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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ovalrose(f): 3:00pm On Mar 10, 2021
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by kennybelle: 3:14pm On Mar 10, 2021
ovalrose:
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.

Jeez! O God, what could have happened?

They shouldn't have taken the chance to have you induced, it should have been an emergency CS.

I'm so sorry for your loss, mama. May you and your hubby be comforted.

Please don't stay alone for now, you need someone with you until you recover fully.

Please pour out your heart and cry if you need to, and please take your medications as well.

May the peace and blessing of God abide with your home.

You will come back here to give us a good news soon by God's grace. Amen.

God, my heart aches embarassed

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by kennybelle: 3:28pm On Mar 10, 2021
Dear God,

Please comfort all our grieving mamas. Let them find their strength back, and bless them with their heart desires...CHILDREN.

It's disheartening and painful.

We know you understand our pains best, please give us the courage to continue believing in you. Direct our steps to doctors that will make the best decisions for us and give us babies that will stay with us till the end of time.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Tinudesi(f): 4:27pm On Mar 10, 2021
ovalrose:
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.
May the Lord comfort u,So sorry for the loss,affliction shall not rise again in your home.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Prettymom: 5:00pm On Mar 10, 2021
B.A! B. A!! B.A!!!


My princess made her grand entry this morning by 11:49am


weighing 2.5kg


Edd- 19th march 2021


Dob - 10th march 2021


Our able cappo oke pls kindly take note.. God bless us all with safe and easy delivery Amen.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by oke22(f): 5:22pm On Mar 10, 2021
You should sue this clinic
ovalrose:
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by oke22(f): 5:23pm On Mar 10, 2021
Heyyyyyyy yagaaaa congratulations
Prettymom:
B.A! B. A!! B.A!!!


My princess made her grand entry this morning by 11:49am


weighing 2.5kg


Edd- 19th march 2021


Dob - 10th march 2021


Our able cappo oke pls kindly take note.. God bless us all with safe and easy delivery Amen.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dunpredictable: 5:59pm On Mar 10, 2021
ovalrose:
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.

Oh my God! Im so sorry for your loss ma. God will give you double for your troubles. God will surprise you soon.

I was angry when i read this. Seriously why induction and prolonged labour when they could have checked the state of the baby first and then move for emergency CS. Some of these doctors dont have empathy at all. Do they even know what it is to bear pregnancy for 35 weeks to gamble with someone's baby as they please? Im so vexed. Honestly.

Every pregnancy mum and their lo here are protected by God almighty. There sha be no loss and no evil report. Afflictions will not arise again. We will not cast our youngs in Jesus name. Amen

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Pweetiebabe(f): 6:21pm On Mar 10, 2021
Splasshhh:
Well, mommas.

I am just tired.
Funny, I still live God more everyday but, the question is, "when would you bless me right, God?"

I could not come here since last year July to announce my delivery since I lost her to sudden bleeding from placenta abrasion or whatever that was called.

2 miscarriages, 1 still birth and another miscarriage at 6wks yesterday, has left me so quiet and angry in my spirit.

Like why?
What?
When?

Now, I feel like fighting something.
Must I miscarry and no one is giving a particular reason to why?

Do I have to enter 12 weeks bed rest immediately I am confirmed pregnant just to make it past 1st trimester risks?

I am absolutely tired but this time I am not sad but angry.

Please pray for me
So sorry for ur loss sis, I really don't know how to console you, but I know God will give u multiple for your loss

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Esetim(f): 6:31pm On Mar 10, 2021
Ibk555:
Mine is just stomach pains too, strong pains like menstrual cramps and it shift to the left or the right side sometimes.


Thanks for your response. The pains/pressure has increased now so I'm seeing my dr tomorrow.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Anistef: 6:33pm On Mar 10, 2021
ovalrose:
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.

ooh so sori ma
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Esetim(f): 6:35pm On Mar 10, 2021
Ayauche:


Yes I did and to be honest with you, the pains were out of this world. I was admitted and have forgotten what the pain was called jare, like the fibroid was melting away(fibroid degeneration) So after that episode I didn't experience any discomfort, went on and had my baby.
Most of us June 2018 mamas had fibroid then, one mama's fibroid was removed while giving birth through Cs and some degenerated. But my sister the pains of that fibroid degeneration I felt ehh, my labour pain wasn't compared to it.


