thank you dear you understand my pains

oke22:
Do anything that’s best for you.

rita25:
i know its hurting expecially for TTC moms i wish God can replace a mothers womb with my baby but i truelly have no choice bearing the bills for 3 kids alone is hectic then adding a child i will just increase the pressure and the kid will suffer too.......i cant stay with anyone due to my job the kids school...as for my husband attitude i have asked the blood of my unborn to hunt him forever and may his side chick remain barren even if she eventually gets married for the pain they have caused me.

I am practically lost for words. I may not understand what you're currently going through, but I feel for you.

Please seek advice from your mum or a matured person, someone you can talk to physically before taking a decision.

Please don't make troubles with him, your health and safety of you and your kids should be paramount.

funny enough i am not making troubles and i cant talk to my mum because where do i start from? the beatings the STD and all who would understand? i can talk here because no one knows me here also i have remained for my kids but am really getting drained

kennybelle:


I am practically lost for words. I may not understand what you're currently going through, but I feel for you.

Please seek advice from your mum or a matured person, someone you can talk to physically before taking a decision.

Please don't make troubles with him, your health and safety of you and your kids should be paramount.

rita25:
funny enough i am not making troubles and i cant talk to my mum because where do i start from? the beatings the STD and all who would understand? i can talk here because no one knows me here also i have remained for my kids but am really getting drained

Ma'am,

please you might need to leave for a while if your life is in danger.

You can as well make a report at the woman affairs commission or any other appropriate commission if necessary. Even if he doesn't take care of you, he needs to take responsibility of the kids.

Please take care of yourself.

Thank you for your care i truelly appreciate. God will take charge he is the Author and finisher of our faith i leave all to him

kennybelle:


Ma'am,

please you might need to leave for a while if your life is in danger.

You can as well make a report at the woman affairs commission or any other appropriate commission if necessary. Even if he doesn't take care of you, he needs to take responsibility of the kids.

Please take care of yourself.

rita25:
i cant talk to my mum because where do i start from? also i have remained for my kids but am really getting drained

You see these two are the main issues. If you can't talk to your mum, then who will understand you? Secondly, if your husband should beat you to the point of death or maiming you, those kids you have decided to "remain" for will live their lives. Strangers may feel your pain, but will only b able to offer you some level of comfort. It's best you leave a situation that sounds like a threat to your health and general well-being.

Lastly, I don't think you should be talking termination/laying curses and God in the same breath. I know what your husband is doing hurts, but if you have ever tried to conceive for just 3 months sef, you will not wish it on your worst enemy. If you think God will actually answer your curse, then know that He will also make you pay for the termination ( we don't get to choose which side of God we want to see).

Shalom

Ewo

rita25:
i know its hurting expecially for TTC moms i wish God can replace a mothers womb with my baby but i truelly have no choice bearing the bills for 3 kids alone is hectic then adding a child i will just increase the pressure and the kid will suffer too.......i cant stay with anyone due to my job the kids school...as for my husband attitude i have asked the blood of my unborn to hunt him forever and may his side chick remain barren even if she eventually gets married for the pain they have caused me.

I actually do. It’s not easy doing it alone and pregnancy is a lot of expenses especially having a baby. God will see you through as you make a decision on what’s best for you

rita25:
thank you dear you understand my pains

Please please you matter first your happiness matters most.

rita25:
funny enough i am not making troubles and i cant talk to my mum because where do i start from? the beatings the STD and all who would understand? i can talk here because no one knows me here also i have remained for my kids but am really getting drained

Please I don’t think you are to judge, nobody is a saint let God do the judgement .

Hannaspirit:

You see these two are the main issues. If you can't talk to your mum, then who will understand you? Secondly, if your husband should beat you to the point of death or maiming you, those kids you have decided to "remain" for will live their lives. Strangers may feel your pain, but will only b able to offer you some level of comfort. It's best you leave a situation that sounds like a threat to your health and general well-being.

