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Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by pansophist(m): 4:32pm On Mar 11, 2021 |
kingasap: Girls your age are at the peak of their smv, and the cost of dating most will be so high for you to afford (unless your papa sef get money). If you have a sister or any young girl as a friend, let her show you her social media inbox, so you can have an idea of the multitudes and calibre of guys you're competing with when you talk to the average girl. All you know is the channel between you and her, but to her, she is comparing you with hundreds of other guys and at your age, you're most likely to rank low. The fact that you haven't a girl and asking on NL is a proof to this fact. So yes you may want to date, but the odds are stacked against you, it just the way it is for young boys. Though, it gets better as you get older. My younger cousin of 21 doesn't even check her fb inbox anymore, she showed me what boys, including married men are doing there in their hundreds, and I weep. Funny enough, she is interested in fine boys kind, think of Justin Bieber and C Ronaldo. The girls you're interested in will probably be like that. So if you're not fine, start looking fine. The key is not to chase, but be the kind they will chase. If you're tall, slim, can speak clean English, dress well and act confident with no simp qualities, your chances increases. Also, your eye should not be on the super hot kind, you'll get them later as you grow older and have more status, and they grow older and desperate to settle down, just calm down , and at that age, you'll have the status to cast your net on younger ones, time is your best friend. Now it their time, later it would be yours. Just don't have pot belly, no matter what. Those women that seems unattainable now, you'll run from them when you have a lot of things going on for you. So leave women and make yourself desirable first. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by Nobody: 4:41pm On Mar 11, 2021 |
StacyO:U Don Settle Ur Matter With Dat Guy? I Won Come Chop Rice O. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by Nobody: 4:43pm On Mar 11, 2021 |
kingasap:I Would Av Advise U Visit D Dating Section Here. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by kingasap(m): 4:50pm On Mar 11, 2021 |
peacesampson: Social commentary. Psychology, Finance, Tech. I enjoy a good mental sparring session. Challenge my ideas, intellectual back and forth. That sort of thing. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by Nobody: 12:28am On Mar 12, 2021 |
Truvel: Yeah. I terminated the whole thing. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by xfactordv: 12:38am On Mar 12, 2021 |
pansophist: i love you bro. you always have a way of putting my perspectives in order. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by Nobody: 12:48am On Mar 12, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: True. I believe majority of Nigerians contribute to discussions with the application of Emotions(EQ) instead of intelligence(IQ). Though "research" has it that it's a gender thing. I can't really confirm the authenticity of that cause 75% of males I've come across judging from the non physically aspect had nothing intellectual to offer me. While offline,It appeared slightly above average. Females on the other part aren't left out cause,I've held conversations with just few and I noticed how interesting the conversations got. In a nutshell, I can seal up this hypothesis by stating that people can only engage so much a sail through discussion with you if only they find you worthy enough,familiar or have interest to bring such a chat into light. **Here on nairaland,it's all about EQ** An average Nigerian depends on what he hears and what he is made to believe. Why the urge to research and argue intellectually without involving emotions is going into extinction. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by Nobody: 6:36am On Mar 12, 2021 |
StacyO:Oh! Na So? U Should Av Given D Guy A Chance Na? |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by RedSquid: 6:57am On Mar 12, 2021 |
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Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by seguno2: 7:38am On Mar 12, 2021 |
pansophist: Excellent post on relationships as usual. Do you think that the type of girl who is versatile on different topics, and is likely to be a bookworm can still be interested in him now, rather than later? |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by DkJay: 8:28am On Mar 12, 2021 |
StacyO: Hey, let's hook up. I'm a damn good conversationalist and I love your vibes. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by DkJay: 8:29am On Mar 12, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Hey, I'm just shooting my shot here. Let's hook up! Whaddaya say? |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by pansophist(m): 8:40am On Mar 12, 2021 |
seguno2: It's difficult to say. The bookworm kinda girl is not different from the average girl, only that she loves her book additionally. Being a bookworm doesn't uninstall the instinctual necessity of hypergamy. The so called bookworm will have to pass through her own phase of male abundance, like the average girl, make mistakes, learn her lesson and improvise. The formula for him is simple, and it is that he must conquer himself first, before conquering others. He must sharpen his "soft power", such as looking really fit and defined, dressing, esteem, diction and his overall sophistication. These things doesn't come overnight, but money can override it (which he probably doesn't have, unless his father is wealthy and he can derive privilege "by association", you know, the tag "omo baba olowo" brings social benefits in Nigeria. So bookworm or not, women are women, from a primal base, their desires are all the same, and he should play to that tune. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by GeneralPula: 9:05am On Mar 12, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Kindly define this.. ? |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by RedSquid: 9:10am On Mar 12, 2021 |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by Nobody: 10:32am On Mar 13, 2021 |
DkJay: Flattered Thanks a lot. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by Magnoliaa(f): 12:19pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Who siMuLatiNg or hasual conversation epp? Mtcheeeeewwwwwwwwwww. *rolls eyes intensely** **yawns** **snorts**. Not my glass of iced tea. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by Nobody: 8:27pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
GeneralPula:That post is filled with lies. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by DkJay: 1:24am On Mar 14, 2021 |
StacyO: Tell me what you'd love to talk about. If we could have a face to face. Hypothetically. |
Re: How Do I Meet The Type Of Females I'm Interested In by peacesampson(f): 10:44am On Mar 16, 2021 |
kingasap:yes I understand...is beautiful to discuss on a wide range of topics for that to happen u need people with like mind.. |
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