BLOODYSPERM:


Many men are rushing to build wealth and accquire social status, that why scamming and yahoo are rampant, infact I dear to say that these uncalled for haste is most likely influenced by the Simpish need to please women and untamed desire for sex, they fall for peer pressure and rush into marriages and relationships to prove themselves and discover that these is a foolish path in the long run

Many men forget to put themselves and their priorities first, they are pressured by society,family,women and even men alike to take on burden of performance without actually developing themselves within the right age frame where maturity is needed for such tasks to be met, we all are aware women exist but men are forged via experience of pain, poverty, difficulty, challenges, problem s and then they develop into the man they are supposed to be

No matter the situation you find yourself always remember that you put yourself first and work on your own timeline, don't let anybody rush you or put pressure on you, even don't pressure on yourself, live life to the best of your abilities,

The only way you can carry yourself with high sense of self worth without status and money is by developing abundance mindset with regards to every aspect of your life not just relationship, in your finance,social circle, lifestyle, even when you don't have the proof to show for it, it's theses mindset that will motivate and move you to take pragmatic actions to achieve the success that you desire

Download illimitable man free pdf directly from Google and read the chapter on abundance mentality it will really prepare you for the next phase no matter the age you find yourself

Firstnebo:


Thank you Bloody. I know that you are a young guy and may not have an answer to the following question, but let me ask you anyway incase you do.

What about a thirty something year old guy that is super intelligent, but has been decimated for 13 years in both learning ability, and industriousness, and confidence because of extreme porn addiction?

BLOODYSPERM:



It takes 21 days to form new habits and break new habits, uncontrollable habits become addictions, extremism of anything included sex, food and even porn is very dangerous , I can't directly give a quick fix to a systematic problem, but my advice is that is you foremostly develop genuine desire to change that habit, without these the problem can't be solved , after genuine desire you must fill up that sexual void with something productive as it's your testerones uncontrolled that's driving you,get new habits and hobbies so you can channel it creatively, interact more with people and the opposite sex in a healthy manner,start with a 21 days plan to break these habit and develop new one , I used these to defeat my onetitis mindset for some of my ladies crush when I was in scarcity mode,I gave myself 21 days to spin plates and be an effective gamer, I overcame my fear of rejection and emotional weakness of pedestalizing women and started gaming even though I lacked the social ,material status and confidence, I met several ladies, forced my shy self to approach them, got rejected and moved on to new ladies, these became a new habit that is now active on a subconscious level , in the 21 days I had accountability system which was a friend who was also a gamer, I trusted him and we kept each other in check, you need an accountability system to keep you in check as you avoid your bad habits and develop new ones , even after having several successful games I sometimes develop onetitis for some of them, but since the desire to have abundance is stronger than the emotional pleasure of having an idealized soul mate, I quickly stop my internal stupid crush and get back on track without even telling my friend again, now I feel like a new man with control and purpose over a bad and negative habit

These my own little experience with regards to breaking my long term chronic onetitis habits since primary school and I hope it helps to break your bad habits too

webhead:
habits take much more than 21 days to build or break.

SOZINN:
Coming from a woman

remi1444:


So I was a confirmed simp all along?
The kind shalaye I've received tonight from worshippers in FEMCO is enough for chapter one of a long essay work.

Saviolamemphix:
Shared a redpill nugget on ma status, one of my female friends called me a misogynist lmfao...

luminouz:


Get used to it.


Here are others they will say in your ears

Toxic

Patriarchy injustice

Inability to help with House chores

Sexist

Selfish, inconsiderate and stingy






These names show you don't give a fuq about them. And women hate being ignored.

Firstnebo:


Thank you Bloody. I know that you are a young guy and may not have an answer to the following question, but let me ask you anyway incase you do.

What about a thirty something year old guy that is super intelligent, but has been decimated for 13 years in both learning ability, and industriousness, and confidence because of extreme porn addiction?

Firstnebo:


Thank you Bloody. I know that you are a young guy and may not have an answer to the following question, but let me ask you anyway incase you do.

What about a thirty something year old guy that is super intelligent, but has been decimated for 13 years in both learning ability, and industriousness, and confidence because of extreme porn addiction?

BLOODYSPERM:



It takes 21 days to form new habits and break new habits, uncontrollable habits become addictions, extremism of anything included sex, food and even porn is very dangerous , I can't directly give a quick fix to a systematic problem, but my advice is that is you foremostly develop genuine desire to change that habit, without these the problem can't be solved , after genuine desire you must fill up that sexual void with something productive as it's your testerones uncontrolled that's driving you,get new habits and hobbies so you can channel it creatively, interact more with people and the opposite sex in a healthy manner,start with a 21 days plan to break these habit and develop new one , I used these to defeat my onetitis mindset for some of my ladies crush when I was in scarcity mode,I gave myself 21 days to spin plates and be an effective gamer, I overcame my fear of rejection and emotional weakness of pedestalizing women and started gaming even though I lacked the social ,material status and confidence, I met several ladies, forced my shy self to approach them, got rejected and moved on to new ladies, these became a new habit that is now active on a subconscious level , in the 21 days I had accountability system which was a friend who was also a gamer, I trusted him and we kept each other in check, you need an accountability system to keep you in check as you avoid your bad habits and develop new ones , even after having several successful games I sometimes develop onetitis for some of them, but since the desire to have abundance is stronger than the emotional pleasure of having an idealized soul mate, I quickly stop my internal stupid crush and get back on track without even telling my friend again, now I feel like a new man with control and purpose over a bad and negative habit

These my own little experience with regards to breaking my long term chronic onetitis habits since primary school and I hope it helps to break your bad habits too

yeah not every female will be attracted to me, besides I hardly chase women.