Wow. May God help me ooo. The pains have increased and pelvic pressure has joined. Will see the dr tomorrow.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by DNA07: 7:12pm On Mar 10, 2021
Wow!
Congratulations teamie.
May God bless and keep your princess.
Prettymom:
B.A! B. A!! B.A!!!


My princess made her grand entry this morning by 11:49am


weighing 2.5kg


Edd- 19th march 2021


Dob - 10th march 2021


Our able cappo oke pls kindly take note.. God bless us all with safe and easy delivery Amen.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Tinudesi(f): 7:42pm On Mar 10, 2021
Prettymom:
B.A! B. A!! B.A!!!


My princess made her grand entry this morning by 11:49am


weighing 2.5kg


Edd- 19th march 2021


Dob - 10th march 2021


Our able cappo oke pls kindly take note.. God bless us all with safe and easy delivery Amen.
Congratulations teamie.God be praised.May she be the coolness of your eyes.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by oke22(f): 7:48pm On Mar 10, 2021
Exactly bleeding is already a red flag
dunpredictable:


Oh my God! Im so sorry for your loss ma. God will give you double for your troubles. God will surprise you soon.

I was angry when i read this. Seriously why induction and prolonged labour when they could have checked the state of the baby first and then move for emergency CS. Some of these doctors dont have empathy at all. Do they even know what it is to bear pregnancy for 35 weeks to gamble with someone's baby as they please? Im so vexed. Honestly.

Every pregnancy mum and their lo here are protected by God almighty. There sha be no loss and no evil report. Afflictions will not arise again. We will not cast our youngs in Jesus name. Amen
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by oke22(f): 7:50pm On Mar 10, 2021
Haleemat have you put to bed? Or we’re in the 40 weeks journey together
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by senoraaquila(f): 7:56pm On Mar 10, 2021
What the heck!
I'm so pissed knowing you had to go through this.

My God, why did they induce you Geez, you had bleeding. It should have been emergency cs.
I don't know if I have the right words to comfort you right now but my prayer is that God sees you through and give you the strength you and comfort you need. He will bless you with another rainbow baby that will give you happiness
ovalrose:
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by indian03: 8:08pm On Mar 10, 2021
ovalrose:
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.⁶



I'm so short of words. Only God can console you.
God will heal you and give you double for your trouble.
Honestly, since its bleeding, the first thing they should have considered is emergency CS. Not to even gamble with induction.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Gigi2021: 8:54pm On Mar 10, 2021
Hello all, my name is Ginikachi. I'm am expectant mother. Life is really bitting hard at home, my husband is bearing all the burden alone, he doesn't complain but I see his worried face always, My EDD is on the 7th of June and our house rent expires same month. It's too much for one man to bear. Please I'm using this medium to plead with our mummies and daddies here please if you have any baby things you can donate to help me with, I will be most grateful. I want to help my husband, it hasn't been easy getting a job. I'm resident in Cross river state. Thank you and God bless you all..
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Splasshhh(f): 10:37pm On Mar 10, 2021
Goldie50:
This really broke my heart cry. I'm so sorry, ma. Please, keep hope alive. God surely wants to bless you. He has proclaimed that we should all be fruitful and multiply. He is not happy about this. Just settle it in your mind that He is on your side. The devil is a liar. Please, find a GOOD and well-equipped private or federal hospital and do all the necessary tests. This will rule out any physical issues. Then, set time out to really pray (I know it's not easy, cos you've been praying), but try again.

Pray with these Bible verses:
1. God has called me fruitful. I will have all the children I want because God said so! (Genesis 1:28)
2. I will not miscarry. I will not cast my young before it's time. (Exodus 23:26).

These two verses helped me to conceive. I confessed them day and night. Even when you get pregnant, don't stop the confessions. Continue until you deliver.

Please, be strong Ma. What God cannot do doesn't exist. He will surely give you a testimony.



Thank you so much.
I cherish your advice.
I will try again and hold unto those words too.

Indeed #whatGodcannotdodoesnotexist
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Splasshhh(f): 10:48pm On Mar 10, 2021
Goldie50:
This really broke my heart cry. I'm so sorry, ma. Please, keep hope alive. God surely wants to bless you. He has proclaimed that we should all be fruitful and multiply. He is not happy about this. Just settle it in your mind that He is on your side. The devil is a liar. Please, find a GOOD and well-equipped private or federal hospital and do all the necessary tests. This will rule out any physical issues. Then, set time out to really pray (I know it's not easy, cos you've been praying), but try again.

