Thank you!
God bless you for this biblical quote.
The most difficult things to do are usually the right ones.

saintokwuluora:

Take it or leave it...A man shall leave his father and mother and cleave unto unto his wife. Peter and Harry did no wrong in their decisions. It takes a real man to do what they did. Life is not for hopeless, dependent, Lilly livered people.

blinking001:
In life never choose your wife over your family and never choose your family over your wife..

So wetin you just mean na prof

obailala:
What sacrifice did he make? Leaving the royal family, the wealth, the prestige and all the toxicity and depression that comes with it? Do you realise there are people who actually just prefer a quiet simple life?

Not everyone fancies all that boring royal lifestyle (which so many out there like you admire from afar). Prince Harry has never really comformed to the royal life, so with or without Meghan, he didnt seem like someone who ever wanted all that royal burden.

the sacrifice isnt him leaving, it is the trail he left when he was leaving. If my father says, dont marry this woman and i stand my ground and go ahead and marry her, it is better for me, than to go ahead and marry her and intimate the whole country while doing all that about how my family sucks. The NOISE is where he was very very unwise. Who the hell is OPRAH wey he dey report the royal family to? Why would he insult his own heritage like that for a woman who isnt even cohesive with HER OWN family?

lexy2014:


How does this negate what he said?

Mr!! Pls read how they met

Before calling her a gold digger indirectly

Monogamy:


What's your definition of abandon? Are you saying Peter don't have any contact with any of his family members?

Peter's grudges is mainly between his twin brother Paul... Which I believe they both have their reasons for keeping the grudges that so long.

Should Peter have married an Igbo Lady, what difference would it make?

What do you mean by "mainly" between his twin brother? peter has problem with every member of his family, including his mother!

Now, that's a prodigal son.

Leaving your family for a Yoruba woman would always backfire. It's just a matter of time. It shall backfire!

Tap0lane:
Story teller the comparison is with about Igbo bigotry n hypocrisy so shed lil light on that.

i wasnt, i am not, and i dont intend making any Igbo or Psquare comparison.

Ooni:
What do you mean by "mainly" between his twin brother? peter has problem with every member of his family, including his mother!

Now, that's a prodigal son.

Peter had problem with his mother not has...

A good mother would have moved on and support his family which I think his mum is doing...

bunto:
The RF have a history of throwing their spouses, siblings, children etc under the bus for the institution.
There is no place in the West for that any longer.
Their people are insisting that love, compassion, equity should rule their society not bigotry,racism and self promotion.
Family is everything.
Nuclear family is everything.
All of the queen's children have been divorced at least once (except Prince Edward). They are known to be psychologically messed up that nobody finds it easy to live with them.
The queen has thrown her own husband, children, and even only sister under the bus for that institution. Her sister died miserable.
It is good for Prince Harry that he chooses love and family over power and one achaic institution..
My 2 cents!

ok. Let's see how it all plays out.

Mrr P,, did what is absolutely wrong by going against family and ime Ezinaụlọ,, so therefore he has gone astray.

Wiseman from the East are Solidly

Peter awụgo ụmụ Igbo na àlà.

fashrola:
In this life eh... Marry a very good and supportive wife, Because I've seen a lot of men been abandoned by family (Brothers, sisters, friends etc) cos of "Economic downturn" predicament..... When eventually things pickup again, Some people go start to dey talk (The wife don cage am, e too dey listen to him wife) but they forgot what those couple passed through in life before getting their feet back

Never question couple's decision on their families (Because na dem get shoes and dem no where e dey pinch dem)

Your wife na your first family before any other person, Cos na the first point of contact be that for your life..........

Hmm coming from a man on NL that's impressive

The truth of the matter is to a lot men ( actually boys) on NL their wife is just an outsider she is not family, only his children , siblings and parents are his family.

Me I don't get surprised by such comments, you would see the trend on that thread where a guy claimed his mother wished his wife dead and see how people couldn't say the mother was wrong, its simply because the wife is not seen as family.

You see that bolded ehn, most people would never understand.

As for Lola I believe her and her hubby are making solid investment plans for her and the children sha because if in the future her husband dies before her, those her inlaws will not even hesitate to take all what they perceived to be their brothers own.
People that didn't even attend Lola's parent's burial, taaa!!

