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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Romanoff(f): 6:37pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
The same men telling this lady to wait for the guy or siding with the guy are the same ones who will call her evening newspaper when she's 35 and unmarried or when he dumps her. My dear sis, the biological clock of a man is different from that of a woman, if you see a decent man that you love and has most qualities you want in a man, marry him o. In these 8 years, I just pray you've not been fornicating with this guy of yours, if you have, it's 8 years of husband and wife relations, ki lo tun ku? 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by shadeyinka(m): 6:39pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11:A lady stands to loose when in an undefined relationship. If a relationship is not defined properly within 3 months: call him and ask! What do you really want from me? Should we start talking how our marriage should be? You can have 10 years of relationship with zero years of courtship. Ladies, think! 5 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by SweetDipBenny(m): 6:42pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
If ur father can bring 10 million he'll marry u today tomorrow, if not move on . Same thing i told my gal 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Growcrypto: 6:42pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Sometimes you girls are psychos I met one who I am even willing to propose to but never even want to give her address despite dating 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by TheControversy: 6:43pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JasperVII(m): 6:43pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
It's good you know that time is not on your side. Makes us wonder what you were doing when you had time. 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Gboy5050: 6:43pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
I'm so ready if u can marry me ? 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Ronin1: 6:44pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
60k is less than $150 and you'll live off of that monthly? ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by pembisco(m): 6:45pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Nah who be this Zzor weh most guys de attack here? Well, who ever she is, I think she needs to evaluate her life. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 6:45pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
12inchess: But ask yourself this: if you love someone, will money prevent you from marrying them if you have their consent?? NOOOO. Money has nothing to do with marriage Money has nothing to do with marriage 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 6:46pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JasperVII: She was dating a guy she thought would propose any minute |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by jobsintheoffice: 6:47pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Don't anyone mislead you .you have been with him for a while invested everything .even time.there are no men out there.be smart get pregnant and do court marriage.and celebrations would come later. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Map1(m): 6:49pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
It always baffle me when ever some lady's are crying that they are ready for marriage,what is your contribution towards the relationship for the past 8years nothing, absolutely nothing and you want him to settle down with a liability? 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:49pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:It actually does. You are too biases or duluded not to see it. How many log term relationships end at the altar? Especially this kind that is giving all the signs of a time waster?. So can you give us your own analysis since you seem to know alot or you are only good at cancelling comments with no meaningful input? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:49pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:It actually does. You are too bias or duluded not to see it. How many log term relationships end at the altar? Especially this kind that is giving all the signs of a time waster?. So can you give us your own analysis since you seem to know alot or you are only good at cancelling comments with no meaningful input from you? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 6:51pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Ronin1: Marriage has nothing to do with money. If you love someone see how you'd be eager to marry them, money or no money. YOU HAVE KIDS WHEN YOU CAN AFFORD THEM! 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by BigDick70inch(m): 6:51pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: Oh!!!!I never knew u dis much useless...... |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:52pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
donbachi: Why are you the way you are ? 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JOACHINpedro: 6:52pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:Go back to my first post you quoted. I've keyed in the bone of contention. Have a blessed evening |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 6:53pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Romanoff: Wise talk, except, what exactly does she lose by enjoying sex with the guy? Be specific |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by jobsintheoffice: 6:54pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Marriage na humility and management till things improve.pls be smart |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 6:55pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
shadeyinka: What exactly does the lady lose in undefined relationship? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by annitakome111: 6:55pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
The only advise i have for u is, if he's sincere about that at least he should just go and do little something on ur head in ur family house, if he refuses girl, just leave him alone and concentrate on working harder and make a life for ursef, if its to have more certificates do that, but don't ever rush into marriage bcus u are not getting any younger, marriage can come at any time, what do u even think a guy earning 60k as salary can offer u in a marriage? What if children starts coming in, what kind of school would u want them to attend? How do u take care of those children in today's Nigeria? U better think well, not everyone has to marry early, do that when u are comfortable and can conveniently assist when he's in need. Marriage is not a child's play. Between, I left a 5yr relationship bcus he also claimed he's not financially bouyant and he earns well above Ur bf but I can't force a man to marry me bcus I'm not getting younger, so think it through girl. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:56pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:No ,you cant just come and cancel without dropping your input as to why you think it's an unreasonable fallacy. If you are smart enough to cancel then you should be smart enough to tell us why you think so?. Any ignorant fool can cancel a comment and use big words ,but only an intelligent person will be able to counter with their own points. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Tvoice: 6:56pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Even if e propose , e no go still proceed to d next level , 8 years haa na wa. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Lordbinsmar: 6:57pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 6:57pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: As A Man who wants to b a Patriarch, how will u rule and run ur home of money has nothing to do with marriage uhn ![]() |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Kirkman: 6:57pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
pozehnani:My sister advice your fellow sister OP o! E go shock her pass Nepa high-tension wire. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:57pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
One quality that is essential in every relation- ship is CLARITY. The following questions must be asked of both parties: (1) What is the aim an objective of the relationship in the first place (2) What direction is the relationship going? Is it progressing or deteriorating with time? (3) Am i having a relationship just for the short term benefits such as money,sex and emotional security or for long term benefits such as marriage,raising a family and companionship. If a man or woman goes into a relationship with the aim of marriage; he or she should set a "deadline" for how long he or she will stay in a relationship without getting married. For some it may be 3, 5 or 7 years. When you set a deadline to achieve something you have a higher chance of success. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by nick50(m): 6:58pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor:...old women like u are meant for old men.. I m not impressed 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:59pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: Must you marry him ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Heavensent01(m): 6:59pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
mine was 10years with my now wife though I propose 2019 and did the wedding 2020 try and talk to his relative he respect and cherish most to talk some senses into his brain. the only thing that could make a man to be scared with low income is, if he had a demanding fiance in the relationship but I don't know why he should keep late if you're understanding 3 Likes |
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