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It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 10:14pm On Mar 01, 2021
Yeah, its hard o. All girls are the same to me (when I say all girls, I only mean gorgeous girls)

But beauty aside, most girls are the same. They are just in different packages but once I look past the beauty and into the person I get discouraged...nothing makes her special than the last or the next even my current girl.

Only one girl ever stood out, beautiful, emotional intelligent, charismatic, funny, homely, ****** and she was smart about alot of things, we both Learnt new stuffs talking with each other, things most girls normally dont like. She is a big GOT and Kdrama fan and because of her I looked into Korean movies and culture even wrote two novels based on kdrama that I published. But she could kill if she got angry, very violent. she spoilt my stuffs, na there matter spoil with her anger. If she had stayed maybe we would have killed each other, but if she wasn't violent she was a perfect fit. She has her own money (last born for that matter) and her family are well to do like mine, it would have been perfect.

I see my friends get married almost monthly but truth is their babes seem shallow to me, yes they are beautiful like mine but shallow. Me I cant cope o, after 1 months I will be bored of the entire marriage, if not for boredom I for dey with my babe and not here o grin

Guys how did you select your partner?

Me I am thinking this marriage is not for all o.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Nobody: 10:26pm On Mar 01, 2021
Quick question. You had both parents growing up?

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 10:29pm On Mar 01, 2021
MejiLoyon:
Quick question. You had both parents growing up?

Yes I did and still do but my parents dont force their will on us adults, they trained us like that.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Nobody: 10:33pm On Mar 01, 2021
needanswer:


Yes I did and still do but my parents dont force their will on us adults, they trained us like that.
You've answered your question by yourself. Go think deeply. Goodnight

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Nobody: 10:34pm On Mar 01, 2021
Rant of an expired ashawo man mtcheww

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 10:38pm On Mar 01, 2021
MejiLoyon:

You've answered your question by yourself. Go think deeply. Goodnight

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by thatsleepboy1: 10:38pm On Mar 01, 2021
I have no answer. The OP above me is back. Ndị ụwa dị égwu o

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 10:39pm On Mar 01, 2021
Zzor:
Rant of an expired ashawo man mtcheww

It takes one to know one.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 10:39pm On Mar 01, 2021
thatsleepboy1:
I have no answer. The OP above me is back. Ndị ụwa dị égwu o

This your picture eh grin

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Nbotee(m): 10:41pm On Mar 01, 2021
Aswear ooo.. It is wen it gets to making marriage decisions dat U begin to notice how limited ur options are

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 10:45pm On Mar 01, 2021
Nbotee:
Aswear ooo.. It is wen it gets to making marriage decisions dat U begin to notice how limited ur options are

Guy you took the words off my mouth. The choices are limited

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Nbotee(m): 10:47pm On Mar 01, 2021
needanswer:


Guy you took the words off my mouth. The choices are limited

U can afford to ignore and manage many things in ur regular relationships but marriage na lifetime contract oo

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by gfon(m): 10:47pm On Mar 01, 2021
Niggar you ain't alone,my own worse pass.Have got like 5 babes at my beck and call...worst fear is that marriage doesn't even trips me at all.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by thatsleepboy1: 10:52pm On Mar 01, 2021
needanswer:


This your picture eh grin

Na so na

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 10:52pm On Mar 01, 2021
Nbotee:


U can afford to ignore and manage many things in ur regular relationships but marriage na lifetime contract oo

I'm bored in this one already. We dont seem to talk too much minus the regular catching up and going out.
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 10:54pm On Mar 01, 2021
gfon:
Niggar you ain't alone,my own worse pass.Have got like 5 babes at my beck and call...worst fear is that marriage doesn't even trips me at all.

As long as you got money and you know how to tall to a lady they will always be at your disposal but I dont want to keep more than 1. But still I'm tired.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Nobody: 11:03pm On Mar 01, 2021
@ OP, it's okay to stay single.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 11:05pm On Mar 01, 2021
Cakhama:
@ OP, it's okay to stay single.

