MISSCONGENIALITY:
The worst part of it is a man meeting a woman who's doing well for herself and then turning her to a bigger overnight. Will stop her from working and yet won't start up something for her and still not give her anything for up keep. And then she turns into a begger.

No woman doing well for herself will settle for a less for nothing man in the first place unless she's in her 30s and she definitely was whoring about in her 20s or she was a career slut to her boss in her career pursuit

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MISSCONGENIALITY:
Who marries a man without bearing or direction? Its a different thing if he has direction and is following it and later things didn't go well. But meeting someone, knowing he or she has no direction and still going ahead to marry the person is a suicide mission. If you were going to live 70yrs, you may just die are 40 out of frustration and depression. I can't even wish my enemy such a partner. You go dey look your mate she go start dey look like your grandma overnight because she marry. God forbid

spot on. Avoid men with no direction like leprosy.

They are cancer and will kill you dream too.

ABCthings:
Hmm... What if your dream is to become a banker and work 24/7. How would you balance being at your office and taking care of your home?

If I'm already a banker and the man didn't realize I was a banker before he came then he doesn't know what he wants. Except I decide on my own and say I would love to stop my work and fa e my family. I know of a woman whose husband stop her from working in the bank and she did. They e had 3kids now but the man hasnt allow her to do any other job and yet will not give her what she and the kids need.

90% of men don't do that for love of family, they do that out of jealousy and hatred for successful women.. that's something you need to understand. No man who loves his family will tell his wife to resign when he hasn't gotten something else for her.

DEMZEE:


Nawa ooo

U are a bloody idiotic simp dude

I don't know how any sensible man will buy feminism, it beats my imagination aswear sighs***

What scares you? Why are you so threatened? You go ki yourself if you get oga wey be woman oooo.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I can never support a man who thinks I'm too weak to have my own dream. At this stage of my life, any man who can't support my dream but things I should support his is not for me.
There are women who dream, follow their dreams and still raise their kids and even take care of their men.
No one should drop their dream except they do so willingly

Any woman who doesn't prioritize family, marriage, motherhood before career or business is a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman and will never make a good wife talkless of a good mother

banmee:


Read my post again. After you have mentally ra.ped for a long time it becomes normal. Look at Nigeria for instance. The way you all live is normal to you but it scares the living daylight to abnormal person.

Bad government, Nepotism, Bigotry are all systematic problems , and the Constitution must be revisited

There is nothing wrong with our Patriachal culture and norms, gynocentrism is not what we need but competent individuals in the govt and private sectors

budaatum:


Please tell me you are not Nigerian because I do not want you to come from the country I come from if you would rather be ignorant than knowledgeable.

I would ask if you know your history too, but I do not think I will bother because you obviously know so little, almost nothing in fact.

Have you paid your subscription to boko haram, because they think like you do?

Seriously, please tell me you are kidding because I'm really worried about you!

what is good about creating an atomic or nuclear bomb that can wipe out 80% of human race in a day if detonated?? Of course they were created by people who longed for knowledge!!!

Of what good is creating a pandemic??

Over 70% of websites on the internet are porn sites... Look at what it's doing to the youths.

Look at what the love of money is causing all around the world!!!!... Its too much knowledge that will destroy man... It was never God's plan for man's wisdom to be open because he knew the damage knowledge will do to him. A machine that can read, alter and manipulate human thoughts have been developed!! It would soon be deployed into the world security system. Man is not safe anymore!! Why on earth should man want to control the thoughts of another man?? Why must a man reduce his fellow man to a robot?? All thanks to quest for knowledge!!! The quest for knowledge has done so much damage than good to man.

BLOODYSPERM:


Weak men and Faggotss are bred in western and progressive societies

This is totally correct!

Already landed in Nigeria, spreading like wildfire.

Weak men and gays in a poverty stricken country

Makes me want to throw up.

The conservative westerner's are warning about it but like u said the ignorant man will always take the path of least resistance. Leftism!

budaatum:
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Word!

BLOODYSPERM:


Look for the best partner that can work with you , and both of you can discuss the best system to plan your family

I don't agree with your model and prefer my wife to key into my vision like Bishop David Oyedepo wife PST Mrs Faith Oyedepo

these are things people should discuss before marriage though most men will say one thing and do another after marriage.

Yours is not a problem. Just tell your Bishop to show you where he got his wife so that you can go there and her yours.

budaatum:
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That's why men are divorce-raped
There's alimony
Biased family court legal system
Affirmative action for women
Single motherhood

banmee:


Read my post again. After you have mentally ra.ped for a long time it becomes normal. Look at Nigeria for instance. The way you all live is normal to you but it scares the living daylight to abnormal person.

Nigeria need an overhaul of its political system and structures not feminism or gynocentrism.

Our culture which is patriarchal is okay

MISSCONGENIALITY:
these are things people should discuss before marriage though most men will say one thing and do another after marriage.

