bluefilm:


What you don't understand is that the only reason why your boss is that way is because he is most probably working under his FEMALE boss at home.

Remember what they say?

Happy Wife; Happy life.

9jaRealist:
NO boss is the easiest...
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PrimadonnaO:
In my personal experience, male bosses.
The last female boss I had was everything wrong... couldn't deal. One of my colleagues even had a real mental breakdown.

The female bosses I've seen who were problematic seemed to have some things in common.
1. They were over-exerting. They seemed to feel the need to want to show that they were the boss, which is a joke of authority. When you have to scream "I'm the boss" then there's already a problem.

2. They felt easily affronted... unnecessary things seemed like disrespect to them.

3. Ironically, they were less tolerant and understanding. You would expect that a woman would be more empathetic to workers' plight, and issues they may be having in their personal lives, but the ones I've seen and heard about were the very opposite.

There are no absolutes, there will always be exceptions. These things are largely a matter of "what's most obtainable?"

PeaceIlya:
This has nothing to do with gender. Character is where the problem is.

WILLuKPquiet:
That reminds me many years back,
Give a woman power and she will want you to know she's the boss here. No mercy , no human feelings most times.

Wealthyone:
It depends on individuality and personality. I had work with both and i can tell you the best wasn't chosen based on gender.

Female tend to have more competence and more skilled.
Men take the work less serious and a bit lackadaisical.

The bottom line in personality. Forget the hate for women online.

Oyindamolah:
Who is easier to work with; a male boss or a female boss?

pocohantas:

It was even a guy that told me to clip their wings fast before I become the subordinate. I immediately changed tactics and under 1 week they reported to my boss that I hate them. I was just laughing

truthsayer009:


This same mentality is why Men are scared of Women in power, because they aren't used to it so they need to show/tell you they now have the authority.

Wealthyone:
It depends on individuality and personality. I had work with both and i can tell you the best wasn't chosen based on gender.

Female tend to have more competence and more skilled.
Men take the work less serious and a bit lackadaisical.

The bottom line in personality. Forget the hate for women online.

9jaRealist:




Sexist and misogynist much?
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pocohantas:


Men are actually subjective, way more subjective than women. If you see WhatsApp chats of my colleagues complaining of my boss, sometimes they just dismiss his attitude or even try to blame it on his wife (she is probably not giving him peace).

I bet if a woman does a tenth of what my boss does, or say the things he says- omo, them for done create like 10 threads for her matter and blame it on her vagina.

That is why I don’t take shit from my interns, before I used to walk on eggshells, lest they will say “female boss”. They almost wan put hand for my eye. They will be in the official group where I am and be exchanging words, no fear o, something they can NEVER try with my boss. It was even a guy that told me to clip their wings fast before I become the subordinate. I immediately changed tactics and under 1 week they reported to my boss that I hate them. I was just laughing

truthsayer009:


It's a 2 way thing, I think you can be civil & strict without the need to prove anything. You just set boundaries, no one will cross it.

culf:



and you're happy about it? sometimes you set aside your right if it will make people happy and more comfortable around you. Its far better to be love than to be feared.

#Not judging you though

pocohantas:


It is not about not being used to it, it is more about the fact that you have to perform twice as hard to prove your competence. A man is already assumed to be competent just by being a man with a penis, a woman would have to prove it. I got posted to my team and the first thing my boss said was he told them he didn’t want sisi eko, so he already assumed I am dumb blonde. So a guy would have been a better assistant to him on sight. He started asking me silly questions and even asked my score from training lol. I told him and he said it is a lie, I told him him to call HR. Of course he wouldn’t dare do that as my organization has a strong policy on gender discrimination.

I have seen a team crumble under a soft female boss because she was scared of exerting, last last it was her assistant (a man) that was running the team and she was there smiling, forming mummy for same people that were finishing her at her back. Before I used to care o, now I will put pressure on you, you won’t kill my career and KPI because I have vagina. You must give me the output I want.

pocohantas:


Men are actually subjective, way more subjective than women. If you see WhatsApp chats of my colleagues complaining of my boss, sometimes they just dismiss his attitude or even try to blame it on his wife (she is probably not giving him peace).

I bet if a woman does a tenth of what my boss does, or say the things he says- omo, them for done create like 10 threads for her matter and blame it on her vagina.

That is why I don’t take shit from my interns, before I used to walk on eggshells, lest they will say “female boss”. They almost wan put hand for my eye. They will be in the official group where I am and be exchanging words, no fear o, something they can NEVER try with my boss. It was even a guy that told me to clip their wings fast before I become the subordinate. I immediately changed tactics and under 1 week they reported to my boss that I hate them. I was just laughing

Pochettino:
Male abeg. We women are wicked in authority.

pocohantas:


You say this because you have never handled a team as a woman. You will set the boundary and they will cross it. The same way blacks are quick to scream racism is how subordinates are quick to use the “female boss” tag.

I once told an intern to prepare a report and his gf came to the office. Mind you, there was a deadline. This boy left the report and took his gf to the lunchroom. Tell me how many bosses can take that. The second I used a query to reset his head, he was at my boss’s desk to report. Funny enough the boss he was reporting me to already told me if they give me stress, I should send them back to HR. I was laughing because he doesn’t know what we discuss in our staff meetings.

truthsayer009:
I have had this exact similar experience, infact in the same particular order to be precise. She was my project manager & she was offended because I don't overly send long greetings & pleasantries before sending official work message on our Slack communication tool (Similar to Skype) back then.

It became so bad that I had to proof read & re-modify every single message to make it sound sweet and pleasing before I can send it which was very emotionally draining for me. Imagine wanting to send a status report of a task in an emergency, I need to modify it to sound so nice.

I'm not saying that Men are better, but the women have this similar behaviors across board in most organisations.

chii8:
Some male bosses thinks that a woman should work for him in his office and his bedroom.

truthsayer009:
Well valid points, but I do not agree Women working twice as hard, because every where I have worked, It has never been that way, so I guess that statement is subjective.

I do agree that Women are on a disadvantage because a lot of people undermine their work initially but once they see the impact of the lady, they know what she is capable of moving forward. Apart of that, fine ladies are often assumed to be bimbos on first sight, so that's another reason.

Anyway, you have taken the right path of not allowing anyone to Fvckup your KPI because they are getting paid, It's not free work.

pocohantas:


I understand, I already said it. It has to be a woman....

A man cheats, because of a woman.
A man is violent; because of a woman.
A man rapes; because of a woman.
A man steals; because of a woman.
A man commits ritual killing; because of a woman.

A gender so superior and logical yet they have been blaming all their actions on women right from the Garden of Eden.