Lastly, I don't think you should be talking termination/laying curses and God in the same breath. I know what your husband is doing hurts, but if you have ever tried to conceive for just 3 months sef, you will not wish it on your worst enemy. If you think God will actually answer your curse, then know that He will also make you pay for the termination ( we don't get to choose which side of God we want to see).

Shalom

Thanks for this info mama.
Pls, (1) what are those things one has to go with on the first visit,
(2) Is it true hubby has to go with one (on the first visit) for blood donation?
Do they still take blood?
Thanks!

indian03:



Your moniker looks so familiar. Im also using igando generally hospital. If you want to register for antenatal, first time, pls go on Tuesday as early as 6 am if you want to leave that hospital fast. My own antenatal is next week Thursday and I usually leave home as early is 6 am cos 9f too much crowd. But since its first time you are going ,please go on Tuesday thats when they register new mothers. It can take u 2 weeks to finish all your registration..then the will now schedule you for antenatal says which is either Monday or Thursday

oke22:
Please I don’t think you are to judge, nobody is a saint let God do the judgement .

Where did I judge?? Please read again with an open mind. Having being married for 6yrs without a child, I will not wish barreness on ANYONE.
Letting God b d judge is actually what I hope she will choose instead.

oke22:
Please I don’t think you are to judge, nobody is a saint let God do the judgement .

Where did I judge?? Please read again with an open mind. Having being married for 6yrs without a child, I will not wish barreness on ANYONE.
Letting God b d judge is actually what I hope she will choose instead.

Ironically, I used to believe that God was punishing me for a termination I did b4 I got married, so a saint, I'm definitely not.

Ironically, I used to believe that God was punishing me for a termination I did b4 I got married, so a saint, I'm definitely not.


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May the obtain favour and mercy from God this new month.This new month u shall testify and your joy shall be restored ijn.Its your month of bfp

Definitely meant no harm ma’am God will surely visit you soon

Hannaspirit:


Where did I judge?? Please read again with an open mind. Having being married for 6yrs without a child, I will not wish barreness on ANYONE.
Letting God b d judge is actually what I hope she will choose instead.

Ironically, I used to believe that God was punishing me for a termination I did b4 I got married, so a saint, I'm definitely not.

indian03:



Your moniker looks so familiar. Im also using igando generally hospital. If you want to register for antenatal, first time, pls go on Tuesday as early as 6 am if you want to leave that hospital fast. My own antenatal is next week Thursday and I usually leave home as early is 6 am cos 9f too much crowd. But since its first time you are going ,please go on Tuesday thats when they register new mothers. It can take u 2 weeks to finish all your registration..then the will now schedule you for antenatal says which is either Monday or Thursday

I was Team August, 2018.

I got there early today, did scan and Laboratory.
I've been assigned to a doctor and my next appointment written on my scan results is 6th of April. I'm asked to come next week Tuesday for my test results. I got back home around 2pm.

Howyeh:
Thanks for this info mama.
Pls, (1) what are those things one has to go with on the first visit,
(2) Is it true hubby has to go with one (on the first visit) for blood donation?
Do they still take blood?
Thanks!

Go with Biro, jotter and 17,500 for first payment. Please go early, at least before 8 because they'd explain the process of registration to first timers.
Making payments takes a lot of time and you can't do scan and Laboratory test without paying.
After the lecture kindly go and write your name down for scan before going to the paypoint.
After paying ensure you collect number for the Laboratory test too, you can monitor simultaneously and see the one that will require your presence first. Don't wait till you finish scan before picking a number for laboratory.


2. Your hubby doesn't have to go the first day, you will be told to bring him the following week when you are going back for your results.

My hubby went with me today though so I got the blood donation sorted today as well.

rita25:
i know its hurting expecially for TTC moms i wish God can replace a mothers womb with my baby but i truelly have no choice bearing the bills for 3 kids alone is hectic then adding a child i will just increase the pressure and the kid will suffer too.......i cant stay with anyone due to my job the kids school...as for my husband attitude i have asked the blood of my unborn to hunt him forever and may his side chick remain barren even if she eventually gets married for the pain they have caused me.

chaiii..I can imagine how hurtful this is for you. But please eh, don’t curse the side chic with barreness. Don’t worry, there’ll always be karma waiting for her, and ur husband too for hurting you.

