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Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by creolehunt: 9:38pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Sometime last year, I met a lady. At the time I met her things were not working for me the way I had expected. In fact, my career had somehow stagnated even though I was in a new job then. Prior to meeting her, I was seeing someone who I once overheard complaining to a friemd of having sex with someone in her dreams and in that dream, she already has a family with this strange person in that dream. This coupled with other negative feelings i had made me leave the relationship. Now comes this new girl. Within 2 months of meeting her (5months into the job), my employment was confirmed with a promotion to booth. I must say that this confirmation typically takes 1yr to 18months. 4 months later (totalling 9months on the job), I was promoted again to a mid level managerial position. Again, this typically takes around 3yrs for others. My company cited "exceptional service delivery", but deep down I know it's not just that, I'm that instinctive. Now, I'm not the type of person to easily find favor in people's eyes or the type people just wants to stick out for. But since I met her, even at my workplace, my superiors have taken special interest in me, I just can't do any wrong. Now, deep down, I know some things have changed. Even mentally, i have become more purposeful as she is a very driven person. I've never mentioned to her about these changes I've noticed in my life. The thing is that when we talk, albeit jokingly she always say that she came into my life and everything changed, that the day I will try nonsense with her (cheat or breakup), my life will just scatter. Even today she said it that the "spirit" (context is important here) working for her had to smoothen my life when she came into it, lest I infect her with my troubles, I jokingly replied that my mother's prayers are working wonders in my lofe, and she said that I should be happy she is in my life. A lot of the time, she has made such comments. There was a day she said that if I keep her happy, that I will keep enjoying. She says God answers her prayers and honestly, her life is good. It just feels like she has everything all figured out. Honestly, everything feels better around me since I met her and i also believe in the notion that some people can pull good fortune to you, but I'm also apprehensive. What if i cheat on her, what if i break up with her? Has anyone had this type.of encounter? Please, she is not a bad person. I'm just wondering if there are truly people like this. 141 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by pozehnani(f): 9:47pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
The only way you can know is by dumping her first. Then see if things will go south for you. 466 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by Tripitaka: 9:51pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Do not let anyone deceive you. In this world, there is the physical and there is the spiritual and as they say, the spiritual controls the physical. Everyone has a spirit working for them; it may be a strong one or a weak one, a good one or a bad one. It takes an intuitive or spiritually conscious person to know the spirit working for them. The universe goes way beyond what we can see with the physical eyes. Truly, there are some people who come into your life and everything changes for the good, while there are some who come in and life becomes nightmarish. It is not them, it is the accompanying spirit. 168 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by Oluromantic: 9:54pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Find out who she really is. You might not be dating an ordinary person. I've dated such a girl before but she was trouble. I had to quit with her. Cus peace of mind to me is of more importance than success. The one I'm with now is also supportive and my life is going smoothly too though not rapidly like it suddenly became while I was with the former. Most of all, she's peaceful and that gives me joy. 112 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by falcon01: 10:01pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Coincidence, Nothing special. But if you think she's your source of good luck, who am I to judge?? hold on to her like a precious Gem 76 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by creolehunt: 10:05pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
pozehnani: I can't, the stakes are too high. falcon01:You maybe right that it's just coincidence. But then, it may also not be. I know what I'm saying and experiencing. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by falcon01: 10:10pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
creolehunt:I believe more of coincidence theres an aspect of your life you improved or something you put more effort in or there was something holding you back that you dropped this having alot of time to work on yourself. You have your beliefs though and it's ok if it works for you. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by Richy4(m): 5:38am On Mar 08, 2021 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() How to find out if there's more to it is just very simple .... just do this simple task for 2weeks only ![]() @ your place of work, When you were supposed to meet a client, Do not Go... Just speak rudely to them if they ask why u did not show up.. If there was a deadline that was supposed to be met, You know that type that after executing it, it generates revenue to the company, do not just disturb yourself doing it.. because the bosses likes you... In summary, just be un productive for 2weeks.. If they still sing your praises after all that, then we will know it's the lady's Good-luck charm.. If they issue query to you, then we will also know it was because of your hard work If you require more information on how to go about this task, do not hesitate to contact me ![]() 207 Likes 12 Shares
