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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 5:46pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Delusional means not dealing with reality. What happens in REALITY is that lots of times a man relies on his wife's help till he makes it. That's what HAPPENS, not "why wud a man want"! |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 2:53pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: The reality is that most men are weak and beta males who don't understand Wat masculinity is and who don't understand that women just are and men must become. Men are judged by their burden of performance. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 6:29pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Simple: sometimes a wife helps a man make it. Has nothing to do with alpha male. You may be alpha male and yet have mothing |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 8:01pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: U can't b an alpha male and not be high value. No alpha male or high value man depends on his wife to make it. Only beta males and simps do 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 8:47pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
DEMZEE: I think you are confusing yourself a bit. A man who has strength, courage, independence, leadership, and assertiveness is an alpha male. Yet u may have all those qualities yet have not much money |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 7:25am On Mar 08, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: Money is the number one quality an alpha male has then leadership and assertiveness and decisiveness etc because men have to become and women just are. It's called burden of performance for men. How can u lead ur home if u don't make more money than ur wife?? How can u lead ur home if ur wife is making all the decisive and critical decisions ![]() In a relationship there's a dominant gender and a submissive gender The man is the dominant gender and the woman is the submissive gender No high value alpha male depends on his wife for financial support. She is coming into his already built world not building his world with him. Women don't see equality, women see weak or strong. They date and marry men who they perceive has more smv than them. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by maurizjavah(m): 7:40am On Mar 08, 2021 |
Perfectsouth: pls go and marry. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Perfectsouth(m): 11:04am On Mar 08, 2021 |
always read with sense, he no go hard you maurizjavah: |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 12:09am On Mar 09, 2021 |
DEMZEE: U still refuse to deal with the real world. Women also see those qualities you mentioned. And they can totally satisfy a woman's pypergamousness. There is something called potential and women also see it. It is not always money. Eg, a US medical intern has no money but will satisfy it for any Nigerian lady |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by ardythe0: 3:36am On Mar 09, 2021 |
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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 11:03am On Mar 09, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: Okay I don't care about men who have average and poverty future plans sexual mating strategy I'm talking from a rich man/patriarch perspective 1 Like |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 2:31pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
DEMZEE: But you fail to see that in the real world it is not always about money. A penniless religious guru or guitarist or social giant would have a bunch of women worshiping them |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 3:12pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: Don't confuse poverty reality as real world please. I don't see poverty reality as my real world. Sure worshipping them but can they marry all those women ![]() |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 4:40pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Not only marry, OWN them. Fela married 27, did he have money? Poverty is not always about money. You may have a lot of money yet be poor, and vice versa |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 4:42pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: Noo fela was a miserable wretch! Mtscheww now u are not even making sense. Fela was a bloody wealthy man dude Baba u are going way off topic with this ur u can have money and still be poor blah blah blah |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 4:59pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
DEMZEE: So you think those women were there for money?? Was Fela among those known to have money in Nig?? These people that commit suicide despite lots of money nko? Dangote couldn't even handle one American hoe. This man below nko?
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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 5:01pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: Noo they were there to expand fela wealth mtscheww Baba don't downplay the effects money has in women's hypergamy and sexual mating strategy |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 5:14pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
DEMZEE: You obviously missed the below. Stop arguing nonsense
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Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 5:19pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: U are looking at polygamy from a poor man lens. I wud rather prefer being a polygamous rich man. U can be polygamous and be rich or poor, it's ur choice to choose which one u want to be |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 5:24pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Don't shift the discussion. The argument is whether women's hypergamousness is always about money. Honorably accept you've been defeated. QED |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by DEMZEE(m): 1:11am On Mar 11, 2021 |
PoliteActivist: Money is an aspect of it, it's not always about money. But as a man wud u rather prefer to be poor than be rich ni?? |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by PoliteActivist: 6:55am On Mar 11, 2021 |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by superlicious: 5:27pm On Sep 07, 2021 |
Laird:Nice advice, but I will like to learn from your story |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by Laird(m): 4:54am On Sep 24, 2021 |
superlicious: It was simple Marriage for a man most times= Equals more responsibilities and more expenses So I didn't want to add more responsibilities and expenses to my life when I wasn't earning enough so I discontinued the relationship |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by aktolly54(m): 10:56am On Sep 24, 2021 |
abigail11:if your genotype is AA and you are beautiful, send me email 2with your number for proper chat: a k in o l a t o bi 20018@g m a i l. c o m |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by emmaodet: 5:00am On Nov 14, 2021 |
budaatum: ![]() ![]() Don’t mind her. That was how my uncle’s wife disturbed him then that they should marry, they will manage whatever is available. The man come enter the trap without tangible source of income. His life has really really been frustrated afterward. After the euphoria of marriage settled and every calm and suffering in poverty starts settling in, it is the same woman who has been tongue lashing him. Calling him lazy, keeping out sex from my bro. The man has really aged fast now with a lot of white hairs at his young age. |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by emmaodet: 5:04am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Sweetheart I'm on his side on this,its always wise for a lady never to date a man in her age group, a man must be stable financially before thinking marriage and he already made you understand that,the only mistake you made is dating him.Since he's not ready please look for someone who's ready and settle down with him,never let your emotions direct your thinking in marriage issues.Please let him go so as not to waste more time as you already have. Follow this tips:Cut off from a relationship that has no head way after six months to avoid stories that touch.As for me I already resolve never to date a man below 50yrs because most Nigerian men below 50 are still struggling.Such a messed up country Lol Dating men above 50 years ![]() Na waaaaaaaaa |
Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by emmaodet: 5:10am On Nov 14, 2021 |
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