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Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by pretydiva(f): 12:28pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
This is part of the reason while most married men leave their wives behind. Don't know the evil spirit that usually gets hold of them when they go abroad 13 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by medriano: 12:30pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Very sad one. His best bet is to move back to Nigeria. From what you wrote, your friend is depressed and might be suicidal. Let him return home and be with his family,they’ll take care of him and make him feel better. He will always see his kids....not immediately though. I wish him strength and happiness. 5 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by seunmsg(m): 12:30pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Like I always say, marriage is overrated. It is just an arrangement of convenience that can crash at any time. Men especially should never lose guide while in it. When shit hits like in the case of this man, that’s when you will realize all the “I love you I love” na scam. The other gender will so deal with you without even blinking. I read somewhere this morning that Jeff Bozos ex-wife has remarried. This lady skimmed Bezos off billions of dollars only to go and marry a teacher who she can control. Men must take care of their family while not neglecting themselves at the same time. If you live in a country like the UK, start keeping part of your income in Nigeria or any other country where the UK law has not jurisdiction over. Make sure you’ve a fallback plan just in case of marital failure. We all read Ebue’s sad story. We must all be guided. 34 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by bolkay4: 12:31pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Michelle55:Because it's a lie to begin with. |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by GeneralPula: 12:32pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
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Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by iHart(m): 12:32pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
His family members here in Nigeria will also suffer, no more free money. |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by MansoryMX(m): 12:33pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Michelle55: You really want to know how? You really really want to know how? 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Funkybabee(f): 12:33pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
it's well may he find peace of mind 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Michelle55: 12:35pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
MansoryMX:Yeah.. Please do enlighten me |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by drlaykay(m): 12:35pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
That's how a random woman called me from canada pleading for a medical report. Said the content should be that when she was in Nigeria 2016, she was admitted in my hospital because her husband beat her while she was pregnant and that she lost consciousness for some days. I asked what she needed it for, she said nothing that she only wanted to keep it. She offered me 200k, I rejected it without thinking twice. Na so she go use am go destroy another person life. I will never be an accomplice to someone else's downfall. I can't sell my conscience for money. 44 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by akeeng: 12:35pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Keshinr0: Hmmmm. This is easy to type. You wouldn’t understand what not being able/allowed to see you child(ren) means until you are in that situation |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by grafixdon: 12:35pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
My brother had the same issue with his wife some years ago... Unfortunately for him he was deported back to Nigeria without a penny after many years in uk. Meanwhile, he was the one who took his wife to the uk. After he was reported, she doesn't even allow him to speak with his kids (2girls) on phone. He later suffers depression, always on drugs, he couldn't work or do anything meaningful, totally useless... Today, the guy is in rehab in Yaba, he's shadow of himself as I speak... 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by SweetCunt97(f): 12:36pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
dannywest:Atleast una don tick register. But didnt you marry yr friend? What could have happened? |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Reex12(m): 12:36pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
marraige na scam |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
His mistake was not seeing the signs early enough. If you insist on keeping your wife and family with you in the UK, you need to take financial precautions; like keeping the bulk of your savings in offshore accounts that she is not aware of, including her name on the mortgage papers and getting your kids acclimatized to staying with your parents in Nigeria. So as soon as you see signs of her misbehaviour, you pack up and leave her hanging. The court cannot award her what they can't find. Well, too late now. Tell him to suspend the search for a job until the court case is all wrapped up. There's very little she can gain from him now; the court cannot order a jobless man to either pay alimony or child support. After that, he can relocate to another town, pick up the pieces and try to get visitation rights. Over time, it will resolve itself. 32 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Is his wife, a nigerian or a foreigner ![]() 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Kayberg: 12:38pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
What if his wife is seeing someone else? Women can be unpredictable at times. 5 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Afrobasic(m): 12:38pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Take the redpill, take the redpill, you will not hear, Now you are looking for sympathy *hisses* 14 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Quaddafi29: 12:39pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Marriage has become a nightmare and divorce has become a horror. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by ElijahIme1992(m): 12:39pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Looooooool which kind mumu man go marry for UK......dats y I like my naija...here na 50-50...let him enjoy his wahala jare 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Built2last: 12:40pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
ASUNDER: Get him to sign up to universal credit so he can pay his rent and feed first. He needs to pick up the pieces and move on. I will never fight over children. When they grow up, they have a way of looking for a missing parent. that vacuum is always there in them 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Lekmanz87(m): 12:42pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
ASUNDER: Coming to nigeria is not a good idea for me when a man falls 7times he must get up 8times...man up and get your shits together coz when there’s life there’s still hope...#Shiloh 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by definateli: 12:42pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
He must not try to come back X 100. |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by seunmsg(m): 12:44pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Michelle55: Lori ori. |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by doxijaw: 12:45pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Refer him to the redpill section on nairaland. Advice him to.. Find a job , build back home, get a non Nigerian easy going female for companionship , avoid the ex like a plague. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Let him relocate back to Nigeria. When my brother was going through same, I gave him that advice..... It saved his live. Today, 14 years after, he is grateful for that advice and the attendant support. I wish your friend all the best. Refer to this story to understand better.., https://www.nigeriafilms.com/celebrity-gossips/79-city-flame/20009-fantasyland-boss-fola-ogunlesi-fights-wife-in-public 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Burgerlomo: 12:46pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Oracleforce: Well said bro or sis.
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Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by dermmy(m): 12:47pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
grafixdon: It is well. ![]() |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by od501: 12:47pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
HRprof: This is to show you what happens when a women given the smallest of power. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by seunmsg(m): 12:47pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Kayberg: It’s not a matter of what if, it’s very certain. She will soon get married to another man and they will both be enjoying the sweat of the first husband and be laughing at him. We’ve seen this play out over and over again. 15 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by richie240: 12:48pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Tats:Jesu!!! Can u imagine! This s part of d reason 'men are going their own ways' nowadays. They are gradually realizing that d phrase 'settle down' wasn't a coincidental derivation; it literally means what it is! The marriage is over 90% beneficial yo the woman. If not for legitimate sex and procreation, a man has absolutely no biz tying d knot. Is d milk worth buying d cow? I think not! ![]() 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by NoSentiment: 12:48pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
That's the price u pay for marrying there. The bright sparks from Naija when they arrive uk go to any length to marry British women not knowing the implications. Women and children are the most protected group of ppl in the uk. It is as though the powers that be there have sworn to avenge the past centuries of abuse of women and children there. Many responsible men never touch women with a badge pole in the Uk 13 Likes 1 Share |
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