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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 7:00pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: Wise talk. But answer me this: why must a man or woman be financially stable before marriage? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Torigin: 7:01pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
50 cha ![]() ![]() Zzor: |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JOACHINpedro: 7:02pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:Well Ma. it's a simple thing, go back see what I put and come back. That angry emoji was merely used to book space as I couldn't type on the tricycle I boarded. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:03pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: so nah ready made men you dey look for up and down?! even if he's old enough to be ya grandpa?! oh'kay nah, you go meet am there! |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Casham: 7:04pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
My big bro will be 32 this March. He is getting married April to his girlfriend of ten years(shit started 2011 during JAMB lessons). Right now he's earning N40k per month. She's earning N11k. She's 30yrs old. I tried to talk him out of that shit, but dude won't listen. All I am saying is people hardly ever change their minds because of others. Just sit him down and talk to him about your fears and the sacrifice he's asking you to make if he still wants you to wait. If you two can't agree, then I'll advice you still keep him for a year, but codedly start looking for backup. When you find one who is ready, then table his(the present bf's) options to him. 5 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 7:04pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Are you saying that having a wife by your side will prevent you from making money? How? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 7:05pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Dump the mothafoka ass He's a weak man He shouldn't have been dating u in the first place He should have spun plates and gone on monk mode, focus on his goals and ambitions. I wonder why guys do this tho, date someone exclusively wen u have not achieved anything worthwhile yet SMH! |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 7:07pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Casham: Your brother is wise |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:07pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
PoliteActivist:Because financial stability sustain marriage to a great extent |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:10pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: ![]() |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:10pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:Nah, there have been cases of women waiting for guys who are abroad and still ended up getting dumped .so what will you say about that? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:12pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
LINTUNE:I don't have eyes for young men,I don't want to complicate someone's life,my comfort, security and happiness matters a lot to me 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 7:12pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: Women are hypergamous Women see weak and strong men not equality of the sexes. That's why they date And marry upwards and not downwards. Men now because of our idealized way of loving a woman see equality of the sexes. As a patriarch, ur wife isn't coming to build ur world with u, she's coming inside ur already built world. U rule over her and dominate her in ur world in all areas except for the feminine role areas of ur world. Her femininity blossoms and shines because u are already her lord and her husband. Her supporting u is going to make her masculine and she will hate u for it. I don't depend on any lady to support me, I just want her to come into my built world and use her femininity to beautify it. 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by jorez: 7:15pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
60k for this economy,my dear go if you nor fit wait....that guys is a wise man 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 7:18pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
DEMZEE: But that's IF you have a built world. The question again: how does having her prevent you from building it? If anything you'd even use her in building 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Kirkman: 7:18pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
CSTRR:Guy you nor well. 1 Like
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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by SMBH: 7:19pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
SimplyFacts: Nigga you no serious oo ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JOACHINpedro: 7:21pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:I'll say what any reasonable person will say. Know thy worth |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by pozehnani(f): 7:21pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Kirkman: I'm telling you. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Hamiltonii: 7:22pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor:That means you're a fvcking gold digger. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 7:22pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: Don't u get my point Women are hypergamous and will always seek a man who has high value And his value is higher than hers for mating and for commitment. Women hate building with a man because she will be forced to b masculine and she detests entering the masculinity essence. It kills her femininity bro Only a weak and useless man will depend on his wife for financial support or use his wife as backup plan for finances!!! 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Sam0(m): 7:23pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: Below 50yrs? zee your comment make sense ooo but that age bracket you put eeh come spoil everything.You of all people |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 7:24pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: But how does having a wife by your side prevent you from becoming financially stable? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Erums(m): 7:24pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: Na person wen go die leave property for u... U dey find |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:25pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:So that means you do agree that your comment was born out of ignorance. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JOACHINpedro: 7:28pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:See eh, I'm not in a good mood this eveningy and believe you me you wouldn't wana get bite of my today aggression. So abeg, lemme make I mad this mad in peace. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 7:29pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
DEMZEE: It's you who don’t get my point. What if you don't have it?? What you do have to offer is marriage. In exchange she'd give you the support you need to build up yourself to satisfy her hypergamousness 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:29pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Perfectsouth: Bros bros I hail thee, I see the red pill coursing through ur veins! 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by bejeria101(m): 7:30pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
You better walk away |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by spiceadole: 7:30pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: You are not smart. Dating a man for that long, no commitment in sight To the stage that the man even makes it clear he is not ready to marry(you)... Yet you don't know what to do. 8 good years.... I can bet my left breast, he won't even marry you whenever he is ready. I'm sure the relationship was filled with knacks and maybe, abortion(s).. if not, you won't be asking what to do. It's very simple.. LEAVE HIM. MOVE ON! 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Chamberlin1983(m): 7:32pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
[quote author=EkelediliBuhari post=99568677]Marriage is not all life is about Focus on building yourself first... have a personal vision and drive... if you find another person along the way you move on If he happens to be ready then you marry But don’t marry him because he’s available and you’re “running out of time”.... who gave you time table?? Lol. I cant stop laughing. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by ernecy(m): 7:32pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: Madam!!..Go look for another man if u can't wait. How do expect him to marry you on 60k salary... : ![]() tomorrow you will come here to complain how he can't take care of you plus childrens and you'll call him name like lazy, irresponsible or good for nothing.. Guys don't ever let any woman, hand twist u to marry her, when u ain't ready... U try it u suffer. When push comes to shove, she and the whole world will u and only u... |
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