For this pregnancy, just do what you think is best for you. I think you’ll be the best adviser for yourself regarding that decision, cos nobody else can truly understand the emotional pain you are currently feeling.

I pray things turn around positively for you ASAP.

;D3

MomoAdura:


I was actually thinking of mentioning you that's it's been a while. I'm 31 weeks too. I can't wait. Tho I want baby to bake well we'll.

rita25:
funny enough i am not making troubles and i cant talk to my mum because where do i start from? the beatings the STD and all who would understand? i can talk here because no one knows me here also i have remained for my kids but am really getting drained

Did you just write beatings?
And STD?. You must be going through a lot. May God comfort you

Howyeh:
Thanks for this info mama.
Pls, (1) what are those things one has to go with on the first visit,
(2) Is it true hubby has to go with one (on the first visit) for blood donation?
Do they still take blood?
Thanks!

They will explain e erythi g to you there just be there very early. First payment is 17500 for registration. You will doany tests which you will.b told. Then blood donation is important but anytime before your delivery. My hubby has not do ates blood since I registered when I was 20weeks and im 31 weeks now. So no rushing. Worst come to.worst,u will pay 10k or so for blood I mean if you don't donate till.you give birth.its a pint of blood for normal delivery, 2 pints of blood for CS.

Oliran:


I was Team August, 2018.

I got there early today, did scan and Laboratory.
I've been assigned to a doctor and my next appointment written on my scan results is 6th of April. I'm asked to come next week Tuesday for my test results. I got back home around 2pm.

.
No wonder! I was team August 2018 too

Oliran:


I was Team August, 2018.

I got there early today, did scan and Laboratory.
I've been assigned to a doctor and my next appointment written on my scan results is 6th of April. I'm asked to come next week Tuesday for my test results. I got back home around 2pm.

You are lucky o. Or did u know anybody there?. When I went, they sent me back stating its Tuesday only. I did laboratory, hiv test that day..then the following week I did scan and I was assigned a doctor

Good morning o.
Pls o sabi mamas, the new wrapper wey dem dey write for hospital list wetin dem dey take am do.
And secondly is it 6yards abi wetin, me i no understand :

TEAM JULY 2021
ROLL CALL FOR 1ST WEEK OF MARCH

My dear beloved teamies, Team July the vibrant team, team with strong men and women and the cutest babies you can ever see. Am so sorry for MIA. Make una no vex for me abeg. How are we all doing?
Papas hope our wives are doing great, please follow them on this journey, it's not easy at all. Well done sirs.

Kindly answer the roll call and tell us how you are feeling and if there's any update, bring to our attention.

NAME .................. EDD ......................SEX
Spakuls .............. 01/07/21 ............. unknown
justifiedcoyy ....... 03/07/21 ............. XY
LeProfessor ........ 07/07/21 ............. XX & XY
tifelola .................. 17/07/21 .............. unknown
Rukkington ........... 18/07/21 .............XX & XY
sexymomiyo ......... 19/07/21 .............
Slimbae.................. 19/07/21.............. unknown
Ayauche ................. 21/07/21 ............. XY
UnApologeTic1 ..... 25/07/21............. unknown
enque .................... 27/07/21 .............
Iyamefa ................. 30/07/21 ............ unknown
Goldengold2.......... 27/07/21............. unknown
claseek................... 31/07/21............. unknown
spaq........................ 4/07/21............... unknown
twoMcfemad

If you don't answer roll call, you will be fined oooo.
Please if there's a new member, mamas and papas mention me so I don't omit anyone's name.

Do have a great day and stay safe.

Ayauche:
TEAM JULY 2021
ROLL CALL FOR 1ST WEEK OF MARCH

My dear beloved teamies, Team July the vibrant team, team with strong men and women and the cutest babies you can ever see. Am so sorry for MIA. Make una no vex for me abeg. How are we all doing?
Papas hope our wives are doing great, please follow them on this journey, it's not easy at all. Well done sirs.

