She found some other guy. I'm still mad but I'm getting used to it.

Benzemma:
if she didn't date for five years, she wouldn't have escaped that timing bomb. Sometimes when you rush things in life, you end up regretting.

some problems comes because you spend too many years dating.

Why am still single?
Looking at the financial situation of my humble self, I consider getting financially strong before I am involve in any relationship, finance make relationship sweet, I am broke at the moment but I nothing last forever so I am hustling tight, before getting into any relationship, responsibility and understanding is highly needed in a relationship and money too a lot of money .. girls might say you don't need money but you do because your are the only one supplying all the family, especially when you are the only one person that have a job, so you have to take care of people, in needs. Am not a father Christmas but you must provide. Am the head of the family. Thank God for your things are going ...

You have no business going into a relationship at your age and also You have no reason to be single because you should be single in the first place due to nigeria situation you are still very young and need to focus on your life first .start dating only when you are ready to settle down

Pegi23:
1.no one understand me..they feel I'm never serious (I joke alot)
2..I'm too beautiful to be faithful (but I'm very faithful oo)

Well your number two point caught my attention.. Wym by you are too beautiful to be faithful��. Does your current bf think that way too (i.e if u even have a bf)

Wilsonzinny:
You ar entitld to ur tots my dear...

Who is ur dear?

Cos nobody wants to be with a fat girl with visible scars from an accident.

chichimezie:
relationship is overrated....no one wants to be faithful...i quite

who told you so.... If you had a bad experience before concerning that then it doesn't mean there is no faithful dude on earth..

phatnelly:
Cos nobody wants to be with a fat girl with visible scars from an accident.

Seems like you are referring to yourself...
why would anyone not want to be with a fat girl with visible scars from an accident?

daniel7328:



Seems like you are referring to yourself...
why would anyone not want to be with a fat girl with visible scars from an accident?

I guess cos most men are naturally vain, or maybe they are looking for perfection in a human skin.

Almost mid 20s, single cos zero confidence and also I'm broke and etc

phatnelly:
I guess cos most men are naturally vain, or maybe they are looking for perfection in a human skin.

Well no one is perfect and God created everyone in his own image.... would love to know u more better.... Can we chat on WhatsApp

BRATISLAVA:


The entitlement among single men is alarming if not amusing. In his mind she can't, but it's in his nature to. She accountable to him, but he is accountable to who?

Most men on this forum have brains that revolve only around sex, that's why that's all they can think of when they think of a woman. But they've convinced themselves it's women that offer it; knowing fully well it's all they want and can offer themselves.

In fact, they have all programmed themselves to have sex, get children and at the slightest sign of trouble collect children they didn't give birth to, because they own everything, because she's benefiting more, somehow. That's why baby mama/red pill appeals to their sensuality. They are accountable to no one. Everything is theirs: the vagina, the children, the money, everything. Yet listen to him talking about 70% and 30%. No wonder marriages are failing. Look at the brain of someone who says he wants to get married, when to him he's always looking for who is benefiting more and who isn't.

When a man of substance meets a woman, they will have more experiences than just sex.

I wish I could like this more than once. You have said it all. They want to lead but dont want to display those leadership qualities that will make a woman want to follow. Wahala dey

DonMekino:
I need a mature lady btw 23-32
igbo, location lagos preferably

I can link you with a lady but, she's pretty fat.

[quote author=studentofTruth post=99433851]Too busy to actively search
My spec is too rare to find: intelligent, dark, slim, and tall. The most annoying thing is that most ebony beauties try to tone their skin, and in the process, losing that unique beauty.

Keep it natural ladies. We like it natural — that face we see when we wake up in the morning. Not multicolored masquerades!
[/quot

Word. Hate cake face. If you like dark, make sure u visit Senegal or guinea Bissau

Divoc19:


Don't stress much just be confident around the person and always look your best always. Maybe the person will like you back and if the person doesn't then, that person no DESERVE you.

It's the truth o.

One Love

hmm so you are saying as a lady if you turn down a guyy you will still want him to hang around you??.. Nobody wants to be a second choice dear..

FREDDi:
It a totally turnoff to be broke and rock bottom on confidence.. I feel your pain bro, I'm single but it's a personal decision and yes and not yet there in term of taking responsibility but if I see what I want I can get it...

