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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Kingstanding: 6:16pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11:. For good eight years? I hope he married you later if not the person that will marry you in future I pity am. And he had been making love with you for that right years? I swear if I didn't marry you your future husband cannot meet good thing there anymore. My candid advice is to leave that guy, he can not marry you I swear, he will just be posting you.If guys really love a lady it's the guy that will be begging that please marry me na if money no dey today money go come tommorow because he will do anything just to convince you. The guy in question is tired of your pussy I swear the truth is bitter. Majorities of relationship that is more than two years na cry dey end am. You have used your body to play betnaija. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by CSTRR: 6:16pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
8 years of dating with no break in between. Performing all the conjugal duties for him. Abeg, hold him tight and force him. He Don too chop you abeg. I am sure he can draw you naked perfectly offhand. 6 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by stonemasonn: 6:16pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Try going out with other people nah, no sex. Just have a plan B, abi you no fine reach? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by hardeyincah(m): 6:16pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor:singles councillor |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by osejie17(m): 6:17pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Just exercise a little patience your man is facing alot, just wait make buhari complete tenure. am sure he will propose 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by akanbiaa(m): 6:18pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11:I don't think he is ready to settle down with you, and your confronting him over the matter shows desperation and he will be panicky over that, before we can actually know best advice to give you need to answer this questions. 1. What actually did he say to you that kick started your dating 8 years ago? 2. Have you had sex or not and if yes was he the one that demanded for it or you? 3. Do you cook for him? 4. Do you sleep over at his place and do house chores for him? 5. Are you also working if yes do you earn less or more than the 60k he earns ? 6. What is his nature of your job and his job and and is it government or private sector? 7. Have he taken you to see his parents and if yes what do they call you when they see you? 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Coldie(m): 6:18pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Where una dae see all dz girls way love una unconditionally for 8years. I can once stay like dz 5years girl friend I no see for no reason 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by CSTRR: 6:19pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Kingstanding:Leave him for who? Who is the poor guy that want to marry a lady that has been in a committed relationship for 8 good years.? Many marriages don't even last that long. 5 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:20pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Jesu |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:20pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
alasane:lol, kid was probably stressed from being woken up to seeing an adult cry ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by focus7: 6:20pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: Hmmmn sister, money is crucial in a relationship o and it's place shouldn't be undermined, 60k salary for a prospective husband/father as salary is damn too poor in the current economy, notwithstanding your guy doesn't need to be a millionaire before you could marry. The two of you should work together to upgrade his income, he should learn a skill or trade, salary will not bring him to wealth 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by pahen1991: 6:21pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Perfectsouth:Lol |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 6:21pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
EkelediliBuhari: Nature did - biological clock 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by ebuka440: 6:22pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor is a disappointment period quote author=SimplyFacts post=99568856]Few months to graduation, na so my gf started persuading me for marriage. She said her savings from N-Power salary would go a long way while we seek for better offers (not knowing the first set beneficiaries would be discarded last year). I know she's so concerned about getting married early,,,,@23. I just advised her to look for someone else that I wasn't ready financially. She did & got married last year. Sincerely,,,, if not for one kind stain wey dey her white, I for force myself into the marriage coz the girl is 70x better than Zzor ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by olureignforever: 6:22pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Run, run run,. Awon Ndi time waster. From experience, dated guy for 9 yrs, when I complain we ought to have gotten married, he gang up against me with his family saying he is not ready, 6 months after he welcomed a baby even before I move on. So run. I am sure you are close to 30 or in your early 30's 7 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by godlessmind: 6:23pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor:nonsense |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by 12inchess: 6:24pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
I know a couple that dated over 12 years and since secondary school and married and had a kid last year. Everyone was always yabbing the lady and calling her lord of the rings etc. but it ended in joy for her. But for some people this kind of thing will end in premium tears. No one knows tomorrow. Even Chioma of assurance fame is still baby mama dey live her life. Anyone that is advising you cannot predict what will happen. So the decision is left to you. Aunty you are an adult and I have no advice for you on this. Maybe you can tie him down with belle ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by smile11s(m): 6:25pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Chai! ![]() ![]() Is he paying tax on that 60k he is making? What about tithe? When you deduct tax and tithe, wetin go remain? 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by cooooooks(m): 6:25pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Tell him you want a quiet court marriage. Tell him to marry you want a marriage not a wedding. abigail11: |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by eazygoals: 6:25pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
why not sit him down and have a real heart to heart conversation , let him know age isn't on your side.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JOACHINpedro: 6:29pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:Fixed ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Agbebakun22: 6:30pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: Na Ffk and Ned people u dey date 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by femi4: 6:31pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11:You better start looking for another option. He's definitely a selfish guy. 8yrs is more than enough to know the direction you are going. It's time to move on my sister |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:31pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Na so women go talk say them go manage through thick and thin only to start complaining later, comparing you to your mates and shit 11 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Kokaine(m): 6:31pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor:what do you earn yearly |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by gassbee: 6:33pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Why are u in a relationship dat has no head way, please if u see someone dat is ready , he is responsible and really loves u, please move on immediately 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by infogenius(m): 6:33pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: 8yrs is damn too long for dating because as far as I am concerned u both are not in courtship. if u're ready and he's not ready, then courtship is not in view talkless of marriage. U may need to move on and listen to other suitors. I can bet on anything if his millions comes next year, he will dump u for a younger lady. After all he never considered u worthy to share his 60k in marriage with u, he will definitely not marry u when he's in millions. Verdict - Move on, the guy is just a time waster. 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by medriano: 6:33pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
I understand you girl and I understand him too. In this our economy today , 60k is not much. I get that he doesn’t want to start a family and he’ll not be able to shoulder most of the responsibilities. If you feel you can’t wait any longer, let him go. But what’s the guarantee you’ll find someone and settle sooner? In a bid to get married, what if you get involved with the wrong one? You didn’t say how old you are, how much you earn. If you can, give him some bit of time and see how things pick up from his end. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:33pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:Seems you are one of the time wasters that don't want the truth out there. ![]() |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by jobsintheoffice: 6:35pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Madam stop disturbing us here university sweethearts dey carry belle and the story continues from there.don't you know .if you are waiting for him to propose .it would be in 2050.pls be smart get pregnant and he would end up marrying you.its all about humility. 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by zudozz: 6:36pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Becos he already knows u are senseless... 1-2-3-4-5-6-...years.. Everyday u keep toto for am he dey Bleep.. He know say u no get sense. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JOACHINpedro: 6:37pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:Time wasters ke. The quote I cancelled was fallacy of unreasonable assumption. It holds no water |
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