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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:33pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:So your anger clouded your sense of judgement and you decided to come online and cancel comments that makes you feel triggered?. You should have stuck with reading comments since you know your state of mind is very fragile. If you are so angry drop your phone, locate the nearest wall and start punching. That is a better solution than comments you keep spewing out from your unstable mind. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JOACHINpedro: 7:34pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:You're a trouble maker |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by RounDVisio(m): 7:34pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: Follow this advice at your own peril... The person that is advising is not even married yet. Na so e easy reach na im she never marry the so called older men. Truth be told, many men of today are not just into the idea of marriage anymore. At 60k salary, man!!! In this our current 9ja... That's tight. If he is interested in marriage at all, with your own addition, you can do a small intro and court wedding (if he is interested in marriage at all). |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by meobizy(f): 7:36pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
It’s obvious that since OP hasn’t responded to the question of what she provides, we can rest assured it’s only her inner thighs. 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by lushak(m): 7:37pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: @Zzor, u won't kill someone with ur line of advice. Which one be u have resolved never to date a Nigerian man below 50 years as u presume they are dominantly struggling. I always follow ur comments and mostly they are mindboggling. I just laugh at this one as it appears to be the funniest... 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:37pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:No you are. You quoted me first remember? . Ok let me nicer, go listen to music,watch your favorite movie or eat chocolate if you can get one. Also remember to take in deep breaths and breath out slowly. know that if you die today, whoever or whatever is making you angry will not be relevant to you. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by LINTUNE(m): 7:38pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor:hmm.. alright.. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:39pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
lushak:Anything wrong with the comment?we all have our preferences and we make our own choices too 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Realhommie(m): 7:39pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
justscorchone:Hehehehe... I was just laughing reading that part, lol. My sister called me yesterday and was telling me about one of her husband's extended family relation whose wife is frustrating now ehn, to the extent he's become a drunk. His salary was 50k, the girl was working too and she was an angel, lol. Cajoled the bobo with loyalty and an overdose of sweetness, saying we'll manage and all. Now his 50k can't do nothing anymore coz they have a kid together who's a few months old. He's been borrowing to float his family and he's become a laughing stock to his in-laws. He's frustrated. My sis was almost crying when she was telling me coz of how close this guy is to her husband. That the guy called her husband and was crying seriously, a mature man. But i blame him coz he gave in to pressure to get married. No man should ever attempt to get married if he isn't financially stable, otherwise he'll struggle for life and it will take God's mercy to maybe liberate him. So forget all this "we'll manage, I'll manage" which they always say. Once you marry them and can no longer meet up to your responsibilities then respect goes out the window, you become a rag, your life becomes a living hell. The dude is a very sensible dude with a good head over his shoulders, I like him for his stand. It's either she exercise more patience or move ahead rather than worry the young man for marriage. 11 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:41pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
RounDVisio:If I want to get married soonest I will so don't deceive yourself with the rubbish you typed,e go shock una |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Lordbinsmar: 7:42pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Omo any time when I decide to marry naa a young damsel I go marry ooo, a young lady of at most 23years, all this evening newspapers naa confirm bad market, imagine a guy fu*king you for good eight years Your narrow way go don turn brt. Please I beg you in God's name, just marry the guy make him carry him cross 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:42pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
LINTUNE:Hope I didn't break your heart lol |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:42pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
EkelediliBuhari: @abigail11 This is the best advice as regards this your case in my sincerest opinion. My only addition is that your man should learn to be strategic in his approach, it's not money that makes people rich, strategy and source is the defining factor in wealth creation. If he cannot manage 60K to give birth to more money, then more money is not what he needs to make more money. Hmmmm, this depends on him and not you, so I rest my case here. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by firstratedcitiz(m): 7:43pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Bitter truth. Perfectsouth: |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 7:43pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: Baba wats hypergamy in the first place?? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Chirowman(m): 7:44pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Money matters marriage this days is not manageable but capital intensive. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by purples25(f): 7:48pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