Pray with these Bible verses:
1. God has called me fruitful. I will have all the children I want because God said so! (Genesis 1:28)
2. I will not miscarry. I will not cast my young before it's time. (Exodus 23:26).

These two verses helped me to conceive. I confessed them day and night. Even when you get pregnant, don't stop the confessions. Continue until you deliver.

Please, be strong Ma. What God cannot do doesn't exist. He will surely give you a testimony.




Thank you so much.
I cherish your advice.
I will try again and hold unto those words too.

Indeed #whatGodcannotdodoesnotexist
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Splasshhh(f): 10:53pm On Mar 10, 2021
ovalrose:
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.

I already got loads of encouragements here and I am sure you too will be fine.
This was my case at 40 weeks. Sudden bleeding and baby's heart gradually dropped to zero.
6 pints of blood and I am still here.

We will soon smile dear because God is not finished.with us yet.

Get well soom

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Splasshhh(f): 10:53pm On Mar 10, 2021
ovalrose:
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.

I already got loads of encouragements here and I am sure you too will be fine.
This was my case at 40 weeks. Sudden bleeding and baby's heart gradually dropped to zero.
6 pints of blood and I am still here.

We will soon smile dear because God is not finished.with us yet.

Get well soon

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Prettymom: 2:25am On Mar 11, 2021
oke22:
Heyyyyyyy yagaaaa congratulations





Thank you ma.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Prettymom: 2:28am On Mar 11, 2021
DNA07:
Wow! Congratulations teamie. May God bless and keep your princess.




Amen.. Thank you ma
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Asey(f): 4:06am On Mar 11, 2021
Greetings fellow mummies and sisters.
What causes baby to measure behind please. I am 30 weeks but went for my regular appointment and measured 24 weeks. So I have been admitted.

Scan showed that baby's head is engaged.
For the past 2 to 3 weeks I have been experiencing very heavy vagina and difficulty in walking. I also lost a little fluid for about 3 days (just small fluid which I thought was usual).

What will happen to me. Can someone help explain things to me as I am very worried. I am a May mama.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ayauche(f): 5:37am On Mar 11, 2021
Esetim:



Wow. May God help me ooo. The pains have increased and pelvic pressure has joined. Will see the dr tomorrow.

It's better you see the doctor my sister. May God in heaven help us all.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ayauche(f): 5:40am On Mar 11, 2021
Goldengold2:
Pain is truly out of this world. I just start having peace in my body, fibroid degeneration pain is not something to pray for ones enemy OMG..... Thank God it's over now, I pray it won't come back till I put to bed oo.

Ohhh mama I can understand. Anyone that hasn't felt it can never understand. I really thank God you have passed that stage and pray with you that you won't experience it again till you give birth through Christ our Lord.
Do have a blessed day my teamie

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ayauche(f): 6:30am On Mar 11, 2021
kemshade:



I don't know y am not having any pains, am sure maybe they didn't read it well, when I do another scan I will know

By the grace of God you won't experience this pain and you will carry to term in Jesus.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ayauche(f): 6:39am On Mar 11, 2021
ovalrose:
I'm back. After a loooooong hiatus. Alas, I bear no good news. I lost my would-be rainbow baby after an extremely painful and prolonged labor yesterday. Worse, I was induced because I started bleeding all of a sudden at 35weeks, only to be told after scan at the hospital that the baby's heart had stopped beating. Shrugs. Now I'm trying to cope with the loss. Hubby cried like someone who'd lost the whole world. Me, I'm still numb. Distracted. Mostly on autopilot. I'll recover, I know. Eventually.
For now, I just want to sleep. And mourn in peace.

Am so so sorry for your loss. May God Almighty comfort you and your family and give you triple for the trouble.

I stand with other mamas on this, that hospital should be sued. What kinda of a doctor would induce instead of an emergency CS?
It's so disheartening but always remember that's there's a reason for everything that happens. May God continue to be with you and your family. Please stay strong.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by kemshade: 8:07am On Mar 11, 2021
Ayauche:


By the grace of God you won't experience this pain and you will carry to term in Jesus.

Amen, I don't want to have pains, thank you

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Goldengold2(f): 8:37am On Mar 11, 2021
Ayauche:


Ohhh mama I can understand. Anyone that hasn't felt it can never understand. I really thank God you have passed that stage and pray with you that you won't experience it again till you give birth through Christ our Lord.
Do have a blessed day my teamie
Amen....Thanks so much ma.

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