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Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by nedekid: 12:00am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Bbbwings:E don happen. Solution ie way forward is the koko. 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Lucrativress(f): 12:03am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Elliot2:Exactly I've counted far more than 100 people here now If everybody can drop 1k each Let someone trusted see to the authencity of this story. Let us send the money somewhere Then think of a very good business approach for them Probably use the money to open a Provision shop for the Wife in their area.. While the Husband starts thinking of a side hustle The truth is that he is choked,only money can solve this problem, that woman is frustrated, so don't let us just proffer solutions but try to action them. Or a POS Center in their compound, or something.. Provisions will still give her ample time for her kids and she'll be relaxed.. For the man ehn Let him also sit down and calculate his expenses again Let the both of them draft out their spendings,let them both know wassup,we can't always be a Superman abeg.. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Mindlog: 12:04am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Bebson007: If she gets a job now, who would take care of the triplets when she leaves home or would the firm/individual she will be working for allow her bring the triplets to work? 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by cooltola(m): 12:06am On Mar 16, 2021 |
can anyone help this man improve his net worth in Nigeria? 55k in too small to take care of 3 children any advice Bitcoin investing if still legal uber driving if he can get a car helping his wife set up a shop so she can make money for her children or linking her with a job that pay at least 60k a month anyone that link this brother a job that pays as least 100k should help him in Naija |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Elliot2(m): 12:07am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Lucrativress:Aye! That would be great. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by greyvirgo(m): 12:07am On Mar 16, 2021 |
You have been judged unfairly by people who clearly.do not have triplets, nor earn N55k at the same time. The problems you have are nothing new. The aggression from your mother-in-law are mirrored on your wife. Her frustratios of managing three children is hard enough. I suspect you are never there during the day to walk the same journey with her. Bottom line...you need to be earning more, even if it means working a side hustle on the weekend to bring in the extra bread. I wouldn't suggest you rush intro planting hey in a church...you may lose her if she's easily influenced. Finally, been married 14yrs.....a woman will naturally mirror what you throw at her. Man-up and be the man....speak calmly, show care, pacify your anger...pacify hers...never rise to any insults, even if she baits you. Rather than complaining about the difficulties out there....be the one to give assurances.... When you have spent the next 3 months turning your personality around, finding a second job or business....calmly thing through issues...then, do church...but the right church. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by EndRape2(f): 12:07am On Mar 16, 2021 |
My brother your wife should be the one regretting marrying you, 25, thousand to feed 5family, with expenses, like buying fuel, biscult for children and other things? Minus expenses let us say you are giving her like 15k for food, for family of five, and you have the guts to come on nairaland to seek advice, you are mean and wicked, go and look for another job, or get extra side hustle, also let your wife, look for somthibg doing, the entire 55k is not enough for family of 5, you still have the guts to say, you are saving out of it, and also giving your mum from it, are you normal like this, if I am your wife I will leave the money for you, I will not touch it, or ask you, I will allow you go to market your self with the money and use it to cook so you will know it is not enough for a week, hope you are using protection inorder not bring in another child into that malnourished home, which kind dirty sex are you talking about, with children on ground that you can not feed your are very meant for saying you regreat marrying that woman that is suffering in your hands. Your are ranting your mother inlaw force you to marry, did she force you to have sex without condone will you allow an idiot impregnant your daughter and keep her at home, the mother inlaw did the right thing an average Mother will do, you better tell your wife to so family planning or you use condone, two of you should go look for money, and stop suffering those children, 55, thousand is not enough to take care of one child ,talkless of five family . U are supposed to give her 50k then send 5k to your mum, and look for other hustle to give you money for personal use and savings. And must you send money to your mum, for now, why not force your daddy to take care of his responsibilities why you take care of yours Honestly you are wicked and suffering the woman and children with you. Nonsense coming here to seek for advice that will finish you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by erico2k2(m): 12:09am On Mar 16, 2021 |
NIGHTMARE0O7:its her level i n life,My mum had three kids and she was working still, from teh look at things so if she was working she will stop work cos she had kids right? or if she has a shop, shop will close down cos nah she first born, abi if she dey cook food sell she go close cos say she born piking abi?. This is one of the reasons why a man must not marry a jobless woman, life is tough! |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Lucrativress(f): 12:10am On Mar 16, 2021 |
cooltola:No I believe we all can do this together There is power in many If this story is true Let's all contribute 1k each or #500 If anyone can do more fine.. That provision shop for the woman will really help,will keep her mind at ease also,it'll also help the man to calm down and reason.. Then we can start proffering solutions for him.. OP better go and do that medical stuff to freeze your eggs for the main time,cause it can happen again ooo.... 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by erico2k2(m): 12:10am On Mar 16, 2021 |
EndRape2:Talk is cheap if you like go to your husband's house with no JOB or Business Ok! |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by EndRape2(f): 12:11am On Mar 16, 2021 |
God bless you, leave the uncle to be seeking mumu advice, can 55k be enough for him alone in a month, talkless of five people, He still gives his mum 10k out of it, and save 15, to him self, the guy is wicked quote author=dominique post=99919116]Your mistake was not having additional means of income especially when you discovered you were having triplets. While your wife was expecting, you should have looked for other means of income to augment your 55k salary. How many people even sit down and relax on their salaried jobs nowadays? I know of so many people who are working in solid companies and earning very high, yet they have side hustles. You're there comfortably relying on 55k job even after realizing you're expecting triplets you still sat on this 55k job, now that the triplets are growing you're still on top this 55k job matter. Obvious you lack ambition and hustling spirit. All that must change. You have to look other sources of income. [/quote] |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Lucrativress(f): 12:12am On Mar 16, 2021 |
