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Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Xenry: 3:53pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Hi, Yusufisraelj. become better everyday in the six (6) area's of lifePlease what six areas of life do you mean? |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Xenry: 3:53pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Xenry: |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 3:58pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Xenry: Being broke is just a definition of how this girl channels the money into her future. That I'm broke now,doesn't mean I'll be broke in the future. It means that the money I get now, are being channeled into something. Now, your assertion only means that men have nothing aside this money they dream about to offer. How do you define giving a woman money in a relationship? Will you be happy if she puts that money into use and make something out of her life? If yes, How do you plan to achieve that? |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Yusufisraelj(m): 4:00pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Xenry: Hello Xenry - here is it https://www.nairaland.com/6356078/balanced-living-system-making-life |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Xenry: 4:05pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
StacyO:1.All of them are broke and broken— whether now or in the future. 2.I would rather show a girl how to fish, than to be giving her fish everytime while she isn't disabled. But many of them don't have that Fishing-mentality, they only request for fish as if it's easy to catch one. C'mon, hustling isn't only for guys. Normalize not dating broke girls please, because the street ain't smiling! |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by blazepascal(m): 4:09pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
real niggers will just skip this post because the post is pointless |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Xenry: 4:10pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:Oh thanks. 1 Like |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 4:13pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Tloc: Then comes the insecurities. Most Nigerian men this days gets goosebumps when they see women progressing. How many do you think can actually watch their wife secure more zeros than them?? |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 4:15pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Xenry: You still didn't answer my question What else can a man offer in a relationship? |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 4:17pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: What can you offer your partner in a relationship?? |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Yusufisraelj(m): 4:28pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
StacyO: 1. Circumspect spiritual walk with tangible evidence. 2. Advantageous connections to help her become better and attain her goal. 3. Peace of mind - airing her views and accommodation of her thoughts, ideas and wisdom, as far as she is willing to be right not politically correct. 4. Great and adventurous sex life, making her mad on bed In a good way. 5. Business insights if she is so inclined, made terrible mistakes but have learnt and grown and still learning, unlearning and relearning. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 4:38pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: I couldn't point out how much more a difference this makes from what a woman can offer. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Yusufisraelj(m): 4:46pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
StacyO: Okay then, let hear what women can offer, or better still what can you offer your partner in a relationship? |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Tloc(m): 5:09pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
StacyO: Only for you ladies to term it GOLD DIGGING. A wise contemporary mam should always look out for a financially stable lady or that who has trained herself in more that ways to be invaluable to her man. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 5:41pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Tloc: Being insecure towards a progressive woman isn't gold digging. It simply means that you wouldn't want women to progress under your watch and you possibly want to lord over her. If so, why then do you all complain that Nigerian women can't make their own money? Whereas even when they try to, they're looked down upon and called different types of names. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 5:57pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
StacyO:All men don't reason the same way. All women don't reason the same way. But all humans have needs/wants/desires that they express in different ways. Different men treat different women in different ways . Different women treat different men in different ways. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 6:04pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: In as much as ladies always have it hard being financially secured, there is no doubt you'll enjoy every bit of your relationship when you're in one with someone who understands and obsessed the same mindset as you. 1) Equal contribution in every aspect of life. Both financially,spiritually,physically,emotionally and otherwise. 2) Commitment. Now that's one thing men cease to look out for in a relationship. You just do the moment and that's it. 3) Communication. Constant communication like they say is key enough and once any woman is able to offer you this, she is good to go. 4) Humility. Very hard to come by, no need to say much on this. 5) Security and support. We all need someone who would be there for us at all times. Getting a woman who is ready to show you support should never be swept under the carpet. No matter how hard you try to deny it, women offer men financial help as well. Try grow your circle with women and empower them financially. When you're in need, a woman can never ask you for sex before she offers help (something majority of men do). 6) Amazing sex. mmmmmmm 7) Encouragement and teamwork. Like the saying goes "two heads are better than one". I'll rather walk with someone and go far than walk alone and go fast. 8.) Adventure. Making you see the other side of life. Women can offer you this and many more. It all depends on how you define the relationship. You can't sow a mango and expect orange as an end product. 1 Like |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 6:08pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
HellVictorinho: But, then again, the generalization I see here actually makes me believe otherwise. I haven't met half the population of Nigeria but, I bet you this place portrays what the country is all about and how women are veiwed here. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Xenry: 6:10pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
StacyO:that's because you don't want to understand what I was saying. Okay, one of the things they do is to save them from starvation. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
StacyO: Well, I don't think all Nigerian girls/women are useless. I don't think prostitutes are useless. I don't think pornstars are useless. I don't think StacyO is useless. That's me. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by DONFRANSKID(m): 6:17pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Nigerian girls are useless all of them |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 6:18pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Wahala Be Like Pikin Wey Mess 4 Class. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Truthabulabula(m): 6:24pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Stacyo. I'm ready to go the extra mile It's not adding up. Why behaving this way? As regards your question, I have more than a lot to offer my woman. A LOT. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by BabbanBura(m): 6:27pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
StacyO: I would have stepped in if your intentions were not ulterior. We won't give you cheap statistics for your book my dear, go pay ya bills and gather data the conventional way!!! |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:32pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
StacyO: We are both saying the same thing but in different perspectives. Equally note that contributions are never equal in a relationship in these different aspects; spiritually, financially, physically, emotionally. One may contribute more than the other in these areas. But overall let there be honest efforts from the part of the lagging partner. No doubt some women contribute financially to men, 100%. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Truthabulabula(m): 6:33pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Truthabulabula(m): 6:36pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: You mean your woman gives you money? |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Truthabulabula(m): 6:39pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
BabbanBura: Just noticed shit. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Nobody: 6:41pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Truthabulabula:Na D Challenge & D Comments Nai Make Me Talk So. |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:42pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Truthabulabula: Lols |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Truthabulabula(m): 6:45pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Re: I Challenge Nairaland Men. by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:50pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Truthabulabula: I don't currently, and what's wrong with a woman sending you money, I have some who have done that and I don't pay back, equally there others I help out. As simple as that. Do you have a girlfriend and do you accept money from her? |
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