Yours is not a problem. Just tell your Bishop to show you where he got his wife so that you can go there and her yours.

Sound advice there
Getting wife from my church is an option

banmee:


What scares you? Why are you so threatened? You go ki yourself if you get oga wey be woman oooo.

If my oga na woman I won't kill myself, I already understand women's nature so I know better.

I didn't marry her so why should she being my oga bother me

DEMZEE:


Any woman who doesn't prioritize family, marriage, motherhood before career or business is a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman and will never make a good wife talkless of a good mother

Adult be you man or woman know what is right. So it and you wo t have to beg anyone to resign before that can take care of the family they started. We also know what we want. Go for it to avoid trouble. If you want a semi working wfe go for her. Don't go for a career woman and start telling her to stop work. If you want a stay at home wife, there are lots of them, don't don't come and tell them to start looking for work later. Some women actually love the stay at home kind of marriage
Just know what you want and go for it

BLOODYSPERM:


Sound advice there
Getting wife from my church is an option

better for you. To avoid them say them no say

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Adult be you man or woman know what is right. So it and you wo t have to beg anyone to resign before that can take care of the family they started. We also know what we want. Go for it to avoid trouble. If you want a semi working wfe go for her. Don't go for a career woman and start telling her to stop work. If you want a stay at home wife, there are lots of them, don't don't come and tell them to start looking for work later. Some women actually love the stay at home kind of marriage
Just know what you want and go for it

Young women should also prioritize family, marriage and motherhood in their early 20s and not become single miserable pseudo masculine hybrid beast ladies in their 30s

banmee:


What scares you? Why are you so threatened? You go ki yourself if you get oga wey be woman oooo.

Lolzzz
He has a point

DEMZEE:


Young women should also prioritize family, marriage and motherhood in their early 20s and not become single miserable pseudo masculine hybrid beast ladies in their 30s

Not every woman in her 30s is looking for a husband. Not everyone will marry. And not every woman in her 20s get to meet a husband. Marriage has nothing to do with 20s and 30s. It is when you meet someome you can share your life with than you should settle down. Don't make the mistake of thinking there's a perfect marriages age. That has made alot of people to end with wrong partners because they feel they are running out of time.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
If I'm already a banker and the man didn't realize I was a banker before he came then he doesn't know what he wants. Except I decide on my own and say I would love to stop my work and fa e my family. I know of a woman whose husband stop her from working in the bank and she did. They e had 3kids now but the man hasnt allow her to do any other job and yet will not give her what she and the kids need.

90% of men don't do that for love of family, they do that out of jealousy and hatred for successful women.. that's something you need to understand. No man who loves his family will tell his wife to resign when he hasn't gotten something else for her.

I know there are men who want a dependent lady so that she will be submissive( respect them and be afraid of divorce)

And those who want a housewife to take care of their home and kids.

But this third one is what I don't get. Why on earth will a man be jealous of his wife? Are they not one? To me my wife's success is mine and I will be glad to see her having a doctorate degree.
But if these men actually exist mehnn... It will be nice avoiding them.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Not every woman in her 30s is looking for a husband. Not everyone will marry. And not every woman in her 20s get to meet a husband. Marriage has nothing to do with 20s and 30s. It is when you meet someome you can share your life with than you should settle down. Don't make the mistake of thinking there's a perfect marriages age. That has made alot of people to end with wrong partners because they feel they are running out of time.

It's not about rushing to get married. But una can take ur time to become career sluts to ur boss at work ahbi

This thing is simple, women who don't marry are the most miserable and loneliest women in the world, that's why they end up having 20 dogs and cats and replace having children with those pets.

U cant fight it nature.

Women are the least fertile from 25yrs and above, their sexual market value and fertility peaks at 23yrs.
Unless u dont believe in women experiencing motherhood then u will buy such crap like marriage should be anytime

budaatum:


I can not say I am happy that you mentioned me for this Mikester, though I understand why you would. And while I was not going to respond, the continuous mentions I keep getting every time someone quotes your mention post keeps bringing me back to it, so I must and I will, but only to the above, which is based on a generalisation, which really pisses me off, because while some "Women are more likely to view things from an emotional perspective than a logical one", most Women are more likely to view things from a practical perspective.

You see, women have this thing called a womb in which life grows and comes forth into the world, and there's nothing emotional about it. Bun goes in oven, and 9 months later a life is fully baked. But its not over at that particular point in time, not by a long shot. For the first few months after coming out the oven and up to a year for some or two for others, that life clings to the woman's chest, sucking at her tits while she wipes its bum, and there's nothing emotional about a crying smelly brat stuck to your tits; there's nothing more practical than being solely responsible for nurturing a life and for keeping it growing and for showing it the path to trod so it does stumbles not.

