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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by farem: 10:03pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
donbachi: ...and countless dicking. Nonsense-- they will be saying we are in relationship when all they mean is dicking. Who wan buy cow � when the milk is free? 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Realhommie(m): 10:04pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Nusaibart:How dare you say the guy is useless? Do you think to marry is a piece of cake? Are you sure you even know what marriage entails? That dude is being real and very pragmatic. Do you know how the quality of his life and that of his immediate family will be greatly affected negatively should he go on to marry with that his 60k salary? All you guys just think of is marry, marry and marriage. How it's going to work isn't your concern because your only concern is the now. 2 things, either the lady exercises more patience or she walks. Q.E.D 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by tallerSSS: 10:07pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor:A_SH |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by galantjoe(m): 10:08pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Am ready |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:09pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Sense overdose! 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by oloshun(m): 10:09pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
donbachi: You should know it is not everything that needs baby's comments. If you are not a baby, you think like one. Man up. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by UjuJoan2: 10:10pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
authority2006: Oh it’s easy to respect a man in a marriage. What’s difficult is keeping up with the God complex most Nigerian men have. I don’t mind oh, but you need to match that with taking full financial responsibility. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by holyshadow: 10:11pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
well, truth is, u av endured longer than necessary. 8yrs of dating one guy while some marrages don't even last for 2yrs nowadays! answer the questions below to help you take your decision; # does ur religion condole such a long period of courtship? # is ur menopause clock reversible? # are there marriages dat started on a much lower financial base yet succeeding and happier? so long. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 10:12pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Ronin1: Love doesn't put food on the table when you are single too. As for kids, poor, illiterate people have kids all the time. It is only ideal that you have money, not a must 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by UjuJoan2: 10:12pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
frank950: I never said that money was in exchange for sex. Both man and wife enjoy sex so that’s not the issue. But the roles are clear. The man provides, the woman tends to the children and keeps the home. Will you wash plate? Wash the toilet? Bathe and feed the children? Most Nigerian men consider these duties degrading and insulting. And yet they expect the woman to do all this and still provide financially. It doesn’t seem fair now does it? 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by shadeyinka(m): 10:14pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
PoliteActivist:It doesn't work that way! A romantic relationship demands faithfulness and commitment. This tie down the lady with the man. Secondly, ladies are wired to expect something serious coming out of a relationship. Men are wired to look for loopholes to escape being tied down by a relationship 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by dapadawee: 10:18pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11:Na 20 years warranty no be even guarantee. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by authority2006(m): 10:20pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
frank950:Thanks. We got married 10 years ago with combined income that was even ridiculous to mention. She was afraid just like the man in the case of @Op but I knew delaying wasn't the best option but what were we going to do about our shiity income. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by juman(m): 10:21pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Move on. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Hassanmaye(m): 10:24pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
zudozz:Haha wickedness 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by zudozz: 10:36pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Hassanmaye: But its true nau. Next thing now u hear her saying ''men are scum''! Meanwhile na u no gree use d sense wey God give u. How can a man that wants to spend d rest of his life with u be sleeping with u outside wedlock for 5 years?! If a man wants to marry u 6 months of relationship or courtship is enough. If he does nt have money or he is struggling 2 years is enough for d both of u to put things together and start from somewhere even if its one room. But 6 years? everyday u comot ur cloth one man go dey climb ontop of u... my dear u no get sense! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by KIDfurniture(m): 10:37pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Na them... she knows bf's salary already.. he wants the poor boy to suffer more.. marriage ko .. union ni.. go and work and make money young girl... how much is your salary ? [/quote][quote author=abigail11 post=99568563]I have been dating this guy for 8 years now. My relationship with him started since my university school days. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by emmyniftyyem: 10:38pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
He may not have any reason to marry you especially if you are already carrying out wifely duties. He will just think to himself, 'why shackle myself with marriage when I can get all it gives without all the drama?' 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by bigpicture001: 10:38pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: Me am begging my babe to allow us get to it..but sh no gree ooo....babe say I never reach levels sh dreams of...God dey! 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by purples25(f): 10:39pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
