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Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Silentgroper(m): 4:58pm On Mar 08, 2021
purples25:


I'm not hoping to meet one from nl sha. Before he turns everything to a gender war.
do not be scared of nl guys, like d fellows on bbnaija thread would say " All na cruise"
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 4:58pm On Mar 08, 2021
purples25:


I'm not hoping to meet one from nl sha. Before he turns everything to a gender war.

Please na grin
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by seanwilliam(m): 5:16pm On Mar 08, 2021
falcon01:
ok, let's say on a scale of 100 you tota benchmark scorel Body physique + looks+ financial capability all totalled to lemme say 40, and you sir are chasing a girl with a 70 or 80 benchmark score they can never be interested in you you need to lower your standards come down to 40, 35, 30 hell you might even go for 45 to 50 if you are up for a challenge. So Ma guy don't follow girls above your standards you don't know your standards because you never dated, start small then move up you skipped that process because you should have done that when you are in your early 20's so its gonna be hard for you just find a 40 40 and Rock on. Ciao!!!.
which kind nonsense talk be this for Christ sake ??


I feel like slapping u I swear . Lower his standard cos of pussy ??






I wonder why men find it hard to get girlfriends wey be say na girls self Dey beg for relationship these days . Oga nothing do u

@op
Enter michat or dating app or Facebook page or Instagram, relate with any girl of your choice and build your confidence from there if you can’t walk up to woman ( don’t be scared of rejection na normal thing ).. increase your taste .. no go Dey Dey dirty girl o..


This life self no balance , me wey Dey find style to discharges girls wey Dey my life. I one turn all of them to fwb but na relationship dem Dey find.. lol na momey I Dey find

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Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by seanwilliam(m): 5:23pm On Mar 08, 2021
Try to Dey hangout , dress nicely and speak with boldness when you’re around women
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Mcslize: 5:39pm On Mar 08, 2021
And some of us are looking for how to break up with our girlfriends.

This world no balance o.

But op there must be something you are doing wrong. Why not be yourself. Don't spend money on any girl you meet.

Just know how to sweet mouth them. That alone is enough. Don't be needy or desperate or make request. Give order and allow them to either honor it or turn it down.

Don't use the word I love you. It is a turn off to some girls. They see it as desperation. My babe have been begging me to tell her I love her but I haven't used it on her. She has been asking me why I have never told her I miss her. I don't use those words. They make me feel like a desperado and weak. She is the one doing all the I love you , I miss you while I repay her by making her feel like an angel once a while.

To be frank, I am tired of ladies. Cuz if I talk to 5 ladies, 3 must enter the girlfriend zone.

So, check yourself, what's it you are doing wrongly?

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Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Nobody: 6:06pm On Mar 08, 2021
Hmmmmm
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by purples25(f): 6:08pm On Mar 08, 2021
EMEKUSBOY9:


Please na grin

Abeg o.
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by purples25(f): 6:10pm On Mar 08, 2021
Silentgroper:
do not be scared of nl guys, like d fellows on bbnaija thread would say " All na cruise"

Lol thanks. I get you.
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Silentgroper(m): 6:26pm On Mar 08, 2021
purples25:

Lol thanks. I get you.
U're welcome, pretty thing.
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Silentgroper(m): 6:27pm On Mar 08, 2021
EMEKUSBOY9:

Please na grin
Do not beg, use persuasion instead.
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by uni69(f): 7:02pm On Mar 08, 2021
Bro what do you do for a living
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by MufasaLion: 7:03pm On Mar 08, 2021
Veltan40:
Please help me. This may sound funny but it's simply the truth.
I am 28 and I have never been in a relationship before. I mean I have never had a girlfriend.
Initially I ignored this issue and tried to focus on my education and building my future, thinking that it will happen in it's time. But it never happened.

Now, indeed God has blessed my hustle so much this days that I am now contented and ready to settle down and build up a family.

But I have now realized that what I waved away earlier as a minor issue is currently a serious problem to me. I can't find a girl. None of them seems to be interested in me.

All the ladies I have approached seems not to be interested in dating me. I am not that handsome, but I don't think I am that so ugly. ( Atleast those I am better than have one)
I have also been so benevolent and cheerful just to woo them, yet I always meet rejection.

This is seriously weighing me down and affecting me seriously, especially my business. I have prayed, I have tried and I have done all I could, that I now think it's not ordinary.
Infact, the last pastor I have visited, told me my wife is around. It's been 7 months now, and nothing happened.

Please what should I do. Is there anything wrong with me. I need help

Probably you don't know how to keep conversation with women. It's not about money. It's about your personality. Your self confidence and all.
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by falcon01: 7:49pm On Mar 08, 2021
seanwilliam:
which kind nonsense talk be this for Christ sake ??