Yes you can get a woman when you're broke. But guy if you do you'll know the meaning of Disrespect and Disregard

atakamus:
Some children need to be slapped. You never chop belle full you wan take care of woman. Crase de worry you. Imagine 20 something years old boy. You still de eat mama thank you and papa thank you. Na woman you wan take care of. You de mad.
Them carry you for back and you wan carry another person. You crase no get part two. Rubbish

HajiaNotu:
I m single because

▪I dont mingle

▪Ayam broke, when I get money, am gonna buy guys to masef...
Afterall most of them are lazy n looking for ladies wey carry...

▪N'B {Dont quote me..

Hajia gani nan trust I'm a fine boy

Tsolutionifede:
how do u know u r good? If u r really good and useful, he wouldn't want to waste u, so clear ur head, and work on ur deficiency.

My broda she believes that being commited to one man in a relationship equates to being a good girl/lady. Now you see that cheating has really eaten deep into our Nigerian's womens head and they now see it as a normal stuff?? As a man, if you opt for a non-virtuous lady who doesn't have estreme respect for her body, you will surely have yourself to blame.

Drizzy5001:
I'm single because, am still a student, I can't be giving the little pocket money wey my people dey dash me to a girl , but that doesn't mean that I don't bang pussy sha

Do you have a single room you live alone? Because how can you bang without giving a kobo

Hassanmaye:

Do you have a single room you live alone? Because how can you bang without giving a kobo

i stay off-campus in school, If I buy them Suya and Hollandia, everything don settle. unless na Runs-girl u Wan bang, that one u must drop something.

Drizzy5001:
i stay off-campus in school, If I buy them Suya and Hollandia, everything don settle. unless na Runs-girl u Wan bang, that one u must drop something.

Lol

These one will do anything to keep their man happy. Cos they know from experience good men are hard to get

angelfallz:
Why would his highest chance be a desperate single woman in her mid 30s or single mum?

Just be open minded them bulls plenty around you.

Headache be like reading for exams when you pass you win.

It was easy for Ezekiel

And yes I am

Donspicey:




I never see the bull talkless of grabbing the horn...


@bolded,,i hate anytin that will gv me headache...


Are u married?

So many ladies do turn a guy down for plenty reasons not that they don't like you.

It's either you have to step up your game and prove to her that you can be that man
Or
She is just too occupied with something
or someone (even family members can distract a lady from settling down too) and she doesn't have your time

Pray, do your best and be open.
I know couple(s) that never knew they will end up together and Las Las they are happily married

Phelumie300:


hmm so you are saying as a lady if you turn down a guyy you will still want him to hang around you??.. Nobody wants to be a second choice dear..

IamBroke:
I believe there are alot of single people here on this forum and all over the world.

Reasons they are single are best known to them.
But for me here are few reasons I'm still single..

I'm in ma early 20s but I've never asked a girl out before because I always feel like they gonna turn me down...
I'm single because I'm an introvert. I love being on ma own.
I'm broke and I'm not ready to take responsibilities of a girl financial situations.
There are alot of reasons but let me give room for others...

So WHY AR
E YOU STILL SINGLE

Bro we are in d same boat oo but there is one difference I do start showing interest in a girl but after sometime I go just lose interest I don't c it through,,,sometimes I go just look d fact say I broke no approach girls wey like me,,,,,nd sometimes I no even dey think of am at all sef I won get success first.

Jaqenhghar:

I wish I could like this more than once. You have said it all. They want to lead but dont want to display those leadership qualities that will make a woman want to follow. Wahala dey

They keep getting weaker everyday.

The caliber of fathers and men that were before are already extinct with the kinds of posts we see online. They are only men because they have the phallus, but hardly anything else about them is manly. That is why they find leadership so difficult nowadays and resort to hiding behind various schools of thought.

Young females need to find a way around them.

Wilsonzinny:
I spent 5yrs of my life lovin n bein commitd to a guy only for him to wake up one day to cal it quits...d pain is horrible wen u didnt do anytin...finally good ppl aint appreciated...

God will appreciate you. I know how you feel because I have pass through that road too.

StacyO:

I can link you with a lady but, she's pretty fat.

thank you, but honestly am not a fan of chubby ladies in terms of relationship

Hassanmaye:

Hajia gani nan trust I'm a fine boy

Na fine boy I go chop

JONSYN7154:
God will appreciate you. I know how you feel because I have pass through that road too.

Thanks