freethesheeple:
I'm a young guy in my late 30s.I recently meet a lady and I told her plain that I like her and would love if we can Date, see how far it goes and get Married some day. She said it's OK but explained the following to me.
1.She is a type of person that CAN NOT stop some of the things she has been doing rather she limits them.

2.She loves Partying SO MUCH, can't stop it but rather limits it.
3. She has Male Friends,MANY OF THEM. she WONT STOP COMMINCATION with them RATHER SHE will limit it.
4. She also said, she can never Discard or Break her Sim card to get another one after Marriage.

The summary of the whole Write up from my own Point of view is that, this Babe might not be submissive at all.
So as a Husband to be, I won't just Tell my wife to stop what I'm not comfortable with you.

Wetin pain me na THE LITTLE CASH I SPENT ON HER.

My Advice to Men with Good wife or Good Girlfriend: Cherish her, shower her with Gift and love.

The hardest thing I have encountered as a young man trying to get married is FINDING A GOOD WOMAN.
It's easy to met a lady today Bleep her Today(Am 100% good in this) But finding a good women is too hard and NEVER EASY.

When you see a lady in her late 30 or 40 not yet Married, don't blame her village people.
Many of them Wants a man wey Richer than Dangote to come for them.
90% of them are into RUNS, 2% ARE READY BUT HARD TO FIND, 8%are 35 or 45 and very DESPRATE as time is going against them.


This life no balance at all!!!

99.25%of them are into runs, both the young and old cargoz..

Girls wey good for naija now are just about 0.15%...

Dem no reach 1%... Ask Mosdii

Mcslize:


Exactly. That's why I won't advice anyone who is searching for a life partner to make church the first spot to find a wife.

Church shouldn't be the number spot to find wife.

Old things have passed away. What if she's changed? What if she's born again? What if she has repented and is a now new person in christ? What if... Don't get me wrong. I'm not naive or holding brief for any sinner. Just me raising a perspective

GeneralPula:

99.25%of them are into runs, both the young and old cargoz..
Girls wey good for naija now are just about 0.15%...
Dem no reach 1%... Ask Mosdii

wetin go happen to us way neva marry

Aksnoopy:
LMAO!

If I am in a serious relationship with you and you still talk or chat with your Ex and male friends. Just forget it, I can never marry you. You've just got to choose anyone among them. Only simps will let their GF keep contact with her Ex's nor have male friends.

Exactly what is on my mind... I have exs but I can't and don't communicate with them any more

[quote author=Uniquekriss post=99467359]I quite agree with you OP, I severally made a boast that finding a girl to marry can never be an issue cos i had them stalking me and I also look good, this was way back in my mid 20s, now in my 30s and ready to settle down, I now realise it's easier to get admitted into Harvard MSc programs with 3rd class than to get a wife. I congratulate all those men who got married like 10yrs back, you're so lucky.[/quote

Hahahhahaha hah. True talk. When time to get married reaches, you find out that nice woman is just 1% out of 100.

Mcslize:


We are talking about wife materials. Girls Bleep around alot these days. Don't go marry a runs girl and be happy you have arrived. That's what potential guys need to be wary of.

Too many girls are into runs in this part of the world. Runs runs runs. They are not good for marriage.

Those that are not into runs are stucked with bad habits and past exes.

If you need a good girl, the best places are not clubs or parties.

If you want a good girl, go to serminars, group discussions, get togethers and other reputable public gatherings, jobs seminars and the like.

I think that's where one will see ladies with like minds who are doing well for themselves and ready to build life with any potential man. Not slay Queens that go to club and get bleeped every now and then.

cc: freethesheeple

Well said. And this particular babe told me once she goes to club, she don't get high but can get a little tipys... Na that tiyps dem dey use Bleep 98% of the ladies for night club.

Mcslize:


Lol, I excluded church cuz I know lots of pretenders are there.

A girl who has wasted her youthful age away frolicking in her early years and realised there is no time on her side can immediately turn to a regular church goer and attending all the services just to portray herself as a good girl.

Some naive men normally fall for such girls. When they see them attending all service, dressing like deeper life, a man who doesn't know much about ladies antics will surely fall for such a pretense and foolishly ask her hands in marriage. Unknown to him, she is a retired love peddler.

Hahahhahahahahahahhahahaha. You nailed it. Well-spoken. Most church babes na ex runz girls.