frank950: Of course there are other things to be gained in marriage. But this thing here is a problem. Fertility, youth, purity, beauty. No matter what any man says, these are the things they truly want from a woman. Yes, she can work, but a man would rather choose an almost untouched beauty without a job than a capable older, modern , experienced woman. Therefore these relationships without closure/marriage lead to the degradation of the woman. A woman after eight years can say she wants to marry but by that time the men will be saying she is old, she must have been used, etc. Most men will avoid her and that's just the truth. As a woman gets older, no matter her wealth and degree, her options to marry get smaller. So yes, it matters for the woman that she gets some gain from whatever sexual stuff she engages in. It is important to her because that is one of the things men value in a woman. Clearly you can see she is at a loss if she gives it all for nothing, when that is part of her relished attributes. A woman giving her body is giving a very precious thing she is rated by so she loses if she gives it in charity. A man will not be rated by his body and you know this. Knowing this fully well, men still explore the expensive and precious youth of a woman, which they know, if not for the lapse modernity has given them, they can't have that for free. Even then they will pay for this when wanting to actually SECURE a woman with such attributes as youth, fertility, purity, and beauty into their household. So what are they doing with these young women that they have all their pearls for free? Let me be plain. They are eating a very expensive meal for free. They are eating what a potential suitor would have paid for OR valued the woman dearly for.....for free. If it was about clever and independent career women, why is this time in history the one that records the most of single women, hmm? Men are getting more and more repelled by the independent and career women. I watch videos every day where even the western men diss their women for not being sexually pure and too old. So this sex of a thing is really important for women and relationships scam her of the sexual value that she would need to get a life partner. She loses her purity for nothing. And at the end of the day, this is one of the most inportant things you guys care for. Don't pretend that it is not. 5 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Thereishel: 10:40pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: Open your heart for other man he would not marry you. Someone that has been having sex with you for 8 years what do you expect? 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Hassanmaye(m): 10:42pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
zudozz:Is true some of this women are stupid and mad I swear!! I get one I love so much during my university days she was foaming jonzbon and following bad boys up and down, she didn't have time for me, I was struggling she doesn't care, now I'm stable, she is yet to get married and in her madness she think I will pity her, time is not on her side. Hmmm 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Kirkman: 10:48pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Mcslize:Bros how you want take do am now? It's not gonna be easy for your girl cos getting a serious good guy nowadays is hard, where will she start from and with whom? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Chummynoni(m): 10:49pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
authority2006:Informative! U made sense |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by zubimete(f): 10:49pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11:Oh dear! you are in the wrong lane. Nairalanders dnt care nor value 'f` gender. Go to facebook & join singles nd married groups like women in nigeria & diaspara, extraordinary moms, once a mum always a mum etc. You will be glad sharing ur story nd nt to be confused. Best wishes 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by LINTUNE(m): 10:57pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor:u know how to find trouble, u are something else, smh.. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by ogbonti: 11:11pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
IKennaGabriel: are u alright ? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Cleanworld(f): 11:11pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: 8yrs Sis? your first child will have being in Jss 1 now. please call it off now, he will look for you and go and pay dowry if he's truelly the one. His salary is just an excuse because both of you can work together and make something out of your lives. The more his commmitted in his responbilities as a husband the more he will find a way to earn more than a meagre. My2cent 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Goldiness: 11:12pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
abigail11: Leave the guy he is not serious with you. You know in your mind that the relationship will not work, forget him and move on, pray to God to give you your own man. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by midehill(m): 11:19pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Zzor: You started well but ended It foolishly |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Acidosis(m): 11:33pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Please make sure you marry that man. Don't go and settle down with a new man you've known for only 4 or 6 months. Many of you (ladies) do this a lot and it ALWAYS end up in tears, love-less marriage, divorce, or DNA wahala.. ,You won't ever get over that man so why on earth would you want to leave him now after 8 years of sex? Omo Even married people most times no do this thing reach una..lol Please don't punish an innocent man because of your wasted years sha. And stop addressing yourself as a single lady. No you're not. You're an illegally married spiritual wife. You can't be single after 8 years. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Saig: 11:34pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
EkelediliBuhari: There's is more to life than just building. people have different things that make them happy. if marriage is one of them, so be it. Why tell people to keep building when they truly desire a friend and companion? Keep building without happiness, for what?? 3 Likes |
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