Gilbertase:
the sacrifice isnt him leaving, it is the trail he left when he was leaving. If my fathet says, dont marry this woman and i stand my ground and go ahead and marry her, it is better for me, than to go ahead and marry her and intimate the whole country while doing all that about how my family sucks. The NOISE is where he was very very unwise. Who the hell ia OPRAH wey he dey report the royal family to? Why would he insult his own heritage like that for a woman who isnt even cohesive with HER OWN family?

Oga, you aren't a member of his family and you and I haven't got a clue what he goes through. He's been lamenting and subtly rebelling against the family way back before he even met his wife; he's also previously lamented what his mom went through in the family. With all this as public knowledge, you still think his current actions are a fallout of the wife he married just yesterday?

Like I said, he wears the shoe and knows where it hurts.

chatinent:
The mother not being in support of the marriage isn't a public matter.

It was her own decision.


He made the decision he felt was right for him.

Infact you deserve more than 10,000 likes and shares for this very smart, short and simple answer, you've said it all with little words

mainman7:


Bitter Truth time! Are you ready?! Ok. Someone once said "If you see a Snake and see an Igbo, quickly kill the Igbo first because Igbos are more deceitful and dangerous than snakes." I didn't believe this Initially, but when I discovered that the North earned their respect and peace from Igbos only after they started massively killing them. Yorubas on the other hand accepted them as brothers, soon they started satanically eyeing Yoruba Land, and hatched a plan of enslaving Yorubas right on Yoruba Land. It is forever in Igbo Nature to ferociously Bite the Finger that feeds them. Just because Yorubas focused on Education and Igbos focused on trading, they were able to rake in much of Yorubas Monies. But instead of being grateful and thankful, they used this same Yoruba Money to stab Yorubas in the back by engaging in derogatory scandalous slanding of Yorubas as a People. Telling other tribes that Yorubas are stupid, dirty, etc. Until Yorubas start to mercilessly kill Igbos enmasse like Housa-Fulanis do, Igbos would never respect them. The plan is very much under way for Yorubas to earn their much deserved respect from Igbos by mercilessly killing them enmasse, it shall happen very soon all over Yoruba Land.. It is just their nature, as subtle deceptive snakes and scopions, Igbos can never change their satanic evil wicked ever nursing greed and evil for other people Nature, unless they are massively slaughtered. It is the only way to make them think like normal apperecitive human souls. Let me remind those with short memories here, During Good luck Jonathan era, this their Satnic agenda would have been achieved if he won 2nd Term. They already got the Law in Process, saying that Igbos can become Governor of Lagos, Lagos is a no Man's Land, etc. Truly, you would be destroy by the Satanic Igbos masquerading as Saints everywhere if you don't quickly destroy them. There is a wicked nepotic insatiably Greedy Demon in every Igbo.

As Southerners, just before 1960, Azikwe and Awolowo made an Oath to form Political alliance so that Azikwe would become Nigerian Prime Minister while Awolowo would be the President, more so because both Southerners have fought for Nigerian Independence from Britain since 1956 when the Northerners were still saying they don't want Indipendence, the North wanted to remain slaves to Britain. Awowlo and all Yorubas were rudely shocked the following Day to see same Azikwe coming out in alliance with Tafawa Balewa. Igbos are born Betrayals, they Introduced Politic of Betrayal into Nigeria. He was Afraid of pattering with an extremely wise Sage like Awolowo to make Nigeria great, he rather wanted a dimwitted Northerner that he could manipulate so that Igbos can enslave every other Tribes in the Nation. Unfortunately, the Northerner that he thought he could enslave soon proved to know Politics more than Igbos. After which the ever Greedy satanic Igbos resulted to massive Bloodshed of other Tribal Leaders on January 29, 1966. They just want to own Nigeria and every soul in the Nation.