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Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by creolehunt: 7:03am On Mar 08, 2021 |
Richy4: That will be an overreach. The changes I say I've noticed were with all things being equal. Lalasticlala how far nah 6 Likes |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by anthonyuncle(m): 8:10am On Mar 08, 2021 |
stay true to her, more will come 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by FatherCHRISTMAS(f): 8:29am On Mar 08, 2021 |
hmmm |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by Richy4(m): 9:00am On Mar 08, 2021 |
creolehunt: What if you were a hard worker and you are selling yourself short.....What if all the bosses have realized how productive you were and are appreciating your efforts in the organization but you were busy giving the credit to a woman.. Has that at least occurred to you? 106 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by 1F30M4(f): 9:49pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
I like to think that amazing things happen for my own good.. It doesn't dispute the fact that some people "make things happen" but then God is supreme and I believe that there's nothing that can happen without his knowledge.. As such I don't really see why you should be scared of any impending catastrophe in your relationship, I see you literally walking on eggshells which would ultimately hinder you from having a healthy & happy relationship with her cos your mind will keep racing like it is now.. Relax hun, live in the moment, relish it to the fullest & bask in God's glory.. Don't let these invasive negative thoughts spoil your mood except if you actually intend to cheat in the nearest future which would only translate to you not being totally true to her.. Breakup is another story altogether, do not feel compelled to marry her if there are differences between you two that cannot be ironed out properly.. If you love her and see a future with her in it then deal with those differences as they come, sit and have an open discussion about it, talk it out, don't just keep counting it for her in your semiconscious mind up until all that shitload comes tumbling down, the resentment starts building up low-key and then you're like "babe, I really don't think this can work" and she's like "why, what's the problem?" and it's that time all those things you bottled up starts bursting out the cork, she's like "but why didn't you tell me this earlier, I thought you had no ish with thiss or thaat" then she goes on to say you broke her heart blah blah and that she'd make your life worse than it was before lol... In conclusion, treat your girl right and enjoy your peace of mind.. You sef dey try add your own voice to mumsy's prayers & supplication make e dy skyrocket dy go baba God ear.. If you understand the mystery of His grace & mercy, you'll know that what God cannot do doesn't exist. Shalom! 37 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by Nobody: 2:49am On Mar 10, 2021 |
Correlation ≠ Causation. Nigerians like finding correlations like this and deeming them as causations, but these judgements about others can be erroneous and based on heuristics that may backfire. Anyway, had you said within the next day of meeting her or something, I would've said, "Hmmm", but 2-months is reaching. The company probably decided to speed up their hiring process for their own interests and the promotion you received was clearly a result of your own efforts. If they hadn't given you a reason for promoting you, then you could speculate, but they did and yet you're doubting. It sounds like you need to believe in yourself and capabilities some more. 32 Likes |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by creolehunt: 7:14am On Mar 10, 2021 |
aroundtheearth: Makes sense. But I've never had this discussion of upturn in fortunes with her nor anyone when though iys evident. So, how come she is so sure that since she came around, things have become a bit rosy for me? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by poik(m): 4:08pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
creolehunt: Cheating is not accidental. She's good to you. Why not just enjoy the ride. Why cheat on her? 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
creolehunt: 1. You were already 5-months into the job, which meant your employer had enough time to evaluate you and offer you the full-time employment and the promotion that came later was a result of your efforts / "exceptional service delivery". No employer would be silly enough to hire someone who isn't capable or worse, promote them, as these would be at the company's own detriment. The good things that came your way came because YOU earned them. 2. Your life probably took shape thereafter because you now have more money, became happier, etc, all of which stemmed from the fulltime employment you've been given, which you were already months into before you met her. 3. For her to keep saying the above to you or that "she came into my life and everything changed", it sounds like she's trying to make herself a god in your life. Anyone with genuine affection and love for you wouldn't have made such statement to you and certainly not repeatedly, unless they're trying to put themselves on a pedestal or manipulate your thinking into seeing her in a positive light (perhaps she's eager 4. Her other words, "that the day I will try nonsense with her (cheat or breakup), my life will just scatter" and that she has a "spirit ... working for her" are a means to threaten you from not leaving the relationship, and a method of control. Again, anyone who threatens you in such manner has no genuine love for you and you don't want to be in a relationship riddled with fear. See 1 Corinthians 13:4-8: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres". 