So no hope for me yeah,? I cant find someone like my ex but without the violence
Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Nobody: 11:05pm On Mar 01, 2021
gfon:
Niggar you ain't alone,my own worse pass.Have got like 5 babes at my beck and call...worst fear is that marriage doesn't even trips me at all.
And that's okay. Marriage is not for everybody.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by Nobody: 11:11pm On Mar 01, 2021
needanswer:


So no hope for me yeah,? I cant find someone like my ex but without the violence
You don't need to find anyone. Try and be alone for a while until you're comfortable with being single.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by extol1(m): 11:13pm On Mar 01, 2021
Zzor:
Rant of an expired ashawo man mtcheww
one day, I go still know face to face

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by begoniaa: 11:16pm On Mar 01, 2021
Zzor:
Rant of an expired ashawo man mtcheww

You tooo like twouble, but I'll go ahead and LMAO at this. cheesy grin

Make I jas' keep quite and not add to this and be a fake gentle gyal.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 11:17pm On Mar 01, 2021
Cakhama:

You don't need to find anyone. Try and be alone for a while until you're comfortable with being single.

I have gone 2 years before without a date. And it was okay but going out long doesnt mean when you come back to dating things will change for the better, hope you get?

Your advice isn't bad but I have tried it before and when I came back it was still the same, plus i am not hurting. I'm good emotional, I am just worried that there are gorgeous girls everywhere i can date but they like something extra to keep me from becoming bored once the relationship starts or i settle down with them.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by begoniaa: 11:20pm On Mar 01, 2021
Chei.

My fingers are bitinggg me, but AirNeWays... lemme take my flight outta here and not be a winsh. grin

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by gfon(m): 11:25pm On Mar 01, 2021
Cakhama:

And that's okay. Marriage is not for everybody.
thank goodness you understand

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by pozehnani(f): 11:28pm On Mar 01, 2021
See how you're just going on about girls and how they should be just perfect, as if you are perfect yourself.

For you to still stir up the monster in the near-perfect lady you cited above shows you're your own problem of not being able to pick a girl to settle with and not the girls. So work on yourself.

You that is calling your friends girlfriends and wife's shallow, where is your own? At least they are married while you're still here seeking an imaginary smart and sophisticated girl.

Lastly, if you have this "know it all" attitude, better you drop it otherwise no woman will be willing to stay with you.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 11:29pm On Mar 01, 2021
begoniaa:


You tooo like twouble, but I'll go ahead and LMAO at this. cheesy grin

Make I jas' keep quite and not add to this and be a fake gentle gyal.

Magnoliaa with another handle. You angry

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 11:30pm On Mar 01, 2021
begoniaa:
Chei.

My fingers are bitinggg me, but AirNeWays... lemme take my flight outta here and not be a winsh. grin

Please be an angel instead angry

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by needanswer: 11:34pm On Mar 01, 2021
pozehnani:
See how you're just going on about girls and how they should be just perfect, as if you are perfect yourself.

For you to still stir up the monster in the near-perfect lady you cited above shows you're your own problem of not being able to pick a girl to settle with and not the girls. So work on yourself.

You that is calling your friends girlfriends and wife's shallow, where is your own? At least they are married while you're still here seeking an imaginary smart and sophisticated girl.

Lastly, if you have this "know it all" attitude, better you drop it otherwise no woman will be willing to stay with you.

Firstly I cant act dumb just to fit in. It wont work in the long run, that is in years. I'll be miserable.

And I dont stir up any anger, sure couples can disagree but when everytime she is turning violent it doesnt make sense. If I was violent on her on every issue we disagree on , you wont advice her to stay either.

And yes I am seeing someone currently but she doesn't inspire me ,I am bored in the relationship already, barely a few months.

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Re: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by begoniaa: 11:35pm On Mar 01, 2021
needanswer:


Please be an angel instead angry

For who? For you?

grin grin grin grin

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