Ive known this girl for a very very long time but you sit behind your keypad and argue like you know her more than me.
na wa o

her lack of desire for sexual relationship was the main reason her first boyfriend left her.
I fear she may never get married.

you may be right she wasn't into me but I doubt she's into anybody sef

If you like chew philosophy and swallow all the redpill,
not all women are the same.
the same goes for men too.
my desire for a sexual relationship is low too but this girl's own is worst than my own.
I know a guy that gives zero bleeps about women.


you're just looking at things from an ideal condition.
learn to look at life from real-time conditions, there are to many variables for only formula to fit everything.

Naijahops:
Stay away from masturbation and Pornography.

These two addictions are detrimental to your sexual health and mental health.

They destroy how your neural circuits in the brain process sex satisfaction - and therefore you end up with a poor sex drive with your woman.

Soulrebel2:




Thanks for this reply.. growing up I was also a porn addict..good looking tall guy..then I got into the university and decided to change my life..thanks to my cousin and my senior brother..I went to them and explained my problem of shyness to them and they promised to help me..every evening after school.. we'll go to the school gate and they will force me till I approach females and we made a rule that I will never stop till I get a girls number..no matter how many rejection I got I still kept going..trust me this was one of the most hardest decision I ever made..at some point I started going out on my own to practice..I started coming home with 4-5 numbers some times...so my answer is determination..it's never too late but you have to be willing to put in the work..I worked so hard on this that if I had put that effort on learning a new language then I would have been fluent..I mean reading books, watching YouTube clips.. talking to the OG's I know that has multiple girlfriends..

1.The first step is to admit you have a problem
2. The second step is to open up to someone you trust.. don't be afraid of being judged.
3. And the third and hardest step is to put in the work.

It'll work for you bro. Just believe

Saviolamemphix:
Shared a redpill nugget on ma status, one of my female friends called me a misogynist lmfao...

Francis95:
My main girlfriend here in school have been staying with me in my lodge for 2 weeks. At first she only stay for 3 days whenever she comes. I'm a course rep so money ain't my problem but I've spent so much since she came, she can eat very well just like me. So yesterday I told her that I want her to go back to the hostel , I told her I want to recover because I've spent alot including my sperm.
My brothers lo nd behold babe started crying like serious crying o. Saying I just want her to go because I see her as a burden and that asking her to leave because I want to bring in another lady. I knew she wanted to manipulate me with that, I still stood my ground but I had to pet her till she stopped crying. She left my lodge yesterday evening.

She called me in the early hours of today around 1am seriously crying again and telling me that she can't sleep in the hostel because of the giant rats in their room that she wants to come back to my lodge, I told her to relax there that I will come nd see her today in school.

Now the truth is that I have other girlfriends and I've been posting them because my main girlfriend refused leaving my house, secondly I am preparing for my exams and I dont need distractions.

Francis95:
My main girlfriend here in school have been staying with me in my lodge for 2 weeks. At first she only stay for 3 days whenever she comes. I'm a course rep so money ain't my problem but I've spent so much since she came, she can eat very well just like me. So yesterday I told her that I want her to go back to the hostel , I told her I want to recover because I've spent alot including my sperm.
My brothers lo nd behold babe started crying like serious crying o. Saying I just want her to go because I see her as a burden and that asking her to leave because I want to bring in another lady. I knew she wanted to manipulate me with that, I still stood my ground but I had to pet her till she stopped crying. She left my lodge yesterday evening.

She called me in the early hours of today around 1am seriously crying again and telling me that she can't sleep in the hostel because of the giant rats in their room that she wants to come back to my lodge, I told her to relax there that I will come nd see her today in school.

Now the truth is that I have other girlfriends and I've been posting them because my main girlfriend refused leaving my house, secondly I am preparing for my exams and I dont need distractions.

Elliot2:
I don't care about deviant women, they are too minute to challenge 'the all women are the same' statement. In fact these deviant women are even the greatest weapon for the women folks and they are the excuse that create a safe haven for the rest women to send their missiles from. They hide under the cover of 'I am different' to perpetuate evil while disguising as a sheep.

Soulrebel2:


Na the same so-called different girl I banged yesterday..I just knew her for three days oo..got her number on Saturday and she came my house yesterday night..
They're all the same..it depends on you, if they don't find you sexually attractive just move on..no matter how alpha like you are, there must be a girl that don't find you sexually attractive, so when you jam those ones just move on than making excuses why she is different..