5. Lastly, her statements are inferences of demonic activity from her part, peculiarly the part about her having a spirit working for her. If there is such a spirit working for her, IT IS NOT of God's and you need to denounce it from your life because you want no part. The devil gives and takes and you will be on the losing end eventually. If you're a born-again Christian, you should know this. Please be prayerful and seek God's face as you move forward in this relationship. 117 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by prince2pac(m): 5:06pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
Richy4:village people 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by mariahAngel(f): 5:14pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
creolehunt: She knows what she knows and is sure of herself. She knows also that deep down, you know. You are not her first encounter. You're sleeping with her already aren't you? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by creolehunt: 7:43am On Apr 11, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Lalasticlala Dominique abeg front page 1 Like
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Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by Bahrain: 8:16am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Maybe |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by maxiuc(m): 8:17am On Apr 11, 2021 |
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Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by Nobody: 8:18am On Apr 11, 2021 |
its simple and short you dating a possesed girl 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by tubetv: 8:18am On Apr 11, 2021 |
i think she did o..well such is life though meanwhile in other news kanayo kanayo and other celebrities pays tribute to nollywood legend bruno iwuoha death in a very special way https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5ZzjoOUXzU |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by MufasaLion: 8:18am On Apr 11, 2021 |
It was just a coincidence. Know this, and know peace. 1 Like |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by merits(m): 8:19am On Apr 11, 2021 |
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Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by techmo(m): 8:19am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Ladies bring both good luck and bad luck 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by MufasaLion: 8:19am On Apr 11, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Wrong. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by helinues: 8:20am On Apr 11, 2021 |
It's just a coincidence plus her motivation in one way or the other.. If you were to be a lazy guy, you wouldn't get the promotion 4 Likes |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by tayooluwole: 8:20am On Apr 11, 2021 |
She already hold you to ransom with such statement and it’s acceptance by you. And now, any moment of misunderstanding henceforth will always come along with threat of returning you back to square one. To me, it’s a mere coincidence. Accepting such statement from her is mentally manipulative and if any thing that requires firm decision comesby any moment later in future, you are already in a construct that will likely accept whatever she brings to your table. While i will not totally gun down her likely contribution to your success,,,you are advised to always stylishly dispute such claim from her... Besides, in another perception, it may be the effect of an accumulated prayers of many years from your mother. I am not saying this is the case but it can not be overlooked 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by jimmyolasun: 8:20am On Apr 11, 2021 |
her number pls, let me gbola her for 2weeks too. on a serious note, don't simp by letting her know you feel this way towards her. if she does, you will be enslaved in the relationship. continue with your "Mama's prayers are working" but don't offend her oo.. make your life no go pokulumushu.. my 10cents DM me here number bro, I go help you confirm if she get good luck or not 2 Likes |
Re: Did She Bring Me Luck Or Just Coincidence? by Muhylonaire007: 8:21am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Guy, you got yourself a good luck charm. The day you mess up is the day you find yourself back in square one.do not let some people here deceive you with their "coincidence". This is no coincidence bro. I know of a guy who got the exact opposite of your babe, my guy didn't even sleep with her yet before things went sour for him. He was told God loved him, else, if he had had sex with her, his life would have been more miserable. Someone also advised you to stop doing what you ought to do in your office and see if your boss and your senior colleagues will like you the way they do now. Bro, na the dumbest thing I've ever heard on a Sunday morning mhen. dem name you Folorunsho(meaning the one whom God must protect) you wan come dey climb banana tree, shey no be suicide be that? Lastly, if she has everything you want in a woman, why would you cheat on her? Just know that all these unmerited Grace and favour you are enjoying now will reduce drastically when you mess up with her. Again, you got yourself a good luck charm. Use it wisely bro 24 Likes |
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