Kindly answer the roll call and tell us how you are feeling and if there's any update, bring to our attention.

NAME .................. EDD ......................SEX
Spakuls .............. 01/07/21 ............. unknown
justifiedcoyy ....... 03/07/21 ............. XY
LeProfessor ........ 07/07/21 .............
tifelola .................. 17/07/21 .............. unknown
Rukkington ........... 18/07/21 .............
sexymomiyo ...........19/07/21 .............
Ayauche ................. 21/07/21 ............. unknown
UnApologeTic1 ...... 25/07/21............. unknown
enque .................... 30/07/21 .............
Iyamefa ................. 30/07/21 ............ unknown
Goldengold2

If you don't answer roll call, you will be fined oooo.
Please if there's a new member, mamas and papas mention me so I don't omit anyone's name.

Do have a great day and stay safe.

please add me oh.. July 31

Ayauche:
TEAM JULY 2021
ROLL CALL FOR 1ST WEEK OF MARCH

My dear beloved teamies, Team July the vibrant team, team with strong men and women and the cutest babies you can ever see. Am so sorry for MIA. Make una no vex for me abeg. How are we all doing?
Papas hope our wives are doing great, please follow them on this journey, it's not easy at all. Well done sirs.

Kindly answer the roll call and tell us how you are feeling and if there's any update, bring to our attention.

NAME .................. EDD ......................SEX
Spakuls .............. 01/07/21 ............. unknown
justifiedcoyy ....... 03/07/21 ............. XY
LeProfessor ........ 07/07/21 .............
tifelola .................. 17/07/21 .............. unknown
Rukkington ........... 18/07/21 .............
sexymomiyo ...........19/07/21 .............
Ayauche ................. 21/07/21 ............. unknown
UnApologeTic1 ...... 25/07/21............. unknown
enque .................... 30/07/21 .............
Iyamefa ................. 30/07/21 ............ unknown
Goldengold2

If you don't answer roll call, you will be fined oooo.
Please if there's a new member, mamas and papas mention me so I don't omit anyone's name.

Do have a great day and stay safe.

Good morning Cappo. We are good over here. Pushing it gradually. I hope you are well? Thanks for checking on us. Lovely day ahead.

busybeei5:
Good morning o.
Pls o sabi mamas, the new wrapper wey dem dey write for hospital list wetin dem dey take am do.
And secondly is it 6yards abi wetin, me i no understand :

I saw it too on my hospital list their own is even two pairs,i bought two yards each sha.It should be enough for whatever they need it for

Tinudesi:

I saw it too on my hospital list their own is even two pairs,i bought two yards each sha.It should be enough for whatever they need it for

My hospital wrote 6 new wrappers.
I just dont understand.
I will buy 2 2yards niyen, thanks mama

Okay mama.
Thanks so much!

Oliran:


Go with Biro, jotter and 17,500 for first payment. Please go early, at least before 8 because they'd explain the process of registration to first timers.
Making payments takes a lot of time and you can't do scan and Laboratory test without paying.
After the lecture kindly go and write your name down for scan before going to the paypoint.
After paying ensure you collect number for the Laboratory test too, you can monitor simultaneously and see the one that will require your presence first. Don't wait till you finish scan before picking a number for laboratory.


2. Your hubby doesn't have to go the first day, you will be told to bring him the following week when you are going back for your results.

My hubby went with me today though so I got the blood donation sorted today as well.

Okay mama.
Thanks so much!

indian03:

They will explain e erythi g to you there just be there very early. First payment is 17500 for registration. You will doany tests which you will.b told. Then blood donation is important but anytime before your delivery. My hubby has not do ates blood since I registered when I was 20weeks and im 31 weeks now. So no rushing. Worst come to.worst,u will pay 10k or so for blood I mean if you don't donate till.you give birth.its a pint of blood for normal delivery, 2 pints of blood for CS.

The wrapper is for what

Tinudesi:

I saw it too on my hospital list their own is even two pairs,i bought two yards each sha.It should be enough for whatever they need it for