Hmmm... Ok. In another news, the guy's reply below made me know that there is still Hope for Nigeria. We all know that Greed is what started the very first Coup and Political Bloodshed in Nigeria. Fulanis were very good people who never knew that Destiny of a Nation could be enslaved with guns plus Polical Authority till evil Souls showed them the satanic way by being the very first to do such on January 29, 1966. Know you History, so that you know your true Enemy that already masquerades as Saints.
You are among the very few that still has Sense on NL. You are very intelligent, unlike most gullible senseless people on NL Hoodwinked and brainwashed to think GTB is the one defaulting. Innoson is a Big Thief! Wise ones know how highly tribalistic Igbos still supported and justified Evans in notorious merciless Kidnapper, is it Innoson that obviously tried to Borrowed from GTB, tried to dupe the Bank and still unrepentantly dragging the Noble Name of the Bank in the mud that the sad souls called Igbos would now defend?! Worse still Innoson was robbing Nigeria Government by Tax Evation on all is Imports until this GTB case exposed the 419 Company. By now, myhopic gullible Yorubas should have learned enough from History to never to be manipulated by the satanically deceitful souls called Igbos. They are frantically trying to DeMarket GTB so that unscrupulous Igbo Banks like Fidelity Bank can hijack their large Customers.

You should know the irreparable Depth to which satanic Nepotism and demonic Hatered for other Humanity has eaten Igbo Souls by seeing how wickedly United they have been against the Innocent Wonderful Benevolent Soul like Lola who lifted the whole Okoye Family from excruciating Poverty when they were nobody. Yet, they quickly forgot that and chew the Finger that fed them. Such Satanic Heartless is what only Igbos are capable of.

All the Fulani Bandits and Tribal Killers that now scatter about in Nigeria should ONLY Kill Igbos, because they introduce Political Killings into a Once Thriving Country called Nigeria. All Igbos must be wiped out from the Surface of the Earth. "Woe unto them that say they are Jew and they are not! But they are Synagogue of Satan!" Talking about Igbos! They masquerade as Saints whereas they are the most evil Satanic Souls on Earth. The CREATOR of all Humanity shall Avenge the sleepless Nights you eternally sad Souls called Ignos have caused the likes of Lola and others, all the Innocent Yoruba Blood shed during the Coup and even the Blood of the ones killed by Bandits shall forver be upon Igbos, they introduced Bloodshed and Political Killings into a once wonderful innocent Nation called Nigeria. May Judgement of ALMIGHTY GOD once again Fall unpon all the satanic insatiably Greedy Souls Igbos and permanently wipe them out of existence. They shall all be wiped out of the Surface of Earth for the unnepolitic untribalistic united Humanity to enjoy Everlasting Peace. All enemies wishing Yorubas evil in their hearts, Thunder of Eledumare shall slaughter all! I have posted another article that so glaringly Prove that the Reason why Igbos hate Yorubas so much is because all their deams and Peaks of Life the aspire and to achieve in this Life, Yorubas have achieved it. Next time you see a Yoruba, duff your hat, kowtow and bow!

Even tho I don't agree with all you're saying but most of it is 101% pure facts.....but foolish stupid Yoruba's have been blinded by Western liberalism. Such a pity.

mabea:
That's exactly what marriage is supposed to be but in this age and time it's not worth it because it will shock you when this same lady will file for a divorce tomorrow.

most ladies don't just file for divorce. Most of them want to stay., irrespective of how incapable the husband is to provide for the family. Once you're supportive, they are ok. Nowadays, guys don't have that patience. They beat their wives at the slightest provocation and not many ladies can endure or condone that nowadays. My dad never raised his hands on my mum and not because my mum was not a nag and I vowed not to do either. You see, women are the same in physiology globally, but with different faces, skin colour and stature. You have to be a gentle man to the core to live with them and that's why I said marriage isn't for small boys...but for mature minds. I've seen women who built houses( not one) and nobody knew it's not the husband who built it

chuose2:
his mother knew why she was rejected

Now he has married her, is PSquare still functional? NO!

Who cares. Is Peter happy? YES!!
Thats what matters.

Peter say him no like Igbo babes, na im choice.

I wonder what bigots will say,if Davido's family become hostile to Chioma because she is ibo...I hope they will deem it fair too.

Neddstark:
The worst mistake a man can ever do is marry an older woman.
An older woman can turn a man against his own family. You wont even know you are being manipulated.
I have seen a widower marry an older woman who turned the man against his children from his first wife.
Women are smart and very manipulative. An older woman married to you is twice of this.
If you think I am joking, ask a woman why she never wants her son to marry an older woman.

na man u be

Juliusmalema:
Who are the Nigerians?

