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What can a woman do to a cheating Husband, apart from prayers?

JONSYN7154:
Can we talk about this?

What can a woman do to a cheating Husband, apart from prayers?

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Focus on her children and ensure he establishes her, not by confrontation though. Is she's wise enough to pray for her, she shd also know she has to stay away from retaliation so as not to hinder her prayers. If he's doing his responsibility at home, let her leave him so as not to make things worse and she shd pacify him (not fight) when a higher responsibility calls. She shdnt brainwash the children against their father cus it will definitely worsen situations. She shd also get means thru her work and her family (If they're supportive) to ensure higher financial strength for herself n children.

It all boils down to personality and upbringing. Some are trained especially Muslim women to believe from childhood that a man does not belong to them alone. So growing up with such can makes it easier to cope, while others especially those from a home where the mother is domineering and the father is subjective, those ones will always clamour to see their husbands vulnerability.

She should take a deep look into her own life.

Talk to him about it.

Two things makes a man cheat on his wife.

1. He's been a natural cheat from the onset and his wife has been aware right from their dating days but choose to turn a blind eye.

2. The wife nags, keeps herself dirty, denies him sex...etc. this can make him become a cheat.

What many married women don't know is there are three things that if you give to your husband he will never cheat on you.

1. Good food. When you take your time to prepare good food for him, and and serve him like a king, he'll see eating outside as cheating cos your food will be the only thing in his mind when he's at work, so he'll deliberately starve himself just so he can fill his stomach with your food.

2. Good sex. Men love sex, this one is no longer news, if you want your man all for yourself give him lots and lots of sex, hop on his dîck and whine around it till his waist is about to break, let me see the strength he'll use to climb another woman. He won't have strength for them, cos you're giving more than enough. What makes men crave for sex outside is when they're being starved by their wives. Stop preparing timetable for sex, limiting the man to once or twice in a week.

3. Good gist. Be a good company keeper. Let your husband look forward to your gists, when you serve him food sit there and keep him company, any woman that can comfortably fo these, will become best of friends with her husband.

Nazgul:
Talk to him about it.

Two things makes a man cheat on his wife.

1. He's been a natural cheat from the onset and his wife has been aware right from their dating days but choose to turn a blind eye.

2. The wife nags, keeps herself dirty, denies him sex...etc. this can make him become a cheat.

What many married women don't know is there are three things that if you give to your husband he will never cheat on you.

1. Good food. When you take your time to prepare good food for him, and and serve him like a king, he'll see eating outside as cheating cos your food will be the only thing in his mind when he's at work, so he'll deliberately starve himself just so he can fill his stomach with your food.

2. Good sex. Men love sex, this one is no longer news, if you want your man all for yourself give him lots and lots of sex, hop on his dîck and whine around it till his waist is about to break, let me see the strength he'll use to climb another woman. He won't have strength for them, cos you're giving more than enough. What makes men crave for sex outside is when they're being starved by their wives. Stop preparing timetable for sex, limiting the man to once or twice in a week.

3. Good gist. Be a good company keeper. Let your husband look forward to your gists, when you serve him food sit there and keep him company, any woman that can comfortably fo these, will become best of friends with her husband.

You have said it all.

More prayers.

But how did you end up with a cheating man as a praying woman?

Anyways... I'll advise you continue and intensify your prayers cos that's the only weapon I know that works against such. Maybe, add midnight prayers.

If you feel you can't bear it, you can separate from him while you continue in prayers. But make sure he goes for test if and when he comes back to his senses and comes for you. HIV and StIs are real.
In fact, it's very rampant these days.

Oluromantic:


It all boils down to personality and upbringing. Some are trained especially Muslim women to believe from childhood that a man does not belong to them alone.

Point Of Correction, a cheating husband is totally different from a Husband with many wives.

She should take a deep look into her own life.

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Nothing absolutely can keep a man who doesn't want to be kept . Secondly if a man doesn't want u ,he doesnt want you. He can sleep with you and go back to where he finds comfort and peace. Always fear that woman that communicates more with your man .

There categories of lustful men, kindly state the category you want us to discuss.

Are we to discuss the ones their wives actions pushed them into lust?

Are we to discuss those influenced by bad friends?

Are we to discuss those influenced by their job nature?

Are we to discuss the irredeemable ones?

Are we to discuss the addicts with high uncontrollable libido?

The category they fall in will determine solution and contribution I can give.

Praying for a cheat to change is like giving him/her a FULL license to go on cheating spree.

JONSYN7154:
Can we talk about this?

What can a woman do to a cheating Husband, apart from prayers?

After counselling him and he gives deaf ear

Just leave him and focus on the children if any

A time will come it will be very late for him to find his bearing in his own family

That's when you will start your own

By then, the children has seen it all that he was never there for you people