If he wants you and wants no one else to get you, he will snap you up no matter what it takes. A man that has his eye on a woman, have you seen him? He wastes no time. He is stubborn that "That is the one I want." He will do whatever it takes, even if it means getting you pregnant, even if you yourself don't want. He will do all to make it happen. Okada riders and beggars get married too. They are stubborn to clinch that small girl they want in the house. Watch him. When he sees the girl he wants, he will chase her mercilessly, he will become a romantic and do everything to sweep her off her feet and the moment she relaxes, its married. If this guy has truly chosen you and his mind is with you, he would even do small traditional rites to make damn sure that you are not going anywhere. He is not serious and he wants to eat you without paying and he is enjoying you but he has not chosen you yet. That is what boyfriend and girlfriend causes. Its a cheat code for guys to get their way for free. 7 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by stormborn28(m): 7:48pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11:Chai..... Wahala wear Shokoto....Any relationship beyond two years is a SCAM....tell anybody say na STORMBORN talk....I am a man and I will never except a relationship beyond what I have stated reason why I discourage teenagers from dating.. You go just "Ku sibe" without any result... OP your man is a liar...60k can do something for a start since you are still working...it is the free pvssy he has been banging that is making his head not to buy the cow....leave him and forge ahead.. Nonsense everywhere 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Jsaviour(f): 7:49pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: Accept your mistake and errors and move on. What on earth will a lady be doing with a guy for 8years without proper commitment? Nigeria is hard so I don't blame the guy. The only issue I have with him is keeping you when he knows he is not ready. Madam, wake up, dust yourself and look forward. The more you want to stay because of 8 wasted years, the more wasted years you may add on top the 8. If you are ready for marriage and he is not then leave him so God can bring someone else for you. It's not easy but it's a choice you have to make or... I wish you grace 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JOACHINpedro: 7:49pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:Never knew it was you. Ok let me nicer, go listen to musicThis won't work as my head is banging so hard. watch your favorite movieAnother suicide mission Or Eat Chocolate Nah I can't. Also remember to take in deep breaths and breath out slowly.Will try this one out★★ And remember,if you die today, whoever or whatever is making you angry will not be relevant to you.And for the record, this is suicide motivational speech. Pls don't use it on anyone trying to end it. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:52pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:Your anger your business. I owe you nothing,was only trying to be humane. Now go bang your head on a wall if you like ,last time i checked this thread is about a lady who's 8 years of her life is about to be wasted don't make it about you and your inconsequential anger. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:52pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: You have a point though, but 50yrs old man. Hmmm, it is well. But see as you just cast most young men, it is well ooo, everybody get starting point ooo, Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Jeff Bezos, Maduka Cosmos, Dangote Aliko - All these men their wife's played very key roles to how they came to the top, in those formative times and even helped some of them remain relevant after business. For me I believe a woman should build with a man, if she comes after that formative years, she rarely if ever connects deeply with the man, she's more of an emotional object than a partner. The Ops case is that her man is not ready, and I think that's his level of preparation in life, bkos more money doesn't make people rich, it's an idea problem her guy has and unfortunately she can't help him see what he doesn't want to see. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by festusforchrist: 7:56pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
My Sister quit the relationship because even if the guy eventually make all the millions he is talking about now, the possibility of him not marrying you is very high. Quit now before he tells you he is no longer interested. Write this statement somewhere, when you leave him, he will marry within a very short time because there is someone around him. Our young brothers and sisters must hear these, any relationship you are into for more than five years and the relationship didn't lead to marriage, quit for this generation believe in today's pleasure than raising a family. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JOACHINpedro: 7:57pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:Lol Now you're boiling again. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by JOACHINpedro: 7:58pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:I forgive you |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:59pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:finally a laugh. E be like say na iron hand you like. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Simplythebest: 7:59pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Pls my dear sister allow the guy to hustle so that the guy will not die before his time cus 720k a year won't do anything cus only renting 2 bedroom flight in lagos that amount is gone for the whole year. Pls 60k a month is nothing and will never be enough for someone to get married onless u want that guy to suffer all his life. Pls help the guy and advice him and encourage him more to hustle thats the best u can do for him. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Bmaster(m): 7:59pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Op,I know you in person. You are ngozi from nsukka in enugu state resides in onitsha and your into baking businesses. Am right,right |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:59pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:Two lovebirds : Joachinpedro and Wittyduchess. Started from disagreement now there are here |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by jaxxy(m): 8:00pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: Nobody shud keep anybody waiting indefinitely especially as a lady. If he can’t give a time frame for this then gradually start to widen ur options. I don’t know how gal sticks to one guy for 8years I know it happens bt it seems unbelievable to me. I can stick with a gal for that long when I know I’m not ready to take it to the next level. It’s ridiculous to me. Also 60k is sufficient to get married with bt it depends on ur salary and ur planning. It’s risky, it may get tough or better. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Ronin1: 8:01pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: Right, and we all know love to be blind and foolish, the mofo. Love doesn't put food on your table. "Have kids when you can afford them", really? And you're saying this to someone that wants to get married because it's getting late... yeah right! |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Nobody: 8:02pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
JOACHINpedro:You are excused. |
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