erico2k2:Have you checked the times we're in presently? I believe if they set that woman up in a place that's comfortable, she won't say no 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by bigpicture001: 12:13am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Kriss216: Stop saying rubbish,wot is he himself doing with 20k monthly...and why given d mom a whole 10k monthly,wot happens to 6k....? 2 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by erico2k2(m): 12:13am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Mindlog:Her concerned Mum can help, that's what grand parents are for! After all nah she hold grand say gunman must marry! |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by erico2k2(m): 12:15am On Mar 16, 2021 |
bigpicture001:So who pays the electric bills? who pays for his transport?health? clothes?kerosin/gas? lunch during brake? |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Jeon(f): 12:15am On Mar 16, 2021 |
heendrix: aswear if you dy tell them make they calm down they will not listen. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by EndRape2(f): 12:16am On Mar 16, 2021 |
What are you saying, there are millions of women with children working, is she the first to have children, let her put them in after school care, school closed by 4pm, she can get a job that closes by 4pm, also, or use after school care services till she comes back from work. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Lucrativress(f): 12:16am On Mar 16, 2021 |
EndRape2:Please don't talk like this Responsibilities can be choking,not to talk of an impromptu one,not everyone have strong minds to reason so fast,that man can get damn frustrated and end his own life.. Ko easy,we'll just have to be smart about it,I really really pity his condition, there's big depth of frustration and tiredness in it,we shouldn't blame him,they both made the mistakes,it's just too bad they're not going about solving it properly 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by erico2k2(m): 12:16am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Lucrativress:The times I was remembering that made me make such statements were harder than now! my take, MEN do not marry a woman who has nothing to bring to the table, this is the harsh reality! |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by bigpicture001: 12:17am On Mar 16, 2021 |
erico2k2: The whole family comprising if uncle pay electric bills, 4k can cover ur monthly transport, he is poor and shldnt b a show off with clothes, d woman buys d kerosene and he eats at d cheapest places for lunch breaks..... 15k is better for him |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Lucrativress(f): 12:18am On Mar 16, 2021 |
EndRape2:Do we know her qualification's?? After School care A very cheap one self might not collect 20k or 30k for those 3 Setting her up to me is the best o That's killing a stone with 2 Bird's |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by erico2k2(m): 12:19am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Lucrativress:You are right, the man can get vexed and go sit down in his village, and won't be arrested! |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by streetsoldier1(m): 12:19am On Mar 16, 2021 |
broz, look for means to let her leave the house, hustle more think of what else you can do for extra income.... focus on the kids, beg the woman to go, you will see how your life will turn around. If you ₦1million and give that woman ₦500k monthly, she will still complain and claim you are stingy, dont kill yourself or die before your time. Pls beg her to go and start experiencing happiness |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Lucrativress(f): 12:20am On Mar 16, 2021 |
erico2k2:The sadder reality is that,it has happened.. Resilience in those times are different from now We just have to understand that to work hard right now,you still need a foot stool.. Makes you work faster and the results show faster They need a foot stool.. Don't let us keep comparing and throwing blames biko I see a man who took up impromptu responsibilities here.. That alone is a motivation, he just needs to think better,that's all |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by juman(m): 12:21am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Try to earn more money. Nothing is too little. One option is you can be home teacher for kids. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by erico2k2(m): 12:22am On Mar 16, 2021 |
bigpicture001:you are missing the point, no money coming from him is enough even if he gives her the whole N55k it won't be enough.So since we know its not going to be enough what's the point of stressing the man who is trying his best? What she should be doing is praying and encouraging her husband to do well and be lucky..You are underestimating the power of positive thinking! |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Lucrativress(f): 12:23am On Mar 16, 2021 |
erico2k2:Not even vexed,choked and it seems like life isn't worth living This man needs a platform and a good adviser The deed is done already That man can decide to not give a Bleep you know.. This is another reality OP well-done okay Well done |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by EndRape2(f): 12:23am On Mar 16, 2021 |
No be only contribute, if we all bring our problems here, you will run, let him ,meet his friends or family members to give him loan to set up side business, , let him just stop asking for sex without condone ooo. quote author=Lucrativress post=99920123] No I believe we all can do this together There is power in many If this story is true Let's all contribute 1k each or #500 If anyone can do more fine.. That provision shop for the woman will really help,will keep her mind at ease also,it'll also help the man to calm down and reason.. Then we can start proffering solutions for him.. OP better go and do that medical stuff to freeze your eggs for the main time,cause it can happen again ooo....[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by erico2k2(m): 12:24am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Lucrativress:Look my gate, Man earns N45k, he has 5 kids him dey manage Oh.But He has his wife doing little bits to support the front! |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Kestolove(m): 12:26am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Altrarecords:condom no b sex, dat one na rape..e no dey sweet nd we ladies don't like it |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by erico2k2(m): 12:26am On Mar 16, 2021 |
cococandy:have you had a child B4?? |
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