Are we now in a generation of reverse psychology?


Someone who is under the manipulation of evil forces....Praise for what exactly?

May we never marry a woman that we will have to defend to the point of leaving our inheritance, brothers and sisters and the whole family at Large.....

A united family breeds Inner Peace....

. Are you married or single?

These are both different circumstances. Don’t really apply bt why shud there be an unhealthy competition or comparison??

U can choose ur spouse or new family without spitting the family u came from. Depending on the circumstances.

This unhealthy competition might be taken to far even when unnecessary. That is my fear here.

If ur spouse is wrong how can u choose her over ur family?? Or vice versa, so it depends clearly on the circumstances involved.

Juliusmalema:
Who are the Nigerians?

Are we now in a generation of reverse psychology?


Someone who is under the manipulation of evil forces....Praise for what exactly?

May we never marry a woman that we will have to defend to the point of leaving our inheritance, brothers and sisters and the whole family at Large.....

A united family breeds Inner Peace....

Really?. How old are you again?

Hmmmmm

How do you know Meghan is manipulative? Was she your ex or what?

Hideki:
You are still young, pray you don't marry a manipulative wife. They separate you and destroy you. Mark my words, someday Harry and Meghan are gonna divorce and you will hear another excuse. Finally, happiness is something we can never truly have. Sacrifices and compromise are what keeps a marriage going. People who leave their marriage or isolate their partner from his family only because they are chasing happiness are crafty. "Right to life, right to freedom and in pursuit of happiness".- reflect on the pursuit part

livinbygrace:
Be careful of any woman that seperate families.They will pretend to be good,decent woman,but deep down they are cunning and very deceptive.

By the time this woman do Peter strong thing nobody go tell him to run back his family.

you can keep on waiting till then, maybe God can answer your own prayers.
Critics and their own problems they choose to ignore to follow other's problems

For this country so... Wey many people dey ignore their own problems to face other people own, na double wahala for dead body and the owner of dead body

tonididdy:


What kind of useless happiness will make a prince denounce his throne for the legs of a woman.
... Even if not a throne, a family.


The life afterwards will be full of loneliness and regrets.

He's very unlikely to sit on that throne.. Currently he's 6th on the line of a monarchy that's getting unpopular as the years run by. This is despite cost cutting on expenses of extended members.

I think Harry has always felt like the spare for many years but more so now as his brother's brood has grown and may still grow given rumours.

This singular reason might be responsible for his slightly dramatic years as a teenager and also seeking a career outside of the "Institution".
He's seen what has become of his older uncles - ceremonial stooges - and he's not keen to join dem lot.

Megan, on the other hand, has used the race card excessively to win acclaim and support, imho, to cover for her inadequacies. That is becoming a tad irritating. It only feeds into the negative black stereotype!!!!

I am not surprised at some of the allegations but feel she's been a little sensitive to the perceived micro-aggressions.
After all, Kate was villified whilst waiting to be engaged - waity Katey,she was labelled for years - - then her nude or bikini pics were splashed over tabloids without permission in their early years of marriage, William's alleged affair with their next door neighbour amongst other things. But she has kept a thin smile on and performed her duties as expected.

Something Meghan finds difficult despite being an actress.

I hope Henry finds love and nourishment longterm with her given her history of not only short relationships but of terminating them- via text.

Henry, Archie and their little daughter-to-be are the ones, I'm most concerned about.
I wish the family well, anyways.


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Arijude:
you can only deliver a person when the person is willing

Lie. You can deliver anyone you want to deliver.

Does a mad man know he is under demonic possession? Have we not seen mad men that get delivered?

Face reality of your tribal bigotry or shut up?

You hate this girl because she is Yoruba. You Igbos are tribal bigots.

When this girl was helping the two brothers, where were you and your tribal bigot tribesmen?

danietohbadt:



What about Prince Harry?

Is he under some manipulation of evil forces too?

It's 2021 oga.

Wake up and stop being archaic.

Mumu...when he mentioned inheritance you are supposed to know he is talking about Harry...that boy is a fool and prince Charles is regretting ever having him as a son...

See reasoning


Smh

blinking001:
In life never choose your wife over your family and never choose your family over your wife..

Exactly,it must balance,if not something is wrong somewhere!