPhoenix1:


I really don't care who you are. I answer each different monicker as is, I really have better things to do than waste my time analysing writing styles. If you are someone whom I normally consider not worth my notice under another monicker due to some aberrant behaviour, I have no doubt that you will soon behave the same way under this one and fall under the same category with this monicker too.

Simps and monogamous men are possibly in the majority now, but not for long. More and more of them are waking up. It matters little who is in the majority. Each man who learns liberates himself, not us, and each man lost is an example for the future, while our own lives are not affected in the least. All that matters is that the knowledge is spreading and the trend reversing.

Okay then. Lemme give you the heads up and tell you to begin ignoring me now. There's no possibilities or uncertainties here. My behavior is unchanging... so...

And I am very sure, DeerPhoenix, that you're aware of the same trend applying to feminism. Just download everything you've written and paste for feminism.

No more desperate/begging/pick-mes women; no more men to go on knees, proposing as you'll like to believe. So there. Everything's all fine... (but of course, if you want to turn around and claim feminism is declining while your ideology is gaining momentum, haqhaqhaq).

PS: (Because I do mostly remember people's previous posts) You said feminists are NOT worth engaging, so you saw my signature with all that's there and still...went on to engage? Why bother at all, LMAO?

begoniaa:


Okay then. Lemme give you the heads up and tell you to begin ignoring me now. There's no possibilities or uncertainties here. My behavior is unchanging... so...

begoniaa:

And I am very sure, DeerPhoenix, that you're aware of the same trend applying to feminism. Just download everything you've written and paste for feminism.

No more desperate women; no more men to go on knees, proposing as you'll like to believe. So there. Everything's all fine... (but of course, if you want to turn around and claim feminism is declining while your ideology is gaining momentum, haqhaqhaq).

begoniaa:

PS: (Because I do mostly remember people's previous posts) You said feminists are NOT worth engaging, so you saw my signature with all that's there and still...went on to engage? Why bother at all, LMAO?

Ishilove:

No we are not saying the same thing. Begging is totally different from giving your partner subtle signals.

You're willfully twisting language to suit your narrative.

RisenPhoenix1:


When your comments start getting irrational or insulting, I will disengage. Up until now, you've behaved quite appropriately.

I might believe in one concept that, on the surface, may show a similarity to that preached by feminists, but our motives are totally dissimilar, as are the majority of our concepts. If feminists accept that women should ideally be chaste traditional wives whose main roles in life is to stay at home and nurture the family, then I'm all for feminism.

To be honest. I did not bother looking at your signature. I almost never read people's signatures or visit their profiles. I answer comments, not labels. But as I said earlier, when your comments start getting too petulant and irrational, I will stop engaging, never fear. Most feminists lack coherent opinions and so tend to pass off emotional hysteria as reason. And since there is no reasoning with an emotional person, I do not normally engage with feminists. Of course, this does not apply to topics outside feminism or social structure; some feminists may have perfectly good ideas on the agriculture forum for example or investment.

Xenry:
That's how we roll. No public drama, no romantic crying, no kneeing down. Just do your thing, if she rejects it then collect your ring and go.
Imagine kneeing down to beg a girl who have been fvcked, unfvcked, refvcked and overfvcked by lots of niggars to accept the ring that I bought with my hard-earned money, damn! It svcks.

RisenPhoenix1:


Begging in the spirit then.

You are the one twisting words. When a woman starts giving a man hints about marriage and living together, it's as obvious as when a beggar waves his plastic bowl in front of you. Neither one needs to utter a word before you know that a desperate plea is just under the surface. Or would you perhaps call a beggar waving his bowl under your nose a "subtle signal" as well?

begoniaa:


Stories.



Seems like you never understood/didn't understand my point. Anything your ideology is there to do (to men and whatever), feminism is there to do (to women and all), I'm just saying. I have not said we do SIMILAR, exact things and yada yada yada.



More stories.

Ishilove:

Arguing with you is totally pointless.

Have a good evening.