I feel like slapping u I swear . Lower his standard cos of pussy ??






I wonder why men find it hard to get girlfriends wey be say na girls self Dey beg for relationship these days . Oga nothing do u

@op
Enter michat or dating app or Facebook page or Instagram, relate with any girl of your choice and build your confidence from there if you can’t walk up to woman ( don’t be scared of rejection na normal thing ).. increase your taste .. no go Dey Dey dirty girl o..


This life self no balance , me wey Dey find style to discharges girls wey Dey my life. I one turn all of them to fwb but na relationship dem Dey find.. lol na momey I Dey find
Yes nah, he clearly has 0 experience you are clearly an expert that's why you see it like that you Know how the game is while nigga is at level 1 he can't just jump and be like you.
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Nobody: 8:41pm On Mar 08, 2021
Jeon:


ahaha kinni?

meaning ur mom no be better woman?
Leave am, the guy don misfire.

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Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by FINELEG(m): 9:54pm On Mar 08, 2021
@op, I've not really posted or replied to any thread here on dis forum but indeed yours is touching knowing fully well dat I can help u dats y am commenting. take me serious by calling me on dis no. 070-1515- 5283.remain blessed
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by FINELEG(m): 9:59pm On Mar 08, 2021
FINELEG:
@op, I've not really posted or replied to any thread here on dis forum but indeed yours is touching knowing fully well dat I can help u dats y am commenting. take me serious by calling me on dis no. 070-1515- 5283.remain blessed
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 12:08pm On Mar 09, 2021
purples25:


Abeg o.

grin grin funny girl
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Nobody: 12:30pm On Mar 09, 2021
Veltan40:
Please help me. This may sound funny but it's simply the truth.
I am 28 and I have never been in a relationship before. I mean I have never had a girlfriend.
Initially I ignored this issue and tried to focus on my education and building my future, thinking that it will happen in it's time. But it never happened.

Now, indeed God has blessed my hustle so much this days that I am now contented and ready to settle down and build up a family.

But I have now realized that what I waved away earlier as a minor issue is currently a serious problem to me. I can't find a girl. None of them seems to be interested in me.

All the ladies I have approached seems not to be interested in dating me. I am not that handsome, but I don't think I am that so ugly. ( Atleast those I am better than have one)
I have also been so benevolent and cheerful just to woo them, yet I always meet rejection.

This is seriously weighing me down and affecting me seriously, especially my business. I have prayed, I have tried and I have done all I could, that I now think it's not ordinary.
Infact, the last pastor I have visited, told me my wife is around. It's been 7 months now, and nothing happened.

Please what should I do. Is there anything wrong with me. I need help

There is nothing wrong with you. Don't go and comman kill yourself and don't be in a hurry, you might end up hurting yourself and or other people. You can try being friends first, just relate with female folks, we don't bite, lol. Keep your money first and focus on building relationship and go for what you want, don't allow desperation creep in. Everyone deserves a companion, it is really a beautiful thing...
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Nobody: 12:34pm On Mar 09, 2021
Veltan40:
Please help me. This may sound funny but it's simply the truth.
I am 28 and I have never been in a relationship before. I mean I have never had a girlfriend.
Initially I ignored this issue and tried to focus on my education and building my future, thinking that it will happen in it's time. But it never happened.

Now, indeed God has blessed my hustle so much this days that I am now contented and ready to settle down and build up a family.

But I have now realized that what I waved away earlier as a minor issue is currently a serious problem to me. I can't find a girl. None of them seems to be interested in me.

All the ladies I have approached seems not to be interested in dating me. I am not that handsome, but I don't think I am that so ugly. ( Atleast those I am better than have one)
I have also been so benevolent and cheerful just to woo them, yet I always meet rejection.

This is seriously weighing me down and affecting me seriously, especially my business. I have prayed, I have tried and I have done all I could, that I now think it's not ordinary.
Infact, the last pastor I have visited, told me my wife is around. It's been 7 months now, and nothing happened.

Please what should I do. Is there anything wrong with me. I need help

@bolded. There's your clue. No woman wants a doormat. Stop being too nice and servile in a bid to woo women.
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by oxiide22(m): 2:04pm On Mar 09, 2021
iLegendd:

Read ChatDîcted. That's all.
hahaha just drop your piece of advice here
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Cerebellum: 7:52pm On Mar 09, 2021
Nwaotu10:
Boss, I can relate to this. I'm 28, never had a girlfriend, and I'm not bothered.
Please, how did you make it? Would you be as kind enough to tell me how? Help a soul bro
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Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Adasun(m): 8:12pm On Mar 09, 2021
sometimes things we spend energy on can come to us if we just relax and do nothing.
Re: Please Help Me. I Am Dying Inside by Bestmanwealthy(m): 8:20pm On Mar 09, 2021
Ur does not matter

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