I do not know about most of you of course, but for all tit food will stop, and daddy might be rich and become the provider of the food, but does he have time for the bunny you he baked? I mean, just you read what many men write on here. Do many not sound very irresponsible to you? Would you like to be their child? Especially the child of a redpiller or a pig? Just you listen to some of them talk about their hoes. Then consider if you were cursed to be their girl or be their daughter, or they baked in your oven and you bore a daughter for them. They might not bake buns in her oven but they sure sound like they would, or sell her to their friend so he may bake in her, and my only joy is there must be very few of them though they make a lot of noise and make it seem like most are pigs like them which just can not be true. Or I pray it is not true. Indeed I hope it is untrue!

You see, everything you men know about women is from men. You write things like this without asking a woman, for none of them you ask will say they are emotional. Their brain is in their heads, unlike you men with half your brain in your pants. Ignorant as fuq! Even in the Garden you daily walk past a tree that will give you knowledge and wisdom, but do you pluck and eat? Hell no you just eat what you are told to eat and remain dumb as fuqs because you are afraid you might die while believing I'm a rib! And when we woman test what you've been told and surely do not die but find it good for wisdom and say "man you eat too", despite not surely dying and living till 930 you claim woman made you eat yet you still do not die from the fruit she made you eat, and you stupidly refuse to accept that it was she who freed your silly ignorant man ass from the slavery it was held in so you may become as us, knowing where you came from same as Cain and Abel we made for you!

I think I'm going to stop now because I am getting emotional and feel like I will go and kick some mans ass but one last thing. You see that Messiah you all call Jesus Christ that you worship everyday? Dear sweet Mary put her tit inside his mouth and a brain inside his head, for though you may not know it, nay you most definitely do not know it, It was she who read Isaiah and taught her Son to read, so that when he was on a mountain and a demon tempted him, he was able to conquer it with, "It is written", and now He sits with your Lord God saving your ignorant asses while you worship him, forgetting the mighty oven that He was baked in.

So, emotional? O you very poor mans!

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Questions are welcome.

all this nonsense you wrote here instead of you to say thank you to the op ur here trying to justify yourself your mumu na topnotch i swear

Kccheechy:
The quest for knowledge has done so much damage than good to man.

Kccheechy:
Which one go make sense?

I take it you shall not be bothering about that M.sc Degree Or A Globally Recognized Professional Certification lest it make sense and you get educated and blow yourself up with a nuclear bomb and do so much damage than good to yourself.

DEMZEE:



Nigeria need an overhaul of its political system and structures not feminism or gynocentrism.

Our culture which is patriarchal is okay

So a matriarchal society is bad?

heniford2:
all this nonsense you wrote here instead of you to say thank you to the op ur here trying to justify yourself your mumu na topnotch i swear

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Ghosts in real life.

DEMZEE:


It's not about rushing to get married. But una can take ur time to become career sluts to ur boss at work ahbi

This thing is simple, women who don't marry are the most miserable and loneliest women in the world, that's why they end up having 20 dogs and cats and replace having children with those pets.

U cant fight it nature.

Women are the least fertile from 25yrs and above, their sexual market value and fertility peaks at 23yrs.
Unless u dont believe in women experiencing motherhood then u will buy such crap like marriage should be anytime

You are quoting Aristotle and you expect it to be as he has said. Have you done every other things Aristotle preached?
We are not fighting. But if you can give out the women in your family for marriage at the age. That's your own. Don't bother about others cos you contribute nothing to their lives. Theu do t stop you from.marryimg neither do they stop you from making your own money. Life is that simple. Live yours and let other live theirs.

ABCthings:
I know there are men who want a dependent lady so that she will be submissive( respect them and be afraid of divorce)

And those who want a housewife to take care of their home and kids.

But this third one is what I don't get. Why on earth will a man be jealous of his wife? Are they not one? To me my wife's success is mine and I will be glad to see her having a doctorate degree.
But if these men actually exist mehnn... It will be nice avoiding them.

They exist everywhere. They make you depend on them, stop your from doing anything to help yourself. Break you so bad you begin to feel worthless.

I woman was telling me how she has never given her mother a dime for the passed 5yrs of her marriage.. ordinary call she can't make. Her husband who stopped her from working has never given her money for pant since they got married. He writes list of what she will buy and gives her exactly the money and sometimes less. And she looked really worn out for her age. With 3kids

banmee:


So a matriarchal society is bad?

No evidence yet to prove or disprove

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You are quoting Aristotle and you expect it to be as he has said. Have you done every other things Aristotle preached?
We are not fighting. But if you can give out the women in your family for marriage at the age. That's your own. Don't bother about others cos you contribute nothing to their lives. Theu do t stop you from.marryimg neither do they stop you from making your own money. Life is that simple. Live yours and let other live theirs.

I rather teach my daughters to b feminine and motherly women than teach them to b pseudo masculine hybrid beast women

banmee:


So a matriarchal society is bad?

It's not possible in the first place

There's no evidence that shows that matriarchy is a good system.

Women don't see equality, they see weak or strong men. They hate seeing emasculated men. It kills them from inside. Their hypergamy can't stomach it. That's why they date and marry upwards, not downwards.