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Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Nobody: 1:16pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Keshinr0:abi? 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
HRprof:how old are you, you sure you're up to 18?? 10 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by arzizhy: 1:20pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
His friends should rally support for him, don't advise him to come back. Divorce is a temporary setback. Find him a beautiful shagmate and help him forget his travails and see how things will bounce back in no time. 6 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by lekki1444: 1:21pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
seunmsg:who is ebue 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 1:23pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
ASUNDER: Every man's worst nightmare in the UK. He should try these guys. He has nothing to lose. https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/contact-us/ If somehow he can raise money, these guys specialise in cases for men https://cordellcordell.co.uk/
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Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Vickym1(f): 1:24pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Tats:Him coming to Nigeria is not a good idea Y because Nigeria will frustrate him more if he doesn't have any one or anything to fall on. Nigeria stress and wahala will make u want to give up on urself, I think his frnds should be of help to him cos this is the time he need them most not when things are good. 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by gambia(m): 1:24pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
lekki1444: He was a former Arsenal defender. https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/12/emmanuel-eboue-loses-life-savings-properties-wife-following-bitter-divorce/ 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by seunmsg(m): 1:26pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
lekki1444: Former Arsenal defender. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by dannywest: 1:30pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: Best friend. We grew apart, unresolved issues haven't talked in almost a year. Marriage can be hard if both parties aren't putting work into it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Ketapu: 1:32pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
ASUNDER: He should join "Men Going Their Own Way" (MGTOW) subreddit on reddit.com. He will find men undergoing such situations or who have undergone such situations before. They will advise him and help him through that phase. I'll also advice he starts reading books on self improvement. "No more mr nice guy" is a good starting point. He can download the book on b-ok.org 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
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Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by lekki1444: 1:32pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
seunmsg:what happened to him ? |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by lekki1444: 1:33pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
gambia:Ahhh thanks for the article bro |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by xandy84: 1:33pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Op is leaving some important information. Nobody arrest you for going to your house except you have restraining order against you. Don't make it look like men don't have right in UK, US bro. Allegations without proof holds no ground in sane climate. If his wife accuse him of marital rape, abuse and forgery, she will have to prove beyond reasonable doubt such activities happened. OP it's either omitting or does not have a full story.. Talking from experience 7 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by AfroKnight: 1:34pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Keshinr0: Best advice. Honestly I wonder what kind of friends he has. They should support him financially at least until the case is over. Him representing himself in court will only cause him more grief. He needs good lawyers. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by petitejolie(f): 1:37pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Michelle55:abroad marriage between a citizen of that country and immigrant is not actually for forever. Na to find stay but some guys are not smart they forget their sense and be ass licking dis overbearing women without having a plan b at home until katakata burst. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 1:37pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease: ...also I think men in the UK should start keeping money aside (vex money) just in case. Just in case because things could change very dramatically. Life in the UK messes with black women's heads big and oyinbo people will gladly (and maliciously) help to destroy a black man's family for their own self satisfaction. Vex money is necessary now more than ever so that you can make certain moves (rent room/flat, relocate back to Nigeria etc) without turning to charity case. Also, unless you are very wealthy, there is actually no point bankrupting yourself to fight a woman who has taken an unreasonable stand. I know it's one of the most emotionally charged difficult things ever, but one has to tear themselves away from any emotions and do the most sensible thing. Forget the kids for now because your hand has been cruelly forced by circumstances. I wish the man well. 3 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Jaqenhghar: 1:38pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Tats:He should just pick himself up . Its very hard but he must disengage from tjem for his sanity. Get another job and build himself. Its not easy but it jas to be done. Na white woman him marry? 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by planetx: 1:39pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
This is why their birth rate in the West is now in the gutter, because the men are refusing to get married and are now taking the red pill and going MGTOW. They have shot themselves in the foot with their biased anti males law especially in the issue of divorce and child custody and I say good riddance. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Jaqenhghar: 1:42pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
LesbianBoy: Una own too much ne. Your own is already bordering on paranoia. Men in Nigeria dont go through a tenth of what men go through abroad but the way you spend time villifying women. Ironically people who talk like you when they go abroad they wont do anyhow with the foreign babes. Na una kind go turn houseboy for oyinbo woman 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by kenchop: 1:43pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Bless you bro. He must man up and move on. Lekmanz87: |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Businessman1986(m): 1:45pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Henvest: You said it, but will they hear? 3 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by Jaqenhghar: 1:45pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Ketapu: Even the MGTOW are under attack these days. No wonder less oyinbo men are opting for marriage these days. They just live together with the women and see how it goes. In my department we have like 30 women and 6 men. Im the only one who is married 12 Likes |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by gambia(m): 1:46pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
lekki1444: You are welcome. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by famzynet: 1:48pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1:How does one including wife's name in mortgage papers benefit the man in case of divorce? Please enlighten us. |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by NoSentiment: 1:48pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
ibuildstuff: Really! This is so terrible and ungrateful. |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by manmustwack: 1:48pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
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Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by KingAzari: 1:48pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
xandy84: You never see anything. Let me tell you, in the western countries, the most powerful people are in this order: 1. Women 2. Children 3. Animals(Birds, Fishes & Mammals) 4. Trees/Environment/Ocean 5. Gay men 6. Straight men (This is where most of us - the most endangered group - belong). SAD truth. The day I told my white boss that I was getting married he wept for me just the way angels wept for people on earth the day God ostracized Satan to earth. He practically told me not to get married that I would live to regret. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by seunmsg(m): 1:49pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
lekki1444: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/12/emmanuel-eboue-loses-life-savings-properties-wife-following-bitter-divorce/ Read up how he lost everything he worked for to his former wife. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by MansoryMX(m): 1:52pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Michelle55: Two major things, one must be allowed and the other not allowed; Forgiveness and Pride. Pride is a poison in marriage because it's the basis for disrespecting others and for creating suffering in our lives. The moment one starts having pride against his/her spouse, that marriage is definitely hitting the rock! People you see who have been married for more than 50years and still going strong together don’t allow pride to becloud their sense of reasoning when they wrong one another or having one misunderstanding or another which is bound to happen in marriage, we are humans and we have both anger and happiness inside us which do comes out of us. It’s either you are angry or happy. You can’t be angry and happy at same time. So when you are in an angry state caused by your spouse or yourself then don’t allow pride, instead allow forgiveness to kick in! Well Na so my papa teach me when I told him I wanna marry lol. And since I got married it has been working for me like magic! I don’t fail to say sorry whenever I did something wrong to my wife, likewise she. Pride is the major cause of all broken marriages 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by efficiencie(m): 1:52pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
babythug: What is this one saying? Do you know what the woman has been telling the children about their father? The children are part of the divorce whether they like it or not. It is not a matter of "if" it is a matter of "when"...the will eventually get to know the dirty linen of their parents...He had better leave the UK return to a country where he can start over whilst leading a life of prayer and devotion to God. He should communicate with his kids when he can through the phone and to see the children he should pay for their ticket to travel to his location. He should not visit them at his UK residence or risk getting arrested again on false charges by his wife... Marriages fail when spouses fail to agree and spouses fail to agree when they aren't matches for each other and bound by the law of the LORD GOD who instituted the first marriage! |
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