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How My Boyfriend Became My Stalker by BigCabal: 10:32am On Feb 26, 2021 |
The subject of this week’s What She Said is a 23-year-old Nigerian woman who was in a toxic relationship with a man who did all he could to keep her with him, including stalking and blackmailing her. Where did you meet? It was December 2019, and I was 22 while he was 27. He’s my neighbour — we live in the same street. My aunt had a shop just in front of my house, and he used to come to the shop a lot. I personally didn’t notice him until, one day, I caught him staring at me. I was going to buy suya, and he followed me. He picked up his pace and caught up with me. There was some small talk, he paid for my suya and bought me extra for my family. We exchanged numbers and that was pretty much it for that night. Do you live with your aunt? I don’t live with my aunt. My dad converted our security post into a shop to support her. So I see her everyday because of the shop. What happened after he paid for your suya? I think he called. I’m not sure. But we eventually started talking. He was actually in a relationship at the time. I had heard tales about his babe, how she used to break things and stab him. I don’t believe all that anymore. I think they both got a thrill out of whatever their situation was, but from the outside, the girl was painted as a blood-sucking demon. He made it seem like he was stuck in a helpless situation with his babe and didn’t know what to do. Like a foolish woman, I went to play messiah, telling him he deserved better. I should have just kept quiet and gone my way, but that’s basically what got us talking. When did he break up with his babe? A month or two later. I’m not the smartest with matters of my heart. So when he started preaching love to me, even though I was just out of a failed relationship and out of therapy, I went with the flow. However, I told him I couldn’t date him if he was still with his girlfriend. He ended things with her in a very immature and impulsive way. This caused drama because the babe became FBI and found out he broke up with her for me. She threatened to Bleep me up. For context, the babe was also close to my aunt. She felt my aunt pimped me out to him, even though my aunt really didn’t have anything to do with the relationship. She just gave me a few pats on my back. I don’t know what he went to promise her, but she eventually cooled off. Continue: https://www.zikoko.com/her/what-she-said-how-my-boyfriend-became-my-stalker/ |
Re: How My Boyfriend Became My Stalker by AlphaSoul: 1:00pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
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